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when a slowpoke is in power d followers who are morons also will be visible n always stand out

elganzar:
Reminds me of the day I killed two of them with toothpick

I have reported u for lying


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JustNumb:
Hey guys I'll just be brief.

Straight to the point.

My wife is having an emotional affair.

Whats making it worse?

It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.

Now they're both in different states.

How did I know?

I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.

All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.

The only thing remaining is the sexual part.

We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.

But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.

When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).

Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.

Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.

Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair
This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.

I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.

We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.

But me I'm a man with sexual needs.

Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.


Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.

Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.

Guys come to my aid.

Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.

Sorry wasn't brief

screen shot d chats n send to d useless pastors wife.

best u start destroying his b4 he finishes urs.

SenecaTheYonger:
You must be a closet fagg0t with this mentality. Check yourself, you might be having erection for guys and it upsets you

lol nah

on paper nice

lets see off paper

sa

my ears are close i know wan know.
but person turn helper to hider

lilyheaven:
But Niyi is married...
Don’t think he is a gay.

one can b married n b gay bros

IgweOfNnewi:
madness

this is Nigeria

Oladapo3971:
How much?

u get money to waste

Abbysant50:
Nobody said that. This is a Nigerian forum so I asked for recommendations. What don’t you understand about that?

hold let me weed a little

d makeup sha

Abbysant50:
If you don’t have a logical answer to my questions , there’s no reason to answer. Be blessed

u expect every one to hail ur visit.

dude get a life.

u are visiting family but u not asking them to come pick u instead u come Nl.

Abbysant50:
I am visiting family. If you don’t have a real answer to my question, there is no reason for you to comment. Be blessed

if u like visit ur enemies na u use ur leg enter here

d 1k too small nahh dis one dey hungry

Alicia1:
lol 的哦有水平恩爱看?

this is like soaking in tongues none of us know wat we are saying


有水爱看?平恩

Alicia1:
gosh玩儿阿尔瑞呢的。
Nigeria is damn backward !

as in ehhh

翻译翻译

Alicia1:
'的哦那天'tell me there is no female programmers in this country huh

all of them dey either dey do fashion or hair dressing or olosho or

all d above


programming is hard for them.

Unlettered:
Bruhhhh talk dey your mouth…

me m just asking oh

soo niyi is d black guy right.
obviously queen is d girl
and white money is d yellow gay looking dude.


i rest my case if u can read inbtw

jaeyking:
Well you disrespected that friend who invited you to the wedding.
And to the friend that supported him is very stupid.

That's the least I can say.

I respect everyone's opinion about life but

Sometimes we show ego and pride for the wrong reasons.

I guess that Person wasn't really your friend, probably just an associate

its not ego it's stupid of d so called stupid man of God if nah tinubu pukin he go bold

if u pay that for hnd wetin u go pay for direct.

u nah mugu.
paying for a girl fees weather she cheating or not.
n u not even married to her.

seriously how do dey breed men these days

SportsHD:
Congrats.

If it's this lady - https://www.nairaland.com/5403537/please-just-discovered-she-been

Once debe, ex always debe.

Cc. Chatinent , ahnie.

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yes but if its a excess thing n she cheats am out

soo with all d crap going on in Nigeria u still wan carrry ur self come.

ur people no like u

Magician nothing else.

i liked transparent plank under d water

and when whatapp comes back we should run back shey