₦airaland Forum

Bobodee09:
Well you part of the lucky ones out there.

Most of us need to really sweat it out to make the cash every month.

no born more than two kids.and don’t over upgrade your life.i drive a 2014 car I can buy a 2024.Most of the time we start what we can’t finish.life no to hard na we Dey stress ourselves.i refuse to put my kids in the most expensive school even though I can afford it.i no Dey do pass myself and this have saved me from pressure a great deal.

Bobodee09:
Is so bad that has a married man you can't even buy yourself new wears.

Throughout last year I couldn't get myself a new set of jeans trouser even tho I needed it badly despite having the money.
All the money I made last year 90% when into paying bills and household expenses.
It so crazy how you has a man you will have over 200k in your acc and you be scared to even buy yourself something of 10k cos of fear of the unknown.
In all of this my wife and kids still has many clothes they haven't worn I paid for you.

Last weekend my wife bought herself over 10 new shirt and when I saw it I reminded her how I couldn't even buy myself new jean....she told me nah me no wan buy nah.
It really hurt me cos whatever money I make the family expenses come first before my own personal needs but it isn't same for women.

I just feel marriage is design for men to suffer honestly.
People just taking from you and no one really care about what you need.

change ur ways.na u Dey stress yourself like ur wife rightly said.Learn to balance life.i take care of my family and I take good care of myself.

Bobodee09:
This advise goes especially to married men and men in general.

Don't put yourself under unnecessary pressure or take up loans to maintain a certain lifestyle.

I just lost an area senior bros this morning, the news didn't come as shock cos he has been in the hospital for a while and his BP refused to come down.

He is man in his late 40's married with 4 kids. This man was under alot of pressure to meet end means, he took up too many loans just to maintain his living standards to please his family.

The last time I visited him in general I also checked my BP and it was very high, I was also under pressure myself to meet target.
When I got home I promised myself I wont die young to please anyone.
I will do my best and leave the rest cos at the end no one really care all they want to do is take from you as a man.

Married men enjoy yourself, take care of yourself, buy what you want. You can't be working everyday and be suffering to please your wife and kids.

The men who die young are the ones who always labour and don't take care of themselves, you see men who only provide what they have and take care of themselves they live longer.

We are in this mess together trust me....those people you think are doing better have alot of loans on their neck. So don't let anyone push you by comparing you to them.

If what you provide isnt enough or appreciated tell your wife to also provide or take her leave.

pray to have enough.family doesn’t take too much.I have been married for years.my house doesn’t not lack anything,I am also taking good care of myself and enjoying my outside life.Life is all about balancing.

InfoGuru118:
https://news360ng.com/man-caught-with-girlfriends-severed-body-remanded-to-prison-custody/

girls are mad.thank God I no born girl.how can a normal human being be dating someone like this.

omochelsea004:
Hi guys, I have been thinking within me & I am really curious about this subject matter, can a man contract STD/STI or any form of infections by receiving mouth action (BJ) raw? Irrespective of the status of the lady involved, I am not talking about giving girls, I am talking about receiving from girls

na std kill Jnr pope?ifeanyi ubah,wigwe and family.how many ppl una know when hiv sef don kill.we worry too much over this Thgs.when the real death go show u go know say std na child’s play.currently in Nigeria renal issues is taking more life than any std.i am a careful person but not a fearful person.death will still happen someday

Upritman:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6lfrYJUKmlY?si=C6ISWPZbiw6o8jhG

Residents of Aleto and the Council Boss of Eleme LGA in Rivers State, Hon Brain Gokpa have blamed the Federal Government for its inability to complete the east-west road where an incident occurred which led to the drowning of an Expatiate on the Aleto bridge, for which the remains have been recovered.

A report indicate that the incident happened while the driver of the Hilux Vehicle was reportedly trying to escape from kidnappers who targeted the vehicle along the Eleme axis of the East-West Road.

The Aleto Bridge very close to the Refinery has since been physically distressed with fear of total collapse someday.

Despite the repeated calls for its repair, the Federal Government was yet to take any meaningful action.

The east road which runs across the Aleto Bridge is a critical route for several multinational companies operating in the area, but it has been neglected by the government, leading to countless losses of lives and property at various times preceeding today's incident.

Speaking on the incident, Chief Gokpa said, "This accident is avoidable. It is a direct result of the poor state of the road, which has been neglected by the federal government despite our repeated appeals".

Chief Gokpa also emphasised that the government's inaction is not only costing lives but also undermining the economic development of the region. "It is unacceptable that despite the presence of several multinational companies in the area, the government has failed to provide a safe and reliable road network," he said.

The Rivers State Commissioner of Police, CP Olugbenga Adepoju, has also visited the scene.

The details of the Expatiate remains sketchy as at press time. But there is an unconfirmed report that the deceased was among the Expatiates brought in by Gov Sim Fubara to revamp the Songhai Farm project in the State.

Source: https://dinfohut.com/residents-council-boss-blame-fg-as-expatiate-drowns-on-failed-bridge-in-rivers/?amp=1

I went to auchi yesteday from Asaba.i bet u,umahi deserve to sentenced to death by hanging.u are doing coastal highway when we have such roads in Nigeria.My car will not recover from what it saw yesterday.Hell fire 🔥 is sweeter than that road.

sreamsense:
For how long now have you been mentally sick because I need to know in order to offer you better advice? How can you quote message you don't understand where it began? You saw my message you quoted was a quote to someone else, then; sensible thing for you to do in that regard is to click on the moniker of someone I first quoted so it can take you to the source of the message for better understanding of current discussion and response before you just talked rubbish. How has your submission in line with our point of discussion? Next time use your brain well to avoid talking ignorantly on matter you don't understand and still bragging in ignorance

ok sir.

Paramount01:
I can take car loan to buy Uber and pay my child's school fees from it .

ok

Cousin9999:
https://nypost.com/2025/01/07/health/colon-cancer-survivor-shares-the-5-signs-she-ignored/

make una stop to make person fear.if death come person go rest.

Kennyswag:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/1/billionaire-internet-fraudster-sentenced-to-two-years-imprisonment-in-abuja-2.html

billionaire with 25m used car.Mad people everywhere.

zero8zero:
Illiterate, there are over 20 ministries. Each ministry with its own projects. If you want to pay school fees, Education ministry is giving NELFUND, if you want car loan, finance ministry is giving CreditCorp. But to say loan can't be used for road infrastructure, we have to review your education.

ok

zero8zero:
See this illiterate, loans can't be used for road infrastructure?

when other sectors are good.me and u the people for nairaland go need tell who be the fullll here.can u take car loan when u have not paid ur kids fees.or is it that u don’t know how bad the country is now.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/Nigerian-Govt-gets-$255m-Chinese-loan-for-Kano-Kaduna-railway-project

them Dey use loan do road.?tinubu is so wasteful

BonPatrick:
Good evening guys please there is a new tenant I let in and she is beautiful and I am in love with her and want to woo her in a week time, is it wrong to date her?

u don’t mix business with pleasure.me no Dey try am.

InfoGuru118:
The Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Nyesom Wike, has shared his joy as his son, Jordan Wike, successfully graduated from Queen Mary University of London with a Master of Laws (LLM), News360 Nigeria reports.this

Wike disclosed the achievement in a post on X.com on Tuesday, expressing pride in his son’s academic milestone.

He wrote, “Happy to witness, alongside my wife, the graduation ceremony of our son, Jordan, who just earned a Master of Laws (LLM) degree at Queen Mary University of London, UK.

“As a father, I am happy for the progress Jordan is making in the pursuit of his career.”

https://news360ng.news/wike-celebrates-sons-graduation-with-master-of-laws-in-uk-photos/

wike and family does not reflect the kind of money they have.Lookimg at their pics,I no sure say u like be like them.Now e clear say Everyting no be money

PetersKID:
The FCT Minister, Chief Barrister Nyesom Wike, alongside his wife, Justice Eberechi Nyesom Wike, attended the graduation ceremony of their son, Jordan, who just earned a Master of Laws (LLM) Degree at the Queen Mary University of London, UK.

"As a father, I am happy for the progress Jordan is making in the pursuit of his career." the FCT Minister said.

wike and family not looking good at all.whats all this money sef.me and my family wey no get reach them better pass them o

Rapmoney:
Graphic images and video of police rescue team evacuating roasted bodies from the tanker explosion at Agbor in Delta State.

Watch the video here:

https://www.facebook.com/reel/948807430566158/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

The images and video are really gory. Viewer's discretion is advised.

Agbor Benin and Warri and cities that need cleansen.

Glimpsetv:
A man who fled without paying after purchasing fuel valued at over ₦58,000 has been apprehended and is now in police custody.

The individual, identified as Abilomu Adedoyin, was captured on video speeding off from the fueling station after the transaction.

IMPORTANT: The vehicle he used was purchased in 2023, but the registration details, including the plate number, remain under the name of the previous owner.

Previously: https://www.nairaland.com/8309413/ekiti-filling-station-shares-cctv

crime just Dey some people body.if u no go fit drive ur car enter keke.

Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/01/defending-tinubus-govt-easiest-thing-to-do-bwala/

bwala means mad dog in my language.this man acts like one.

sreamsense:
Canada population is about 40 million while California state in US is about 39 million plus

na sense u no get.is kano state bigger than Lagos state?when did population and size of land mass become the same thing.america is much more bigger than Canada but not to say one state in America is bigger than an entire country.

Nahunger:
Take your frustrations somewhere else 😂😂😂😂
Your full statement is gibberish

ok

Nahunger:


To go do what in Thailand ntori oloun 😂😂😂
Even Southy, Morocco, Egypt no even dey my visiting list, so person go use him hard earned money go all these sh!thole countries tufiakwa

South Africa made us.dey ur mama house Dey eat eba and ewedu soup.

Skooltynz:
This man is really going through a lot despite his billions is politics really worth it?

he must be a very stubborn man that does not listen.i know his wife will not be enjoying all this drama.all he needed was a break from politics.his health needs urgent attention.this man go sleep one day e no go wake.i feel sad cos I like him.But he does not know when to stop.Obiano,udom and co.some governors are smart.after office they went to rest.Politics will eventually kill this man

Oshin56:
Tinubu will use and dump Wike..

wike health no even Dey good for such shock.wike is managing his body.If I were him I’ll leave all this struggle and face my health first.Obiano finished and relocated back to America,nobody sees Udom anymore.wike is over doing it.To die no hard o I Dey fear for am.

Oshin56:
He miss calculate it, He thought Fubara was a slowpoke and if care is not taking If this issue enter ending of 2025-2026 Tinubu will choose Fubara over Wike..

yes na my fear be that.tinubu na mafia.I am not sure wike is seeing this.He is not playing the game well.as Fubara don betray u,u for lock up wait for am election time.He would have pretended as if he wasn’t pained.this is how tinubu manages Lagos governors.

Jerrynet:
Fubara was never a wrong pick. You see if God wants to deliver a nation or a state, he can even use the weakest to subdue the strongest. What you see in Rivers State is the answer to the prayers of the civil servants who were hitherto subjected to modern slavery.

im not from rivers state we just Dey observe the whole thing from outside.Wike might be humiliated in 2027.If plenty people plan u e dey hard

GistMedia0:
Is it true that the Marine Kingdom has allegedly released strange women into the world, as claimed by Dr. Daniel Kolawole Olukoya, the General Overseer of the Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries (MFM), in one of his New Year prophecies? If so, how can these women be identified?



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/01/2025-marine-kingdom-has-injected-strange-women-into-the-world-mfms-olukoya-warns-men/

I saw one in Lagos last week o

Frigga13:
GEJ, Patience , Odili, secondus, Ameachi .. all the strongmen and elder statemen in Rivers has sailed with fubara

Who be those people seated with this drunk?

Maybe Yoruba people?

They Yoruba cheering him will come and make him relevant in Rivers state . After insulting Rivers elders

2027 go sweet die

e no go easy for wike o.make dem no even kill am.wike missed it in 2023.fubara was a wrong pick.

Fem120:
Aspa say NL na your papa house abi,arindin

no post that rubish again

Fem120:
6 months used , buy & drive, nothing to fix, Excellent Engine & Gear


Price:14m
Ibadan
08109265027

bring 13m make I give u the toks red exactly like this.i get 3 pieces.Una go smoke Igbo finish enter nairaland.

Mirasteel:
I know someone personally that built a very good duplex for such amount and furnished with 15 million, 75 million Naira in total.

keep quiet.I used Spanish tiles not aba tiles.only tiling alone took me over 25m.Do u think is what u spend on building Davido will spend.fear go let u buy one light 💡 2m.chandelier.Why do u think eveey duplex is a duplex.