AreaFada2: My brother, once you are sure that your kids are indeed yours DNA wise, forget the rest. The whole thing don cast long ago. I pity those guys who over trust women.
dna na for pikin when u no understand.if I even carry my kids go dna lab the lab pll go tell me say no need.if u see my kids u don see me.
Please under what form of arrangement can a father have kids and take ownership of them? Cos I think most time, women usually lay claim to the kids. I'm talking of Western countries now.
we no Dey western world.if I give girl belle I go collect my pikin.Nthg that happens abroad happens in Nigeria.it’s like those one dem Dey say after divorce the woman and the man will share the man property u don see am once here.all my guys when don divorce pursue thier wife’s comot for their house.we no Dey abroad bros.
JooEeL: Haa bro, take heart. Especially that your 7 year uni relationship own. That is completely heartbreaking. If you didn't catch her or anything, probability is she'd keep acting as saint. Guys are stupid, I agree. But you see girls ehn...them bad. I have seen too much and I have realised that it is only when a woman is out of league (like grown old), is when her cheating tendencies subside.
As for your wife's clearing of chats, this is a big big red flag. As in very very big. If the cheating tendencies are little, she'd delete specific messages in a chat. But clearing chats, haah, red flag bro. See I dont blame men who cheat...after all, na we dey suffer pass for rlnshp. If u are broke, how many women go look ur side? When u were broke hustling, women were enjoying their sexual life, having multiple body counts. Now wey you make am, small at least, them go want make u loyal with them, when your own sexual value don high and their own don dey wane?
Lemme tell u a very short story. I lived in one of the Yoruba southwestern states that begins with "O". In my compound, there were a lot of girls...mostly undergradj. There was a girl like this, I'd say in her early 20's (back then o)...she was in a serious relationship. Her guy was serving in another state and the guy comes once in a while to see his babe. When this guy is coming, he'd buy a lot of stuff for his woman, sing his woman's praises. But this guy never knew that his babe used to party and come back real late in the night. And moves about with other guys. Honestly, I have no proof that she was cheating...but mehn, I can stake money on that. Besides hanging recklessly or keeping late nights with guys already counts as cheating in my own book.
Back to my own prev relationship story. That my own babe wey been cheat on me that year, na religious spirikoko. At some points, she'd wake me up in the night and tell me I should pray with her. She would force me to go to church, which I reluctantly did. This my babe go dey speak in tongues if she dey pray this that... So one day like that, my babe just go lagos come back. She was preparing for Youth service so she went to lag to get prepared. Then something strange happened. 95 times out of 100, Im the one that always initiates sex with this ma girl. So that fateful day, she just dragged me to the bed. This was the day she just returned from lag o. She started kissing me and told me its time for sex. It was quite strange and I kept my cool but was excited too cos I hadn ot had sex in like 2 months. So when it was time for d sex as I wan wear condom as is our custom, ma babe just told me let's do it raw. She held me, and for like the first time in a long long while, she made moans. After the sex, I asked her why she acted so into me and the sex, and she told me that she had missed me during the break and her body really needed it. So you see all those extra moans, all those slight strange behaviours, all those little extraordinary things, those are signs you have to pick up as a man to tell a cheating partner.
In my mind, I said no wahala but my 6th sense began to seriously kick in. I observed our hangars and saw new panties and bra. First sign: when a lady wants to cheat, especially with a new partner, they dont like their undies being old, wrinkled, faded etc. They are not so comfortable with a new man with old undies; they'd reserve the usage of the old for you. Two, our eyes met and I stared for a while and she said "Why are you looking like me like that" in a suggestive tone. 3. I looked at the "Frequently Contacted" on her phone and saw the signs. 4. When a particular call kept coming through days after, she'd hesitantly pick the call in my presence and would even say "Why this guy dey disturb me sef?". 5. One day I pretended not to be around and hid somewhere close to the house and I spotted her picking a call (likely with the same number) and her countenance was different than the one she'd put off while I was around. (My babe was trying to sell me into ignoring the red flag).
But with all these signs, do you know I was still stupid and remained faithful to this babe? We started having issues. My trust went down but I kept hoping it wasn't what I was thinking. Do you know it was until 10 months later I got the confession of her mouth? I came to nairaland that fateful day several years ago and some thread was giving hints on behaviours of cheating partners. I can't remember what they were but they were not new anyways. But it was the confidence in which the author kept saying guys who have girlfriends will keep pretending theirs is different...that it cannot happen to them. It was as if the werey was talking to me. So I just put up a call to my bae then, she was in Lagos too. And I just confronted her that I knew she had been cheating and all that, that I recorded her calls (bla bla put up some more lies like that), and she started to write that may God forgive her. That she had to do it, that she's so sorry.
Bro, when the chats started flowing in, my eyes couldn't believe what it was seeing. I don't want to give too many details just because this world is a small world sha.
BUT MY BROTHER, FEAR WOMAN OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
lol bro no be woman own e Dey me.na hustle I Dey.it’s difficult to see me sad or moody when I have money.now since I have kids my attention is on my kids.if my wife is smart she would notice that I’m just all for d kids.like a Supreme Court judge,I have ruled on women.but as long as she’s under my roof she has everything she needs o but my mind is not really der.Thank God I’m already married if not with my current mindset I for no marry.i for just born raise my kid rest.na the same thing.
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JooEeL: Bro bless u. I face something of this dilemma too. As difficult as it is, sometimes the best is just to assume the worst happened. To keep trying to deify or assume the saintliness of a woman, especially not around, haa... O le wu. I was once in a relationship where I so trusted ma woman, but in the end when I found out she cheated on me, I nearly ran crazy.
Since then, Ive learned to cut short my expectations and frankly, should even do more. Dont trust too much; dont believe too much. If you plan to remain faithful, make sure to ask questions from her. From time to time, prod her. You better don't listen to the extremely foolish advice of people saying dont bother about what your wife does in her absence, dont investigate this, that.
From time to time, call her. Ask her how she satisfies her sexual drive. Ask her simple things like has she visited a man since you've been absent. Who has toasted her. Ask for screenshots of her home chat interface. More importantly, watch the body language. Most will deny at first. But if you persist (once in a while, I mean, not everyday o)... if she's the type with some form of conscience... you will spot the guilt on her face, in her voice...or she may just spit it out... (like in one of my older relationships). From there on, whatever you choose to do is entirely up to you.
Na nigeria cause all dis nonsense sha. Our women were not like this before. Poverty has made more women susceptible to cheating or prostitution before marriage. The rate at which people (men mostly) travel out just to make ends meet tend to jeopardise relationship and marriages...cos the tend of infidelity increases sharply too. I don't tend to justify men cheating but I can kinda understand because most men have greater financial input in relationships / marriages. But for a woman, after all d sacrifice and money wey man don do, come still go out to cheat...haa my brother, it's heartbreaking.
if I tell u wetin happen to my 7yrs relationship u go weak.we won best couple awards in uni.we were like 5n6.fast foward to nysc I paid her unplanned visit and caught her with a man in her house the relationship crashed immediately.this is someone that when I was close to her house I called her and was asking her how she was faring with my absence she said she can’t wait to see me bla bla bla.then to marriage.i stumbled into my wife’s chat on WhatsApp and saw a cleared chat.o asked her who is this and why was the message cleared.she said it’s our 2yrs old child that cleared the chat.i laughed.not deleted chat o but cleared chat.some adults uptil now don’t know how to clear chat but she said a 2yrs old boy cleared the chat.ok na who is the guy she said it’s her old uni friend that he ran into him when he visited her office.since that day,I removed my mind from her.we are happily married,but I can’t vouch for her anymore.i am not bothered by whatever.i cheat sufficiently so im living my life.in all this one day person go die leave both the wife and kids.i no see anything too special in this life.
Aiel123: They should take campaign and mobilization serious. And sell their candidacy to the voters. It will be tough for them. A 0.001 odd of victory. Obi Influence can only cross over to candidate with goodwill.
wahala.them no get structure they just was thinking voters will vote labor party all the way
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JooEeL: Hookup is not always about money. It can be just for thrill, the excitement or hormones.
No man is always around his wife...and vice-versa. There will be times you will either have to visit your village, get transferred to a different branch, relocate first, travel out etc. That is enough time to do anything.
Even hours of work in a day. If you wake up and leave for work by 6am and you return by 6pm, can you vouch that your woman has done nothing for 12 hours in that day? Multiply that by 5 days of work in a week, and we're looking at 60 complete hours of being separate in just a week. And when you ask them if they've cheated while you were away, they will always come up with 10 reasons why they wouldn't do such. Sometimes you want to believe especially with their innocent face but your guts keep telling you no. At the very least person fit don kiss or smooch her brreasts. After all, the women / wives cheating are not aliens. They're peoples' wives too but everyone wan deceive himself say no o, hin own dey different.
If she goes to her own work too, let's say she's a teacher. Can you guarantee what happens before getting to work? What about during break time? Or if she gets into a tinted ride with her fellow teacher? Baba, na hookup be that too na. She may still get cash / gifts ontop only that as an elderly woman, she may not get into specific money figures as demand.
We are all in trouble, baba mi.
except she wan just enter another person car my wife use the highest of cars in her office.i no Dey reason am o I’m always out of the country.i have 3 kids boys.i believe I have succeeded honestly anyone she like do e no really concern me again.after all if man eventually die leave her Shebi she go begin fork anyhow.who Dey bother em self about women na em know.
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u didn’t make an error u are just an ungrateful person.from commissioner to vp it was only made possible by tinubu.keep disrespecting him but remember by ur own strength u can’t win councilor in ur village.
SadiqBabaSani: how many Governors where loyal Atiku when he lost in 2019? pls tell
Was PDP not in power when it lost power in 2015? I think it is you PDP and APC guys that will be shocked because it will be too hard to believe OBI won, but that would be yhe reality
Aiel123: I know tribal politics works but a robust party structure complements it. You know if sdp had fielded Onowakpo,he would have lost even in Isoko. That's my point.( APC has structure to some extent) My own worry for Sherrif is internal sabotage... Else than that he's good to go. How do you see the central voting in the guber polls? I do hope I'm not stressing you.
im enjoying the analysis God go bless una.why is nobody talking about labor party candidates running for house of assembly and reps.can’t they use Obi name to cross over?
Ruggedniggaone: Op better save your tears till Feb after obi don loose election,ode op what electoral value does obi that can't win any election for his party since he left Apga have?you go com nairaland they yarn dust thinking everyone here is as stupid and foolish as you
bros I Dey look them.they didn’t listen to soludo.i have never seen where someone will want to win Nigeria and has not won his state.not even a councilor is loyal to Obi in anambra.obidents are delusional
Honjoshy4u: 4) the writer is one of Omoagege zombie. Omoagege is a mace thief/tug. E pain am say Deltans are Sheriffied. You should be more worried of Soludo de-marketting Obi.
bros leave this ppl.emergency unit of fmc go full the eve when they announce election results.i just Dey look them Dey laugh.
SadiqBabaSani: Immediate past Governor of Delta State Chief Uduaghan allegedly endorsed Okowa for Vice President and Sheriff for Governor and I need to emphasise that, since Uduaghan has failed to realise that power shift to South and competence is the focal objective in 2023, let me state that:
1. Ex Governor Uduaghan has almost Zero electoral value.
2. PDP Delta State failed to Present a tested technocrat such as Edevbie for Governorship after forcing Sheriff on Deltans, at the moment PDP Delta is so terribly polarized that they cannot even present a common front.
3. 80% of Deltans are Sympathetic to Peter Obi : This will reduce the influence of PDP greatly,personally for Senate, I did vote Joel Onowakpo of APC, yes APC, 2023 is about personalities and not parties.
cc: Efewestern nlfpm
joel will fail.Obi will fail.delta will be delta and heaven will not fall.
JooEeL: Even married ones are into it. Why you dey do like jewman na?
lol I never hear this one.how married woman go Dey do hook up again.for cash or for fun?cos my wife doesn’t lack cash.but sex I no come know as I’m not always around
jimcaddy: And to the foolish men who patronize them, especially married men, continue. There is market for it, that's why do many women are into it, even those that have well paying jobs. Nigerian men pay the most for sex in the whole world. I don't understand why you cannot decide to stick to one woman. Many of our men want to sleep with every thing in skirt and jeans. Honestly Nigerian men matter don tire me.
I no Dey fit.this week alone I chase 10 girls away for that tendency.
no be some.all Nigerian girls now do hook up.all I mean no exception.i gave up when I met over 10 and they told me the same thg.I don’t have sex for Nthg love is a scam.if u sleep with me u must settle me.same response from about 10ppl in one week.i don’t ask girls out anymore I have given up.i pity the guys that are not married.
Beautiful94: Lol, why do i find this funny? You want to deal with your wife simply because she is crushing on one actor that she might never get to meet?
if u leave my wife and the mumu guy in one room in less than 20 mins my wife go give her so me go fork my wife up for showing that tendency.i no go gree o
Romance › Re: Some Girls Are Now Shamelessly Into Hookup by highchief1: 5:14pm On Nov 13, 2022
So I just put up a call to my bae then, she was in Lagos too. And I just confronted her that I knew she had been cheating and all that, that I recorded her calls (bla bla put up some more lies like that), and she started to write that may God forgive her. That she had to do it, that she's so sorry.