Car Talk › Re: Cow Takes A Ride In Honda Accord 2007 by helphelp: 10:22am On Mar 26, 2016 |
Lmao |
Politics › Re: Presidency distances itself from #istandwithbuhari organization by helphelp: 4:31pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
After Ogunlesi tweets comes this dissociation.
Awon ole osi...dem think say na GEJ era..
Same idiots supported GEJ to the core ooo |
Politics › Re: Kenneth Archibong Is Dead (Ex-House Of Representatives Member) by helphelp: 4:30pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Make dis brief illness give imsef brain ooo...
R.I.P |
Career › Re: How To Leave A Bad Day At Work Behind? by helphelp: 9:21am On Mar 25, 2016 |
vnmanpower: When you have a bad day at work, it seems nothing goes on right track from the smallest thing. Of course you don’t want to bring your bad work day home. We can't change the fact that it happened but you can get over a bad day at work and might prevent similar event in the future with these following tips:
1. Identify the root of your bad day at work
Where did it come from? Your boss, your coworkers, your customers or yourself?
- Your boss? He yelled at you for your mistake in front of your colleagues? He made you annoy with his micromanagement style? He might also get angry with you, so try to talk to him in the next day or other suitable time to find a mutual voice.
- Your bad coworkers? They gossiped behind your back or isolated you? It's a suck because you couldn't point at their face or inform your manager.
- Your difficult client? It's a headache issue because the customer is God. I would hazard a guess that you are working in service sector. It is inevitable, no need to make your mood down.
- Stress at work? Overload? Ask yourself why you chose this job to find a solution. You work for money or follow your passion? Identify the origin of your negative emotion is the initial step to take further action.
2. Leave all problems at workplace
I know it's hard but possible to leave it behind your back and go home. You need a change from your perspective. Assume that you would bring your bad workday home; think over and over again during the evening and night time. Could you change anything which already happened? Definitely no! But you can take this time to assess thoroughly your behavior today, what you make right and wrong to discover the lesson in this experience. If it's your mistake, admit it and find how to fix on the next days. Everyone makes mistakes, but the difference is how to correct them.
3. Allow yourself a certain amount of time overcome negative feelings.
The emotion of disappointment or frustration is very common in this case. When you are in a bad mood, you may feel that the whole world turns against you. It's unwise to make any decision at this time. Don't keep your problem alone, you will feel better when being understood. Tell it to someone you trust, you can both relieve the stress and get perspective from an outsider.
After leaving the office, you should take a slow walk to keep calm down. Playing a sport or doing some exercises like yoga, biking, aerobics can help you refresh your mind. Endorphins and serotonin released during and after exercises are beneficial to your mood and help you reduce stress, especially when you exercise with your close friend or partner.
4. Do what you really enjoy
Do you have a hobby? It's an effective way to enjoy your personal life. When getting stressed at work, you should spend time doing what you like to find happiness. There are a million choices for you, such as playing with your children, cooking your favorite dish and enjoy the dinner with the one you love, listening to your favorite songs, wearing your favorite clothes, doing your favorite exercise and so on. Whatever you do, the idea to remember is to replace your negative feelings by happy emotion. You are unable to completely empty your mind after a bad day at work. The trick here is to fill your mind with other thought of comfortable things. Remember to spend time for yourself as you deserve.
5. Evaluate the panorama picture to figure out solutions
When your depression is gone, it's time to evaluate what happened. Do you realize the truth that most of bad things at work come from yourself? If you complete your work well, your boss couldn't blame it on you. If you get along well with other people on the office and never gossip, I do believe that they will treat you the same. No bad boss, no bad coworker. If you can manage your time and handle your work well, you even can strike a work-life balance instead of keep diving in the deep sea of stuff.
To be a top performer at work is important in your career path, but you don’t need to do multi tasks at the same time. You should have a to-do list every morning to motivate yourself. Besides, it’s better to learn to find the type of your manager to have proper strategy and try to enhance communication among coworkers to get on well with each other.
If you hate your current job or it doesn't fit you, don't hesitate to seek another work that suits your ability and personality. In case you love your job, it's time to reconsider your work plan and daily schedule. It hurts but either your time management or your multitasking skills need improving immediately. Ask for help when you need support since nobody can do everything well alone.
Obviously it's impossible to avoid bad day at work. Hopefully these tips can help you get over your awful day more quickly with less influence on your personal life. Every single day you make a choice.
Source: blog Take a day at a time... Also reflect on your loved ones you lost, and say to yourself, abeg life is too short Thank me later |
Travel › Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Remain In Nigeria by helphelp: 7:04pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Not good enough...
Not like I wanna relocate though |
Politics › Re: Court Stops The Arrest Of Ibrahim Larmode By Senate & IGP by helphelp: 1:53pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Hmmm |
Celebrities › Re: Burial Arrangement For Nomoreloss Has Been Announced by helphelp: 12:53pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
So sad...
Muyiwa of life...Rest in peace |
Sports › Re: Victor Moses Happy With Eagles Return by helphelp: 12:35pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
When your prime time don drop..
Why you no go happy |
Music/Radio › Re: VIDEO: Nomoreloss – Beautiful Things by helphelp: 11:23pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
R.I.P Nomoreloss...Although, the voice and instrumental are not in sync |
Travel › Re: Multiple Accident At Ozumba Mbadiwe, Lagos (photos) by helphelp: 8:16pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Choi |
Travel › Re: Important Things To Take Along If You Are Relocating To Usa For The First Time by helphelp: 5:47pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Ok |
Politics › Re: Magistrate Arrests Woman Who Scratched Her Car, Then Sent Her To Prison (Pic) by helphelp: 5:23pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
The magistrate dey crase...
Power drunk mofo |
Travel › Re: Antarctica: A Trip To The Coldest, Windiest, And Driest Continent On The Planet. by helphelp: 9:05pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Forget igbo men dey dia dey do business |
Romance › Kindly Share How You Proposed To Your Spouse by helphelp(op): 7:42pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
I saw a thread about how a guy proposed to his fiance at egbeda market. And I wondered, was mine any better.
Long story Short, I actually spoke the words in my car, and I placed the quite expensive ring on her finger. Anyways, fast forward to three(3) years, please add beautiful to those years, we are blessed with a cutie prince.
Please share how you proposed to your spouse.
Also, ladies share with us how Oga proposed to to you.
Let's have fun |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguna Is Google Most Searched Person In Nigeria by helphelp: 5:53pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Most likely...
Not surprised |
Phones › Re: 10 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Tweeting To A Hashtag by helphelp: 5:52pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Plenty people no get work...
Tweeting on hash tag whether na dia business or not na solace |
Romance › Re: 5 Dating Etiquettes That Will Keep You Happy In A Relationship by helphelp: 5:44pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Kontinu |
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus Meets The Ooni & Olori Of Ife by helphelp: 5:37pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Bluezy13: She is better off not smiling Lmao...evulssss |
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus Meets The Ooni & Olori Of Ife by helphelp: 5:37pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
This oba no go siddon for palace enjoy im wife...
Anyways e fit get presido ideas...Ajala travel all over the world |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage And Skales Visits A Down-Syndrome Foundation by helphelp: 5:34pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Why always Indomie.... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: HELP! Is This A Scam Or Real (photos Attached) by helphelp: 5:25pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Follow your heart and stop asking us questions |
Health › People Now Sell Fresh Air In Nylon Bags by helphelp(op): 5:22pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
The people of Republic of China now sell packaged fresh air in Nylon bags, to combat air pollution.
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Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Shows Off Her Real Face by helphelp: 4:53pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
You try |
Crime › Re: Newborn Baby Abandoned In Garin-Kontagora, Niger State (photo) by helphelp: 3:58pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
And some people don find baby tire...
Some don spend millions on IVF |
Politics › Re: Ganduje, Kwankwaso Reconcile After Intervention Of 6 Governors In Abuja. Photos by helphelp: 2:08pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
After dem don argue who tiff money pass abi |
Education › Re: House Of Reps To Honour Ayodele Daniel Dada by helphelp: 12:24pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Awesome move |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Afolabi Clashes With Seyi-Ariyo 'SheBaby', See The Distasteful Message by helphelp: 12:07pm On Mar 22, 2016 |
Awon weyrey on the lose |
Crime › Re: Corper Attacked In Rivers Rerun Election In Hospital Before His Death by helphelp: 10:49am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Rivers though |
Crime › Re: Rapists Strangle UTME Candidate In Ogun, Dump Corpse Inside Bush (photo) by helphelp: 10:42am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Jesus Christ |
Celebrities › Re: The Okoye Brothers War Is Finally Over. Snapshots, Psquare Reunited by helphelp: 10:19am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Una dey mad...
As una never sing beta song since...I figure say every na stunt...
Make we dey expect album abi |
Politics › Re: Army Officer, Woman Clash At BEDC Headquarters (photo) by helphelp: 9:25pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Army officer again...
What are they smoking |
Music/Radio › Re: VIDEO: Olamide – “abule Sowo” by helphelp: 7:02pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Keep it up |