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2buff: bro, learn to be intelligent and to see holes in a story where things don't connect.
Do not assume that people are wild beasts to be demonized based on the result of sketchy, incomplete stories.
A lot of elements of the story are missing, especially the events detailing the emotional state transition between "Please sis calm down" and "take this roundhouse kick b**ch!".

Aside from that, I have been extremely plain that I do not understand what someone is doing going to another person's house to start a fight with his wife AND I have made it doubly plain that I support a man defending his wife and immediate family from in-laws and whoever attempts to attack them in my house deserve what's coming to them. I believe in the protocol of reporting to me what it is you feel a member of my family has done, and not trying to barge into my home to cause them harm.

If my stance seems unclear or unstable to you, I assure you it is not as a result of a lack of clarity/focus of my posts, but as a result of your own perspective/understanding, which Isn't something I control.

Your comments are all contradictory, when you have time, go back and re-read your comments to see how unstable/inconsistent they are.

gentlegg: Beating up not just a sister but an elder sister and another man's wife for that matter, that guy is a capital FOOL. From d little story, i depict that even the wife is most probably a bad wife, if she did nothing wrong, why would she lock out her husband's sister outside, she claim the husband sister was coming for a fight, was she with a knife, gun or any weapon? how did she even know that she was coming for a fight since she have not even entered their house?

i just tire o. Reacting on assumptions.

2buff: Oh obviously. Things are never going to be the same in the family again.
No-one ever looked at this situation and said "yes, good has come of this".

But as a proud supporter of the "don't start none, Don't get none" lifestyle, I'd say anyone who starts something deserves what they get.

i feel sorry for that wife who thought she was smart, hmmm. That man too. They're going to live in fear and distrust for a very long time.

2buff: Read my other posts on this thread.
I have read enough of these stories to know that things are often ommitted to give a full holistic picture of the events that transpired and why certain things occured.
It is my strong belief that emotional shifts of the nature of what transpired according to how this particular story was presented do not happen just like that.
I am not saying he couldn't control things better, but I'm also not foolish enough to start judging him based on what may have been a logical response to an undocumented micro-detail.

It's a fairly long way from "please calm down" to "Shoryuken!". All you read is that he got to Shoryuken.
You don't know what transpired in-between. I can bet you it wasn't "nothing".

bro, learn to be stable and plain, you said in your first comment that no one was there so we should choose what to believe, yet in that same post, you said it was obvious the man did the right thing and that the elder sister deserved it. Now read this your last post again and see how you're making the same mistakes again.

Do not assume, work with what the poster typed, until something new's added by the op, do not assume.

[quote author=Okija_juju]Point of correction:: I never said it was the only way, but its definitely an available option that is almost always certain to yeild positive results. [/quote]since the gate was already locked, how would she gain access to confronting the wife physically? Why not just turn back, go back to work and let her rant until she's tired? Wouldn't that yeild a better result?

Trust me, that man and his wife's going to have a hard time and the wife's going to keep living in fear because a seed's been sown and must be reaped in no distant time.

[quote author=Okija_juju]Just because there was no physical contact between both women, does not mean that there was no physical contact between sister and brother.. And yes, an elder sister does not mean she has immunity from a beatdown.[/quote]kindly show us where it was stated that the woman beat the man. The op said he wasn't sure who slapped first. Even if the ELDER sister slapped first, does that warrant blooding her?

I feel sorry for the man and more sorry for the wife because the future is so full of violence for her.

[quote author=Okija_juju]Funny I have never laid a hand on a woman ever in my life...

But like I said, I suport the man. If a woman left her house, her home, her family to go to another mans house and harrass his wife.. ANYTHING SHE SEE, MAKE SHE TAKE!!! Period!!

The ability or inability for a man to shut a woman up without physical abuse is neither here nor there.. I am a strong believer in violence. It is the last resort in conflict resolution. People may not like it, but it works all the same. That woman was his elder sister which gives her the height and natural authority advantage. She prolly thought she could bully him like she prolly did when they were kids.. Sadly, she forgot that he was now a grown, married man..

SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED!! [/quote]i believe you're just trying to appear tough and rough, you're more refined than this. you mean the only way to command respect in your home's to beat your elder sister because of an intent?

2buff: I'm sure the women and their manpurses can whine and moan about how he could have been a better man.
This, however, is no cover or substitute to how the sister could have also been a better woman.

As a man, someone wants to beat your wife, cusses you out (possibly using words like "weak dickless f00l". ) and then gives you a hot slap on top it, in your own freaking house...Oh yes, it is very easy to judge on your armchairs. Hypocrites.

you need to think well bro and not be hasty in acting, read the post again.

Was there any physical contact between the sister and wife?

Beating up your elder sister because of an intent? Gosh, i can't believe what i'm reading.

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[quote author=Okija_juju]The details of the OPs story are sketchy!!

But I see no reason for KARMA to play any part here.. Na she carry her leg go find trouble... SHIKINA!![/quote]the wife's now a puching bag in the making. Take it or leave.

The story is sketchy, yet you totally supported the man beating up his elder sister to the extent of bleeding blood? Hmmm most Nigerians are aluu in the making.

The last time i layed hands on a female was in SS1 and never am i ever going to tour that path again.

The ability to shut a woman up without physical abuse is what makes you a better/matured man.

And most of the people here are married o, yet supporting a man beating his elder sister.

Since the wife already locked herself indoors, how would the elder sister have access to beating her up?

So to show you're a man and matured enough, you've to physically beat up your elder sister? No other way to prove you're matured and man enough?

The op said she was outside the gate, what possible beatings would she had done to the brother's wife that's in the house?


Karma is a bitch, that wife's going to become a punching bag in no distant time.

[quote author=adesojiaderemi@]click the intro link now, you go see the oyinbo in ankara with gele.[/quote]oh ok, thanks, only read the article here but didnt click on the link.

LaconicINC: this your EJ buy is a dangerous one,it may hit your sl

i'll sl it by hedging.

endfx1: Ya am seeing beyond those points especially for EJ looking at 114.xx

bought ej frm 117.30, meaning, anything below 116.80, i'd have to hedge.

114 looks very distant to me but not to you lol.

Joinin gj from 141.90 for the ride down if it happens

Andex12: What is the use of playing with 2nd division club while the players are first division professional players? Did Nigeria think African teams are same as Catalonia, Venezuela, or Farense? Did Nigeria play any friendly with any of the teams that qualified to AFCON?

Always quick to run down the eagles even though you haven't been following their activities well enough? change your mindset!

endfx1: While men sleeps guys are busy raking them pips in 100's......EJ,GJ +350 still counting

GOSH!, you're really milking dollars from your brokers.

So what targets are you looking at?
Any view on UJ getting to 87.50?
EJ getting to 117.50?
GJ below 141?

infofirst: Somebodi said ej and gj open above pivot today and still fell massively n then i ask why? the pivot guru, plz educate me n but what i think is that may be the pivot things is a means to somewhere but not the real tin, learning and discovery mode activated. Work in progress

pivots= sign boards but not d actual destination.

buyin eu from 1325*, sl @ 100 pips, tp? 134-135.

chic2pimp: Positive about what? The comparison?

You telling me this current Eagles team can match the team of OLISEH, AMUNEKE, FINIDI, AMOKACHI, YEKINI, IROHA, OKOCHA etc?

Yes if they put their hearts to it.

which of the nigerian outfit did she get out of the more than 100 we have around?

CFCfan: The penalty came as a result of Efe Ambrose's surging run into the box. Ambrose was deployed in the right-back position in the match; which could mean that Keshi would use him in that position during the Nations' Cup. Yobo and Oboabona are the likely choices to fill the ventral defensive area.

i think its going to be yobo and omerua

[quote author=ola_pluto]UPDATE: Super Eagles beat Farense 5-0 in their last warm up match. Mikel scored a penalty. IK Uche scored a hatrick, Emenike scored final goal. Not too bad going to SA. Hope we win our last warm up game against Angola.[/quote]ik is back and better!

Syenite: Let's analyse naaa


Enyeama Vs Rufai
Echiejile Vs Iroha
Ambrose Vs Eguavoen
Yobo Vs Okechukwu
Omeruo Vs Keshi
Ogude Vs Oliseh
Mikel Vs Okocha
Igiebor Vs Amokachi
Musa Vs Amuneke
Moses Vs Finidi
Emenike/Uche Vs Yekini

Joke of the Year

Did you bother to read the article?

efe22: Check your box. I never discover anything lol.

Responded.

jmaine: The CPC Supporters murdered those Corp Members . . .They ( The CPC Supporters) are to be blamed . . .

Whether they were apprehended or not should not dilute their terrible act

How do you know a supporter? because they yell the name of a particular candidate or because they hold onto his posters?

Those who killed the victims, were they with CPC membership card?
What proof do you have that they are actually CPC supporters?

I have time for you today even though i am kinda busy.

Demdem: I thought he said BUHARI
Abegi Jamiu, kindly confirm again

Na, the question is to "who's to blame that killers are walking free on our streets".

infofirst: sure n price action will lead us at the exact point to expect the next move

You're not far from the truth jare.


Just watching the market for now.

jmaine: Straw grasping is indeed a sad terrible ailment . . . . Desist from it bruv . . .

I asked your questions, but you wouldn't answer, Who's to blame for what happened?

honeric01: 120 Unit LR for sale urgently @ 165.

Respond accordingly.

Sold. dis-regard

infofirst: Now u r seeing my 1.2xx to 1.4xx journey

Yes i can, but i still expect to see EU @ 1.326x/1.31x before the journey to 1.348x-1.4xxx

120 Unit LR for sale urgently @ 165.

Respond accordingly.

jmaine: [s]Constructive reasoning is definitely not your forte, cos you wouldn't be exerting so much energy to absolve cold murderous simply because they weren't apprehended

Now that is an absurd reasoning pattern . . . .[/s]

Crap! crap! crap!

They weren't apprehended or the govt didn't do anything at all?

Chai,Yakabu was a great man!