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CrimeRe: What Do I Tell This Teenage Girl To Do About Her Ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 6:01am On Aug 18, 2023
Kingosytex:
Good day NLs, I will like to be brief as possible couple with the fact that I'm not a good writer. Now for those of us here who most times believe any story on NL is fiction or takes, it's not cock-n-bull. But if you insist, den suit yourself or take it with a pinch of salt.

I have this teenage girl Sarah 17 (not her real name) who is so fond of me same as the mother and her siblings. Infact, I got to know these girls 2ru dia mum because she (the mum) do patronize me (I have business center close to their house). Each time her mum is looking for her and didn't see her around the compound, she will call my line and say "Hello Gab, is Faith with u"? When I affirmed to her question, she feels relaxed I.e,

You just told us her name is Faith cheesy
I bet you didn't know. You initially used a pseudonym Sarah but didn't know when you let the cat out of the bag.
No be her real name b that na mistake thanks anyway!
TravelRe: Pilot Dies In Bathroom On Miami Flight, Forcing Emergency Landing by Hezzyluv: 9:52pm On Aug 17, 2023
IconicR:
error
Amed wink
TravelRe: Pilot Dies In Bathroom On Miami Flight, Forcing Emergency Landing by Hezzyluv: 9:49pm On Aug 17, 2023
IconicR:
😂
U want to bookspace I understand but with this kind of emoji for this kind sad thread gat me wondering. huh
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 8:53pm On Aug 17, 2023
henrimoto:
Since the mom has respect for you, she sees you in good image. Discuss with her in confidence, let her know what's happening to her daughter. shocked

Will she accept Abomination because of fear of her brother ?
Also, get to know the reason behind the fear of her brother.
As I type this now, her mom is heavily down with malaria since the insults her brother gave her n the daughter. Na one drama wey me no just understand b dat. How can she have this thick fear for her own brother? Is there anything bigger den me which I don't get? could there b any skeleton in the cupboard?? Plenty questions just full my head!
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 8:45pm On Aug 17, 2023
Mindlog:
Which state, are you all in?
I'm from kogi state. They're not in anyway close to my state and will not like to mention her state/tribe since Nairaland don reduce to tribal war..

We dey Lagos Sha.
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 6:48pm On Aug 17, 2023
henrimoto:
Never Comot body. If you know from your heart that you never had negative intentions towards that girl that always come around your shop... If you see her as a daughter and a younger sister, you would now how to apply wisdom to help prevent the emotional hurts that is about to happen to that girl.

Don't over look the issue, look for a way to save her from the evil the uncle wants to do to her.

How?

Strengthen her mind first. Kill that terror/fear the said uncle had instill in her mind. Let her know that the uncle has no right over her body even if he is the one providing for the family.

There are NGOs and Government Agencies that are Against Domestic and sexual Abuse on Women you can direct her to. Or link her up with.
Thanks.
But what I don't understand is her mum. I fear she might not like it (the disgrace and shame) she may like it treated in family way
RomanceRe: Men Can You Allow Another Man Do This To Your Woman? by Hezzyluv: 4:47pm On Aug 17, 2023
Kingosytex:
4000+ posts in a little just over 4 months. Nawaoo!
1000post per month on the average of 33post per day grin grin

I just pity the unfortunate man because the mouth will run like parrot. cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 4:10pm On Aug 17, 2023
Emmanuel30a:
Kokanwa...
U wicked grin
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 4:08pm On Aug 17, 2023
DaddyRochie1642:
I have told you to comot body from their family drama and face ya business, you will not hear grin grin
I don comot body oo
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 3:26pm On Aug 17, 2023
Puss360:
You want to be brief ... Na the brief be dis... Lol...

Well, how old are you??
If she is 17, and you are more than 25, I see no reason why whe will feel comfortable telling you about who fingered her or not....
And besides how close are you both that a minor will be discussing sexual topic to you?
For now, point blank you are a pervert...
But just wait small, she will soon be an adult, (18yrs).. by then you can do into details with her....

But remember one day, you go get daughter, then you'll understand how it feels for her to discuss sexual issues with a matured man while still be a minor...


Case Dismissed!!!!
Next Patient please
I have daughter already she's 12 I want to believe my way of relating to her would tell either she will tell me about it or not. I blame the mom tho
FamilyRe: What do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op): 3:24pm On Aug 17, 2023
DaddyRochie1642:
That's how it starts... 17years old Faith is now resting her head on your shoulders to cry and open up to you that is a total stranger and you now feel gingered to now go ahead and fight for Faith grin grin

Why didn't Faith rest her head on her mother's shoulders to open up to her grin

Better comot body from their family drama and continue facing your business before faith and that her uncle will now change the story and put you in a situation that will lead to weeping and gnashing of teeth for you grin grin grin
You don't know me.
FamilyWhat do I tell this teenage girl to do about her ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op):
Good day NLs, I will like to be brief couple with the fact that I'm not a good writer. Now for those of us here who most times believe any story on NL is fiction or tales, it's not cock-n-bull. But if you insist, den suit yourself or take it with a pinch of salt.

I have this teenage girl Faith (not her real name) who is so fond of me same as the mother and her siblings. Infact, I got to know these girls 2ru dia mum because she (the mum) do patronize me (I have business center close to their house). Each time her mum is looking for her and didn't see her around the compound, she will call my line and say "Hello Gab, is Faith with u"? When I affirmed to her question, she feels relaxed I.e, her mother believes I will NEVER make funny moves towards her little daughter (tho not advisable to parents). "And me no even fit do so, Because I see her as my daughter. Plus, my integrity and pedigree matters and I have this believe watch words ringing in my head day by day which is, Gab, let your head do the thinking and not your pen!s.

I have not been seeing their father around which made me became curious and had no option den to ask his whereabout from the woman. She told me he left her with the children I didn't even bother to ask further because, I hate to dey pok-norse. Now to ease the burden, she had no option then to leave the children with their Uncle (her elder brother), that the children came back to start staying with her about four months ago since she has gotten her apartment.

"Na where the problem start be this". For the first time this their Uncle saw me, l saw this feeling of extreme hate towards me from him. I greeted him, "good evening sir! he didn't respond. "As gentle man wey I be, I just buy wetin I go to buy and left that place." Since that day, I reduced my way of going that side even when I have business to do around there some times, I shaply get it done and leave afterwards. The following day, Faith came to my shop as usual. I asked her "da Fu!k is wrong with your uncle"? She said they have been talking about Gabriel (me) and there was a day he came around, sounded them warning naver to mention my name again that I shouldn't mind him that he just want to protect dem from bad boys bla, bla, bla... and all of that. But deep down, l believe it's more then that but I just let it slide since the mum had already called me to apologise for her brother's behavior towards me.

Now the koko
She was sent to my shop to come collect money POS, and few minutes latter, the Uncle came visiting. He asked where is Faith? Afraid of him and not wanting to tell him she has went to Gabriel's shop. Because, he will flog her for coming to my place (flog 17years old girl oo..), they now lied to him that she went to aboki's shop to buy something. He went there and didn't see her that was when the Aunt Called me that I should tell Faith to come home immediately that her uncle is around. U need to see how this girl jumped and left my place with the speed of light. (I don't want to go to details of how it ended that day because, if I start narrating what that man did, to her, her siblings and his younger sister, "this place go full with writing"

Now, down to the real koko
After the drama in paragraph above, the following evening, she came to my shop.
I was like Faith, you againhuh
But then I latter noticed this traumatized look on her face on looking at her for the third time, she rest her head on my shoulder and started crying profusely. I allowed her to cry for like one minutes (was meant to understand u allow someone to cry first before asking dem what's up) den I calmed her down and ask what the matter is?
That was how this girl started telling me how her said Uncle (The over protective uncle) had been molestation her sexually.

-How he fingered her (by force)
-How he kissed her (by force)
-How he force her to watch porn
-How he had tried to rape her
-How He vowed to be the first person that would enter her with his ghola
-How he would be the one to marry her
-How he had threatened to kill anyone who will stop him, kill her and kill himself.


Asked her if she has told her mum, she said how will she start this? That they will never believe her! The annoying thing is that her mum is scared of the brother (extremely) and this man I'm talking about should be around his 50something years old oo.. and not married.

As I'm typing this so, I'm yet to set my eyes on the girl since the day this this happed (Day before yesterday). Her WhatsApp dey off, she no dey even pick my calls.

Do I go 2ru the mother??
Do I go with police??
Do I go with human Right
Dose the woman want it trash out in family way?

Even me, I dey confused.

Pls admin,move this to front page!


Modified, to those who fink her closeness to me would lead to one fin, u go wait... tire grin
CrimeWhat Do I Tell This Teenage Girl To Do About Her Ordeal? by Hezzyluv(op):
Good day NLs, I will like to be brief as possible couple with the fact that I'm not a good writer. Now for those of us here who most times believe any story on NL is fiction or tales, it's not cock-n-bull. But if you insist, den suit yourself or take it with a pinch of salt.

I have this teenage girl Faith 17 (not her real name) who is so fond of me same as the mother and her siblings. Infact, I got to know these girls 2ru dia mum because she (the mum) do patronize me (I have business center close to their house). Each time her mum is looking for her and didn't see her around the compound, she will call my line and say "Hello Gab, is Faith with u"? When I affirmed to her question, she feels relaxed I.e, her mother believes I will NEVER make funny moves towards her little daughter (tho not advisable to parents). "And me no even fit do so, Because I see her as my daughter. plus, my integrity and pedigree matters and I have this believe watch words ringing in my head day by day which is, [b]Gab, let your head do the thinking and not your pen!s.

I have not been seeing their father around which made me became curious and had no option den to ask his whereabout from the woman. She told me he left her with the children I didn't even bother to ask further because, I hate to dey pok-norse. Now to ease the burden, she had no option then to leave the children with their Uncle (her elder brother), that the children came back to start staying with her about four months ago since she has gotten her apartment.

"Na where the problem start be this". For the first time this their Uncle saw me, l saw this feeling of extreme hate towards me from him. I greeted him, "good evening sir! he didn't respond. "As gentle man wey I be, I just buy wetin I go to buy and left that place." Since that day, I reduced my way of going that side even when I have business to do around there some times, I shaply get it done and leave afterwards. The following day, Faith came to my shop as usual. I asked her "da Fu!k is wrong with your uncle"? She said they have been talking about Gabriel (me) and there was a day he came around, sounded them warning naver to mention my name again that I shouldn't mind him that he just want to protect dem from bad boys bla, bla, bla... and all of that. But deep down, l believe it's more then that but I just let it slide since the mum had already called me to apologise for her brother's behavior towards me.

Now the koko
She was sent to my shop to come collect money POS, and few minutes latter, the Uncle came visiting. He asked where is Faith? Afraid of him and not wanting to tell him she has went to Gabriel's shop. Because, he will flog her for coming to my place (flog 17years old girl oo..), they now lied to him that she went to aboki's shop to buy something. He went there and didn't see her that was when the Aunt Called me that I should tell Faith to come home immediately that her uncle is around. U need to see how this girl jumped and left my place with the speed of light. (I don't want to go to details of how it ended that day because, if I start narrating what that man did, to her, her siblings and his younger sister, "this place go full with writing"wink

Now, down to the real koko shocked shocked shocked
After the drama in paragraph above, the following evening, she came to my shop.
I was like Faith, you againhuh
But then I latter noticed this traumatized look on her face on looking at her for the third time, she rest her head on my shoulder and started crying profusely. I allowed her to cry for like one minutes (was meant to understand u allow someone to cry first before asking dem what's up) den I calmed her down and ask what the matter is?
That was how this girl started telling me how her said Uncle (The over protective uncle) had been molestation her sexually. shocked shocked

-How he fingered her (by force)
-How he kissed her (by force)
-How he force her to watch porn
-How he had tried to rape her
-How He vowed to be the first person that would enter her with his ghola
-How he would be the one to marry her
-How he had threatened to kill anyone who will stop him, kill her and kill himself.
shocked shocked

Asked her if she has told her mum, she said how will she start this? That they will never believe her! The annoying thing is that her mum is scared of the brother (extremely) and this man I'm talking about should be around his 50something years old oo.. and not married. undecided

As I'm typing this so, I'm yet to set my eyes on the girl since the day this this happed (Day before yesterday). Her WhatsApp dey off, she no dey even pick my calls.

Do I go 2ru the mother??
Do I go with police??
Do I go with human Right
Dose the woman want it trash out in family way?

Even me, I dey confused.huh

Pls admin,move this to front page!
CareerRe: Advise Me: What Is The Best Course A Female Philosophy Graduate Do At Masters? by Hezzyluv: 12:08pm On Aug 16, 2023
Go and join 9ja politicsgrin
Foreign AffairsRe: Taliban Marks Two Years Since Return To Power In Afghanistan (Photos) by Hezzyluv: 8:10pm On Aug 15, 2023
As long as they're happy, congratulations to them. lipsrsealed
SportsRe: Recent Transfers To The Saudi Football League by Hezzyluv: 12:49pm On Aug 15, 2023
I was surprised when I saw Kulabali playing against Ronaldo's team at the final.
BusinessRe: FX Arbitrage Widens To ₦‎206/$1 Enabling Round-Tripping, CBN Vows Crack Down by Hezzyluv: 12:26pm On Aug 15, 2023
Buhari really messed up this country under the guise of Godwin Emefiele. undecided

He should be arrested as well

To make matter worse, promax of Buhari on the wheel.
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Child’s Dad by Hezzyluv: 3:52pm On Aug 13, 2023
Puss360:
Wahala.. if all these are present, then what actually attracted you to him?? I'm very sure it's not money... Is it sex?? What exactly?

Just file for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences....
Rent a small apartment, and go with the child...
Move on...
Don't involve his family or your family...as the case is, you don't need dialogue, you don't need "To exercise patience", you need space!!!
Move on...
He can come visit his kid...
But you move on... There are other men out there who are better than him in everything including the Sex aspect... Check well grin grin

Case Dismissed...
Next Case Please...
@Bold,

No be person u married to u go file for divorce??
Christianity EtcRe: What Do You Think Of Christians That Go To Work On Sunday? by Hezzyluv: 10:00am On Aug 13, 2023
After the church service, u can go and open your shop if you wish to. The most important thing in a Christian is genuine relationship with Jesus Christ.
FamilyRe: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by Hezzyluv: 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2023
Is long throat that brought her this woe.
She thought he's a big boy. grin

Women and long throat are like 5&6 undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Pray For My Death If I Am Guilty of Demonic Consultation - Pastor Adeboye by Hezzyluv: 11:22am On Aug 12, 2023
trueking:
That is nothing, people must yarn rubbish, even Jesus Christ was accused of using demonic powers.
A man In your position must be ready to hear all manner of nonsense, and the painful part is some will come from so called men of God.
@bold nothing is as painful as it
PoliticsRe: Caption This Photo Of Obi With A Pretty Lady by Hezzyluv:
This Obi is dam... humble!
Even the normal Ankara clothes he's wearing speaks of his humility.

The lady behind him was like are u kinding me? How could he be this humble??
Foreign AffairsRe: Former South Africa President Released From Prison by Hezzyluv: 9:40am On Aug 12, 2023
Buhaari has to join Emefiele too undecided
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerians In Niger Beg FG For Evacuation Over Impending Attack by Hezzyluv:
Dem want whine us nihuh

Make dem us leg treck comeback to their homes na. Where Sokoto (Ilela) where Niger republic? Is just like Osun and Lagos!

On a serious note Tinubu should be very careful (diplomatic approach). I know what I am saying. I stay in the north particularly Sokoto now and the residence here sees him as enemy. Because, they believe the residence of Niger Republic are their brothers.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Want To Start Preparing For Interviews, What Questions Should I Expect? by Hezzyluv:
Most of the questions you would be ask are from elementary chemistry. I am saying it from the previous teaching interview I had attended.

Was asked:
What is quantum number?
How can it be applied in projectile?
What happens to a body under escape velocity when the motion stops?

Tho na lecturing job.

Baba began to bit his tongue in some answer to the questions grin grin grin

I was actually sleepless a night to the day practicing Laplace equation, Lagrange equation, plasma frequency equation and the rest. Neglecting the small small keypoints. grin
PoliticsRe: ‘We Weren’t Given Anything Extra’ — Ireti Kingibe Speaks On Akpabio’s ‘Alert' by Hezzyluv:
We miss Dr Bukola Saraki we miss PDPAfter him, we have been so unfortunate with rubber stamp Senate presidents Shameless bunch of wicked souls we've been having as senators. undecided
BusinessRe: We Will Name & Shame Commercial Banks Engaged In Illegal Sales Of Dollars – CBN by Hezzyluv: 10:08pm On Aug 10, 2023
This one na long story jor...
For the system wey dey work, dem no sopoz get people wey go dey monitor the said Bankshuh
CelebritiesRe: Obsessed Fan On Bicycle Trip From Makurdi To Lagos To Meet Davido by Hezzyluv: 8:15pm On Aug 10, 2023
Make dem check the guy bombom if e peel, then him truly ride the bicycle but if eno peel, na lai him lai. No way wey him go ride such distance with bicycle wey him botum no go wond. cheesy
RomanceRe: Girl Who Abandoned Home Years Ago Returns Unexpectedly With Child by Hezzyluv: 8:08pm On Aug 10, 2023
The parents don't have option then to welcome her with their grandchild.
PoliticsRe: Popular Former British MP George Galloway Call Tinubu A Drug Pusher by Hezzyluv:
That man must be an IPOB grin grin grin

But on a serious note,

Being a notorious drug dealer should be a major concern.

Electoral process that brought him to power has question marks.

His Chicago living/education get plenty plenty aguement

And now, things are not getting better from where it was handed over to him. But rather, it keeps getting tougher n tougher.

Walahi...
before God and man, I was finking anyone who would rule this country after Buhari, things would get better. 'cause, I was thinking he (Buhari) is the worse thing that this country will ever have. I was wrong afterwards. Behold his promax Tinubu. undecided


Na only wicked person go just announce subsidy removal without proper mechanism to reduce the effect.
CrimeRe: Gunmen Attack Heipang, Barkin Ladi, Plateau State, Kill 17 Persons (Photos) by Hezzyluv: 5:30pm On Aug 10, 2023
And if the indigenous people of Barking Ladi get guns for self defense now, FG go seatdown ontop their mata. undecided
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Mourns Pastor Odukoya, Says ‘we Are Devastated’ by Hezzyluv: 5:25pm On Aug 10, 2023
RIP Pastor.

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