Tuham:
First time am commenting in colour cos this story touch me
To have the chance of doing/ be willing to do something and realizing that you cannot do it

helpforever how about going to the hospital for a medical checkup?

I will go tomorrow boss. Thanks

Endtimesmith:
OP...Points of correction,Boys are called Lads,while girls na Virgin,Understood?

Understood

For those wondering why I didn't go to a hospital, I didn't go to a hospital because I was ashamed and didn't have the boldness to narrate all these issues and story to someone in person. I agree, I was foolish. I will see a doctor first thing tomorrow. Thanks guys

INVESTORBNAIRA:
From all indications it shows your own is pschological due to ur 1st encounter,your first encounter matters you should have started with a normal girl in the hood or school,the 1st ashawo damaged you psychologically,dont worry you aint gat no probs trust me just stay away from masturbation and sex for three months that would fix it

Thanks sir.

CHARLOE:

Your problem is; u think ur problem is spiritual. Won't blame u tho cos I came to that point when I was having same issue n let me repeat it here; Your problem is NOT spiritual! You've not seen d doc, not done any test, not stopped taking sugar, yet u believe ur problem is spiritual. No p, continue .
I already offered u my advise in d other thread which u obviously don't take serious.
I've bin in ur shoes many years ago n I finally overcame it (after some fraudster chop my money wella. Today I enjoy regular sex with my wife with 2 kids Maybe after dem chop ur money u go learn

I will take your advise sir. Thanks for the help

uboma:



Don't forget to let us know how it goes after your visit to the Hospital.

Good health to you

Thank you sir

Jj222:
so sorry bro.don't worry is not a problem I kno some one who can help u solve it n you will bring more people with same problems to him. yours is not a problem. you will enjoy your life back. Am serious. be blessed

How can I get in contact with this person??

Donjazzy12:

You are saving your money! When you need children, I will tell you what to do.

I understand your angle.

Anyway, thanks.

awakeuche:
I feel your pains bro, Erectile dysfunction is growing faster in men of 20-50 years, and this is solely because
1. They started masturbating at a very young age and their brains have rewired itself to feel pleasure that way
2. They are not really attracted to real women except ones of pornstars and such, and their brain have forgotten reality or have wired itself to think all women should be like pornstars
3. Excessive intake of sugar without taking bitters
There are so many examples.....
The simplest solution is to
1. Stay away from sugary stuffs
2. Stop masturbating and time your periods of abstinence like an addict would do so you don't relapse, as this is a horrid addiction
3. Take a lot of herbal bitters as long as its bitter its OK
4. Make a clean break from anything sexual like pornography, women, sexual pictures whatever... For 1- 16months (yes! You heard right) and it can be longer
5. Allow your brain to rewire itself naturally, after you have religiously followed this regimen.
6. Do lots of exercises
7. Pray and keep focused and its going to change
8. You are not impotent, you just have damaged the sensual muscles in your penis from overtly rough stimulation.
9. Remember when you start this regimen, you may have no feeling down there for months, it may feel like nothing completely, just hang on and don't give up
10. A lesson to all young men (Vaseline crews) this is what awaits you when you finally get married and cannot satisfy your wife daily, na then you go know say to stand preek no be by muscle...... A word as they say is enough for whatever.....

Thank you. Someone advise I take Ruzu bitters, will that be okay to flush out the sugar in my body or should I go with the local original agbo?

wadaz:




i really felt bad within me when i read the post of yesterday and yours i tot i was the only person having this problem but it turns out that am not...mine is premature ejaculation thou i never had sex with any girl...but am addicted to watching porn nd masturbation i hardly last for two mint doing that nd this hav traumatized my brain wen ever a girl touch me i tent to hav an erection...am now afraid of going into ny relationship cause i hav this perception that i cant do nytin am now afraid of starting to hv sex...am really frustrated i hate my self....am now almost 22yrs of age my frndz nd brothers ar tinkin of getin married but i just keep quiet...i dont want to frustrate ny girl by marrying her ....i hav ttried all my possible best to stop masturbating but after some week or at most a month i find my self fallin into dsame thin...pls we need ur prayer fellow naira..landers

You are not alone my brother.

I hope more people will come out with their issues.

Donjazzy12:

My brother. You are very very lucky. Masturbation is key. Women of nowadays are not worth it at all.

I don't understand? How am I lucky?

That I cannot have sex is a bad thing for me o. I want children

Clearer01:
I witnessed the case of many young guys that came with the same similar problem to our house to have their problem solved by my father, the one my father can not solve if the born you importent from day one, my father will not attend to it. [color=#006600][/color]

Is your father a pastor or doctor ?

Mskrisx:



U are not impotent. U need a woman in ur life who u can call ur own.

When u get her, explain all this to her and let her give u a good head then u back it up with seeing a good doctor.

Boyyy u need a wild wild girl.

Pls can u now stop the brothel thingy??

I have not gone to a brothel since 2014. I am actually scared of prostitutes now.

Uchefrancis16:
Hello helpforever you are not alone.

Glad I came across this. As a friend of mine was exactly in the same situation as u. And glad he is very fine now and I mean very fine.

Started masturbating at a tender age far less than urs (guess 14 or there about) and then at about 20, started suffering from weak errection and later to no errection at all. Even the morning wood stopped coming.

According to him, his first encounter with a lady (his girlfriend - not a prostitute) was one time sex over a 3 days stay due to this problem as the erection managed to come only but a few times and not as strong too.

What I advice u to do, as this worked for him is to;


Relax. Get a girl and stay with her for days. While u are with her, let her understand what you're passing through trust me she will help give the calmness u need which will relax ur brain and get rid of performance anxiety.

Get a girl not prostitutes. Maybe u're not moved by them my friend.

Stop porn. Its messing with ur brain. And view of girls. Leaving you with what they call PIED (Porn induced erectile dysfunction)... Remember the feeling of not being able to even get a solid errection with a particular porn after jecking off with it a couple of time? That makes u go for another, higher/more rugged/romantic one instead? The brain is simply tired with that particular one and has elevated/increased what triggers you making it impossible for that same porn to trigger you except u leave it entirely and watch it again after months have passed and ur brain has been reset.

This things get you addicted to porn and makes ur brain feel nothing for real women/girls. And even if you do, the penis is so dam weak that it can't even penetrate a lady or lift ur boxers.

Having read all of the above, the best thing for u is to go on a challenge of 6 months without porn. http://yourbrainonporn.com will be of help.

Just delete all porn, stop watching any movie with sex and romantic scenses (since most movies does, listen to music and forget movies entirly), quit being alone as that can make u think sex and then make u masturbate. focus on solving ur issues and trust me, mastubation go use him hand run.

Then get a loyal lady who understands you and loves u for whom u are my friend. She will help u deal with anxiety. It may take 6 months, 12 months 2 years depending on how bad porn has damaged ur brain but the thing u should be after is the fact that u will be fine eventually.

My friends own took 6 months after which he went to a girl, had slight erection and went back to his challenge for another 6 months withoutbporn or masturbation. Instead he worked on having girls around, thinking about having sex with them, not porn and actually having sex with them.

Do indoor exercises at least 30 minutes daily and make sure u sweat Weller. Also search for exercises for weak erection and add it to. YouTube is ur friend bro.

Then see a doctor if you could to rule out any medical condition.

As for my friend, his problem was solved cos he shared it. And we both went in together looking for solution. In case u don't know, I was into porn too. But was brave enough to dispose the act on time.

My friend bangs this his girl friend like four times a day now wen she comes visiting or vice versa. My man is loyal to her for being loyal and understandable and from the best of my knowledge, masturbation is a thing of the past for him.

START BY QUITING PORN... you can do this by first deleting all the available once. Starve ur phone of internet data, use Nokia touch, quit being alone, spend less time in the bathroom/toilet, think about ur problem and its effects on u etc. Best of luck bro and quit believing ur problem is spiritual. ONCE U FEEL LIKE MASTUBATING, RUB PEPER OR CHINEESE BALM FOR HAND... UR PENIS GO LEAVE U. if him no leave u, touch am small with am the konji go run.

Thanks man. God bless you

I have hope...I am so happy

lawrence7:


Seems the condition hasn't really bothered you yet. Obviously you aren't impotent. The prostitute encounters of course you were very nervous and as such couldn't perform. It happens. The Other times your nervousness and expectation that you wouldn't perform must have been the cause.
Please see a doctor. No shame in that. Imagine a lifetime without sex simply because you won't see a doctor. The fact that you sometimes get erections means you are most likely fine sir.

Thank you.

How will you now explaining my not having erection after I wake up.

jomoh:


One question. what does your sperm look like when You masturbate? Thick and sticky or light and watery? It goes a long way in determining your issues.


You need to see herbal medicine specialists (Agbo sellers not sepe sellers). it seriously works. Explain you problem to them. you won't be the first to do so to them. They are used to hearing issues like that so don't be ashamed. I was once in this situation for almost 2months until I used herbal medicine. You also have to change your eating habit and seriously start whatching what goes into your mouth. Sugar is a very high causative agent.

You can also try peeling garlic to reveal the innermost soft part and swallow it with water one daily for two weeks. It will help to detoxify your system for any excess toxins that your body couldn't get rid of.

You need to act fast before it becomes permanent. I pray it doesn't. You can also call me here 09072025650 I'm not selling anything to you, I will only tell you things to do or how to know the sellers with real and working herbal mixture.

My sperm is normal and very thick like that of a normal person.

Not watery

To be honest, you guys are the best and have given me hope.

90% of the people here have said I am not impotent and it due
to either:
- Psychological issues
- Masturbation
- Excess sugar
etc

Some have also said I should see a doctor and reprogram my mind.

I am just happy there is hope for me.

Because I will like to be a father in future.

Thanks guys

I will update you on my progress as I will address all points
thoroughly.

djojo:
Hello guy u are not impotent for the fact that u still av erection, if u want to really help urself first is to stop masturbating if someone do tell u it I good or it ease the pleasure of sex it is a big lie, masturbating almost kill me it almost make me paralysed if not for God and am telling u no matter how u do masturbate u can't reach what av done. 2 u av to stop going to brothel or go try to Bleep oloshos cos it won't help it won't make u know ur real strength. I remember the first time I went to hotel to God my prick no stand and I was wondering was it cos of my masturbating or am not in the mood and I even went there for another days like 4timescouldn't get an erection then I realised that I do get scared and I just got phobia of aving sex with prostitute. 3 I will advise u to visit a doctor and explain to him or her everything without hidden anything cos I realised that most people don't even want to share their inabilities but if u do they will definitely help u out. 4 u need to stay away from watching porn, stay away from any sex related things and pray to God. Stay away for like 3month don't masturbate, don't watch porn, don't talk much about sex that will make u go masturbate. Lastly stay away from eating much of sugary food and most food that av too much starch and if u do drink bear or alcohol brother u need to stop it. Pls try to discipline urself by doing away with all these a u will se results ASAP

Thanks and God bless you. You words give me hope. I just pray that my condition has not become permanent.

repogirl:
OP, don't they have hospitals here you reside? You have never had a sound medical check up and you are blaming spiritual already? You are the one doing yourself!

I will go to the hospital tomorrow or Tuesday for test. I actually didn't go because I resolved within myself that my case was spiritual. I agree, I was very FOOLISH

Medunah:

Stop this, the guy is frustrated already!!

@helpforever, I think ur case is more psychological than spiritual....see a doctor or therapist...stop masturbating too and finally, PRAY

Thank you

gratiaeo:

I tell you. Never knew erection get %

By percentage I mean it gets hard but not very hard

cummando:
ogbeni I no believe all this Una story jare.. If its real I for like render help but these days help dey dangerous....
Anyways pray hard

I swear to God. my story is real. If I lie, let me die today.

I am not asking for monetary help just advise and solution

99foxxy:
How possible can one masturbate and not have erection? Don't you have erect diick when you masturbate? I guess your mind is playing you. Your claim of excess fat can't and won't hinder erection. Make friend with lemon orange, get moringa leaves, I mean fresh leaves and boil them, drink for one week. Don't worry, set your mind straight and the problem will solve itself cause I had a cousin who had a similar issue but he's very ok now.

I get erection when I masturbate, but it's 80% hard and not sustainable

ofemigeorge:
Before the initial trial to have sex have u been having erection... .or is it from birth?

it's not from birth. I have been having etection almost ten times a day before the initial trial.

maria43:
A quick one
Do you ejaculate whenever you masturbate?

Yes I ejaculate all the time

Lexusgs430:


Your perceived erectile dysfunction, could be as a result of 2 things -:

(1) Untreated STD infection
(2) Excessive masturbation

Visit your nearest hospital for a blood test ................

I've not had sex before. It can't be an STD

myking95:


At 20, I had about 15 random erections per day. If u r not obese, feminine (low testosterone) and diabetic, its likely spiritual. But young man, why would u want to lose your virginity in a brothel? U don't know most if not allbof those ladies are HIGHLY diabolical? U want to ruin your destiny and be frustrated thought life? Oya repent. Find a genuine minister of God and go for deliverance. If you are in calabar go to prayer city on Tuesdays or Wednesdays. In uyo go to Blessed Hope at 205 aka road on a Sunday. Meet the pastor. Ignorance is deadly

I'm 26 now. This issue happened 6 years ago. I think I also have low testosterone whether my case is spiritual or not. Because I have very little facial hair. I actually used to have over 10 random erections per day when I was younger before the issue.

AK481:

Oh my God,stop masturbation and porn na.this will re activate ur morning erection and wet dreams.

I stopped masturbation and porn one time, for about a month. But since I don't have sex, it wasn't easy and I started again. I just hope my issue is not permanent

I can remember early 2015 or late 2014 when I went to a popular brothel in Bariga to try out my luck again. About 4 prostitutes came to meet me so I will pick them, they were all flaunting their body around me. Then immediately noticed the way I looked helpless and confused and started feeling my joystick. Speaking edo language to themselves. I'm not sure, but I think they noticed something was not right or so and they all left to look for another customer

yaqq:
the way u calculates ur erection per percentage leaves me Rotfl

Bro, this is a serious issue.

CHARLOE:

I feel ur pain (I've been there). My advice to u n any young man out there with similar issue is: Don't Hide Your Problem, Else Your Problem Will Hide U!
Your problem is not a big deal, its a combination of: psychological, excess sugar, n probably std. First thing first: go to a lab n do a test or better still, see a doctor, he will recommend a lab test.
If infection is present treat it asap. Next, cut off sugar entirely, no soft drink, no sugar in ur tea/garri. Take bitthers (eg Ruzu or Beta bitters).
To combat d psychological problem, u can take libido boosting drug like Reyouth root (herbal with no side effect). Its not a spiritual prob, I faced same problem b4 I got married, today I am happily married wit 2 kids.
(Plz see also advice I gave d op above, cheers)

It cannot be STD because I have never had sex in my life even before the prostitute encounter. I was a virgin.

My story is longer than this but I cannot remember all for now.

Mods please, I need this on the frontpage.

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