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I won't say anything.

I won't say anything.

I won't say anything.

ahnie:
Oh please shut your gutter mouth if you don't have anything sensible to say.

cry cry and cry. Gutter woman.

CrazyMan:
If I may ask whats your job as a wife?

Most conflicts in marriages today arise because most of you dumb females don't even know your role as a wife. You just want a husband that's all and have nothing to offer to him aside from spreading your legs for sex and popping out babies.

When a man spends 30days struggling to earn a living in order to give you a better life, you see it as his responsibility. He leaves the home very early and ensures that enough finance is made available for the home.

Then comes back exhausted and finishes his food and you expect him to clear the plates. If you can't keep him company while he eats and prefer to play the role of a restaurant waiter then you must play it to the fullest by clearing the table when he's done. That's your own responsibility.

May your days be long on Earth.
Some of these ladies have absolute nothing to offer except their smelly pvssy.
They are quick to assert that it is modern life. Look at where modernity has brought marriages to.
Every day in court, you will count cases of divorce. Just because some women refused to act as one and some idiotic men think its modernity.

ahnie:
Some men Sha....
My husband doesn't have that time...I can't vividly remember when last i served him food.

He goes into the kitchen served himself,packs and washes his plate...even cook sef whilst I seat gidigba to eat.

See in between my husband and I we no send..........it's a free world.
Southerners no just send anybody.

You mean South Africa?
Because you have a maid-husband doesn't imply every man from the South is the same.

Davash222:
As long as she served the meal wearing sexy lingeries with her nippless standing firm and upright with her red pant showing vividly coupled with a seductive smile, I'll even wash the plate after eating.
You can't serve me meal wearing tear-tear wrapper smelling fish fish and expect me to carry my plate to the kitchen after eating.

Mad o

It's not bad if it's a voluntary act. But if he has people around, then respect demands that the man of the house enjoys such priviledges.

You have spoken well, Emeka my son.
However, it is wise for a man to calculate the cost of building a house before embarking on one.

Bola146:

You know I'm wrong anyway.

Are you very sure you are not Mad?

Because it's only mad people that tell all these Papa Ajasco stories.

Bola146:
Chai... don't you have any relations? Have you talked to your husband on a quiet time? The mistake you did was to leave your job Pray for him, sit him down, tell him sweet words, let him see the beautiful baby both of You have, go on your knees and beg him. You need to tell your mother what is happening too. The Lord is your strength.

You sound like a good woman abi is my screen disturbing me.

Shebi, they will tell you, people, to pray before marriage, you say na prophet be the best; they said look out for red flag you say na green and white flag you wan see.
Oya, receive Grace to pray and acquire knowledge or endure for life.

Not expensive depending on income.

Ijaycool:
Me that forgets my birthday, have I committed suicide?

Have you ever been married before?
Don't rush to wear a garment just because you have shoulders.

Rapecase:
Funny thing is, you have always been involved in this issue from 2 years ago. It lingers. Our pastors ( the new one and the previous one who was transferred ) and their wives have been involved. A mother we both respect have been involved yet nothing changed.

Getting worst so much that I am beginning to question my own sanity.

I'm sorry that I have to comment despite the numerous responses you have received.
Please, put away the anger and frustration and just pray and talk to her for a window period of 3 months. If her behavior doesn't change for good, deprive her of certain privileges she enjoys as a wife.
You have to be the man who wants his home to work. Stand firm and give that damn instructions, order and directive you need for your home.
Even if you have to ban her from all external communications even phone, please do but don't be physical.
In another two months, if you don't get positive feedback, file a divorce. Yes, file a divorce. Else, you will leave this earth unfulfilled. Marriage ends on earth, so enjoy it don't suffer through it.
May God grant you peace and renew joy again in your life.

RIP papa.
Fear killed you first before hypertension.

She must have been a good child and subsequently a good mother.

This is the source of rising crime in the country.

Louisboy22:
it's very good to be in a relationship with the right person I'm a living witness to that, before i met my girlfriend i used to have different girls as girlfriend gust what i was wasting my time, my money and its was very stressful but since i met my girlfriend i have saved more money, time and less stress

That is a focused life you've got.
Congrats Man.
Hope to join you soon.

Being single is good.
But having a good person(s) around is better.
Life is all about people.

AlhajiImam:
May Allah bless your union and help you to birth many children so we will out number the unbelievers in this country

A believer with poor knowledge. You want to outnumber but no useful contributions to make the country better.
You see your life?

Good one

One idiot down.
Next!!

Can we take this protest to Aso rock and all service chiefs?

GIDIBANKZ:
Why besay na only Actress na dey Buy cars and Build Cars... Watin dey happen to the MEN

Abeg if you knw you knw

Lets gather here

Most men do far better but men don't consider it a public stunt. To them its their responsiblity. But to women, an achievement.

Nice one.
A big well done to Eve.

I'm not a fan of dead living edifice.
You die, Life continues.

Their business.

This Man is a devil.
APC is hell.
Buhari is a devil's representative.

Their evil plan against this nation will backfire. They will be judged by Karma and their paths will be dark and slippery.

There is an internal heat between US and this guys beyond what they tell the media.

SweetCunt97:
Lol. She's his messiah. A sterile man who can't bear children should be grateful that the wife is keeping societal shame away from their home.

He should break up huh? So another unfortunate lady deserves a sterile man ba?

Not really against the lady but the man. I just don't think its right to build a relationship on lies.
Self-deceit is the worst. The man should own to his deficiency and if the lady can go with it, then fine. Don't give lie and expect truth.