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FamilyRe: I Fainted When My Wife Said Our Former Neighbor Is The Father Of Our Child by Henz81: 2:44pm On Jan 21, 2022
Wonders they say has no ending. Women! Women!! Women!!! Hmmmmmm.
RomanceRe: What I Did To A Female Friend That Brother Zoned Me by Henz81: 2:31pm On Jan 21, 2022
Please what is the moral lesson of this story?
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is On The Verge Of Crashing. by Henz81: 2:21pm On Jan 21, 2022
I think you should just move on, after all she is safe at her family's house.
RomanceRe: Lady Pours Water On Her Boyfriend For Proposing To Her In Public (video) by Henz81: 11:39am On Jan 20, 2022
latesthubs:
Lady Pours Water on Her Boyfriend for Embarrassing Her With Public Marriage Proposal

Watch Video Below....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1TDYdFHypLg
This is a sign that she is not meant for you. Please avoid future house of commotion.
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Decorates His Son, Adeboye With Rank Of Brigadier General (Picture) by Henz81: 9:15am On Jan 20, 2022
Penguin2:
Ugliness runs in Obasanjo lineage sha grin

Look at the son also looking like ape.

If you come under my mention to ask what my father and I have achieved, when you sleep tonight you will not wake up.

Try me undecided
Take a chill pill, son.
CrimeRe: Chinmark Investors Cry Out For Help; Say "We Want Our Money Back" by Henz81: 7:24am On Jan 19, 2022
Jay5mie:
I have no pity for stupid and greedy people.

Next please.
What makes them stupid and greedy? Is it a bad thing to invest?
FamilyRe: I Am Tired Of My Wife by Henz81: 2:36am On Jan 19, 2022
Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets, my salary is 55k. I used to give my wife 20k, mother 10k, 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house.

My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more.

I had no money to give her, my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it. My wife used to fight me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house as we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k.

So far, we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful.

Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church, now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly, she has agreed.

Now that my mother is here with us, she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us, note I don't eat breakfast, I eat lunch at work and in the evening I eat at home. She is only giving my mother food in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day.

I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods.

Is my decision good?
My brother you are trying. The Lord is your strength. Your salary is damn to poor to cater for a family of six. Don't know what else to say.
EducationRe: Lady Shows Off Impressive Legwork Dance As She Graduates From University (video) by Henz81: 2:23am On Jan 19, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
First of all Congratulations to her


But this baby girl never know the task ahead


Ogbeni....no need....her mind go soon dey
Just wish her well. The Lord is her strength.
SportsRe: AFCON : Ghana Dumped Out By Debutants Comoros In One Of AFCON Greatest Shock! by Henz81: 2:17am On Jan 19, 2022
post=109491078:
https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/59947164
That's what I call good news. Partey, please enter the next available flight back to England. Gunners for life!!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Brighton Further Damage Chelsea Fading Title Hopes. by Henz81: 2:09am On Jan 19, 2022
post=109490979:
Let's say bye bye to this season Premier League Trophy and wait on the cups competition.

Champions League (We are still currently thr Best team in, not only England, but the hole of Europe, AKA, The best Club in the whole wide world ... OFFICIALLY!)

UEFA say so!!

Argue with your 6th and 9th position! grin cheesy wink
Chelsea chances of winning the premier league have been dented more and more. My heart bleeds for this Club because they might struggle to make top four. Gunners for life.
EducationRe: Nairalanders Please Is It Filling Station Or Fueling Station? by Henz81: 5:22pm On Jan 18, 2022
chatinent:
It depends if na big gen or I pass my neighbor you dey use.

Big gen na filling station.


Small gen na fuel station.
LOL
BusinessRe: Obi Cubana To Sponsor Ekuma Jeremiah, Hawker To University by Henz81: 9:49pm On Jan 16, 2022
dangoteinlaw:
I agree. After they are done wiring ppls money and selling enough weed to attract ndlea they will now commence the damage control.

Ask a white man how he made it he will tell you how he started manufacturing from a garage but ask emoney or cubana how he make am he go say; my brother na God oooo
Why can't you be the alternative? Take it easy, son.
Christianity EtcRe: Frank Edwards: 'Jesus Is Interested In That Soul You Are Praying To Die By Fire' by Henz81: 12:15pm On Jan 16, 2022
tolue42:
Seriously, some of this celebrities are ignorance self, it's the demonic spirit in them that need to die by fire...
Which demonic spirit in them? You are missing the point.
CelebritiesRe: Obi Cubana Reacts To Allegation Linking Him To Asian Drug Barons (Video) by Henz81: 7:05am On Jan 16, 2022
Bastard1stborn:
Shut up! Na thief you be and anything drug is peculiar and familiar with your region.

Nevertheless, I like you grin
Brother, you should be more concern about your life and think of how to better yourself as a person. His invitation and even conviction will not add or take away anything from you.
RomanceRe: Sex With Ex Girlfriend by Henz81: 3:57pm On Jan 15, 2022
stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.
your friend is stupid. I have no advice for him.
RomanceRe: 'how Do I End A Blood Covenant Relationship I Made With My Boyfriend? He Refuses by Henz81: 3:28pm On Jan 15, 2022
Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him
Hmmmmm. Do not start what you cannot finish. Don't even dare to love somebody else. Just continue to love him, that's what you gat yourself into.
TravelRe: Uche Elendu's Arik Air Flight From Lagos To Asaba Crash Lands At A Remote Area by Henz81: 9:53pm On Jan 12, 2022
KillIgbohoN0W:
He told you the simple truth madam but Nollywood has damaged your brain so I am not surprised.
You need Jesus Christ in your life. Repent now
CelebritiesRe: James Brown Storms Party With Shirtless “Traditionalists” (Photos, Video) by Henz81: 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2022
LILTJAY:
Igbo people with foolishness undecided
What makes you believe that He's/She's an Igbo girl?
CelebritiesRe: James Brown Storms Party With Shirtless “Traditionalists” (Photos, Video) by Henz81: 1:31pm On Jan 10, 2022
ShyBabe:
This wan just wants to copy every body, from copying Bob to Pretty Mike.
With his mosquitoes legs and horselooking face grin grin grin and his mouth like they digged a hole on his face.
I like him though, one and only princess of Africow grin
Hmmmm. That was to harsh!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Chesterfield FA Cup (5 - 1) On 8th January 2021 by Henz81: 1:17pm On Jan 09, 2022
gevans:
We scored just only five goals. Chelsea is back to winning ways
Chesterfield plays in the National League. Just to remind you.
Christianity EtcRe: Going To Church Or Online/Broadcast Service — Which Do You Prefer? by Henz81: 1:13pm On Jan 09, 2022
spydera:
Goodmorning Nairalanders.
I had this completely randomized argument with one of my couzins early hours of this morning on the topic above. It was Unusual but deliberate given the fact that I said I love following church service online via the Net or cable dish.

She immediately opposed me and we both started to clearly state our points in bid to render the other person defeated.

It was like a rap battle until she said going to church will enable you, amongst other things take lots of selfies and pictures with others people– Òmó, I became mute and yielded.
Which do you prefer and why?
I prefer being in Church than online stuff. Simply because I want to be touched physically and feel the holy water sprinkle on my body as a Catholic.
Christianity EtcRe: What Do You Think About Born Again Brothers Chasing Worldly Sisters? by Henz81: 1:03pm On Jan 09, 2022
ikorodureporta:
A guy that forms born-again, yet still fighting with us for our worldly chicks cheesy

Why are they so insatiable?

My dear ladies, beware of such guys!
Don't get him wrong. He wants to convert those worldly chicks. You also need Jesus Christ.
Christianity EtcRe: Stop These Sexual Acts In 2022 by Henz81: 12:14pm On Jan 09, 2022
Interesting15:
We can't ignore how sexual immorality caused a lot of damages in the lives of so many people (particularly young people) this past year. It is really heartbreaking watching young folks suffering and living a wrecked and wretched lifestyle and giving room to the devil to get them ruined.

See how sexual immorality (particularly premarital sex, porn and masturbation) has turned many young and brilliant people into a nuisance without purpose and focus in life again. Many are now public dogs, STDs carriers, drugs and alcohol addicts, single and premature parents, and the evil devil has brought all form of ugliness into their lives.

The truth is, our society will continue to be an unpleasant one if we keep going contrary to the will of God and embracing immorality. Immorality (like other types of sin) empowers the kingdom of darkness to wreck havoc in our society. So, if people failed to go back to God in repentance, then you can expect more headaches in the society

The Will of God for sex is that all forms of sexual pleasures should be shared only between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.

Anyone that will obey God's instructions can be sure of living a lifestyle that is devoid of the fatal pangs and pains associated with sexual immorality.

If you will obey God's loving commandments as regards the enjoyment of sexual pleasures (which is actually for your own safety and good), then you must stop these sexual acts and not carry them with you to this new year:

1. Premarital Sex: Fornication is having sex when you are not married. Sex is actually meant for married couples (a male and a female) alone. Even if fornication is the norms out there, don't follow the crowd. Be unique and pure. Yes, it is possible to tame your sexual urges. Don't indulge in premarital sex, and you won't have to experience the negativities attached to it (unwanted pregnancy, STDs, and so on). You can also see more tips on sundayakanni.com

2. Extramarital Sex: Adultery is simply about having sex with someone other than your own spouse. As a married person, ensure you are contented with your husband or wife, and don't have an extramarital affair. The repercussions of adultery are usually deadly. Believe me, the few-minute pleasure derived from illicit sex is not worth the coming pain.

3. Homosexuality: This is sexual relations between members of same gender, like lesbianism (which is between females) and gayism (which is between males). Such things are dirty and an abomination that should be hated. If you are doing this, call upon the Name of the LORD Jesus for deliverance, and He will surely save you.

4. Pornography: God made sex to be an honorable act. It should be a private thing between a husband and his female wife. It is sinful to derive sexual pleasure from seeing the unclothedness of others. It is also sinful to video your sexual encounters and share them with others. Repent this year hence you will regret it!

5. Masturbation: You must not play with your sexual organs for sexual pleasures. You are going against God; and masturbation will only damage your body, soul and spirit.

6. Other Immoral Sexual Acts like smooching someone not your married spouse, sextings and the rest of them

Repent from immoral sexual activities and don't go with them into 2022. Live your life honouring God in holiness and purity. You are meant to have an eternal communion with God your Creator through Jesus Christ, as this is what will empower you to have dominion over creation. This is your destiny. Accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, and walk with Him in spirit and in truth.

Receive the strength to live your life for God, in JESUS NAME.

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/01/stop-these-sexual-acts-in-2022.html
Nice 1 from the poster. But I think there is too much emphasis on Sexual Sin as if that is the only sin that can take one to Hell fire. What about other sins that we commit on daily basis? For instance, LIES. Most people tell Lie and see nothing wrong with it. The Bible says, only the Truth can set you free. And yet some of us ignore this particular words of the scripture. May God help us. Amen
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Henz81: 9:37pm On Jan 08, 2022
oladiddy:
My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now with a beautiful daughter who is 2years plus but things are falling apart everyday.

Whenever we had arguments she will want to sabotage my job. Couple of months ago, we had an argument and I was to give update to my team via teams meeting (I work from home)..My wife keep raising her voice, I left the living room and went to bedroom lock the door behind to continue with my meeting but surprisingly to me, my wife went through the window and started the drama again.

Just yesterday there was another drama and she picked my phone unknowingly and call my overall boss.

Note: it is from this job am sponsoring her Masters in one of the centers in Uniport and also feeding the family. More than 70% of my monthly earnings goes to her. I am not a social person..I don't drink and either spend lavishly.

My wife is a very proud person and she has this obvious non challant attitude which are all seen by family members. Everybody keep talking about her but she's not changing. Although I have my own differences as well but she believe I can't control her. She's not submissive at all...I can say that over again and again.

Even while she's doing her masters, I was the one taking care of my daughter at home (thanks to covid)..in fact all my team members knows my daughter as my second colleague. I believe we all know how working from home with kids is like.

Please I need your advice. I am already thinking of divorce but the fear of loosing my daughter to her custody is my biggest challenge.

I am loosing my mind.

Please push to FP!
Report her to your Pastor.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Chesterfield FA Cup (5 - 1) On 8th January 2021 by Henz81: 7:16pm On Jan 08, 2022
gevans:
Chelsea all the way
Chelsea abeg make una pity them
FamilyRe: We Caught My 16-Year-Old Brother Smoking In His Room by Henz81: 7:10pm On Jan 08, 2022
Guest2008:
How Can I Help My Brother Out Of This Mess

Good afternoon nairalanders. As I'm typing this, my mum is not herself and she's been crying since morning because she caught my younger one smoking in his room..

He locked himself in the room for a very long time and my mum decided to go check on him. After a while, he sprayed his room and opened the door.

The room was filled with this hard drug smell, she called me and we decided to check the room even though he denied ever smoking.. We saw a light brown paper that he probably tears from, a nylon containing something like sand and a lighter behind the toilet seat. Despite all this, he still denied it claiming the smell is probably from the next compound.
My brother just clocked 16 and he's in SS2..

How can I advise and help him stop because I believe he was actually smoking even though he denied it?
look for a nice cain and weep his ass. It's better to spare the child with the rod than to spare the rod and spoil the child.
HealthRe: Black Soot: What My Ceiling Fan In Port Harcourt Looks Like (Photos) by Henz81: 7:05pm On Jan 08, 2022
vicki007:
This is something I cleaned on 31st December morning, sparkling clean. Look at it now. If not that I've been around, I would have thought maybe the appliance got burnt. And guess what? I never leave my window open without my net closed.

This is the air we literally breathe-in everyday!
I don't even want to snap my feet. I'm very light skinned but under my leg looks like I'm from Kenya sad

Please mods move this to FP let people see what we're going through.
Hmmm
RomanceRe: Young Ladies Beware Of Yahoo Plus Guys by Henz81: 7:03pm On Jan 08, 2022
KingDash:
All Yahoo plus boys will die this year.
please tell them ooo
SportsRe: Benjamin Mendy Granted Bail, Awaits Trial For Rape & Sexual Assault Charges by Henz81: 4:23pm On Jan 07, 2022
Man, you let yourself down.
FamilyRe: Divorce: My Husband Wants To Kill Me With Too Much Sex, Woman Tells Court by Henz81: 4:16pm On Jan 07, 2022
Hmmmmm

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