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save some money, buy some designer, approach her the moment you have some money with you...make sure u rock the designer anytime you are to approach them, shave ur hair, put on a wristwatch, flaunt ur phone when talking with her (if you have good phone)..
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some ladies quickly loss interest in men when they realised that their phone is far better than his phone.
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those guys that use iPhone f*ck p*ssy than those guys using cheap phone.
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u don't need iPhone b4 u can have sex, I'm just using iPhone for an example.

odinson1:
we have being praying for nigeria ever since but still,no change



prayer is not everything

when last did you pray for Nigeria??

when last did you wake up and say God bless Nigeria??

chriskosherbal:
but seriously taking a cursory look at things it won't be a *bad idea* though

bad idea bro..they will just enslave us and take away our natural resources.

never pray for colonize, but pray for God intervention

may God bless Nigeria

bro listing to this...it gonna be helpful, u have to be smart dealing with a woman.
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she might later be a good woman but b4 that follow this advice.
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1.adjourn the proposal for now.

2.whenever she ask for money from u, tell her you are broke, tell her you are paying some bills which you won't able to attend to her own bill for now....u can even joke with her by asking her to borrow you some money.

3.sit and be watching her behaviors to you..(her behaviors to you would probably changed cus u failed to attend to her own bills)

4.if she changed her behaviors to you due to her bills you failed to solved. asin if she stop picking ur call, not giving u attention and so on... that means she is just after your money but if she make some attempts by helping you out or giving u attention during that crucial time then she would probably be a good wife..
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note.. don't marry her with that selfish character, she would run away if u later broke or bankruptcy in future...God forbid.

tunjilee003:
Atimes not socializing with people ofyen leads to depression... once you meet people you can narrate your problem to them they can provide you with the much needed help....my own source of depression is going broke

we both broke.... my own is even broker... abeg keep on hustling make depression no catch you bro.. one day u go hammer

another man take his life bcus he lost his bet9ja ticket,...wat could be the cause of this depression or wat, cus me I no understand why people are just taking their lives for no good reason..
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fp.. seun, lalasticlara abeg move this nah

Antinatalist:
Before I leave my response, I want you to understand that suicide is not necessarily caused by depression. History tells us that ancient Germanic tribes would rather gather themselves in groups and commit suicide than to allow themselves to be captured by Roman warriors and used as slaves and/or gladiators.
Some philosophers and poets actually committed suicide in the past out of philosophical reasons alone and mother out of depression.

So back to your question:
It surprises me that people still come online to ask about the causes of depression. Is being a human being not enough to give one depression? If I was born into this world, practically forced into school for almost 20 years of my life, and then I have to become a cooperate slave just to make enough money to pay bills till I eventually die, is that not enough to make one feel depressed?
Not only that, this life is just too hard for us humans. Almost everything in life is enough to drive someone into major depression.

Lastly, you cannot save someone who is unhappy, most people think they can quote Bible verses and motivational words to depressed people and that it can actually save those people. But fact is that real life is much more complex than that, words like "Believe in yourself", "Be happy", " Better days ahead", etc, are actually meaningless to a person in a state of despair and cannot sleep.

thank for shielding more light on this.

any advice for the depressed people??

Squillaci:
I am still battling with it. Seems I get a new symptom every other month. I just hope the main cause is not a tumor, cos I won't hesitate to kill myself if it is.

and you think killing urself would be the solution for it
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ur problem is not more than what God can solve, pray ye unto God, he will surely answer ur player.

Squillaci:
My own was caused by chemical imbalance. Shit robbed me of almost all my cognitive abilities.

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thanks God that you later got over it

suicide! suicide!! suicide!!!
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it getting more rapid every single day.
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I'm sure you all heard about the recent suicide about a young musician pelepele and a young lady who drank snipper because of her failed relationship.
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I'm tired of hearing this shiit called suicide and that's what prompt me to create this topic.
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please any nairalanders who have one or two things to say about depression should please share it... tell us your experience and how you overcome it.
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another question is what are the causes of depression and how can it be overcome.... thanks.

pls move this to front page.. seun, cc: lala
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ur comments can help pple who r battling with depression.

netpro:
This is what happens when a muumu watch too much of Criminal Minds, SVU, CSI and other Crime series.

yap no different btw him and the crazy guy in the criminal mind... the way they operates were just the same... the movies are just to entertain people, not to copy the way they acts..
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bro I can see that u love Korean movies... I dedicate these movies to u... try to get it ASAP if u had nt watch them b4... joseon the gun man, royal gambler and schooler who walk the night.... tho they are kinda old but they are crazy and spark

[quote author=mcjibs22 post=82378136][/quote]this is a scam. . . . . pls don't subscribe to this... it's a scam

CBN Policy Says Cash Withdrawal and Deposits
Amounting to 500k or more now are to attract
additional charges,
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The policy is Straight and Simple.
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Mamuda Ya'u Dan'sarki
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What he's saying is that if You want to make a cash
withdrawal of 500k then you should be ready to pay
15k as charges.
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Also if you want to deposit 500k then u should be
ready to add extra 10k on it as charges.
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Now the question is why?
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The answer is because the government is trying to encourage a cashless economy.
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so how do you avoid this penalty?
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Simple! Don't withdraw cash in excess of 500k to
pay anybody, rather collect their account number
and transfer the cash to them. Also if someone
wants to pay You 500K don't collect it since You
know You can't keep it in the house but will take it
to bank who will then charge You for the deposit.
Instead, tell the person to use Your POS or transfer
to Your account or they pay You through USSD
CODE.
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This way, the Cashless Policy Will be Properly
Implemented.

[quote author=marvelous000 post=82319637]I want to be sincere with you as a man; you're in a precarious relationship, and you shouldn't be much emotionally invested in that relationship.
be circumspect with your dealing with him, while trying to make him concede emotionally and commitment wise. if he equivocates, then start making plans to jump ship, while approaching the relationship with stolidity until you see the end.

if it turn out palatable-fine, but if it turn out awry; then you'd be better equipped to handle heartbreak in any form it might rear it head.

because by his demeanor, there isn't a palpable ground to reach a conclusion whether he loves you or not. but there's something surreptitious and oblique about him, which is why you've got to be careful.

all this happened during the ordinary primary election.... I'm very sure that the real governorship election go badder and blooder... God help Nigeria

Yap.... This is real... Thanks bro

iHart:
Ok, I am not a football fan, how can I become one?

Join arsenal football team... I assured u that u gonna enjoy their playing pattern... But don't expect trophies in the next 10yrs. And always eat b4 u go out to watch arsenal matches

kennygee:
Dear woman, I can imagine the emotional and psychological pain you're going thru, however, making a decision right now might not be wise cause it will be an emotional one.

Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter.

Start working out the little way you can, start dressing really nice, so nice you'll get compliments outside. It will improve your self esteem, wear make up, smell nice. It might not stop him from cheating but it will build up your self esteem and confidence so much that you'll see you're not the problem.

You'll be in a better place to decide if you want to stay with him or leave.

All the best.

I hope you have a job or a business sha?

Cause the best security a woman can have is her own money.

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Op please follow this advice

Op please follow this advice

Their must be a reason for this mass failure... Maybe the lecturer take his practical more important than exam....it also happened in my school,, u failed the practical u com back next year bcus exam carries just few mark

Let her know that ex is ex, and bygone is bygone.... I dnt really know why people still take der exes so important...

Pls ask her this questions.....why did u guys become an ex? Her answers should be BTW one of this listed below..... Bcus we are not compatible, bcus he always beat me, bcus he make me cry, bcus he wasn't caring, bcus he cheat on me and so on.

Let her know that those guys she dated b4 they broked up wouldn't have become an ex if those guys really loved her wen they were dating.

Let go to the main point.. I tink she took her exes decisions than urs. . U are getting to the stage where ur decisions won't be relevant if u dnt take proper steps b4 it too late

I tink I av a couple of solutions to ur issue

It not gonna easy but just give it a trial, stop taking her so important, stop discussing an important issues with her, at times u can just go to kitchen and make a meals for urself (am not saying you should not eat her fud o)

When woman realised that they are no more important in the house again, they find a way to amend der mistakes.

Let me give u an example..... In economy, wen d producer or d manufacturer realised that people are no more patronised der products again , u knw wat they do?? They started find a way to upgrade der goods in other to gain peoples hrt.... That's why Toyota camry produce different types of cars every year, and that is why teckno produce different types of phones to upgrade der products.

Wen ur woman realised that she is no longer important then she gonna find a ways to upgrade herself.
God bless you marriage

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