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funmisticqueen:
op have you ever had an in depth discussion of sex with a girl before

No

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PM for your sure Aza for wire, Alibaba, cd, real estate.

All forms of accts.
HK
Russia
US
Japan
China
UK

etc

Aboki accts and Open Bene also available

Henitan24:


I'm very happy to hear this. You'll surely have more reason to happy.

Thanks

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uboma:
@ helpforever,

What is the outcome following your proposed visit to the hospital?


Don't tell me, you are yet to see a Doctor?


Hey, it is okay though if you want to keep it confidential.

Good health to you

It was a psychological issue. Then I worsened it with my excess masturbation. Recovering steadily

Sorry for replying after a whole year

AK481:

Yes,
But she has to do a little more to keep him aroused like mouth and breast sucking.

One clue here is that " he visits prostitutes"
He enters the room,a prostitute takes off his clothes,plays with his nipples,sucks his nipple,sucks his penis and the the prostitutes wears him a condom.

Question here is can the wife do this ?
If yes,half of the problem is solved.

No 2.does he have a morning erection?
If yes then it's fine.

3.does he mastubates and watches porn ?and how often.was there a time he does it frequently like one a day of thrice a week?

Questions questions questions.

When someone doesn't have morning erection, what's the meaning and consequence ? I am also suffering from E.D

NaijaBlend:
Exactly this happened to me at your age, although I never visited a prost.titute.

I am not a medical doctor, but I will give you a solution that worked for me:

1. First, buy and take a Herbal Cleanser (Dr Iguedo Goko Cleanser or Goody Cleanser would do);

2. I am sure you will notice a difference within 24 hours.

Though prescription drugs, look for a good Aphrodi.siac an hour or so before the show, that is, if 1 (above) doesn't work.
But note that some of them are rubbish ooo!

Thanks man, was it Iguedo Goko cleanser you used? And during your time, did you usually have erections when you wake up ?

dapsonlou:
Go and see a Doctor 1st. Then I can recommend you to the doctor in my office building. That's his speciality

Where is the office please?

DonaTee:


He's probably into deep seated masturbation.
Eleyi gidi gan! A friend had a case like this few yrs ago.....she suffered for 6mths b4 opening up. The silly man even self-services in her presence yet can't perform normally.
She finally opened up to her mum. Dey returned every dime asap.
in few months she got married to another guy with her eyes wide open.

I pray ur sis receives freedom. Life's too short

Hope she divorced the first husband legally first before marrying a new one? If not, her marriage to the new husband is illegal.

publicenemy:


you are very stupid to be going through all these and havent had yourself checked out. you had an STD when you were you and didnt treat it and that has affected your pen1s. check youself out and watch your diet. trust me you will get normal again.

I was foolish, so foolish my man. I thought I was under spiritual attacks. Please hope it's not too late to see a doctor as I want to go tomorrow??

ERCROSS:



I seriosly hope u get to see this... I'm sure u can get one or two things from what am about to write...
There was a time when I cum too early when having sex, it got worse and worse everyday to the extent that I often get scared whenever am about to have sex. An ex-girlfriend of mine claimed that she was told that my premature ejaculation is caused by her premature ejaculation. I almost believed that poo until I came across a particular book. I read the book and discover that my problem isn't spiritual. From the book, I got to know that my problem could be control with my mind, the book stresses on the power of the human mind, the mind is so powerful that sometimes when we are suffering from mild headache, and we are able to take our mind off it, we won't even know when the headache will be gone.
similar to my issue, I think your own problem is not spiritual, you just need to control your mind, it was able to erect itself on two different occasions according to your story, I would want you to critically analyze your state of mind for those two times, were you anxious, worried it wouldn't get up. if you were able to analyze it properly, you will be able to fish out the common thing in both events.
And when next you wanna try to have sex, let your mind picture how you gon' smash that pussay so hard, how u gon' make her scream, how you gon handle her boobz and suck her tipz as she screams in ecstasy, the way you watch it in porn. let only that thought occupy your mind.

#Peace

Thanks sir. I will put it into use

cocktopuss:


I honestly think its psychological... While i wont advise you to have sex indiscriminately id say you should get that spiritual aspect off ur mind.
Why not get lobido booster like Horney goat weed.

Where can I get Horney goat weed?

charliboy654:
How come u get erection wen u want to mastubate but not wen u want to hsve sex. I think is a brain thing. Ur brain is use to ur hand. U should stop watching porn, stop mastubating and try some suppliment like 'manix' for 3 month. And see the difference.

The erection I get when I masturbate don't last up to 2 minutes once I get my hand off my joystick.

And its not usually very very hard.

Vikky014:
helpforever HV gone to the hospital? u HV symptoms of diabetes

Diabetes at 26? Please ma what are the symptoms

layzie:


@ helpforever
This is for your attention.

Seen sir. Thanks

Doctors in the house, can I have Diabetes at a young age of 26? I will like to do a test for that as well apart from test from STI and STDs. Which other tests should I take? I will see a doctor and discuss tomorrow but I just want to know to prepare myself. I will also use the opportunity to do a HIV test. Thanks guys

OmaniPadmeHum:
Hahahaha

YOU ONLY HAVE WHAT IS CALLED

"PERFORMANCE ANXIETY"

You panic and have conditioned your mind with that first incident. Your mind now sees sex as something that you would fail at and that would be embarrassing.

IT IS NOT SPIRITUAL. Naaaaah. only in Nigeria do we make everything spiritual. Left alone we might still have thought small pox/chicken pox is caused by "Sopana" and that Thunder and Lightning by Sango. Look with all these spiritual bla bla we were taken as slaves for hundreds of years. Our Chief preists and juju could not protect our fore fathers. Some of the masks were even stolen and exhibited in Europe. The nonsense juju has not been able to burn down London. No mysterious plague has befallen them. We were colonized for years too in Africa. No spirit could help us or our fore fathers.

It is purely psychological. You have been psychologically scarred due to the experience at the brothel. You feel you are going to fail again and again. Now anything that has to do with sex practically scares you and your body has learnt a rather "silly" way to react to sex. Infact, subconsciously, your mind sees sex as a fight or flight thing. It is sexual anxiety and perhaps panic attacks. It is very normal and not spiritual. Nope.

Unfortunately, your WAFTS (worries, anxieties, fears, thoughts and sensations) are things you have tried to fight off over and over again. Compounding the issue. Your mind now sees sex as a battle and gets your body to fight/flee. instead of allowing you get on.

LISTEN, WE ALL GET ANXIOUS DURING SEX. ALL OF US. MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE. ALL. But our anxieties, anxiety levels and how we have trained our body to manage them, makes a difference. Take masturbation for instance. Some people do it and suffer premature ejaculation as a result of it. This is because when this habit was learnt (most times at teenage years) , they had to do it quickly and get done so they won't be caught. This usually starts at a young age and then is often made a habit which the body adopts. Their body gets addicted to quick ejaculation. Meanwhile some guys had time and were so comfortable with it. There learnt it without being in a hurry and ejaculation was not the thing but enjoying the time spent. They now suffer from prolonged erection and can only ejaculate when they masturbate. They are only senitve to matrubation and not the feel of a them in a woman.

For you, you probably immediately started avoiding the things that embarrassed you and found another quick fix. Masturbation, Porn etc. All these still communicated to your brain that you need to "RUN AWAY FROM SEX!!! IT WILL EMBARRASSING AND YOU WILL FAIL"!!! It is like having insomnia and instead of allowing sleep to come naturally, you decide to take pills or use other stuff like sleeping tea, alcohol etc. They will work for a while, but soon their effects will be useless to the point of not working at all.

It is a flight or flight thing. Your body sees sex as something you would fail at. Let me ask, Can you get an erection when in danger? When fighting with someone or fleeing from danger? Nope. (unless you have trained your body/psyche to remain calm). During fight or flight response, your body removes blood from places like the stomach, sex organs etc and send to the brain and muscles preparinging them for danger. How can you get an erection when due to that first traumatic experience, you feel that you might fail again and you worry about how embarrassing it would be.

That one experience made you worry little by little and you took actions (unknowingly) that made matters worse psychologically. You sound like a worrier by nature. Lol. Unfortunately our brain is very silly and does not know the difference between real and perceived danger. If we worry too much about something, our brain tries to protect us by throwing all manner of things (thoughts etc) that can go wrong for us to act on them. When we worry and worry our brain even sends sensations like fast heart beats, sweaty palms, feeling dizzy, butterflies in the stomach etc. But keeping calm, noticing these WAFTS, and mindfully letting them go/be while calmly doing what you are doing whenever this happens helps to reassure your brain that all is cool and calm.

YOU WILL HAVE TO UNLEARN YOUR CURRENT WAY YOUR BODY RESPONDS AND RELEARN THE RIGHT WAY TO RESPOND. YOU WILL HAVE TO TEACH YOUR BODY TO RESPOND MINDFULLY TO THE FEARS, WORRIES AND ANXIETIES.

What book on Acceptance and Commitment/Mindfulness can I suggest to you....

Let me see....

Will look for something.

Sir, I will actually need the book and then your mentorship. Please respond sir

uboma:




be careful about seeking help from unverified sources.

some will contact you privately with the sole intent to scam you.

Just be careful....

Thanks sir. I will adhere to your instruction

Tuham:


You welcome sir..
Please i would like to know the feedback. Since you're using an anonymous account, can you tag me the feedback in reply to this post tommorrow?

I will do so. Thanks man