₦airaland Forum

Anobody:
I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.

They both left secondary school and working to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turning his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.

My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extend of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.

What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.

I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp.

I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page

Madam, the only option you have now is, " Just quietly pack your necessary belongings and leave the house for them."
Note, do not let them know where you are staying. If possible, leave that state totally for them. Then, keep praying for them, they might change.

Because even you take them back to their Father's people, they would still find their way back.

Bluntguy:
Since they have started forming men for you. It means they can cater for themselves at this stage. If you die now (God forbid) they will move on. So take them to their father's people and take care of yourself. Life no get duplicate.

They would come back. Let her just quietly leave the house for them and never let them know where she is.

money121:
Olorun a wa pelu e

The lord be with him.

LuQuLuQu:
Where's the graphics?


Graphics is voting for Tinubu and putting our future and that of our children in his shaky hands.


He was the only aspirant to read from a prepared speech and was very slurred too


Say Noooooo to Tinubu

You've made my day...!

DrChukki:
Peter Obi all the way

No be only for online. Hope u have your PVC?

Nasri100:
No need for that. It’s programmed to give the betting company 70% revenue while the rest 30% is shared for the dumb fools playing it

Can you imagine??

akanbiaa:
Even real matches is very risky a small team can win a big team sometimes or hold them to a draw, talkmore of a computer programmed team.

My mind is even telling me they can seat at their head office and be manipulating that virtual games.

Japa, japa

If you japa, whatever you see, don't complain ka...

All these dramas would end today...

All these insinuations would end today...

Taich:
This is really funny, but why will I enjoy reading breakup stories?

Are you a sadist?

Evan small yash dey shake
Imagine person wey no dey pay salaries dey vex why Dem no allow am become president.

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If the drama I read above is true, then Prof. Soludo is a real G with his matured response. He too might be wrong for not seeing to it that they talk on phone by all means, considering the lines can't be switched off forever.

You have the power to reject any evil against you and your loved ones trusting God with the whole of your mind.

Rev. Father should have call him personally and tell him this is what he saw, or better still, visit him.

Honestly for me, it's a no no.

If you're into the business already, you would have known the amount of money you need to boost that business, plus your level of certainty getting returns from it is higher then when you're just stating.

You will agree with me that most start-up businesses in Nigeria has lots of challenges. Is it low patronage? is it having issues with those you have to trust Workin for you? Is it the frustration from nominal social amenities we're supoz to have and unavailable? Particularly, electricity and so on and so on...

If you're into perishable goods kind of business, and you went and take loan to start it up, you would land in deep trouble. But if your into it already, you know how to Chanel that loan to.

Las Las, any business you want to get loan for, make sure you have good ideas on the business, to avoid loan app or or any financial situation dragging you upanda.

Ok

Sermwell:
Calm down

Broz, e no easy. Lagos sun do me strong thin today. I no dey see road as I dey so.

phemmyjohnson:
CONTRARY to the position of most Northern Governors on power shift to the South National Chairman of thee All Progressives Congress, Senator Abdullah I Adamu has announced Senate president Ahmad Lawan as APC consensus presidential candidate.
Adamu, Vanguard gathered announced this at the meeting of theNational Working Committee, NWC, on Monday, in Abuja.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/06/breaking-apc-convention-adamu-announces-lawan-as-consensus-candidate-at-nwc-meeting/

More details soon

Heart attack for egbedi-papa one of Lagos.

I miss my childhood so much.
Particularly, my secondary school days.

Sermwell:
If your cousin stole 20k from his dad and gave you 5k to keep your mouth shut! But when you were about leaving, you hear your uncle telling his wife that someone stole the 20k he wanted to give you!


What will you do??

cc: Seun
cc: lalasticlala

Op, you me everybody all of us should gettaout.... let me see road.

I dey vex

oshozondii:
https://www.thecable.ng/buhari-in-closed-door-meeting-with-northern-apc-governors/amp
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

We are tired of APC this Buhari that with no source to trust anymore.
Well, all this dramas would be laid to rest by 2moro.

RIP to the deceased

Is it politicians that told these people to climb the root of van again

Even if it's politicians directly or indirectly, what actually happened to common sense

What's the difference between this and embarking on a suicid mission?

Arysexy:
Be mindful of inhaling such substances when you are in motion as breeze blows d chemicals into d car carbin

Yeah, But no more potency after 12hours.

Mad people upanda

madridguy:
Useless talk... Na only Osibanjo dey the gathering... Mtchew.... The number 1 citizen of the country dey there and other aspirants.

Say no to nonsense talk.

R. I. P to the victims of Owo massacre.

I Concord..!

RIP to the victims.
The perpetrators would meet their Waterloo. They would be brutally murdered too.

Cypress042:
Nice advice so shall same advice be given to your children

What goes around comes around nigga...

virus05:
Thanks so much �

Chop knuckles.

Chai...

Inside the nation's capital
What have we really done to deserve all these.

With all the AMPLE NATURAL RESOURCES AND HUMAN CAPITAL DEVELOPMENT we have, someone will not really enjoy ANYTHING provided by the government before he/she goes back to his maker again

Buy fumigating chemical, dilute and sprinkle in the bonnet, it will leave. Or buy rat poison and drop it at strategic points in the bonnet and directly under it. "If the rat is not from village people, it end has come"

Tilumbu eyes don see shege for this time.

If he happens to be the flag bearer afterwards, which I doubt, and eventually become the president. His work would be to deal with those people that frustrated him hitherto. Because, he said it's his turn to become the president.

We've heard him said how he made Buhari
how he made Osibanjo
how he made Fashola
how he made and made
I just hope, he wouldn't say he's the maker of heaven and Earth

mediclife1987:
Hello guys. I'm trying to start saving in dollars and already have a US Dollar Dorm account.

Problem is I need some gurus here to tell me how to go about it.

I've once called a GTBank customer care service and the woman was even sort of discouraging me from the product of her own bank!!!

I'll appreciate any clear explanation on how to go about it as I want to be converting 250k/month to dollars to save in my Dorm account.

I'll prefer if I can even lock it up sef, so I won't be able to touch it no matter how much I need it...

I'm already on Cowrywise but savings in Naira dey fear me the way dollar dey do Usain Bolt for Naira

Thanks guys.

Continue your savings in naira, disparity between dollar and naira no go last forever.
You can still save in dollar too.