Kobojunkie:
First you Re not a Christian, instead you are one of those pagans out there who fancies hiding behind the "I am a Christian" flag.

Second, according to you, since your Pastor's so-called vision turned out meaningless, this since your wife went on the suggested 3-day fast and nothing changed, you ought to have realized from that that the pastor's entire schpeel about your wife was of his own imaginings.

Has see this one
You never see anything.The fact that the pastor can see her problem does not mean he should have a solution to it
There is nothing the OP can do about it

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

You can ask a pastor, alfa or even alawo the kind of sacrifice(it can be fruits, money etc) to offer to her spiritual group(egbe),when carrying the sacrifice just mention her name, eg i am carrying this sacrifice because of so so person and say prayers on it(you should ask the place to drop it cos sometimes it could be in a river, akitan(dustbin ground) , it could be at a junction, etc) when they tell you just do as you are told and make sure you do it once a month or even once in two months, am sure things will change for good, most of those egbe dont like their member getting married so they tend to disturb them so much that at the end she might end up leaving her husband, may almight God continue to be with you...

Needadvice200:



Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted

This happened to my friend. Guy stayed with his fiancee for almost a yr without making 1 naira but the most funniest thing is that once the fiancee travels, my guy will start making money. Last last na my guy run. The only difference is that u are now married. Just discuss it within your family and find a solution.

If you are in Lagos I can help you with spiritual aspect

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

You don't need any prophet or Pastor to pray for you at this point.
You and your wife should organized 3 days night vigil (in ur house) and fasting even if you will break by 12pm at least, pray against the occultic group tormenting your wife and family.
I pray for you and your family that every spirit of elegbe omo that is tormenting you shall die by fire in the mighty name of Jesus.
Do this and see changes by the power in the blood of Jesus.

Your problem is that you have refused to take responsibilities for your “problems” and you are blaming your Wife for them.

Is it your Wife that told you to go and borrow Money from loan sharks ? He who goes a-borrowing goes are sorrowing. Yet you who borrowed is blaming your Wife for your sorrows.

Continue following so called men-of-gods that keep seeing evil visions of your spouse and others close to you. Pastors that don’t even know the Jesus that said “Remove the log in your own eye first”

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Bro my own advice is not to leave her. If you truly feel she is into a cult from your consultations, serious prayers are needed.
But you see as a matter of fact you both are into the cult because you are both connected. No assurance for a better life even if you leave her because the spiritual controls the physical.
Note, you might even be the problem of yourself.

What to do:-
1. You both need to give your life genuinely to Christ. And be a serious minded Christian. Flee from any appearance of evil and live a holy life

2. Look for a Bible believing church and worship with them. Stop going about looking for visions and prophecy about your life or wife

3. Pray without ceasing. (Day & Night)

4. You both should go for counseling and deliverance in a real church

5. Fight your life battles together don't do anything outside your wife. Communicate matters with her it will lessen your burden.

I hope and pray you can go through with all this things I outlined. You will thank GOD with testimonies if you can.
Godbless

Hmmmmm
I pray God helps you
You know what, pick my number on my status on my advertisement AD and call me by 11am tomorrow morning.
I wana tell you something,I feel
For you,but as the lord liveth,you will over come all principalities and witches in God’s name.
Every Storms in your life will be consumed by fire by force.
As the wall of Jericho fell down flat all your problems will fall down flat,be saying Amen.
The lord who Brought Israelites out of bondage and from the hands of pharaoh,
The lord will bring you out of every problems you are confronting.
Do not send your wife away.
There is always a solution.
I do not need your money nor your material thing.
I just want to tell you what needed to be told.
Come this time next year,you will be a blessing to the world.amen
Once again do not send your wife away.
I wish you well shalom.

I Just checked the site, massive SEO. Nice business idea from the founder

iamoyindamola92: I joined the forum because I want to date a Ghana girl

nwajesus12:
I pity you if you believe that your wife is the cause of your financial woes, I advise you to look for other things to venture into, networking doesn't really pay much and if you are really good in that, YouCan learn affiliate marketing. The world is now digital, desist from antiquated ways of thinking. It is not as if you had millions before you met her, it is just that your financial responsibility increased, rather than finding ways to increase income, you went on a voyage of sorcery consultations

This one is a child

nwajesus12:
I know who I am, no mortal or immortal can get me, shalom

You know who you're, do you think others know who they're? Before you give out advice think twice

Needadvice200:



Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted

You're just a lazy, stupid man. Instead of you to work hard and feed your young family, you are looking for who to blame for your obvious laziness.

If you're earning 80k, then you obviously had no business getting married in the first place. Now, you got married in poverty and now looking on how to explain away your own inadequacies. If you want, marry angel, if you're not ready to get to work and cater for your family, you will continue to struggle and no amount of sex abstinence will save you.

This is 2021. Wake up and stop reasoning with your behind. Stop visiting pastors and marabouts. Work, work, work.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Prayer is the key. Pray until something happens. Thank you

Needadvice200:


There's no smoke without fire. I don't think those 5 thread are all normal. What do you think

Look for something better to do with yourself instead of blaming your poor wife for your failure as a man. If what you're doing before is no longer bringing in money like before, find something else to do as a man. This is what happens when you start to 'tojubole'. Pesin wey dey wa iwakuwa, oju ati eti eni yen ma ri irikuri and gbo igbokugbo. Stop looking for spiritual interpretation for your predicament and get to work like a real man and you'll see if your situation will not improve.

Yes it's true but everything has a solution that only if can work towards it

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Needadvice200:
[s]Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.I will be in comment section if case of any questions.Thank y'al[/s]l

Oga, to tell you the truth, you are one of the MAJOR problems we have in Africa.

How can you be harboring this type of self sabotaging and debilitating superstitious belief in 2022 and you want me to believe you are normal?

Tufiakwa

meeky247:


This happened to my friend. Guy stayed with his fiancee for almost a yr without making 1 naira but the most funniest thing is that once the fiancee travels, my guy will start making money. Last last na my guy run. The only difference is that u are now married. Just discuss it within your family and find a solution.

Correlation is not causation. Even if it is true that He wasn’t making money, while staying with His fiancée, does not mean She is the cause. What if staying with Her entailed staying away from His business, which led to business problems?

Let’s stop drawing baseless conclusions and acting on assumptions , if not for our sake, for the sake of our children.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Take her to prayer city of mfm on lagos ibadan express for deliverance.. she may need to do deliverance like twice or thrice.. its a war to be free.. those evil forces don't give up easily... "for we wrestle..."

It's easy and will be satisfying to push your failure on someone. If they didn't tell you your wife is your problem, I'm sure you'll probably be expecting the pastor to tell you that your mother, friend, brother or one family friend is responsible for your failure. That's what most religious people always want to hear to console themselves.
When they warn many people to make sure they are financially stable before getting married, they'll be yapping trash about time and age. As you nor sleep with your wife for some weeks abi na months, how many millions you make? Maybe you should tell her to move to her parent's house and let's see if you'll start making millions. If you know the number of lives many crazy pastors have ruined with their useless a d fraudulent prophecy, you will avoid listening to rubbish.

Locate Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministry headquarters (MFM) and both of you should go for 3days Deliverance or weekend delivery. You will come here to testify to God goodness.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Let me be Fran with you the solution to your problem does not lie in a pastor.
Go and look for a very honest BABALAWO not Oníṣègùn or Adahun Se.
A honest BABALAWO will make ifa divination for you and they will find you an everlasting solution.
Don't waste your time with pastors who only sees but know not the solution,i repeat don't waste your time in any church.
if una like make una abuse me

Solofresh2:
Has see this one
You never see anything.The fact that the pastor can see her problem does not mean he should have a solution to it
There is nothing the OP can do about it

Jesus Christ warned you against men like your Pastors who will come to you in his name prophesying lies and deceiving you in his name, una no wan listen.

For example, how can anyone who truly knows the Almighty God, tell you to practice starvation diets in His name when God said He does not want your starvation diets but instead outlined what He wants instead in Isaiah 58?

Unrated900:
Hmmmmm
I pray God helps you
You know what, pick my number on my status on my advertisement AD and call me by 11am tomorrow morning.
I wana tell you something,I feel
For you,but as the lord liveth,you will over come all principalities and witches in God’s name.
Every Storms in your life will be consumed by fire by force.
As the wall of Jericho fell down flat all your problems will fall down flat,be saying Amen.
The lord who Brought Israelites out of bondage and from the hands of pharaoh,
The lord will bring you out of every problems you are confronting.
Do not send your wife away.
There is always a solution.
I do not need your money nor your material thing.
I just want to tell you what needed to be told.
Come this time next year,you will be a blessing to the world.amen
Once again do not send your wife away.
I wish you well shalom.

Just look at this nuisance. Trying to take advantage. Make him call you make you collect the small change wey dey him hand.

Kobojunkie:
Your ideas are so pagan and bound in ignorance that I am afraid that it may be best to let you alone. -\

So, what do you plan on doing after you have abandoned your marriage?

If you don't have solution you shut up, stop blaming this guy, if he has solutions he won't be here asking for one.

Op I have no strength to type much. Here are my advice to you like you are a blood brother.

1. That woman is your God ordained wife, she is not the source of your problem. Think outside the box and change your business strategy to adapt to 2022 dynamics or start a new career.

2. Stop consulting medium. Only lazy Christians go to their pastors to seek for vision. In 98% of the cases, you will be mislead because they ain't your God. God who made you had made a manual to make you function normally. Find that manual for your life, study it and you will find your path in life. The Bible said you are a priest too. God must have been showing you things in dreams but you have refused to pay attention.



3. I guarantee you that marrying another woman is going to be your greatest undoing. God has blessed you with a good wife and daughter.

4. How rich is your network of friends? You may need to change your friends.

5. If you were born in England, will you think the same. Your prayer points in Nigeria is what you get done with ease outside Nigeria. I am not saying there is no spiritual wickedness oh, but think about it.

Sagay212:
It's easy and will be satisfying to push your failure on someone. If they didn't tell you your wife is your problem, I'm sure you'll probably be expecting the pastor to tell you that your mother, friend, brother or one family friend is responsible for your failure. That's what most religious people always want to hear to console themselves.

2. When they warn many people to make sure they are financially stable before getting married, they'll be yapping trash about time and age. As you nor sleep with your wife for some weeks abi na months, how many millions you make? Maybe you should tell her to move to her parent's house and let's see if you'll start making millions. If you know the number of lives many crazy pastors have ruined with their useless a d fraudulent prophecy, you will avoid listening to rubbish.

1. Thank you!.

2. I no even remember ask am that one self..

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

My friend stop following all these pastors who have nothing but fake visions and love your wife. Start ironing things with your Maker and stay with God's WORD.
Change the way you do things not every thing is cult and juju. Just hand every thing to God and He will see you through.

diogo23:

If you don't have solution you shut up, stop blaming this guy, if he has solutions he won't be here asking for one.

Solution when OP is the problem, not his wife who he is bent on offloading his faults onto?

Blessiing:









You can ask a pastor, alfa or even alawo the kind of sacrifice(it can be fruits, money etc) to offer to her spiritual group(egbe),when carrying the sacrifice just mention her name, eg i am carrying this sacrifice because of so so person and say prayers on it(you should ask the place to drop it cos sometimes it could be in a river, akitan(dustbin ground) , it could be at a junction, etc) when they tell you just do as you are told and make sure you do it once a month or even once in two months, am sure things will change for good, most of those egbe dont like their member getting married so they tend to disturb them so much that at the end she might end up leaving her husband, may almight God continue to be with you...

This is exactly the comment I was looking for!
I hope the OP takes this advice.

Better Japa now before death is involved

Kobojunkie:
Solution when OP is the problem, not his wife who he is bent on offloading his faults onto?

I don't know what to tell you but what you don't know pass you, this thing he is talking about do exist