₦airaland Forum

dominique:
Ok let's do a rough estimate of the items you got to see if you were cheated or not

1 cartoon of Gino tomatoes (sachet ones) - no idea (let me just put at 10k)
5liter g.oil ≈ 15k
4liter p.oil ≈ 14k
2 packets of salt ≈ 1k (N500 each
1 bama ≈ 3k
Knorr Maggi ≈ 2,500
Dish washing liquor (medium sized) ≈ 1500
Dental floss/toothpick ≈ 1k
Bag of rice ≈ 60k (most likely less)

Total ≈ N105k give or take 10k. I wouldn't exactly say you were cheated but the organisers can do better

who want sell kings groundnut oil 5 litres 15k for you? That thing price is around 25k. That particular bag of rice is around 80k

It's fair price...you were not cheated

Bentacur007:
Omo dem chop you
How much be a bag of rice ?

only that rice na 80k

No matter the advice you get here,you must make mistakes that you would learn from. Make those mistakes earlier so you have more time to learn from them. See the world as a battlefield where only the strongest survives.Everyone is putting themselves first so you also put yourself first. Do not waste money,make every money work for you. The best investment you can make is on yourself. Be selfish with your time and resources.Trust nobody. Be your own best friend,learn to enjoy your company. Embrace solitude,there are special lessons and wisdom only solitude can provide. In this phase,clarity is granted. You see people for what they truly are. Avoid religion,that shit will mess up your mind. Do not take women seriously cos they are unserious people. Keep your winnings and losses private.if people know you are winning they envy you,if they know you are losing,they mock you. Trust me, you would not want to be envied or mocked. Stay mysterious and dangerous.

yarimo:
This list must be fake without at least 10 minimum audio billionaires from south east Nigeria.

there is difference between billionaire in naira and billionaire in dollars.

This is how you gain back power and respect,mind you it won't be easy,they will try to frustrate you but remain firm.stop being friendly with anyone in your workplace. Your colleagues are not your friends,do your job,get paid and go home. Stop seeking validation from them,do your work diligently and leave. Do not overshare,you expose yourself when you talk too much at workplace. Trust no one but yourself. Show no fear while working,the worst thing that can happen is you lose your job. We don't pray for such but if it happens life must go on.

SaLongs1:
Not really, some facts are stranger than fiction.

Leave them make dem dey doubt,till it happens to them before their eye go clear.

This life eh...nobody really send you. Live for yourself. People will quickly move on without you.

That one concern tinubu...The crude when dem dey sell since, we no see the impact.

Yes, marriage and relationship are now outdated. Everything has changed,only the blind seem not to notice. Our women are now becoming less feminine,hence making them less attractive for commitment. They believe they are now equal to men and don't wanna submit to any man. Two captains can't be in control of a ship. Women that are supposed to bring peace to their men are now busy bringing chaos. A man goes out to face the chaos of the world and comes back to his house to meet a bigger chaos in his wife. He is likened to a soldier fighting war on all fronts. It's just a matter of time before he is defeated. No man in his right senses will venture into marriage with this present day women.

reddingtonblack:
I wont blame Women for most cases, i believe the kind of vibe gutz give is what this gurlz use to decide the side of them we SEE

Trust me, some of We guyz are boring and have no game ... we think jus flaunt money, cars, iphone thats all to get premium package

i listen to guyz talk to gurlz sometimes nd i get angry, e get one guy jornwhite e no know pass Have you eaten on calls ?? like say na him get item 7

That is it...women are actresses. They will act any role expected of them.

jaxxy:
I can bet naso she knack many other guys on 1st date.

She not olosho, she's coded

... that possible.she appeared descent and didn't collect a dime after. Bottom line is no allow woman make rules for you as a man. Even as little as when she will come see you,be the one to dictate for her. If she decides to come when you are not free,tell her you won't be available. Be the one that make rules for them not the other way round.

papiSNEH:
I won't be shock even in top200-IQ we ain't there, cos an average Nigerian don't mind collecting 1000 naira and suffer for next 4years.

You are very correct...Most Nigerians have low IQ.

reddingtonblack:
i can relate, 5 men can date one folake buh they will know her differently

i have a way of knowing when a woman loves me, 🙈 its always a " tough love" buh wont starve me 🤣

Now you get the point...a woman can play different roles to different men.To one man she is a descent gal,to another she is a LovePeddler.

jaxxy:
He wants to trend. He should say olosho doesn't have rules.. I agree

it's not olosho matter...I have met decent gals who knacked me the first day I met them....na una dey overrate all these women that's why they make rules for you guys.

Myrrhis:
Any woman who can do those for a man on the first day she meets him has no self-worth.

just dey play...women only have self worth for men they don't like. If they like you,they turn mvmv.

NACE13:
I always say "if she calls you stingy, it simply means you're not giving her the money you worked hard for and you are on the right track".
A colleague of mine once called me stingy because I refused to buy her lunch at work. We're both working and earning same pay but my own money feels better to be spent and hers to be kept.
Another "close friend" called me stingy when she asked me money for new hair and I told her to either get it herself or go skin cut like a true African queen. I shook my head and smiled inside. My own money o. Chai!

women use that broke shaming tactics because it works on alot of men. Many men are simps that depend on a woman's validation to feel good about themselves. They get shocked if the shaming tactics didn't work on you.

cr7lomo:
So women no de use men as intimacy gadget... tell that to the simps and fools ...no be 33 Yr old female teacher de rape minor wey de 16.... in America where de have records.. for every 10 teachers caught raping minors ...9 are women....

Besides that aren't women also using men... they deceive men and take away their money till the man goes broke and they just ship to another man... which one come worse pass.... men are wiser ... that useless Doris de date pastor, she promise pastor marriage but come Marry another man cos the man get money .... when e come be like say pastor Don set....she dump husband for pastor... we no hear story say she deceive am or use am .... u women think u are smart cos men have been looking the other way allowing u women do nonsense..... NOT ANYMORE.... una never see anything....
. U women will beg for men of last generation.. shey una no appreciate dem... una go see shege ... this new generation of men go show una pepper... MEN ARE WISER NOW

lol...the shege just started for these women...them never see anything yet.

saphiere:
you are too dummmb to understand my point.
We u say that women were never forced to have sxxx, were men forced to send women money?

you got no point. There is nothing to understand.

Lovit:
It's all about manipulation bro

it is better to pay OS 20k, knack am to your satisfaction than to entertain a leech in the name of girl friend

she will call you broke when you refuse her manipulations, even when you give her the money, she will still be stingy with the sex

why not just pay and knack and move on? OS can never show you attitude

btw, I am not promoting patronizing OS, but Nigerian girls called for these comparisons

You are very honest.You are absolutely correct. OS are the best kind of women to deal with. They don't stress,they don't bring drama,just render service and pay for service. I wish I realized this long time ago,I for no even bother get gal friend at all.

saphiere:
It doesn't pain me if man says he doesn't want me again. I am not even doing them. my concern is that they should stop using women as their sxx toys. We were not created to quash their urge.

come out from the delusion that you are doing any man a favour by having sex with him. Were you in any way forced to have sex with him? it's you women that even enjoy sex more but you come here to pretend like you don't enjoy it.

Entimz:
even if i don marry u...if am not getting it easy i will move on with my life

Yes na,man say e no do again. No be by force na. I hope all the women when claim to know their right dey see as e dey go. Na only when woman dey deal with mvmv man she fit dey claim right for where man dey. All the wanna be feminists Una eye go clear soon.

brain54:
They are talking about promise to marry now...

You are talking about sex. I can never understand some of you!

did you bother to read what the person I quoted said before jumping on my mention? She is comparing the case of a guy that promised a gal marriage and ended up not marrying her with someone that got paid damages after a gal ate his money without showing up. Are they thesame?

saphiere:
So a lady promises a guy she was going to visit him. She later didn't go and was sued and made to pay damages.

On the other hand, a guy promises a lady marriage and did not marry her and she cannot sue him. Like seriously?

For those who would say that the former scenario collected money and refused to go visit him, also note that the latter collected sxxx and refused to marry her.

sex is intangible and it's mutually beneficial.

bigpriik:
I don't even care if you call me broke it's all manipulation.

women think calling men broke,stingy, unromantic will make us do their bidding. Na mvmv man dey take such words from women as insult. One called me stingy and unromantic yesterday,and I said "Thank you."

This life no get manual...who e favour go think say na him smart pass. There are people that rarely make effort,yet make progress while others toil day and night yet nothing to show for it. Do your best and leave the rest.

correctguy101:
Huh... I don't know what it'll be like. But I'm sure I'll prefer to kick jerrycan if I'm ever reduced to that. What's the point of living? I was once dependent
on mummy and daddy because I couldn't even think for myself let alone handle normal human matters. So after being able to take care of myself and others, I'll now let my own Royal Self revert to such helplessness? I might not tell anyone but I'll surely exit myself from existence...

I know I'm very casual with things like that as I've explored it before just to check something about myself back when I was younger.

You think like me bro....if it ever gets to that point for me,I would gladly exit myself.

Una still dey do relationship for this 2025?Make Una dey play. Thank God say I don wash my hand commot. I no dey like deceive myself.

Tendd:
You need a proper health and not necessarily alot of money.What is happening to all us men? Every one is talking only about money for longevity.The true elixir of life is a consistent exercise and this does not require much money.

Money dey very important...if you come dey physically fit and money to take chop no dey,no be misery be that?

Kobojunkie:
What is described in the OP has nothing to do with nature, but the result of human action, or in this case, inaction. This is the typical end of men who refuse to bond emotionally, mentally, and physically with their children and wives, or with their siblings and friends. This phenomenon has been studied, and yes, there is a male loneliness epidemic today, a result of the pattern of refusal by many men to connect in meaningful ways with their very friends and family when the chance to do so was before them. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Trying to further brainwash your baby boys into worshipping you will not remove the problem. Men need to learn to become emotionally and socially intelligent human beings, like humans are supposed to be. The onus is on men to learn to become better human beings overall, so they can connect with their fellow human beings on a level that best works for the species; stop expecting that you can use others to do the work for you. 🥱🥱

just dey play...A man can still do all you listed and end up lonely. In a world where a man is valued for what he can provide,the day he stops providing,all friendships are gone. The best bet for a man is on himself and his money.

Kalatium:
There’s a man in my neighborhood whose story has stayed with me.

Years ago, his home was a hub of life. Teenagers everywhere. Music blasting. Laughter spilling into the street. Young boys full of promise, respect, and energy. A mother holding the center. A family in motion.

Fast forward to today and the house is silent.

One son is gone. Another has relocated. The wife and daughters have moved on. What remains is a man sitting alone behind a gate, cooking for himself, washing his own clothes, watching the days pass without the noise that once defined his life.

This is a reality we rarely discuss.

We talk about career growth. We talk about wealth. We talk about legacy.

But we almost never talk about male loneliness in old age.

For many men, life slowly narrows: Children grow up. Homes empty out. Visits reduce. Attention fades.

Mothers are remembered, celebrated, visited with gifts and affection. Fathers, too often, are left behind quietly enduring, saying little, asking for nothing, but feeling everything.

This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness.

Sons: Your father may not say much. He may act distant or grumpy. But he wants connection too. He wants to feel seen.

Daughters: Celebrate your fathers, not just on special days, but in ordinary moments. Presence matters more than presents.

Fathers: Be kind to your wives. Be warm with your children. Emotional deposits made today compound in old age.

Because here’s the uncomfortable truth: No promotion, no achievement, no title prepares a man for an empty house.

Old age doesn’t arrive suddenly, it creeps in quietly.

And how we love, show up, and stay connected today determines whether later years feel full… or painfully hollow.

This is not just a family issue. It’s a societal one.

Let’s do better while there’s still time.

it's not new...a man's life has always been a lonely one. It only gets worse with age and lack of money. People only come around a man mainly for what he can provide. It's a sad reality we have to face. The old and lonely men you see today are like that because they no longer have money. Even if dangote gets to 100years,he will not be lonely because he has what people can benefit from. In all you do as a man,make sure to have money. Na only your money fit save you last last.

Psoul:
Please, how old are you again?
When you ppl make some comments that can only be attributed to a kindergarten, we will need to verify your age to know who we are arguing with and know the level we'll need to come down to in order to respond to your label of understanding.

If you wouldn't mind, how old are you?

It's low IQ to assume you are wiser than someone just because you are older. Idiats also grow old.