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Car Talk › Re: Cow Takes A Ride In Honda Accord 2007 by helphelp: 10:22am On Mar 26, 2016
Lmao
Politics › Re: Presidency distances itself from #istandwithbuhari organization by helphelp: 4:31pm On Mar 25, 2016
After Ogunlesi tweets comes this dissociation.


Awon ole osi...dem think say na GEJ era..

Same idiots supported GEJ to the core ooo
Politics › Re: Kenneth Archibong Is Dead (Ex-House Of Representatives Member) by helphelp: 4:30pm On Mar 25, 2016
Make dis brief illness give imsef brain ooo...

R.I.P
Career › Re: How To Leave A Bad Day At Work Behind? by helphelp: 9:21am On Mar 25, 2016
vnmanpower:
When you have a bad day at work, it seems nothing goes on right track from the smallest thing. Of course you don’t want to bring your bad work day home. We can't change the fact that it happened but you can get over a bad day at work and might prevent similar event in the future with these following tips:

1. Identify the root of your bad day at work

Where did it come from? Your boss, your coworkers, your customers or yourself?

- Your boss? He yelled at you for your mistake in front of your colleagues? He made you annoy with his micromanagement style? He might also get angry with you, so try to talk to him in the next day or other suitable time to find a mutual voice.

- Your bad coworkers? They gossiped behind your back or isolated you? It's a suck because you couldn't point at their face or inform your manager.

- Your difficult client? It's a headache issue because the customer is God. I would hazard a guess that you are working in service sector. It is inevitable, no need to make your mood down.

- Stress at work? Overload? Ask yourself why you chose this job to find a solution. You work for money or follow your passion?
Identify the origin of your negative emotion is the initial step to take further action.

2. Leave all problems at workplace

I know it's hard but possible to leave it behind your back and go home. You need a change from your perspective. Assume that you would bring your bad workday home; think over and over again during the evening and night time. Could you change anything which already happened? Definitely no! But you can take this time to assess thoroughly your behavior today, what you make right and wrong to discover the lesson in this experience. If it's your mistake, admit it and find how to fix on the next days. Everyone makes mistakes, but the difference is how to correct them.

3. Allow yourself a certain amount of time overcome negative feelings.

The emotion of disappointment or frustration is very common in this case. When you are in a bad mood, you may feel that the whole world turns against you. It's unwise to make any decision at this time. Don't keep your problem alone, you will feel better when being understood. Tell it to someone you trust, you can both relieve the stress and get perspective from an outsider.

After leaving the office, you should take a slow walk to keep calm down. Playing a sport or doing some exercises like yoga, biking, aerobics can help you refresh your mind. Endorphins and serotonin released during and after exercises are beneficial to your mood and help you reduce stress, especially when you exercise with your close friend or partner.

4. Do what you really enjoy

Do you have a hobby? It's an effective way to enjoy your personal life. When getting stressed at work, you should spend time doing what you like to find happiness. There are a million choices for you, such as playing with your children, cooking your favorite dish and enjoy the dinner with the one you love, listening to your favorite songs, wearing your favorite clothes, doing your favorite exercise and so on. Whatever you do, the idea to remember is to replace your negative feelings by happy emotion. You are unable to completely empty your mind after a bad day at work. The trick here is to fill your mind with other thought of comfortable things. Remember to spend time for yourself as you deserve.

5. Evaluate the panorama picture to figure out solutions

When your depression is gone, it's time to evaluate what happened. Do you realize the truth that most of bad things at work come from yourself? If you complete your work well, your boss couldn't blame it on you. If you get along well with other people on the office and never gossip, I do believe that they will treat you the same. No bad boss, no bad coworker. If you can manage your time and handle your work well, you even can strike a work-life balance instead of keep diving in the deep sea of stuff.

To be a top performer at work is important in your career path, but you don’t need to do multi tasks at the same time. You should have a to-do list every morning to motivate yourself. Besides, it’s better to learn to find the type of your manager to have proper strategy and try to enhance communication among coworkers to get on well with each other.

If you hate your current job or it doesn't fit you, don't hesitate to seek another work that suits your ability and personality. In case you love your job, it's time to reconsider your work plan and daily schedule. It hurts but either your time management or your multitasking skills need improving immediately. Ask for help when you need support since nobody can do everything well alone.

Obviously it's impossible to avoid bad day at work. Hopefully these tips can help you get over your awful day more quickly with less influence on your personal life. Every single day you make a choice.

Source: blog
Take a day at a time...

Also reflect on your loved ones you lost, and say to yourself, abeg life is too short

Thank me later
Travel › Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Remain In Nigeria by helphelp: 7:04pm On Mar 24, 2016
Not good enough...

Not like I wanna relocate though
Politics › Re: Court Stops The Arrest Of Ibrahim Larmode By Senate & IGP by helphelp: 1:53pm On Mar 24, 2016
Hmmm
Celebrities › Re: Burial Arrangement For Nomoreloss Has Been Announced by helphelp: 12:53pm On Mar 24, 2016
So sad...

Muyiwa of life...Rest in peace
Sports › Re: Victor Moses Happy With Eagles Return by helphelp: 12:35pm On Mar 24, 2016
When your prime time don drop..

Why you no go happy
Music/Radio › Re: VIDEO: Nomoreloss – Beautiful Things by helphelp: 11:23pm On Mar 23, 2016
R.I.P Nomoreloss...Although, the voice and instrumental are not in sync
Travel › Re: Multiple Accident At Ozumba Mbadiwe, Lagos (photos) by helphelp: 8:16pm On Mar 23, 2016
Choi
Travel › Re: Important Things To Take Along If You Are Relocating To Usa For The First Time by helphelp: 5:47pm On Mar 23, 2016
Ok
Politics › Re: Magistrate Arrests Woman Who Scratched Her Car, Then Sent Her To Prison (Pic) by helphelp: 5:23pm On Mar 23, 2016
The magistrate dey crase...

Power drunk mofo
Travel › Re: Antarctica: A Trip To The Coldest, Windiest, And Driest Continent On The Planet. by helphelp: 9:05pm On Mar 22, 2016
Forget igbo men dey dia dey do business
Romance › Kindly Share How You Proposed To Your Spouse by helphelp(op): 7:42pm On Mar 22, 2016
I saw a thread about how a guy proposed to his fiance at egbeda market. And I wondered, was mine any better.

Long story Short, I actually spoke the words in my car, and I placed the quite expensive ring on her finger. Anyways, fast forward to three(3) years, please add beautiful to those years, we are blessed with a cutie prince.

Please share how you proposed to your spouse.

Also, ladies share with us how Oga proposed to to you.

Let's have fun
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguna Is Google Most Searched Person In Nigeria by helphelp: 5:53pm On Mar 22, 2016
Most likely...

Not surprised
Phones › Re: 10 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Tweeting To A Hashtag by helphelp: 5:52pm On Mar 22, 2016
Plenty people no get work...

Tweeting on hash tag whether na dia business or not na solace
Romance › Re: 5 Dating Etiquettes That Will Keep You Happy In A Relationship by helphelp: 5:44pm On Mar 22, 2016
Kontinu
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus Meets The Ooni & Olori Of Ife by helphelp: 5:37pm On Mar 22, 2016
Bluezy13:
She is better off not smiling
Lmao...evulssss
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus Meets The Ooni & Olori Of Ife by helphelp: 5:37pm On Mar 22, 2016
This oba no go siddon for palace enjoy im wife...

Anyways e fit get presido ideas...Ajala travel all over the world
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage And Skales Visits A Down-Syndrome Foundation by helphelp: 5:34pm On Mar 22, 2016
Why always Indomie....
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: HELP! Is This A Scam Or Real (photos Attached) by helphelp: 5:25pm On Mar 22, 2016
Follow your heart and stop asking us questions
Health › People Now Sell Fresh Air In Nylon Bags by helphelp(op): 5:22pm On Mar 22, 2016
The people of Republic of China now sell packaged fresh air in Nylon bags, to combat air pollution.

Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Shows Off Her Real Face by helphelp: 4:53pm On Mar 22, 2016
You try
Crime › Re: Newborn Baby Abandoned In Garin-Kontagora, Niger State (photo) by helphelp: 3:58pm On Mar 22, 2016
And some people don find baby tire...

Some don spend millions on IVF
Politics › Re: Ganduje, Kwankwaso Reconcile After Intervention Of 6 Governors In Abuja. Photos by helphelp: 2:08pm On Mar 22, 2016
After dem don argue who tiff money pass abi
Education › Re: House Of Reps To Honour Ayodele Daniel Dada by helphelp: 12:24pm On Mar 22, 2016
Awesome move
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Afolabi Clashes With Seyi-Ariyo 'SheBaby', See The Distasteful Message by helphelp: 12:07pm On Mar 22, 2016
Awon weyrey on the lose
Crime › Re: Corper Attacked In Rivers Rerun Election In Hospital Before His Death by helphelp: 10:49am On Mar 22, 2016
Rivers though
Crime › Re: Rapists Strangle UTME Candidate In Ogun, Dump Corpse Inside Bush (photo) by helphelp: 10:42am On Mar 22, 2016
Jesus Christ
Celebrities › Re: The Okoye Brothers War Is Finally Over. Snapshots, Psquare Reunited by helphelp: 10:19am On Mar 22, 2016
Una dey mad...

As una never sing beta song since...I figure say every na stunt...

Make we dey expect album abi
Politics › Re: Army Officer, Woman Clash At BEDC Headquarters (photo) by helphelp: 9:25pm On Mar 21, 2016
Army officer again...

What are they smoking
Music/Radio › Re: VIDEO: Olamide – “abule Sowo” by helphelp: 7:02pm On Mar 21, 2016
Keep it up

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