LadyRosa:


Lol, I'm between both worlds.
I like doing things that makes me happy, I don't like being imposed on. And I don't impose on people, sometimes I willing give people space because I follow my intuition and it's damn good, trust me. When I'm extremely quiet, something bad is about to happen or I'm nursing an internal pain. It's really difficult to get a man that understands me the way I understand them. All in all I'm a selfless person, so the fact that I put others before me makes people think I'm always OK even when it's not so.

Yeah, we do not like impositions both for and against. Just allow people be responsible for the final decision on how they breathe by themselves. Hahaha...So ok, maybe your case is more of a quiet person with certain acquired non quiet attributes. I am also trying to acquire some of these attributes, like truly being impulsive in doing certain things, but this has proven to be more difficult than I thought. The funny thing is that people think you are impulsive, but hand to God, you know you are not. I think they mistake non conventional for impulsive. All in all we just want our people to at least try and make an effort in understanding us the way we do for them. It's mostly the trying that counts for us anyway. At the end of the day, just like everybody else, we just want to be happy.

missmalachi:
I couldn’t stop smiling as you just narrated my husband.
They honestly can’t chew anything stronger than water.
I don’t expect surprises as it won’t come.

I remind him of my birthday,tell him the type of gift i want and even go further to stores that have it in order to get their price….on his own part,he goes ahead to get it exactly how i asked and I genuinely appreciate his effort.
7 years strong.They are actually not gentle when they are with their women.

Hahaha....tell your husband that somebody told you to tell him that he accurately remembers your birthday. He might actually not remember other people's own, but as for your own he remembers. Let me try to paint a picture of why he deliberately allows you to remind him of your birthday. It boils down to his inconclusiveness about the kind of gifts to get you. It is better, solid, efficient and more peaceful for him to allow you run this process.
As for second paragraph all I can say is that oh well... Baba is just optimizing.

BigYash:
Those guys you feel are quite.. When they become comfortable with you,na them talk pass.. They don't forget easily, and they are very intelligent.

That is why I usually chuckle when I see people, especially ladies feeling that they are smart because they are playing quiet guys. B*tch please, you see that your game ehn, before you finish planning it, that guy has already completed its planning, tinkered with it, done some iterations and optimized it. At the end of the day he will probably just play along just to see how good you are and how fun it will be watching frantically trying to pull off your next move

yemmybx:
I'm an active member of Nairaland who doesn't comment and seldomly post. I only come to read comments for cruise only.

LadyRosa is a genius. She described me to the last letter.

Exactly, the lady just did a detailed exposé that had peeps scrolling, smiling and acknowledging solid post. If not that she hinted otherwise, I would tagged her a quiet person, cos f*cking observant. Although I think she is a closet quiet person.

LadyRosa:
Lol...
As I stubborn reach na so so quiet men dey date me. So I've had great experience from past relationships and currently another quiet one dey my side. What I noticed with them


They are highly intelligent, don't talk much, don't mingle much, social function almost zero.
Them sabi cook oooo! Few clothes, expensive or not, they are well arranged,ironed.No scatter scatter. So once I'm looking for something they help me look for it because I go scatter their wardrobe and leave it like that! No time!

They are calculated and secretive. Don't gossip at all. Going into their house and coming out seems like sneeking around, so people don't know if they are in or out.

Don't like loud music.Those who go to club rarely dance, them go dey laugh who dey dance . When they decide to party, the subsequent days makes them really dull and want to 'rest'. Even during outings after few laughs and a drink with plenty water, next na to pick their car keys or flag down a taxi , time to go

Don't wear loud bright dresses. Dull dresses are their Craze.

Observe rather than talk. When they talk everyone is silent.

No toasting, they were too shy to say their mind. They will look and make few remarks, then look again. Relationship usually start from me taking the lead by keeping them talking with questions. "Do you like me?" that's enough to make them blush with relief and acceptance.

Spend thrifts. Show offs is foolishness to them.Not really into social media, few pics, most times like to be anonymous. Also, they can be nasty in secret.

Gadget lovers. Will spend money on the latest Playstation.Dont mind playing against computer for hours. Those who don't like video games, hardly watch football matches or are simply in different about sports. The passionate ones likes to watch it indoors, if they must watch outside na only them go sit down one corner for chair like zombie.
Simplicity. Eating out is not their need, so if they must, mostly snacks rather than cooked food. Neat freeks!
Forgives easily but with serious warning.
Don't like the silent treatment during quarrel. They will appear calm at first but, Na lie . Just pretend you no longer find them attractive or appealing and all hell breaks loose.
Not too romantic but very supportive and reasonable. Calm in the face of overwhelming trouble. Why others are panicky, they keep clear head, and think of solving issues diplomatically.
The ones who cheats do it well. You may never notice because they will never pick the other woman's frantic calls, if them too disturb they block them temporarily till further _drilling notice.Them no just like wahala from nags.
Have soft spot for women and can easily be manipulated to give out cash to them even without sleeping with them. Even an ex will continue to reap them off Even if they are no longer interested.
Don't get angry easily, but when they get you'd be sorry. Really really sorry and disappointed in yourself. They will lay all your 4ck ups and corner your defense on every angle

But them still dey talk o, but na inside house. Abuse them and meet a brick wall, no reaction. As my mouth sharp reach, I don't use bad words on them like I do on the street,They hardly use insults to drive home their point once an argument be like say e won bring insult, they ignore and find their way out. There are people that their level of maturity controls what you say.

Hahaha...forget your garagara from what you wrote up there I think you are a closet quiet person, we await you're coming out. One other thing is that quiet people can be so detailed about things and most people find this very annoying.

folake4u:
Lmao. All of a sudden, Nairaland men are quiet in real life.

I have always suspected that there are quite a sizeable number quiet people on nairaland and it seems to be true. Just look the handles commenting on Ladyrosa's post and try to count how many times you've come across their comments on this forum. Those handles look like they don't even exist on nairaland.

ChiefSosa:
Africa and some nonsense beliefs. They should gerrarahere joor. We need to get rid of some of these nonsense beliefs; it sounds moronic, especially in the 21st century.
It's mentally insulting. Try explaining some of these beliefs to educated and well exposed people, & watch how moronic you'll appear. U go be like fool_for their eye.

In as much as Pythons do not naturally attack humans, but not everyone is aware or would just let a python be moving around freely. Those students acted in self defense; the gods should understand. Look at the huge snake sef

I wonder why a chief priest is in a relationship with a python, when we have beautiful girls at Owerri.

*sigh*
Always using negative events to justify their juju. Issues at work site like this happen everyday. They happened before a python was killed; happened after the python was killed and it's still going to happen in future times.
We've also seen several white contractors that kicked away sacrifices dropped at sites, did anything happen to them??

Oga chief priest, the goats, fowl, fish, snail etc that you have been eating and drinking beer after, were they aggressive? Did they harm anybody? So, why did you now kill and even eat them?
If it's forbidden to kill snakes in such community, then you shouldn't let such snakes be wandering about. Get good animal protection program. Have snake catchers available. This is Nigeria, where MOST people are scared of snakes and don't even know which is venomous or not. Me any snake wey I see, I dey murder am straight.

Luck wey chief priest get be say d pple wey kill that snake no be nairalanders, cos na for frontpage im for see the snake corpse inside person pot with better caption.

pocohantas:


Omo! Ishi, if my children wan see my wedding picture, make them imagine am for their head. They should get creative abi imaginative, because I ain’t doing nothing!

Nigerian youths should start using their heads. They can organize a photoshoot if they want pictures for memory. After that, go for a honeymoon in a nearby African country. That is a whole lot better than sweating inside one hall while dancing skelewu, watching people drag foofoo, jollof rice and souvenirs, greeting unknown faces, including the ones that don’t mind tying your womb if they could.




I have the right to advise them because it is us they would want to sell 3yards asoebi for @ 25k. It is still us they would expect to spray them money that they can use to recoup their wedding expenses. It is us they will want to borrow money from after wedding. It is even worse when you are single because they assume you have no responsiblities. Whether single or married…they don’t spare us of their expectations. So I won’t spare them my advice!

Thank you.

Hahaha....poco on beast mode

kevoh:
Funny how those who have never coded an ''Hello" statement in any programming language now have opinions on how the CEOs of Patricia and abeg should do their marketing.

Haha....Human beings, they never cease to amaze you.

DropsMic:
When my My grandma was alive she lived below $1 a day but she never went to bed hungry because she grew her own product... Back then if you dash her money she go dash the money to her lil grandkids because she had no use for it. Following the white man's definition of poverty (one who lives on less than $1 a day), you'd conclude that my grandma was poor, but in reality she was wealthy.

RIP CATHERINE

The thing is your grandma was actually not living below one dollar per day, those village people d chop life, abegi. Bushmeat + Goatmeat + all other produce don't pass $1 per day well well ooo. Infact most people dey really chop wells if dem enter villa, guy village chopping na with reckless abandon ooo.

pocohantas:


Na small thing we dey take know man that wants to knack and go. He doesn’t want to see the “home you”, he only wants to see you prim and proper, ready for penising. You’ll be shocked that when the woman he loves and wants to marry visits, she would even hang her hairnet on his laptop and he’ll be smiling like mumu!!

Hahaha...hairnet ontop laptop plus smiling, Poco my hand dn comot for this matter. Abeg, goodnight before dem go knack me chain for here sake of noise pollution. I no get strength to d explain my state of sanity to people abeg.

pocohantas:


I am lost as to how the decency and territoriality didn’t stop him from wanting your pussy in his bed, but it springs up when he sees your washed panties. Toor!

Hahaha, Poco take your time ooo...so you dinor know that when men say they want free pussy they mean literally free pussy aka PWP(pussy without panties) aka pantless pussy.

pocohantas:


Decent ladies should sit in their houses and stop sleeping over in the houses of men they are not in “serious” relationships with upandan, because what may befall them might be worse than washed panties.

Hahaha....u no well fa.

Penguin2:
What they are doing to Rochas is the reason these politicians take their stolen to UK and elsewhere to go and invest.

If these things were built in the UK or Dubai, Hope wouldn't have had a single power to do the things he's doing.

Don't get me wrong...

I'm not saying it's right for Okorocha to have stolen, but one of our clamours in recent years is that these thieves should invest the money in Nigeria when they steal them. Now we have someone who did that and he's being made to regret it.

On another note, was Rochas that bad that successive governors wants to win the heart of Imolites by destroying Rochas?

From Ihedioha to Uzodimma, same story.

For imolites their grouse with Rochas is not investing in IMO state or Nigeria, I feel it is mainly with the way he forcefully and illegally acquired both people's and government lands for personal use when he was the governor of IMO state, with reckless abandon, while rubbing it in their faces.

AnonymousRebec:

Somewhere in Europe

Paris?