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UnfairLife7:
if you like beat your wife, you go sleep for cell for days. If your wife is too naive to stand for herself your neighbour will do that for her

Everyone is not an idiot like you.

I don’t support violence.
But who will speak for the man?

Madam, I really feel bad for you. Hitting you wasn’t right. But you could have reported him to his people or your people or elders; especially if this is the first time.

In this part of the world, we men are quite egoistic. The man’s ego has been bruised and he will never forgive you earlier except the spirit of wisdom intervenes.

Please get the family elders to intervene.
They will caution him not to hit you again and you may have to appease the gods.

I know lots of people will say you did nothing wrong; remember they are in their houses, typing with their phones.

Na you de house with an angry man.

Microwhy:
Bro thanks..
I initially wanted to take her side but you opened my mind.

I concur with you.
I had wanted to pity her but when I read this bros comment, I realized I have a woman in the house and honestly, they can be mouthful when a man is cashless.

We only heard her side. We didn’t hear from the man.

UnfairLife7:
trust me i understand what he's going through. I sincerely understand. I am not a married man but his condition isn't completely different from mine honestly. Or would you consider a graduate earning 20k with lots of dependants (old and young) gainfully employed? Did you know how unhappy and frustrated i am? I can't even had half of the money to myself. Would you expect me to hit my siblings or aged dependant because they're somewhat thorn on my flesh? Or i should be angry at them for giving birth to me in this harsh economy? Or you think they don't offend me in one way or the other? So destroying properties, getting drunk, hitting them will put an end to my worries right?

The worst that probably happened was that he returned home and met no food right? Was that the reason for all that actions? Do you know how many night I've gone to bed with empty stomach while my dependants had something to eat? Do you expect me to cut off their head for not keeping something down for me no matter how little?

I know you might want to say i am not married yet. I should get married first and all that. What makes you feel marriage will change who i am? Like marriage will suddenly make me a violence person?


I don't condole violence no matter the situation.

I agree with your submission.
But take this, marriage can definitely change you. Marriage can make you violent. It takes extra Grace to remain calm in extreme situations.

May God send us help in the days when our strength fail us.

Persephone1:
May we not marry a boy man

Dear Op, my people have an adage it is: Aiki lo kabo ile ejo , ka tun sore. It means we don't come back from court to become friends. Arresting your husband may be right or wrong but what happens when he is released?
If you were arrested as a wife, will you be happy with your husband and let everything go back to normal when you are released?
Especially in this part of the world.

If you still want a happy marriage after a dispute, police station should not be an option. In the sight of the law, you are right but culturally you are not.

Get elders to speak to him, I hope he listens. May God help you. This matter deep i can't think straight self

Very apt reasoning.
You can be legally right but culturally wrong.

I think I have learnt from this comment.
Thank you.

searchng4love:
That is robbery by nipco abuja

Well you can’t outrightly say that especially if you have not factored in the cost of materials used in this process. Some of the materials are not local made.

So just look for a cheaper place sha.

I have good technicians who can handle this CNG operation. But it’s in Abuja.
Price is 500k.

So I was getting ready for work when a staff of AEDC knocked at my door; as usual, his left hand was filled with loads of paper and he hung his bag like a Jambite. This time he wore no worn-out facecap.

Well, I didn’t exchange pleasantries with him because I know he has not brought any good tidings with him so I waited for the breaking news. Lo and behold, it was another progressive increment in bill.

I asked him why the continuous increment and he gave a fake smile and said “I don’t know, write to NEC”. Like who da hell is NEC if that is the right spelling of what you mean?

He was mute and I went on to pick the bill from him and dialed the customer care number on the bill, but it didn’t connect. I chatted them on WhatsApp and the creature behind the keyboard told me to get a prepaid. I reminded the creature that several applications have been made.

Nigeria matter don tire me.
How is the bill in your area?

The way these our representatives play with us eh…. They don’t even have any considerations for the people.

I don’t blame Wike.
It was time for the southeastern people to flush some bad eggs especially Abia state.
Governor Ortom predicted his doom.

How true is this information?
Well, if His Excellency, Former Governor Peter Obi truly hired 20 SANS, then INEC had better be ready with strong evidence.
That man always win court cases.

This is to let us know that the man Peter Obi is truly a force to be reckoned with. If his presence in Labour Party has made others victorious, then, it is not unwise to admit that he is not just an inspirational leader but a king maker.

God please rest his soul.
For every cabal behind this continuous insecurity, I pray that God repay them in their own coin.

saphiere:
I am Igbo. Enugu precisely. I got this to say.
When you do the same thing over and over you will definitely get the same result.
Men have been governing us since 1960 and nothing comes out. Give chance to the female folks let's see if there would be a chance.
After all, Queen Esther changed the history of her people.

What is the correlation between your comment and the post? More so, what does your tribe or gender got to do with national impact?
You’re just not ready to do any great thing.

Breaking news:- Nobody will give you a chance, you either force your way into it or keep lamenting.

EDOLUWA:
Comedian😁

Poor masses

The end is almost here.
Brace up obedients.
Victory is on the way

Obi is a strong man.
I wish him all the best.

This Freeze guy thinks he is wise in biblical and spiritual matters.
He’s just a loud fool who whose ignorance stinks to high heavens.

You think giving to Parents is about solving their financial problem hence irrelevant if they are rich. You err in your understanding.

Giving to Parents is an act of honour that causes a transmission of spiritual heritage capable of securing the future of the giver.

You don’t know this and because lots of folks don’t read the scripture, they listen to you.
A typical situation of the blind leading the blind.

I wish him quick recovery.

Everything revolves around our health.
No health = No Vision No work No life.

The fate of mortals

Sapiosexuality:
Same applies to you. That you think it is bad even without showing how does not mean that is wrong. We can't have an objective truth based on the words of a subjective moral being, your God, when there other Gods that say otherwise. The solution is to look at it outside the confines of closed subjective thinking and philosophically dissect it.

You think life is philosophy?
Did your philosophy explain to you the architectural framework and the possibility that gave you breath and explain tripartite dimension of mortality carved from the wisdom of the council of the Elohim?

You think your perusal of some textbooks and mortal opinions qualifies you to compare Jehovah God with mere gods?

How dare you bring such infantile and ignorant comparison to include Elohim, the only being that was not created and exist in himself.

There is nothing like subjective and objective truth.

Truth is Truth.

I do not want to bring you the judgement of God but I know that not so many days from now, you will encounter strange things that will shift your perspectives.

For now, enjoy your day!

Sapiosexuality:
I'm sorry this doesn't explain how it is wrong. The soulish explanation at best explains what makes cheating wrong. As for premarital sex between two people who agreed to sleep each other there is no hurt because there's no betrayal.

For the fact that you don’t see anything wrong with premarital sex doesn’t mean that it is right.

The fact that some people don’t like President Buhari doesn’t mean he isn’t the president.

The laws will catch up on you whether you acknowledge it or not.

For now, happy premarital sexing.

Sapiosexuality:
It doesn't make sense that it only has to be with someone you are not married to. Why is it so? If the idea was that having multiple partners has the propensity to make you infected with bad energy it will make some sense but guaranteeing it and assuming marriage for simply been marriage wouldn't, doesn't make any sense. How do you explain that?

I get you bro.
Let’s break it down in scenarios.

We have established that If you engaged in sex with someone you ain’t lawfully married to (fornication for singles, Adultery for married folks) you exchange diverse energy.

Scene 1: You’re married, both of you are COMMITTED to each other. What happens is that the energy exchange is monogamous and it’s effect can be tracked.

Scene 2: You have a girlfriend/boyfriend whose loyalty you can’t attest, even if you’re loyal to this person, their own energy is mixed up with the people they tangle with and if you have intercourse with them, their mixed energy is superimposed on you.

Scene 3: Multiple Partners
If you have multiple partners, then you’re even lost because you interact with people of different energy which you can’t even define the sources of their energy, the mixed components of their energy and also their energy level.

Why do people frown, cry, felt hurt, end relationships, when their partner cheats on them?

Their private part wasn’t stolen during the cheating process nor did their partner remained there. So why are they hurt?

Morally, you say its not right but soulishly, the energy the shared with their partner has been distorted, the soulish empire they built with this person has been occupied by a stranger, so they are hurt! Because in the soul realm energy is monogamous, it can only allow for change in forms but not mixture.

If you were a science student, you will understand better. Water (H2o) can be solid, liquid, and gaseous at different energy level but it is still water.

So God knew these things and even more, the He gave us a law to abstain from sexual immorality. He encouraged us instead to get married and have our own partner.

Funny enough, premarital sex or fornication as it’s biblically called won’t stop you from making heaven but if you keep on it, you risk opening your soul to stuffs that may impede you on this mortal plane.

Happy Sunday.
Sorry my explanation is long.

Sapiosexuality:
What exactly is logically wrong with premarital sex?

Biblically, it opens your soul to demonic interference and operations.
When you engage in sex with someone you’re not married to, you exchange not just bodily fluids but also soulish attributes.

Just imagine how possible it is in the physical to contact HIV when you sleep with the person.

Your soul also contacts things too.

Your spirit maybe saved but your soul maybe in bondage.

Show me a woman who smokes and made a good mother without desisting from the despicable habit.

This is very sad.

Imagine the tears in the family of the Lagos-based lawyer that was killed recently; then imagine the trauma of this children their parents were snatched away without a goodbye. The direction of the kids have been automatically changed by wicked and unreasonable people who could have averted this death if they drove carefully.

If you know how many way devil can use to kill you in this country, you won’t leave your house without a prayer.

Supreme145:
Una too get wahala for here...if girls bill you call them leeches, the few ones that are considerate and show concern you tag them pretenders. Someone that her dad stays abroad and sends her monthly allowance cant save 15k again.

Stop attending to so many opinions regarding your post. If you know that your babe is a kind person who loves you and you like her, kindly take it to God in prayer.
If her intentions towards you are good, with time she will find favour with your mom.
Since Mom is spiritual, you should be spiritual too.

Foolish people.
Lots of youths in that state are very Lazy.
Next they will blame Igbo people for taking over their lands and building several businesses.

But when they had the opportunity, they used it for cultism.

May God help them.

Good one for the APC.
I wish them luck.
My vote is queuing behind His Excellency, Peter Obi.

Barims:
I rather sell my soul to the devil and enjoy life, than to devote it to one useless coward being that called itself God

I pray for you that your ignorance will be dismantled and that God’s marvelous light will shine on you. That the word of God will find free course to you and makes you what it talks about.

I pray that you experience the peace that comes from Jesus Christ and be guided on the right steps to take in order to make your way prosperous.

I pray that Understanding will be given to you that you grasps the love of God and see the futility of this physical life.

I pray for you, that sudden death, and all arrows of death will be far from you, so that you can know that God dwells in the affairs of men and see reasons to worship him.

Lastly, I pray that your heart receives healing, your mind receives peace, your head enjoys favour, and your legs experience speed.

In Jesus name, Amen.

Good one.

Now that you have achieved your dream, use it to impact the world. That is where fulfillment will be realized.

Your dream is useless if lives are not positively influenced.

Congratulations!