₦airaland Forum

EreluRoz:
Return something that he voluntarily gave to me?
I'll just try and stop accepting his gifts and cash , that's all.

As you wish sis, all the best.


Try and stop collecting things from men you don't wish to date or have a fling with, this is Nigeria, Africa not Europe or America, it's for your own good

EreluRoz:
Offer him kini? So irritating.

I struggle to communicate with him, that's how bad I don't like him and you say what? Ewww

I will close my eyes and end this thing for my own peace of mind

Please for your own good, put together all the gifts he has given you, even if its 70%, put them together and return it back to him, especially the monetary part, this is the only way to be free from him if he ever decides to take revenge in whatever way he wishes.


And please I am advising you like I would advice my own blood sister and daughter, don't ever accept a gift or money from any man you don't have intention of fulfilling his request. Always have it in mind that no man gives a woman that is not related to him gifts and money for free, there is always a hidden intention which can be from sex to relationship or marriage.



Men are not father Christmas, they give to the opposite sex to make you like them and to soften your heart towards them so that you will accept their request when they finally make one.



Avoid it, it has destroyed the life of many ladies and even grown women without them knowing.



If you don't want to give, don't take.

Oha ma dike


Tinubu out of fear of Hausa-Fulanis and fear of losing Northern people's support for his reelection in 2027 will not release Nnamdi Kanu.


Deep down Tinubu's and his advisers' hearts, they know Nnamdi Kanu deserve to be freed, by the way, they have withdrew all charges against Sowore and Igboho, why not do same for Kanu based on equity, fairness and for national peace/unity, that is if Tinubu and his advisers truly want peace/unity in Nigeria?

EreluRoz:
Don't insult him please, he's a very good man. Just not someone I can date. What do I do kos the guilt I feel is making me so uncomfortable

Be kind and humane to him and offer him a one time sex to repay his good deeds since you don't want to date him, if not, be prepared to pay back anyhow any way.



Alternatively, gather all he has given you and return them back to him.


Gifts are a strong connection that can be used to hold one accountable even spiritually.


You owe anybody you accepted his or her gift, so whoever you don't want to do anything with, please don't accept their gifts, this is the safest thing to do.


Many ladies are married and going through a lot; childlessness, ungrateful husband, wayward kids, difficult family finances, etc as a result of some things they did while single. While some single ladies are still single as a result of some things they did to men in the name of being a girl.


Avoid accepting gifts from people you don't wish to have anything to do with, there is a reason to that.


Gifts are powerful tools even in spiritual realms

tctrills:
It's happening here in Nigeria. Government forces and razing homes and shooting at the innocent but we prefer to stand with Gaza.
We are not flooding the internet with posts of Okuama. No one is standing with the innocent people of the community.
The average Nigerian has no sense of priority.
To many, Gaza is more important than a poor community in Bayelsa.

They also support the killing of Ukrainians by Russian invaders.


They support the massacre and burning down of Okuama community just because some outsiders came to Okuama to ambush and kill 16 Nigerian soldiers.


They also supported the killing of protesters at Lekki toll gate by Nigerian Army during EndSARS protest


They also supported the massacre of unarmed IPOB members protesting peacefully by waving Biafran flag.


They also supported the killing of Obigbo indigenes by Nigerian Army in Oyigbo Rivers State in 2021.



They have a penchant for blood due to their affiliation with a certain religion.


They should continue, time will teach them a lesson about supporting evil

Men stop paying upfront. Pay as you go, stop paying in advance please.


Any lady asking for upfront payment is a scammer, run. Some may even be local Yahoo boys using their mumu girlfriends to scam vulnerable guys in the name of love, romance and sex

Human being with conscience is speaking while most of his corn-fused kinsmen have been busy cheering the army to revenge by leveling down the whole community to show they have power and to teach the Bandits that have left the community immediately after the incident a lesson.



In situations like this, organized military in organized countries will not even go on rampage immediately, they will take days or weeks or months to investigate and then strike by picking out the culprits one after the other but in Nigeria, once a soldier is killed in a community, the rest of the community will be destroyed and all humans on sight shot without mercy as if the bandits that killed the soldier will be waiting and smiling in the community after committing the act.


Most times the community are also victims to the Bandits whom they cant even confront yet cowardly Nigerian army will invade any community where their colleagues are killed to inflict more pains on civilians without proper investigation which is how they have been creating more and more enemies for Nigerian army all over Nigeria.



Nigerian army make una change tactics, stop invading, killing and burning down any community where your colleagues are killed, it doesn't bring positive result at the end, yes its painful but calm down, take your time, secretly work with the locals to unravel the killers and pick them out one by one over time, this will win you guys more lovers among Nigerians than this your usual gragra in Southern communities, it will backfire if you guys don't refrain from it.


2024 is not 1999 when you guys invaded and massacred poor villagers in Odi Bayelsa oh, time have changed oh, Nigerians have become more bitter and angry oh, you carry gun today as army no mean say you are forever safe, make peace with Nigerian civilians, stop brutalizing civilians and attracting more haters and enemies to the whole Nigerian army. This is 2024

Human being with conscience is speaking while his most of his corn-fused kinsmen will be cheering the army to revenge by leveling down the whole community to show they have power and to teach the Bandits that have left the community immediately after the incident a lesson.



In situations like this, organized military in organized countries will not even go on rampage immediately, they will take days or weeks or months to investigate and then strike by picking out the culprits one after the other but in Nigeria, once a soldier is killed in a community, the rest of the community will be destroyed and all humans on sight shot without mercy as if the bandits that killed the soldier will be waiting and smiling in the community after committing the act.


Most times the community are also victims to the Bandits whom they cant even confront yet cowardly Nigerian army will invade any community where their colleagues are killed to inflict more pains on civilians without proper investigation which is how they have been creating more and more enemies for Nigerian army all over Nigeria.



Nigerian army make una change tactics, stop invading, killing and burning down any community where your colleagues are killed, it doesn't bring positive result at the end, yes its painful but calm down, take your time, secretly work with the locals to unravel the killers and pick them out one by one over time, this will win you guys more lovers among Nigerians than this your usual gragra in Southern communities, it will backfire if you guys don't refrain from it.


2024 is not 1999 when you guys invaded and massacred poor villagers in Odi Bayelsa oh, time have changed oh, Nigerians have become more bitter and angry oh, you carry gun today as army no mean say you are forever safe, make peace with Nigerian civilians, stop brutalizing civilians and attracting more haters and enemies to the whole Nigerian army. This is 2024

Northern youths claiming to be Bandits attacked Nigerian Defense Academy in Zaria, kidnapped some high ranking Nigerian soldiers and killed some, I didn't see Yorubas scream foul play or call for the invasion of the community in Zaria. More than this have been happening in Northern Nigeria over and over, Yorubas didn't come all out en masse to condemn it like they are doing with this Delta State case, they kept quiet like nothing happened because it is their most feared and most cherished Nigerians that committed those ones.



A former Accountant General of Nigeria from the North stole Nigeria dry to the tone of 200billion or so, Yorubas didn't turn it to a national outcry calling for his head.

Former EFCC Chairman from the North did similar looting and other criminal acts, it didn't bother Yorubas at all because they are Northerners their newfound political allies.


Emefiele the former CBN Governor in collaboration with several other Northerners on the instruction of a Northern President Buhari redesigned Nigeria's currency which caused currency scarcity during build up to 2023 Presidential election, after his tenure was over, Yorubas home and abroad turned his case to a nation anthem calling for his arrest and complete destruction for looting Nigeria's money.


Some Soldiers got killed in a community in Delta for reasons.that is not yet clear, all Yorubas are everywhere making a national outcry calling for the invasion of the Delta community but when it happens in the North, Yorubas becomes silent and blind to see.



I really want to know ask oh, why are Yorubas always too scared of Northerners? Because Northerners looted Nigeria dry, have committed the greatest atrocities against Nigerian State but Yorubas will hardly cry out or bath an eyelid but once half is done by an Igbo person or someone from Southsouth, Yorubas will find their lost voices, why is it so? What sup with this style of politics and criticism abeg?




Na wa oh, eyes are watching oh


This will not be the last time Nigerian army will be attacked, let's wait and see if all these Yorubas screaming all over the place about this ambush of Nigerian army in Delta community will also scream this loud when Nigerian army gets ambushed in any of the Northern states. We shall see. Shebi Yoruba people now love Nigerian army more than every other Nigerian that they are happy that army have carried out or will carry out retaliatory attacks on the Delta community?



Please don't lose your vocal voices when Nigerian army gets ambushed and maybe killed in the North.


Same people screaming up and down about this have been the same people cheering Putin on to keep massacring Ukrainians and also cheered Tinubu on to invade Niger a sovereign nation.


Ronu oh, ronu oh

No other Army in the world derives joy in killing it's own country's citizens they swore to protect just because they want to retaliate the killing of some of their colleagues by gunmen/militants except Nigerian army and some other West African country armies sadly, and this is why civilians most times don't feel bothered when a Nigerian army is killed or dies in the hands of terrorists.



And Yorubas mostly are happy cheering them on just as they cheered Tinubu on to go and invade Niger.


The same Yorubas have been cheering Putin to continue killing Ukrainians.


The same Yorubas were happy when Nigerian army attacked unarmed IPOB members waving ordinary flags and massacred them in the most gruesome manner to the excitement and joy of most Yorubas.



Honestly, it seems Nigeria's biggest problem isn't the Hausa-Fulanis we all think, but rather the Yorubas who love seeing their fellow Southerners massacred for same crime they look away from when Hausa-Fulanis commit it.



This is how people attract generational curse and natural backlash oh, Yoruba people make una ronu oh hmmmm

Northern youths claiming to be Bandits attacked Nigerian Defense Academy in Zaria, kidnapped some high ranking Nigerian soldiers and killed some, I didn't see Yorubas scream foul play or call for the invasion of the community in Zaria. More than this have been happening in Northern Nigeria over and over, Yorubas don't come out all out en masse to condemn it, they keep quiet like nothing happened.



A former Accountant General of Nigeria from the North stole Nigeria dry to the tone of 200billion or so, Yorubas didn't turn it to a national outcry calling for his head.

Former EFCC Chairman from the North did similar looting and other criminal acts, it didn't bother Yorubas at all because they are Northerners their newfound political allies.


Emefiele the former CBN Governor in collaboration with several other Northerners on the instruction of a Northern President Buhari redesigned Nigeria's currency which caused currency scarcity during build up to 2023 Presidential election, after his tenure was over, Yorubas home and abroad turned his case to a nation anthem calling for his arrest and complete destruction for looting Nigeria's money.


Some Soldiers got killed in a community in Delta for reasons.that is not yet clear, all Yorubas are everywhere making a national outcry calling for the invasion of the Delta community but when it happens in the North, Yorubas becomes silent and blind to see.



I really want to know ask oh, why are Yorubas always too scared of Northerners? Because Northerners looted Nigeria dry, have committed the greatest atrocities against Nigerian State but Yorubas will hardly cry out or bath an eyelid but once half is done by an Igbo person or someone from Southsouth, Yorubas will find their lost voices, why is it so? What sup with this style of politics and criticism abeg?




Na wa oh, eyes are watching oh

Tinubu will create Yoruba versions of Aliko Dangote; government made Billionaires without any extraordinary invention to merit their billionaire tag, it's a welcomed development because Hausa-Fulanis did it, allow Yoruba President to enrich his tribesmen, it is their turn, their lo kan

Let them discuss and agree how to hand over Nigeria to Peter Obi since Sir Emeka Anyaoku is old and Dr Alex Ekwueme is late, and myself I am not ready now to carry Nigeria's multitude of problems.


Only a competent Igbo man will rescue Nigeria plus a return back to regional system of government, without these two, Nigeria is wasting time, find a way and leave Nigeria for your own good and your children's good

This is commendable at least.


But there ought to be at least 2 centers in every LGA in Lagos state.


Well done Sanwo-Olu

Cowards.


Nigeria is a funny country.


Imagine American Army vowing and begging Terrorists and their sponsors to release their names.


Destroy all terrorists making Nigeria unsafe; even if you find President Tinubu's son among sponsors of terrorists, go ahead and destroy him, that is your statutory duty not writing epistle and making unnecessary vows that shows you are scared of offending some perceived powerful Nigerians, what a nonsense Army

Pinicop:
Some section of this country are well-known religious terrorists.

Others, who happened to be their next-door neighbors, are violent land grabbers, ethnic cleansing murderers, and commercial kidnappers.

Some community excelled in drug smuggling , dealing in baby-factory-made children, and producing counterfeit goods.

There others who are renowned religious bigots, and poverty-multipliers by uncontrollably giving birth to alms-begging children.

In this country, we also have kidnapping militias-cum-economic sabatouers.

And this region, these ones in the news above represent, are world-class fraudsters and ritual killers.

Nigeria, chai!!

By the way, I'm from one of the evil communities mentioned above.

Let me interpret your comment for those that are not spiritually carried to decode your spiritual message.


Kanuri tribe of Nigeria are known for Islamic religious terrorism and producing MUSLIM terrorists.


Fulani their next neighbor are known for violently grabbing lands belonging to other tribes in the name of rearing cow abi cattle, and they have now advanced their business into kidnapping for ransom.


The Igbo tribe have made a name for themselves in drug trafficking, creating baby factory to produce babies they sell to people who cannot father a child. They are also good at faking products


Hausas are very known with being religous bigots, if you are not a devout Muslima, they don't regard you as human being, and they can marry plenty wives and manufacture children they cannot take care of like bees, they are mostly good at begging using their children


And the Yoruba tribe who are the people in this very news are known for international internet fraud, cyber fraud, identity theft, wire wire fraud and ritual killings.



This is what makes Nigeria a wonderful country, a great country of criminally minded tribes that have mastered different crimes based on their tribe

Na wa oh

jeromestarks:
Sometimes, you talk like a stu.pid woman. Other times, you talk like a lunatic but this time, you spoke like a good woman..

You're a wise woman. God bless your husband (if you're married).
I like you.

You lack manners.


Your response to the lady you quoted sound so rude and nauseating.


Seems you have issue with females, wahala oti poju for Nigeria sha

1Sharon:
If you claim to be a leader of the home and a
protector, you should be able to put your foot down and say no to any maids to begin with.

Or you sell your birth right to your wife. Say no to maids and you won't be in that shit. Invest in gadgets.

Maids or house helps are one of the things that make living in Nigeria fun for the rich and okay families with young kids, but unfortunately heartless, selfish Nigerian married women aren't appreciating such rare opportunity that doesn't exist abroad.


Instead they have made many struggling Nigerian parents swear never to allow their kids live with anybody.


If you stop your wife from having a house help and she is working like you, your kids will suffer, your home will hardly look neat and tidy, house helps do wonderful jobs at home that deserve serious commendation but our wicked married Nigerian women have been abusing it sadly.


I think the best is to employ a grown up person.


Sometimes I wonder what's difficult in caring and loving any child living with you as your own child that our women can't do without causing drama.


And it's not as if they are the ones bringing the money yet they can't happily enjoy the money a man brings with everyone at home.



Like one old man I once met would say, women are necessary evil.


You ladies, all of you are selfish and wicked, just that you guys are necessary evil men can't live without

1Sharon:
That's great to know. But why do the husbands of these women never do anything when their maids are being abused?

Most husbands do complain and even try to scold their wicked wives but you know how difficult you ladies can be when being corrected in areas like this; some will start accusing the man of having romantic feelings for the maid, while some will then turn the situation to a family feud whereby she ends up making the home unbearable for the man for scolding or correcting her.



Women are born wicked and selfish, all women but at varying degree and their wickedness to other people's children become more pronounced as soon as they get married, and it gets worse when she marries a financially buoyant man.

99.99% of black women, including your mom, sisters, aunt, cousins, nieces, etc are born wicked. They are very wicked to any child that is not their biological child especially once they get married.


Married Nigerian women are the most wicked humans on earth and maybe that is why nature punishes them with cheating husbands

hahahahaha robot want to do that thing

lol, out of 5, 4 are Igbos.


And you don't need a Babalawo to tell you the Igbo ones among them



Beauty is hereditary, it runs in the gene, it is always where it is

Zonefree:
A non virgin bride has no moral justification to smile or dance on her wedding day.

Melagros:
COMRADES: sometime ago, a catholic priest was preaching in the church; and he said, when you wake up in the morning kiss your wife without brushing your teeth, your erectile dysfunction will be cured! And then my friend asked! How did the priest knows that? Then I appealed to my friend to leave that for the scientists to prove that

COMRADES, 2023 elections has come and gone so many rhetorics have been said and heard during various campaigns by so many speakers, and some of those rhetorics are mere 'eye services' below are some the names of some of those politicians who barked, shouted, and even screamed like stray dogs in the streets for the ruling APC to retain it post with the hopes of compensation! APC eventually got the day, but, unfortunately, those politicians to their amazement were dumped!

THEY ARE:

EL RUFAI: Nasir El rufai is the immediate past two-term governor of Kaduna State, the controversial politician was one of the politicians who fought tirelessly, promoted the Muslim Muslim, fought the then incumbent governent for Tinubu to succeed thinking he would be compensated with the post of the chief of staff, SGF, or head civil service of the federation etc. Fortunately or unfortunately, Tinubu gave El Rufai the shock of his life! And I heard that El Rufai is now a rasterfarian

AYEDE: Ben Ayade is also another governor who was elected on the platform of PDP to govern Cross River State, but defected to the ruling APC after he was deceived with the lucrative office of the president, he contested for the office of the president and lost, he wanted to return to his former party and he was deceived again to contest for senate that he will be made either deputy senate president or the president of the senate or at all he will be compensated with the office of the minister, after spending the funds from the treasury of the people of Cross River State on APC to win the presidential election, APC and president Bola Ahmed Tinubu dumped him! And now he is no where to be found because he shot himself in the leg

UGWUANYI: Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi was the immediate past two-term governor of Enugu State, at so many separate meetings both at the state executive council and clans meetings, Ugwuanyi had been urged severally to declare his support for the presidential candidate of the Labour Party since he belongs to the G5 governors, his reply had been; Peter Obi is going no where as long as this election is concerned for this reason he will support Tinubu because he trusts Tinubu will compensate him when Tinubu gets to power, he lost his senatorial election hoping to get a juice appointment. Distinguished COMRADES, has he been compensated till date by either APC orTinubu?

ORTOM: Samuel Ortom is also another governor who rebelled against his party the PDP, Ortom declared his support for the presidential candidate of the labour party, but, unfortunately, the support was a mere verbal support without a single structure, and this led to the recapturing of Benue State by the APC, because the governor campaigned for APC ignorantly! He lost his senatorial election on the platform of PDP and now he is licking his wounds

DAKUBO: Asari Dokubo, is an ex militant from the Niger Delta, from the State of Rivers in particular, Asari declared his full-fledged support for Tinubu because according to him, the party filled a Muslim Muslim ticket so it deserved to rule Nigeria, according to various sources, Dokubo was eyeing to be a minister in the ministry of education, he visited the president at the presidential villa and the APC's national chairman severally, but fortunately enough, Tinubu and his party wished Dokubo well his future endeavours! Is this interesting? Only you can tell

LALONG: Solomon Lalong, the immediate past governor of Plateau State was the DG of Tinubu/ Shettima 2023, he was the one that was charged with the responsibility of convincing the Christians that the Muslim Muslim tickets is not aimed at islamisation of Nigeria, but it is just a strategy for winning election, you could recall that Lalong because of the election had a minor 'confrontation' with the Pope in Vatican. He worked hard for Tinubu to succeed, but after Tinubu finally got the position, he compensated Lalong with the common office of the minister of labour, and Lalong after assessing the risk he had taken during the campaign, he turned down the offer, fought for his way to the senate. I am pretty sure that Lalong is having the profound regrets of his life now because Tinubu has taught him a little lesson

FASHOLA: Babatunde Raji Fashola was the immediate past two-term minister of power and housing, during the presidential election, Fashola was accused by many that he was the one who did all the underground works for INEC to declare Tinubu the winner because he was the one in charge of the APC's control rooms. But today Tinubu made Fashola an orphan in APC. What a joke?

OMOKRI: Reno Omokri, was once an adviser to former president Jonathan, when Tinubu was declared winner in presidential election, then there was a sudden change of events, Omokri started romancing Tinubu, praising Tinubu online with all sorts of exalted names, he betrayed his masters Atiku and Jonathan, he even came back home with his praises thinking he will feed from the national cake, to the amazement of many, Omokri is back in London angrily and he was heard saying during an interview with channels TV that he will make sure that Tinubu accept defeat in good faith should he lost in the next elections. I think he said so because Tinubu refused to give a listening ear to his flatterings

IKPEAZU: Okezie Ikpeazu, the immediate past two-term governor of Abia State is/ was a member of the G5 governors deceived by wike, he contested and lost for senatorial seat in Abia State, the governor was rebelling against his party the PDP and was mistakenly campaigning for another party, after he had lost his bid to clinch the senatorial seat, he alleged that the election was rigged, and since he is Wike's yesman, wike then tried recommending him to APC and Tinubu, fortunately, Tinubu being a smart politician told him; depart from me you doer of iniquities I know you not!

KAYODE: Fani Femi Kayode (aka) FFK, Mr stomach infrastructures, Kayode was the for minister of aviation and also presidential aide to former president Obasanjo, he was a former member of PDP, he was very vocal during and after the election, talks from the grapevine had it that; Kayode was heard vowing before that he can't take any appointment from Tinubu less than the office of the chief of staff or SGF, but, unfortunately, Tinubu's body language tells him to focus on his future career

COMRADES, the question I want to ask is: which of these politicians deserves dump? Why after someone has laboured for you, then suddenly you snub them? Is APC or Tinubu right for subbing these politicians after working for them? Did APC dumped them because their political career was over or irrelevant?
Only YOU or time can tell
Thank you very much

You will cause them to remember them with an appointment, watch and see

No matter what, this is wickedness especially at this time and state of Nigeria's economy.


There is what they call "tempering justice with mercy" by considering the Nigerian government induced hardship right now

One of Bola Ahmed Tinubu sponsored campaigns of calumny against Southeast and of course Peter Obi during the run up to 2023 Presidential election.



Where is Simon Ekpa?

Where is Gentle General?


What happened to the Unknown Gunmen killing Security men in Southeast like on daily basis before the 2023 Presidential election?


What Tinubu and co have done to grab Presidential power since 2013, if the secrets are opened, the world will shiver


Time will tell

Lol

Sighs