Dear Moderator,

is there a way I can delete some people's comment on my post- like the ones I find really stupid. I don't like useless talks but useful suggestions and would like to delete the irrelevant comments on my post. Thanks.

I was talking to you 1one. I asked for useful suggestions not a curse, so you really can keep that other part of your sentence.

I insist there's nothing wrong with exploring at a young age. I didn't toy my ex' head, he allowed the break up when I asked for it.

As for who is leaving and staying at 65, time will tell for those who really give a hoot.

Hey!!! Lasgidi please shut it! Since when did it become a problem to explore alternatives? especially when you're young. So, please shut up if you have nothing useful to say.

Crude Oil- I'm not telling lies and not obliged to convince you otherwise, so add something useful or don't add anything.

You got me smiling, but na serious issue o--- thanks anyway.

Certainly not so far in my life have I imagined that it might be difficult  to decide between two men- I've always thought making decisions was likened to brushing one’s teeth (you always have an option).

I have two wonderful men in my life - one was my ex and the other, is my current. I left my ex 'cos I wanted to see what the outside world had to offer. I met my current 'cos he was supposed to be  the first specimen- told my friend it would last 2 weeks but it's lasting almost 2 years already.

My ex is back because he's met with a number of pastors & prophet-ess (UNSOLICITEDLY) and they've told him that it will be best if I'm part of his life. He is a sweet guy(occasionally), writes for me (really really like) but my pastor said ‘nay’ (spirit led encounter).

My current bf is very desirable -  never met a guy as HOT as him in reality- easy going, cool, collected although inseparable from him first family ( they are the first to know if he's going to get a new car, but I think I can deal with that) but my pastor said ‘yes with a selfish clause’ (spirit led encounter).

Anyways, they're both asking for my hand in marriage and I'm as confused as the Libyan rebels when they saw that they had nuked their own plane, partly due to indecision as to which of these men I should be with and partly due to my semi- anti marriage vibes.

Does anyone have a useful/helpful/reasonable suggestion as to how to reconcile this dilemma?

Very Interesting angles,

I'd like my man to be very reasonable and God fearing. Reasonable in order to be able to make appropriate decisions and God fearing as such decisions wont be selfish.

Plus, he's got to really Care about me.

So sad, My condolences to the family.

@ maedan, abi o

lol. One is for real and the other is just 'dagbo'

:d

I'll be that in mind, NATO. No action, talk only. I was there anyway. hope you are good.

Did any1 on NL attend this symposium?

MAI PP, AW YU NA DEY? HOPE DEGO DEGO?

aNYWAYS, YU GO HELP ME AND THK THE LORD FOR HIS KINDNESS OVER MY LIFE, YU NEED NOT SHOUT, JUST MUTTER TO YOURSELF AND SAY BABA, THX FOR ******** I'M CERTAIN YOU BE GOOD PEOPLE AND GOD GO DEY ADD BLESSINGS UPON YOUR LIVES AS YOU DO SO.

eDOYAD, IM SURE YU'D BE IMPRESSED. HAVENT YU BIN A GOOD MOTIVATOR.

nigeriaon, wonder ke? just wondering, and we become a victim in the process?

e je kin ka oooo, eyin eyan mi NL, E ba mi dupe lowo Oluwa ooo,

Eni ni mo pari idanwo ni ile iwe giga as an undergrad (if there's any Yoruba 4 that).

Anyways, inu mi dun, ayo ni kun a kun wo sile, mi o ti e mo nnkan ti mo le se, ko da, ti gbogbo yin ba gub eshin ninu mi, ko ni igbagbo pe ko ni ko se.

E jowo, ati eyan gidi, ati awon eyan buruku ninu yin, e sha ba mi yin Olorun logo, OGO!!!

e SI BA MI KE HALELU MEJE NAA, E SE PUPO, IRUN E LAA MA BARA WA SE OOO.

Onyx, if by the system you mean the institutions, den im gamed on yur initiative. but this Yar govt is cripple cos it's in its interest, and that morally wrong, that's corruption.

And to think that there are these so many applicants for the US visas only makes me want to collapse, see our children, running away to other abodes, while we sit ere unwavering to positive movements. uhmmmmm,

Adewale, what's wiv the picture?

Anyways, you spoken well.

As I type, there is nothing glorifiable about the current situation in Nigeria and for the last 10yrs 4 that matter. And please, tell that to the nook and crannies of this country. I reckon some pp dont know.

Shanpe, you av a good point. We need to vote for the right people and I blv there are gross of them.

The problem with this movement is none else than the ELECTORAL SYSTEM and CORRUPTION- having a free and fair election is far fetched if we still have appointed block heads as civil servants and ministers. How do you reckon with that?

not to worry, there's gonna be a change, and we r getting there.

thanks Viga, exactly our point.

I dont understand the basis for such threat and bitterness, perhaps, Ribadu's involvement. But nonetheless, it's about a country celebrating her shadow democracy in a few days time, that still stops at nothing to suppress her citizens freedom of speech at every nook and cranny of the world. You dont have an idea how much cost the univz withdrawal has on the organizers.

My state governor is the most useless of all the state governors that Nigeria has ever had.

Formal education may be desirable but i'm certain it's not a prerequisite for common sense. This man highlights complete lack of common purpose with lack of vision, ruggedness and indiscipline. I have written to his office a million times and not even a confirmation was sent 4 their acknowledgement. Have you been to Ibadan lately, My friends argue it's the dirtiest state in Nigeria. Did you hear about the millions of dollars stolen from the boot of his daughter's car? it's countless the counterproductive initiatives of dis guy, Alao Akala, haaaaa, You are nothing but useless.

I just thought to share this now.

There's going to be a symposium on Friday from 9am -5pm at the London Met Uni titled STATE OF THE NIGERIAN NATION

Confirmed Speakers

Prof Wole Soyinka
Mallam Nuhru Ribadu
Jean Lambert, The Green Party MEP
Barrister Femi Falana
Prof Sola Adeyeye
Sowore Omoyele
Sister Affiong Affiong
Okey Ndibe
Kayode Ogundamisi.

This event is being organised by Nigeria Liberty Forum with the support of London Metropolitan University Business School.

LMBS/Nigeria Liberty Forum
Mr Kayode Ogundamisi or Dr Abraham Dalang email:
nlibertyforum@googlemail.com Tel: 07951402986

Media Enquiries for NLF Event.
E-mail: nlibertyforum@googlemail.com Phone + 447984212553 Media Contact Only.

Meanwhile, the Nigerian High Commission has and is currently making a big fuss out of this. They've written to the University threatening to shut down their offices in Nigeria. The University has now withdrawn from sponsoring the programme, but it's still taking place in their auditorium nonetheless. That's how bad it gets at times.

You see what I mean when I say we are getting there, We are getting there.

Much Condolences to the families of those who lost their lifes in the quest for trying to make a meaning of it. I am very proud of them, it's a matter of time b4 we are all gone.

Leave behind legacies that increase payoffs for future generations.

I love every Nigerian that is passionate about positive change HERE, We are getting there.

Proudly 9ja, yu've lost hope n yur still proudly 9ja.

Ndoo ooo, The situation in the prison must have bin really terrible. Freedom is indeed very much desired by all.

But who is free and when is one said to be free, Only when you dead.

George, just lookd thru the thread, some joke! Imagine, These pp should be ashamed of themselves, and their families should hide their faces in shame, but, unfortunately, they are celebrated and treated like kings and queens by d 9ja media and ignorant Nigerians.

pp yu shud hiss n spit at wheneva their names are called or when yu cum across dem on the streets.

Ruuuuubbish.

I understand you have to live to die. Democracy in Nigeria is yet unborn and therefore impossible to have bin killed except the Military regimes committed accelerated abortions. Now, that's the vital bit.

The abortion that the first military govt had disrupted the system systematically with continuous carelessness in the form of ethnic rivalry, religious conflict, indisciplline of out people= ineffective or in fact failed institutions, and baba won (their father) CORRUPTION.

Back to yur ?, we have never experienced anything close to a democracy in 9ja,  prerequisites being freedom of speech which ultimately includes the media ability to unbiased and deadly professional, respect for human and civil rights, rule of law abbl (e.t.c or ati be be lo)

"Just as the regimen of the healthy is not suited to the sick, one must not try
to govern a corrupt people by the same Laws as those that suit a good people.
Nothing proves these maxims better than the long life of the Republic of Venice, which still
retains a simulacrum of existence, solely because its laws are suited only to wicked men."
Rousseau (1997/1755, p. 135).