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Romance / Weirdest Things We Did In Our Uni Days by Hopefulman: 4:39am On Oct 09, 2017
Weirdest things we did back in school..

Most of us if not all did many weird stuffs in school back then. Let me start with this


I was laying in my bed and remembered this incident and was laughing hard.

There was this period myself and my roomy were broke and to make matters worse nothing from home from both of our ends and our foodstuffs were finished too, that week we already knew it was survival of the fittest and only the strong would survive.

Then when we know say nothing dey and we won't be getting anything from home, na to use money buy groundnut and ijebu garri down hide am put for bag so when winter comes like Game of thrones you know you have something to face it with, but this particular time things were so bad that we had exhausted even our last garri and groundnut.

The funny thing is when you ask your neighbours who are fellow students like you questions like,

Me : Tosynetoomuch abeg you fit borrow me 50 naira make I take buy pure water take save my intestines first?,

You hear a reply like
"Guy I no get"

Me: Hungerbad abeg borrow me 100 make I take enter school, I swear I dey red

He will be like,

"Guy na even 100 card be the last money wey dey my hand like this, I been wan even come ask you"

Just like that, but the annoying thing is these same guys you just asked money from who said they don't have will be the same guys who would bring out weed or sk of over N200 to N500 for the house to smoke and die of more hunger, then all men go begin scavenge.

So this particular weekend as we all sat in the compound smoking without knowing where the next meal is coming from, I was already asking my roomy

Me: Guy we dey here dey follow Lalasticlala, Nwamaikpe and the rest dey smoke,wetin we go chop? All these wicked guys wey don already get plan

All men just dey laugh

Then the weirdest thing ever happened. There's this particular cat that's always disturbing the peace of niggas with that annoying cry in the middle of the night like almost on a daily basis, na there thunder come take fire the cat, it was coming out of the bush tying to look for a way to go into its abode through the broken ceiling in the compound, with the highness I told my roomy, guy make we rush this thing kill am, em own don too much sef.

As I was telling him, I had already picked up stones, he joined and we chased it, got lucky and got this cat killed, the next thing I was like

"Guy, are you thinking what I am thinking?"

And being the bastard roomy that he is, he was like

"Guy Allah I dey with you breakfast sure"

As mad Men that we were those days we started laughing.
Immediately he went straight to fetch water and I got busy getting dried wood, there was already stones arranged at a corner where we used to prepare rabbit as they crawl out at night from that same bush near the house and during our lucky days we get a catch.

I had the skill in butchering and dissecting, an hidden talent I never knew existed till I moved to that compound, where hunger wanted to finish my enemies, not me.

My friends in the compound were like

"Wait, seriously una wan chop cat?, that thing fit be human being o, Chuks the hunger never reach like that o"

I was like

"Guy weed still dey?, make una roll up for me, their father, una never chi chom chin, no be Chinese people dey chop lizard? "

I became a movie for everyone to watch, I was Silver Bird Galleria that day, just that my tickets were free.

I took my time after my roomy had sourced round for pepper, onions and Maggi, na so yours truly nack the first ever cat pepper soup.

Cos they knew it was cat, they refused eating, which even did us more good, we served ourselves that morning and destroyed the remaining at night. It was delicious

I remember the incident and laugh so hard.

My people walala dey, but we no go see am.

Share yours, I still got more experiences.

I hereby declare the floor opened. Pardon my grammatical blunders. Thank you

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Romance / Re: A 12-Year-Old Boy's Love Letter To A Girl (Screenshots) by Hopefulman: 1:47am On Sep 29, 2017
Wahala dey, but we no go see am

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Romance / Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Hopefulman: 10:07pm On Sep 22, 2017
GudPpleG8Nation:
Bro,can I pm you?


Feel free bruv
Romance / Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Hopefulman: 11:52pm On Sep 19, 2017
Op, lemme contribute too,


This exact same thing happened to me December last year, I even opened a thread here asking for opinions not cos I couldn't handle shit but cos I was emotionally broken. Same 6 years, I deflowered her too, taught her basically all she knows, force my parents into liking her, I was to wife her up traditionally this year ending, I am 30, same age as you she will 26 by December.



My brother forgive her that's she's sincerely sorry about it and shows great remorse, you dump her and hop to another woman you don't know what that one has done too , the devil you know is far better than the angel you don't know, besides reason life well, you will discover sex is not love.

I don't know about you, but my case I wasn't perfect myself cos me sef run few packages just cos I caught her of which she only wanted to explore knowing just one man all her life doesn't make her bad.


Do to others what you want them to do to you, good people sometimes make bad decisions making terrible mistakes which they tend to regret all their lives.


How many times our dad don jonse where our moms dey but yet dem still hold still, if na so God dey cut all of us off for our sins daily, then the world would have been empty.


Mine showed great remorse, her family and friends came to beg, she cried her eyes out for almost 6 months, but it's not the tears, I just couldn't throw 6 years away cos of one mistake, that makes you a better person and a man, I love her for the sacrifices and things we have both been through, I can't begin to mention them.


Finally, no matter what anyone writes here,, at the end you still will do your own mind, you wear the shoes and know the situation better, the decision still lies in your hands. Truth is that event made us got even better, and stronger. And stop allowing people tell you once a cheat is always a cheat, cos it is not true. He who is holy without blemish should cast the first stone.


Be wise. Stay safe. Sex ain't love.

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Romance / Re: A Regrettable Mistake But Can It Be Fixed? by Hopefulman: 3:28pm On Jul 12, 2017
Benita27:
I feel that girl doesn't have an excuse for cheating. grin

Dude takes care of you, you're sure your relationship is ending in marriage. You know all his family members, his mum calls you and you visit his dad, then you cheat with the excuse that his dick is too big for you?...the same big dick that deflowered you?, the same big dick thapt has been bleeping you for 6yrs?.

Need I remind you that the pussy is elastic and her countless sex with her fiancé would have made her adjust to his size.

She just had the crave to explore other men.



Thanks dear , I couldn't have said it any better, need I remind you I was the sex freak in the relationship. my anger is not even the act, cos I sincerely forgave it, but continuing after that, turned his b.itch till February
Romance / Re: A Regrettable Mistake But Can It Be Fixed? by Hopefulman: 3:07pm On Jul 12, 2017
Thanks for the comments, they are really helping a great deal. I won't lie I am broken

Lemme add this, I refuse to believe the small D.ick big d.ick thing, there's more to this, and damn the lies from the very first weekend, she made me believe it was just that weekend until I found out after 7 months yesterday she continued with this nigga until February this year, and when I said I was faithful I meant it, she knows my history, my ex cult related life back in days, the ladies, she's even had issues with ladies marking her territory and keeping them off.

I have a soft spot for this woman, the normal me for drill this chick turn turn that very day but to what end? Wetin I wan gain?


This isn't just me settling for this babe, but it's the amount of betrayal, cos she washed me before this nigga, for even allowing him chat me up same day they went to bed and then continued afterwards, look at the level of falling hand and downgrade.


There's no excuse for cheating

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Romance / Re: A Regrettable Mistake But Can It Be Fixed? by Hopefulman: 10:11am On Jul 12, 2017
krissconnect:
Well, a critical analysis to your story entails you might be dating either a naive girl, a teenager or a girl below 21 years. My advice is this, sit her down and talk to her very closely. Inquire from her what she truly needs and what's bn driving her to the other guy. Never make it sound like youre judging her, make her open up to you.
Note this, never force someone to love you, if someone loves you and honestly wants to be with you, there's no need stressing that. If she continues with her promiscuous life, be strong and let her go. Life goes on bro.


26 years na pikin?

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Romance / Re: A Regrettable Mistake But Can It Be Fixed? by Hopefulman: 9:58am On Jul 12, 2017
I will correct the typos
Romance / A Regrettable Mistake But Can It Be Fixed? by Hopefulman: 9:54am On Jul 12, 2017
This has been giving me sleepless nights, I just want to pour my heart out to someone.


I have been in a relationship with this pretty thing for 5 years and 7 months now and in the course of these years, there's absolutely nothing myself and this girl hasn't been through, from starving together, using pit toilet, sleeping on bare ground during my struggling days, and lest I forget, I deflowered this chick and taught her every thing she knows.


With time things began to get better and there's no sweeter feeling a man can get seeing you do well with the same woman you struggled with. I had taken her home to my parents, met her family too and the stage is set to tie the knot this year ending


Now things took a heavy twist December last year, she went out and met a guy and gave out my number instead of hers, she does this normally to scare guys away, but this time it was different when the nigga started chatting me up thinking it was her, there wasn't any need to vex until she came to my place, snooped around my phone and got his number and was secretly chatting with him, I caught her desame very day, she begged blocked him on WhatsApp and we let it go.



But that wasn't enough cos she continued until they both started dating few weeks after that day.


I caught her the very first weekend she visited his place and bleeped him from Saturday till Monday, it was the toughest moment of my life cos I ran into her fb chat a day before she went there but someone you have been with almost 6 years, you take care of her every wellbeing ranging from upkeep money, hair, clothes and all don't blame me cos with those amount of suffering together before things got good she obviously deserved it, so I had to give her a benefit of doubt, but no feeling crazier than laying in your bed and some fu.uck boy banging your wife to be.


Now lemme make this clear,when it comes to se.x, I was the monster in the relationship, I am huge down there, plus an undying high libido which she constantly complains of,she's weak in bed and would pass out at just a round, but I loved her truly, never cheated with the believe that as time went by she would improve, so if there was someone who was to cheat, it's got to me, cos she barely satisfies me.


After the first weekend, I confronted her the very day she left the guys place, came to me tired, the normal animal that I use to be based on my rugged kind of life in my university days, I would drill her like no tomorrow, but I didn't allow my anger take a better of me cos I would have ended up in a cell.


She begged, called my best friend, nigga had to travel down, called her friends and family to plead on her behalf and the most degrading thing was that she allowed this same stranger she bleeped chat me up begging for her, I didn't even know he was the one, cos I was thinking it was some other guy she had bleeped, never in my wildest dream thought it would be this same new guy I sternly warned her about and she had blocked on WhatsApp too.



I forgave and let it go, the hardest thing I have done in my life, forgive a cheating partner, started taking care of her like I always did, this time even more, besides I took it se.x isn't love.



Now just yesterday I am finding out after that weekend, she didn't stop she kept going to visit him weekends with lies she was at her sis, he would take her outing and they would Bleep all through the weekend, it went on until February this year


Please nairalanders is a crime as this forgivable??

The first is forgivable, call it a mistake, but after summoning an entourage to beg, she went on fucking and dating the dude till February cos she had gone through his phone and found out he was a complete flirt before she stopped


When asked why, as they will always say, "I didn't know what came over me", "it was like I wasn't with my senses" Bla Bla Bla,

She's like I am big, so she was feeling pains, Bla Bla Bla, his was small, see matter on top my head Sha, the shima wash me finish where one stranger dey Sha



I am a broken man right now, the hard part is how much I have boasted about this babe to my parents making them have no option to like her, she visits my dad's house and even spend the weekend, not a time my mom calls and doesn't ask after her, why now?, woman I am suppose to marry soonest, is it the investment or sacrifices?, the way I care for this girl, sometimes I look at my mom and pity for myself, cos I haven't spent 1 out of 10 for my mom.



I just needed to pour this out, please comments are welcome

Note I ain't no novice to women affairs, but it gets to a time in a man's life where it's no longer jumping from skirt to skirt I can't be living that life at 30.



Let me include this, she has stopped since February, I am only finding out the complete truth yesterday, and she's 26

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Family / Re: 6 Hilarious Ways Nigerian Mothers Make Conversation With Children by Hopefulman: 9:57am On May 16, 2017
At 18 thinking I was all grown then, there's was this particular girl who was older than me but sneaks into my house when both of my parents have left for work, but my mom's job wasn't far from the house, so there was this amebo woman at my street then who was giving her every vital information whenever this girl sneaks into the compound to collect the D.


So this particular day I ran out of luck and the next thing I heard the main gate swung open only to peep from the window and saw it was my mom, I quickly took her into my room and hid her in the wardrobe, for my mind we were both safe, highest maale go just pick something discharge cos I have pulled this stunt once before, pikin wey wan bad.


Only to open the door for my mom and I was surprised as she got in she didn't even look at my face or answered my greeting, she just begin do Ultimate Search like say she dey find one missing treasure, from room to room, kitchen, toilet, my body begin hot by force, heart begin beat fast, cold begin catch me cos I know say e don red for me


Like play like joke, she got to my room, I just sat in the seating room sweating, at first I was hearing little noise of "mommy please" before it started becoming clearer, maale don drag this babe from wardrobe where I hide am dey drill her with slap reach my side, as she dragged her to where I was she was like "Tochi what is this, this is the study you are suppose to be studying abi?" , omo my own drilling started





But I thank God Sha, she didn't let my dad know till date, the drilling for bad, cos James Bond dey learn work where em dey.



I am 30 now, that young lad has come of age and I remember her visiting and the discuss came up, come and see laugh na


I love you mommy, you are the best

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Barcelona Vs PSG UCL (6 - 1) On 8th March 2017 by Hopefulman: 11:23pm On Mar 08, 2017
Was forced to go watch the highlights, all six goals were clean goals, PSG is the useless team not able to stand Barca's heat. Big ups to Nermar, star boy of the match


Barcelona is the best team present right now, no other team in the world can come back from that. Respect


From a Man U fan

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 8:45am On Feb 21, 2017
Bnimz:
No be the cheating part dey even vex me, na the lies... Personally, If I hear it from you, forgiveness is on the table... If I discover it myself or hear elsewhere,, na summary dismissal


the fact that she did it with someone less than you in virtually every way is an absolute insult to you as a man.. .. Its unacceptable.. Such a thing has no reason and no justification... Since we can't understand WHY it happened, there is no way of preventing it from happening again... So, bros, I see no alternative than to quit the relationship....

. That is what I did..... Though my situation no reach this one...


You see am talk
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 8:42am On Feb 21, 2017
Menzy86:
That her complaining about ur sex appetitie is a smokescreen. Infact that's one of d reasons d shock hit u more. Women are naturally pretencious and tricky iin this part of d world.


Allah na wetin burst my bololo dada pass, I no go lie I couldn't hold the tears. But guy nothing dey xup
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 9:07pm On Feb 20, 2017
slimany:



hmmmn. oga o. what else again. good nigerian girls don finish. If a girl u disflowered and dated for 5years and she was comfortable to the bearest maximum could do these to u!!!!!!!!!!!!!™™™™… ha, otitan. make I waka go switzerland go pick wife.
Ps- From your writeup. I learned that nothing can prevent a lady from cheating! If perhaps ure poor and not good looking like me (Dont bother checking my profile pics,I no upload am) , I would have admitted she cheated on u for that reasons but alas, it ain't so. Bro. am shocked.


After two months I am still shocked, it was recently I found out the nigga is 19, na wetin make me begin para afresh
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 9:01pm On Feb 20, 2017
thowbie7ven:
@Hopefulman...see bro, i'll tell you the real fact...For God's sake brother, send that girl packing....she doesn't deserve you at all...Never should you settle for less bro...you don't know prolly God just wanted to expose her for you to see her ways before you get married to her...what if you guys have already gotten hooked officially?...God don show you a great sign bro!...tho it's hard but yet, in future, when you look back, you'll have every cause to thank Baba for that sole decision you made...don't let her sweet talk/beg you...that's how ladies are!


You see am talk, sincerely I know these things, she's just after the benefits she gets and doesn't want to loose those privileges, I been care for this babe pieces , na only me understand wetin I dey yan
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 8:59pm On Feb 20, 2017
slimany:
@hopefulman. please, which app you take trace that ur girl. I need am like seriously.


Read well, na the format I take enter am before she begin vomit, at first she was denying it right in front of me, I went through her phone while she was sleeping when she visited my place that week, if not she would have done the act and still pretend well..

FEAR WOMEN

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 8:25pm On Feb 20, 2017
nairalander:
Hopefulman,
The biggest mistake you'll make will be to let her back. Trust me, I've been there before, I was her first too, we were together for many years, in my case she claimed distance was the cause. I forgave, forgot and we even got engaged. Had to even resign my job and get something else in the same town so she wouldn't be "bored" again.

Till...... I stumbled upon her facebook messages setting up a date to have se.x with the same guy who is now married.

Her new defense? that she just chat with him nothing happened grin

Guy, She'll only get better at covering her tracks and your mind will never be at ease.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Anyways, most girls are wayward now, finding someone that wouldn't cheat is a needle in a haystack.




How things wan take work when I probably don't feel desame way, OK, during one of the times I got pissed and was questioning her, she said the guy too is weak in bed like her, with my temper and how nice I have been I suppose beat her up then push her out of my house but had a dream of me cooling off in the cell, so reason why I took it cool from beginning till now, but I know what I am doing and what I want for myself . Wetin I go do na my mind e dey

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 8:17pm On Feb 20, 2017
HIGHESTPOPORI:
Women are confused,ur story is so sad and heartbreaking,but I think cos u disvirgined her,she just wanted to taste another dick before getting married and get hooked,but unfortunately for her,she was caught,u can stil forgive her for d fact u disvirgined her and she isn't d only one u have slept with,its hard to see a Nigerian girl now dat is not a virgin that haven't slept with atleast 2guys.Am sure dats d reason she even went for a 19yr old guy knowing she wouldnt gain anytin from him,but its your choice to make,its a sad story.But you wouldn't be d first to forgive a Cheating Girl,many guys here telling u to dump her have done d same too,only if u re sure she is changed and worth it.


Too many Bleep ups even after the incident, I been give her second chance that's why this issue lingered till now, but bruv another thing I hate is an unappreciative woman, she's not helping me forget the incident too, a lot I can't type
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 5:03pm On Feb 20, 2017
enuk80:
its very painful..d girl has no sense..imagine 25yrs old girl fucking 19yrs old boy who should have been hier junior brother times 3...she is deranged..if it were to be someone above her age or her age mate, d view wud ve been maybe u didn't Bleep her well, or u don't give her much cash, or u r not caring and so on...i wonder y she has to fall for 19yrs old boy...that girl has mental problem..

as for d baby, don't let her abort it..I doubt if d baby is urs or if d baby belongs to d 19yrs old boy..just wait for paternity test..


You are joining two issues together, me and the op matter dey different

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 4:58pm On Feb 20, 2017
jimoceans14:
baba hope u drop that babe sha,she ain't loyal or responsible

Obviously, cos the thoughts of the stupidity dey hunt me tight, babe no Bleep up when the going was tough why e be say na now wey person dey prepare to go run introduction? , wey things don dey better ?


I swear no day I no dey reason this matter. Like this woman matter tire me
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 4:53pm On Feb 20, 2017
obo389:

baba, trust me. it will never be the same . every of her move, either genuine or otherwise will be suspicious. ur mind no go rest at all because you wil continue to monitor her.
you will always keep finding fault unnecessary . the more you see her, the more your heart boils with rage and hatred. my advise, just allow her waka. the earlier the better for you. trust me,its never gona work no matter how matured you matured you think you are.
am talking out of experience


Allah, you see am talk, na exactly wetin dey xup, I moved out from my old place to a new one and she doesn't know the new place, I no go lie you we lodge 3 solid days spend Val, ynash well but if I look am I go just dey para, I think the second day the second day I carry my things wan ball out as I begin reason how she disrespect me stoop so low for one small boy that should be desame age with their last born.


Bro don't get me wrong I for fit forget if she was drugged, raped or something but not fucking him the first night and then spent another full day and night, this wasn't just a mistake or exploring, she knew exactly what she was doing. I don end am but she's still bugs me seriously and the bla bla bla of can't afford to loose or do without me. I don't even know what to tell my parents cos they ask about her all the time, as at 14th which was my dad's birthday they spoke
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 2:50pm On Feb 20, 2017
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Women are confused beings

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 2:47pm On Feb 20, 2017
shinarlaura:


I think u should forgive her. You re hurt because u still love her

Mtcheee, I am hurt cos na one 19 year old boy wey she no go gain anything from and not in desame level with me she go open leg for.

When she was like she wanted to explore I was like if you explore with me na bad thing ?, babe wey dey complain seriously about my sex appetite and begging me to reduce it, who should be the Explorer here ?
Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 2:40pm On Feb 20, 2017
torqque7:


Wow your story mehnn..you de try,well as for me ill say keep her as a side chick to cure conji but DO NOT marry her..while she is a side chick you can fuc.k her friends too if you are attracted to anyone,if she has a sister too then hit that pu.ssy too..it's all exploration like she said


She's still with me and won't go but that spark, love, respect, special feeling and all has died, it will take a miracle and grace of God to forgive such. I was a serial badoo before I met her, to think deflowering her and teaching her all she knows is a guarantee.


In terms of fucking her friends and sisters, bruv what do I gain? At 29/30 I have gotten to that stage in life where jumping from punna to Punna isn't a priority or achievement but rather I should be focused on something that can last me a life time, I no be pikin again cos finally man gats settle down

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 1:10pm On Feb 20, 2017
ToriBlue:
Hopefulman, the story never finish and e too sweet, what later happened? did you marry her? Do you feel compelled to marry a woman because you are the one that disflowered her?


Babe I can't marry this babe cos I don't feel desame way, I feel extremely betrayed, disrespected especially as na small boy, this incident happened 4th December, I have tried chasing her but she form wanting a second chance, wasn't it cos I was smart enough to find out .?.

What's your take on this issue cos I am still badly hurt

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 12:58pm On Feb 20, 2017
chidekings:



Na your story pain pass


Till now I still dey para, this happened in December, December 4th precisely, and I had plans for her birthday which was 8 days away. She still dey beg dey form gf but guy my mind don comot, I will still leave her cos I don't feel desame way anymore, if she's around me sometimes I snap and get angry

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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me by Hopefulman: 12:01pm On Feb 20, 2017
At least she was bold enough to confess.


I deflowered a lady and dated her 5 years, she was with me all through the struggle when I had absolutely nothing, 5 years on thank God things changed, I could die for this girl cos I make sure she lacks absolutely nothing at all. Guess what?

Just recently I caught her cheating cos she wasn't smart about it, as a matter of fact I knew before she went to spend the weekend with the guy but I didn't stop it cos I wanted to give her a benefit of doubt cos of my trust and believe in her that has waxed on for 5 years, I thought she would just visit and leave cos having the opposite sex as friends mean nothing as long as you know your boundaries.


Behold she slept at this guy's place for two nights and avoided talking to me, calls and barely could read my messages. I let her be too so she enjoys herself..

Note : I had taken her home and made my parents know this is the one I want to marry and they have blessed us, as a matter of fact she's in contact with my parents and I made them like her.


Another thing is sexually I was the monster and sex Frick between us and she complains alot about my undying sex appetite, she rarely satisfies me cos she's weak in bed, but I learnt to be patient with her, teach her all she knows and manage the sex like that, so if there's someone who should cheat it would be me, but I had loved this babe too much to cheat, so me not satisfying her wasn't the issue..


Now let me blow your mind like Al Queda, guess who she went to Bleep for two days while I was up all night and couldn't sleep for desame two days knowing my supposed to be wife I shower all the love, care, money on with tears wondering how confused these women can be, it was a fukkkking 19 year old boy, meanwhile she's 25 and I will be 30 by May


After I gave her a face to face confrontation with the scope of having a spy app on her phone and knowing all she does, she confessed she bleeped him twice but it's her first time ever, "Babe what is your reason for this stupidity ?, ", she's like I am sorry I just wanted to explore. imagine such bullshittt


You can never please a woman.

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Sports / Re: African Man Joggling Football On The Top Of A Cliff Is SCARY (VIDEO) by Hopefulman: 8:39pm On Feb 08, 2017
Impressive but doesn't make him a good footballer. Most ball jogglers aren't good football players
Romance / Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Hopefulman: 9:29pm On Feb 01, 2017
Nesso:

Liked the handled the whole thing, but if I were you I will let her continue on a testing spree nd I can't blame her too, u d only man she has known all her life. The thing is she won't stop until she has seen it all nd its within her rights, so let her go.

She's begged Consistently involving my closest friends and hers to pleading on her behalf, she says it's her last and that's it, with the I can't live without you ish, another chance palava. I have given her the chance just that that spark and fire ain't there no more. I had to put a few things into consideration before I did tho, this babe has been with me through thick and thing, suffered with me, drank garri, slept on the bare floor with me for days, was there when I had absolutely nothing.

It just baffles me cos I asked this question severally, as in you didn't misbehave when the going was rough why e be say na now wey every don set



Women sha...

This na babe wey dey complain steady about my sexual strength o, yet cheat on me with a two min guy in the name of wanting to taste another dick.

Lesson I learnt is even if you deflower a woman and then give her the world its still no guarantee. They cheat for stupid reasons



And to let you know she had this all planned and knew what she was going there to do, she came to my place on Thursday unshaved and went to this niggas place well shaved up with the shave cream wey I buy am o.

Chai

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Romance / Re: Cheating In Relationship, How Did U Catch Them, How Were U Caught? by Hopefulman: 12:17pm On Feb 01, 2017
I was going to open a thread about this before but I will just share mine here...


Ok, I dated this babe 5 years, and I mean I taught her everything she knows, opened her eyes too, deflowered her and all, we have gone so deep to the extent our families know one another. I have taken her home to my parents letting them know this is the woman I want to marry and countless times my dad and mom have both prayed for us with us kneeling, I mean we have gone that deep. I will be 30 this year and she's 25, so we both know walking down the aisle is pretty close, though I plan going outside the shores to study and seek greener pastures to, while the plan is doing an introduction before my balling out.



All that up there is just to let you know how far and deep this relationship has gone.


I do everything for this babe cos I see her as my wife already, and I could swear she can't ever open up her body for another guy, I mean I loved, trusted and cared too much, I use to be a play around guy but that life changed when I met her.


Just this past December, I began to notice firstly she lies too much and I have spent 5 years with this babe that I know every single thing about her as well as when she lies too even if sometimes I prefer not to talk cos deep down I am like "if you do anything wrong to this great relationship, you doing yourself".


Years back she gave me access to her fb and maybe must have probably forgotten, So on this faithful day something just pushed me to check which I don't do cos the trust was there, lo and behold when I went to her inbox, she had a fresh chat with a guy someone she's told me about that use to pester her where she use to work before she gained admission into school...

He was pleading with her to visit, before this chat obviously they have been talking over the phone, to my surprise and disappointment her response was

" how much you go gimme if I come? "

Guy was like " no worry, just come first "

And she was like " how much be tf to come there "

He told her and the next thing she said was send the address through text, he asked when she was coming and she said Saturday.


She came to my place Saturday, unshaved, we had to quarrel before we had sex, cos her mind was elsewhere, I knew all along and could have knocked everything off but I wanted to give her a benefit of that cos of how much I trusted this girl, normal it's not bad to have opposite sex as friends as long as you know your boundaries, my mind was like she was probably going to visit and leave.




Then Saturday came I purposely asked her how she would be spending her day, she was like she's going to her Elder's Sis, who happens to know me too, I was like say me hi to her and the kids when you get there.


From 6pm, for the first time in our 5 years of dating she wasn't picking up, only for her to come on WhatsApp later around 8 and told me she was upset and can't pick...

First I called the elder sister to give her the phone, she told me my woman wasn't at her place which was the confirmation she was spending the night at the guys place.


I wanted to clear her all her Bleep ups but controlled my emotions, I decided to chill and let her enjoy herself and do it face to face when I see her.


I couldn't sleep that night 6th of December, knowing another guy who probably didn't care one bit about her was fucking my woman.


Note, sex and money wasn't the problem, we Bleep like cat and rats, I opened her up, when it comes to even the sex this babe doesn't have my strength very lazy in bed, to even last a round is a p, she complains about my strength and love for sex, money wasn't the p cos I make sure she doesn't lack a thing, then why cheat on a nigga, when in truth since she doesn't have my strength sexually I should be the one cheating or trying to cheat.


Now the confrontation...

She ended up spending Saturday till Monday with this guy, two fucking nights.


On Monday she was like she's back from her sister's, meanwhile I let her be these two days, for the first time she wasn't online till Monday, and didn't bother calling or messaging and was complaining of body pains and how tired she was.


I wrapped a few fake gifts sent it to her to come pick them up plus some cash. She showed up in the afternoon that Monday.

I locked the door, wanted to beat her up then push her out, but to what end?, when the neighbourhood knows her as my woman, I didn't want to Bleep her up like that

I confronted her, she kept insisting she was at her sister's place, not till I told her about the call I made to her sister, plus the chat with the guy, even further convinced her I bugged her phone with a spy app which tells me all she does, dialled calls and messages which she fell for and lo began to confess.


That they did it twice and the guy is even as weak as she is in bed, it's her first and the last, she can't do without me bla bla bla, I can give her whatever punishment I want but not to leave her.

Her birthday was suppose to be 5 days away and I had plans.

I was like what was your reason, I still have this particular screenshot too cos I kept asking even after the confrontation, she was like

"Boo I just wanted to explore, test another dick ",

At least once in her life cos she's known just me all her life



WOMEN, I WONDER WHAT ONE CAN DO TO EVER PLEASE HER

She's still with me but I don't know what to do with her for now...

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Travel / Re: I Need Help On Schooling Abroad by Hopefulman: 5:43pm On Jan 30, 2017
Mille:
If you are conversant with the happenings in the world, you wouldn't even think of UK or US at at now.




Please enlighten me a little more if you don't mind
Travel / I Need Help On Schooling Abroad by Hopefulman: 4:52pm On Jan 30, 2017
House please I need experienced minds to put me through..


Please I will like to travel out of the country this year to either the US, UK or Australia to school and probably work at desame time, I am yet to do a thing yet, not even having acquired a passport but I have the funds God's grace I want experienced minds to enlighten me on how to go about it step by step please and how much I should budget for everything.


Thanks in advance

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