Videour: Actually she's a good girl in all aspects. We have been dating for 3year now, she's all I want in a woman, her smile gives me joy every time with dimples.
I am 35 years she should be going to 25 this year. A career lady that has this hustle spirit in her but my problem is that she's obsessed with sex.
Imagine a man at my age having 2 to three times a week, which I know if I don't put in work she's definitely going to get it else where.
Psychologically, it's affecting me. Please what is the best way to handle this? My Nairaland family.
Elvictor: Russia have not started attacking Kyiv, and the claim that Ukraine forces have started reclaiming the territory they lost to Russians is just wishful thinking, sit tight.
TkhGuy: I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,
Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,
Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,
I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character
The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.
I guess you already know my choice,
Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,
Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,
ogododo: Over 120 minutes of action at Wembley certainly took its toll on Liverpool - but their endeavours ended in a record-breaking ninth EFL Cup title - and hopes of an unprecedented quadruple remain alive after a second-string XI saw off Norwich in the fifth round of the FA Cup.
Takumi Minamino struck twice before the break to put Liverpool in cruise control, and while the Canaries hit back through Lukas Rupp's thunderbolt with 14 minutes left to play, Dean Smith's side bowed out to the superior team on Merseyside.
Klopp has understandably sought to play down talk of a "crazy" quadruple, but the Reds are only six points behind Premier League leaders Manchester City with a game in hand, and Pep Guardiola's side must navigate the derby with Manchester United on Sunday.
Liverpool and Everton fans displayed a rare moment of unity when Rodri's seemingly blatant handball in the area was not penalised at Goodison Park last week - with City's 1-0 win having implications at both ends of the table - so Klopp's side need no more motivation to remain within touching distance of the champions.
Victory over Norwich marked Liverpool's 11th win on the bounce in all competitions - with six of those successes coming in the Premier League - and not since October have the EFL Cup winners dropped points in a Premier League home fixture.
Nice 1 from Liverpool. They are obstacle to Gunners top 4 battle.
madridguy: What we need presently is global peace and not war. I will continue to say this, for the world to have peace then the UN must ban building and selling of weapons. In every crisis everyone want to cash. Providing weapons to Ukraine will make more Ukrainian refugee in other countries.
I hope soonest Russia and Ukraine will come to terms and restored back peace in Ukraine.
According to the scripture, there are times for war and a time for peace. The former is happening right now.
[quote author=NGpatriot post=110573410]They ran away from the useless and good for nothing Nigeria, now they need the flag of the same good for nothing Nigeria to stay alive...
Ochys87: Yea Sadam hussein needed to b removed by bombing the country back to stone age that lead the destruction of cities in Iraq and over a million Iraqi citizens dead
My sincere condolences to the families of those that lost their lives. War affect the innocent people and cause destruction to infrastructures.
diplomat058: That's the problem with you emotional folks. The sentiment is making you all look feeble minded and plain stupid. If Hussein was a dictator, it's the responsibility of his people to oust him, not the US's. If US could invade a country without UN authorization and on the pretext of trying to oust a "rogue" regime, then why can't Russia do same to "unfriendly" Ukrainian government? China's Communist Party has also need defined as "rogue" by Western Powers. Why haven't they invaded China like they did to Iraq, Libya and Afghanistan. Apparently, it's all about power tustle and interests' pursuance, but emotionally overwhelmed folks support a side and think they are on the path of justice. Lol.
He was a threat to the Americans and to the world.
HausaIgboYoruba: u lack intelligence and that's why you can't comprehend anything! Why did USA invade Iraq and kill more than one million people? Double standard or what?
Saddam Hussein was a dictator who needed to be removed.
Anonymous03: I'm a 21 year old virgin , a final year student in Babcock University and I created this new account to ensure anonymity. People say I'm good looking but I don't see such when I look into the mirror. Girls love to associate with me ( Note; I don't spend) but none is ready to get down with me. Girls flirt with me a lot but they would never have sex with me. Some of the girls willingly sleep with guys that are less cute and not rich,yet they deny me sex but still cling on me even when I try to caught them off.
Most of these girls are act naughty with boys but they suddenly become saint and holy when it gets to my turn.
I almost begged for sex at one point and I don't want to patronize sex workers. Where am I getting it wrong? How can I sexually attract girls? Do I need to dress like a pop star?
Needadvice200: Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.
Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment. Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.
Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.
in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.
When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved. Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months. The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.
My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.
I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.
I will be in comment section if case of any questions.
Thank y'all
Prayer is the key. Pray until something happens. Thank you
kyber: I’m Giving It To My Girlfriend Sister Without Her Knowing
Just bought my girlfriends sister a new Tecno spark 5 pro without my babe knowing
Her sister has been phone-less for 3months now She’s been begging me to get it for her but her elder sister who is my babe refused saying “she doesn’t deserve it” reasons best know to her though.
I also feel it’s not my responsibility but she keeps on bugging me to buy it for her and that I shouldn’t don’t tell her elder sister !!!
Well I just decided to buy it for her today at a mini Plaza close to my area
(Picture below)
Have I made the right decision
Can you buy this phone for your parents? I can't try this nonsense!! Abi na me be her papa. Bomboclat!
useni1: Germany can go to hell. The population of China is more than Europe. India is also a good friend of Russia. Power has shifted to Asia. America is finished
I have been dating a girl for the past 5 years she has every thing I want in a lady but she’s too dependent since I have been dating her I buy from latest iPhones to sanitary pads , data , house rent , I even sent her to a fashion school which I spent millions on her, when she was at the fashion school.
Ever since she has resumed her school I told her won’t she be doing something in school like handling her friends and clients wears like sowing and selling quality materials I promise to open website , create mobile app , register her company , open cooperate account for her she’s yet to believe she can start making money her self .
During the conversation she told me how do I expect her to cope with class I was like woman I only allowed you to school because you should be able to stand out at-least you are not working for any one even when we get married she insists until she finish her school honestly I was pissed and decided not to give her any penny again until she fix her self..
Because I am a business man I have businesses running I believe my partner should also be doing something for her self not depending on me most time I don’t feel comfortable spending a dime on her again..
Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
God created a perfect world but Adam who was the head of the physical creation disobeyed God and brought sin into the creation, everything on earth is under a curse, hence the hardship abnormalities both medically and in otherwise, this world is literally dying, there is chaos,bitterness,pain, sickness, poverty, and every other malady.
But thank God he provided a means of redemption, Jesus christ the lamb of God that taketh away the sins of the world. Jesus Christ is the solution to sin he literally became sin (by taking on our sin) so we can become the righteousness of God. the creation itself would be set free from its bondage when the sons of God (the redeemed are manifest) but however the future of this universe is complete annihilation by God.
However, God has a plan of creating a complete new heaven and earth with new human beings in them, this new creation is free from sin and as a result free from the woes of this creation and this my friend is what we the saints look forward to.
Dear friend to be part of this new creation all you have to do is to repent, (have a change of heart towards God by embracing his way) and faith towards Jesus christ.
gazeup1: I created this new handle to hide my identity.
I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.
I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.
After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.
Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.
I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.
I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.
She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.
Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.
My advice is eheeeeee, I gat nothing to say to you.
Romance › Re: I Am Having A Problem With My Girlfriend. by Henz81: 9:30pm On Mar 24, 2022
