Family › Re: My Aunt's Husband Is A Monitoring Demon. by hstar: 1:14am On Feb 28, 2021 |
AfroKnight:
Bet shops? He can only get worse. And he will drag your auntie down with him.
There is something about broke people who still bet. They always have unreasonable expectations of good luck while doing the same things that yielded no results before.
Best thing is to leave him. Sorry to say.
But don’t suggest this to your auntie. She won’t listen and she may mistakenly tell her husband. Never advise married people against their spouses. Same goes for people in love. Dem no dey hear word.  Confirm |
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Celebrities › Re: 2Face Reacts As Apostle Suleman Says He Makes Money Through Speaking In Tongues by hstar: 12:58am On Feb 28, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: If I'm not mistaken, I believe the Bible says when you speak in tongues there should be an interpreter hence its just rubbish.
Anyway who am I to judge? E be like say I go open church. Who get building wey he no dey use? I get guys wey fit form deaf lame blind and crippled. Righteousness can be the pastor because I know say na Lamba full him head. As a former banker I can be the treasurer. Counting money is in my DNA. Airforce 1 can be choir master. Lala go be ursher. This plan might just work O.... Slawormiir nkor? |
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Celebrities › Re: Abdulsalam Sanyaolu 'Charles Olumo' Celebrates His 97th Birthday (Photos, Video) by hstar: 12:48am On Feb 28, 2021 |
CodeTemplar: This one is suppose to hint those who say Yoruba Nollywood picked up after mainstream Nollywood. Where are his boys now? Eyin Ejo and co? Eyin ejo don leave tey tey Na eyin ejo and kukute they act as villains then during the time of ewejoko and lukuluku bantashi |
Celebrities › Re: Abdulsalam Sanyaolu 'Charles Olumo' Celebrates His 97th Birthday (Photos, Video) by hstar: 12:46am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Oshokalo: what about ajigijaga those guy where the old agbero then We used to call him broken bottle then, I mean in the 90s |
Celebrities › Re: Abdulsalam Sanyaolu 'Charles Olumo' Celebrates His 97th Birthday (Photos, Video) by hstar: 12:37am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Alabyte: Rumour has it at a time that, he's Pasuma's Dad... Happy birthday Sir Dats what I came to check here Till today we no know Paso's dad |
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Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 10:21pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
kelvinrhs: We Meuuuuuveeeeeeee Alright o, greet home |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 10:14pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
kelvinrhs: You sounding like someone I know so I no go reply you � Ok, no problem, fear fear guy I can sense u are scared But..... |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 10:05pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
kelvinrhs: Why do you ask? I asked that owing to the fact that u neglected what could be averted Number two, didn't he mean everything to you? I mean ur dad Number three, was it that you didn't really care about him or what? I'm just very curious, because I believe if it's someone u cared about, u would av taken these signs seriously. Reply me o because I just feel like beating u, I swear |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 9:56pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
kelvinrhs: Oh if it's that one, I saw more signs 7 days before his death and didn't take any of it serious
I had more things bothering my mind then
And I was not wishing him death or anything like that so I just felt it was my mind playing tricks on me U are a native of which state please? |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 9:49pm On Feb 26, 2021 |
kelvinrhs: Me sef go give you Gidigbo
But that was what happened honestly
No Jara added U disappointed me U saw d signs and u ignored Kai, o dun mi gan o |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 10:18pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
kelvinrhs: This made me remembered when my dad died, I had a a dream about his death and I ignored the dream and tried pressing my phone for a while before I went back to bed (Phone mysteriously fell from me while I was online and the screen broke)
I switched it off and went back to bed in anger
Got the news the next day about his death, they said he died around 1:30am (My last on seen on WhatsApp) Assuming I see u in real life, I for give u knock |
Career › Re: Why Do Morticians Knock At Door Before Entering The Mortuary? Scary Experiences by hstar: 10:57pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Kayberg: I don't argue with those who claim they do not believe in superstition, supernatural and paranormal. I see them as people inexperienced to be argued with. When reality deal with them, they'd learn. Abi Na because reality never hit dem U are right |
Politics › Re: Maiduguri Explosion: How Rockets Crushed 9 Boys On Football Field by hstar: 6:31pm On Feb 24, 2021 |
Dasuks: Zulum was commissioner for reconstruction rehabilitation and resettlement. Trust him at ur own peril. Boko cannot even operate in Muslim majority Chad. Where Arabic is an official language and where one can find Arabized groups. But na Naija, with ten times the military budget where they can muster enough forces and the organization to attack a major metropolis...
The talk is same with Shettima: with buhari "things are better." To say the truth has now become calculus. They still will not admit that their negligence and encouragement allowed Boko emerge.
If u research u will find out that Sharia council of Naija supported Yusuf and the early members (some of whom even fought in afghanistan and served under bin laden in Sudan). Sheikh Jafaru Adam only quit them once he found out that the jihad was to carried out in Nigeria. Not mid'east. So they killed him......
Members of Algerian and Nigerien jihadist (the ones who fought the civil war then morphed into AQIM) groups were resident in Borno thru out the 2000s and nothing was done..... these ppl are not fooling anybody U seem to know much more about them |
Crime › Re: 53-Year-Old Man Nabbed For Stabbing Newly-Married Neighbour To Death In Lagos by hstar: 10:36am On Feb 24, 2021 |
9jaRealist: Football age...  Dude looks at least 70! > And he's still breaking bottle |
Crime › Re: 53-Year-Old Man Nabbed For Stabbing Newly-Married Neighbour To Death In Lagos by hstar: 10:32am On Feb 24, 2021 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 11:47pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Mikester: The Holy Bible Before nko? I no dey read am, I'm not talking about divine or heavenly book I'm talking about self development book Plus motivational books |
Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:50pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Mikester: Very true. The sun is somewhere shining even when it rains. Failure is the key to success; each mistake teaches us something. Bobo yi Recommend me a book please Confirm life changing book ni o Bia, my life is not bad o I just love learning new stuffs because I'm a chronic reader Oya, recommend one for me please |
Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:36pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
aprilwise: Nice write up. I made a lot of mistakes in the woman aspect especially when I was in the university till today am still paying the price. Ah  Please share na Let's learn from it, abeg |
Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:28pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Liposure: Meanwhile, the future is united Don't let me call sapphire for you o  |
Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:27pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
simplesearch: Sincerely this post is not for every guy, but for guys who want to grow the God way and do his will. Guys who want to act right in life at all times, guys who want to recreate the Joseph pattern in this present muddy world of physical and spiritual recklessness, guys who want to stand out. This post is for them. Truth |
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Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 9:11pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
theGUDgameR: Life has no manual, am speaking from experience. I remember how I always advise my elder ones on step to take. When I reached their stage I realised life is unpredictable. Pls, share ur experience We wanna learn |
Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 9:07pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Mikester: You've no points, evidence or logic to argue with so you come up with conspiracy theories against me? That is but a poor way to defend yourself.
By the way I didn't apologise.
One word "sarcasm" Lovely, I wanted to defend u before, but upon seeing that u are a strong man with wisdom I respect u more. RESPECT |
Nairaland General › Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 9:01pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
LikeAking: Nope..
We live in a wicked world, for only the strong hearted.
Na the good dey die.
There is a tin line between been good and been foolish.
When you are good in this world as instructed by the society and religion.
You will surly become a victim.
The good people are always the victims.
This world bad, my guy.
A generation of monsters. U are correct I used to be good and use to be good up till now But sometimes, I deliberately do bad, not evil bad o, or badly bad but minimum amount of bad so as to prove that I'm not stupid, I'm human not an angel Lastly, why I sometimes do that is because pple that I do help don turn me to mumu They tend to discuss amongst themselves that 'just go and meet him, he would say yes, he doesn't know how to say no' |
Romance › Re: 8 Traits Of Strong Men That Women Can't Handle by hstar: 8:35pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Mikester: The definition of masculinity and manhood is ever-changing and evolving with the times. Gone are the days when only males who drove rugged cars and were eager to square up and fight were considered strong men. And with this steadily shifting narrative on what strength in men entails, there are naturally people who are unable to deal with it.
Strong men make amazing partners. They are fantastic friends, family members and more. But some women may have difficulty accepting the new trend of masculinity and all the things that make men so strong.
Here are the 10 traits of strong men that women can't handle
1. They prefer to promote peace over violence
Violence is seldom the answer, and a strong man knows that he doesn’t have to use his muscles to showcase his problem-solving skills. When faced with an awkward situation, he uses his mind and heart to overcome it instead of turning to aggression.
Of course, some women may be unused to this approach to problems from men. It may cause them to perceive these men as weak which is a very misguided view of the situation. Regardless, a strong man knows that there is wisdom in picking battles, finding compromises and promoting understanding and peace.
2. Strong men are ambitious
A strong man is highly ambitious. This ambition can often mean putting their careers and goals above any romantic attachments. It’s a highly respectable and positive decision, but it’s one that some women may take issue with, as it automatically lowers their position on the ladder of priority.
Of course, strong men know the value of balance too so are happy to balance their ambitions and family life once a relationship is more committed. But it is unlikely that the relationship will be anything more than of equal priority to their other goals, which is something that some women may dislike.
3. They know what they want
Being wishy is a historically weak quality no matter which gender is performing it. That’s why a strong man knows what it is that he wants and have no qualms about going for it without hesitation.
A strong man analyzes his wants and needs, reflecting on his wishes and actions to discover what he wants. This doesn’t mean that he has everything figured out. Instead, it shows that he is aware of his direction in life and he knows what the heart of his desires are.
On top of that, a man’s strength will not let anything stand between him and his goals. His positive thinking has no room for pessimism. Someone who slows him down or stops him from getting where he wants to be isn’t going to be kept around for long.
4. Strong men demand and provide honesty
A strong man doesn’t see any point in beating around the bush. He wants clear communication at all times. He sees no point in obscuring the truth with buttery, flowery speech. This is because he wants the honest constructive truth quickly and he believes that others would benefit from receiving such honesty.
It’s not unusual for women to occasionally desire a gentler type of speech from their partners. As such, the blunt directness of a strong man may be off-putting to them. But at the heart of it all, this is a man who wants clear communication and easy understanding and that is a positive thing for any relationship in the long run.
5. They take the lead
A strong man does not shy away from leadership roles. They are more than happy to take the reins and all the responsibility that comes with it. They can take the initiative and put in all the effort needed for it to work unlike the simps who wants their women to mother them.
But lots of women have bad experiences with being wrongfully mansplained to, or being treated as incompetent. As such, some women may misinterpret a strong man’s natural leadership abilities and command as an act of sexism.
But hang around him more and you’ll realize that he merely has a desire to take the initiative, regardless of the genders of everyone else in the room. All you need is positive thinking.
6. They know what they are worthy of
Many times, men are reduced to having to be “grateful” for the women they date. They have to express that they feel “lucky” and as though they should be thankful for a woman to want to date them at all.
But a strong man doesn’t have time for this type of self-deprecation. They know what they are worth and they know what they deserve. They refuse to stand for adverse treatment and will not settle for less than what is fair for them.
Sure, a strong man will feel lucky to have found his significant other but will also realistically know that they are valuable to the relationship too. They have something to offer just as their partner does. It is this type of positive thinking that keeps their self-esteem healthy and balanced.
7. They value their time alone
These types of men genuinely see the importance of being comfortable with being alone for their self-improvement. This means that a man of strength will always want a little time to himself once in a while.
In this time alone, he can meditate, reflect and be his person and that’s very important to a strong man. They want to be free to explore their hobbies and interests and they also want to have time to explore themselves. If someone takes his desire to be alone personally, he will cut them off.
8. Strong men are fiercely independent.
They don’t need anyone to tell them what to do. They know how to care for themselves and don’t wish reliant on anyone neither do they want anyone to be excessively reliant on them, nor do they want to be controlled. Independence is essential to them.
Strong men have much to offer, whether to relationships, to their workplace, or to themselves. Women who can’t handle them are certainly missing out but these men don’t care about that. Instead, they’re happy waiting until the right person comes along.
If you’re a man who aspires to emanate these qualities, don’t let the fear of women being unable to keep up stop you. Your strength comes from within, not from the people around you. Besides, do you want a partner who doesn’t want you to be strong?
Being strong is something to be celebrated and appreciated and you’ll find that this strength propels you through life in ways no external person can do for you. So take that strength, nurture it and wear it proudly.
HOPE I'M MAKING SENSE Yes, u are making sense, ur threads are always on point |
Romance › Re: The One Truth About Poor People by hstar: 8:32pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: Senate Confirms Buratai, Olonisakin, Others As Non-Career Ambassadors by hstar: 4:14pm On Feb 23, 2021 |
Please, what do they mean by non - career ambassadors? |