HARDDON:
Be there speaking english wit ur bumbum thinking life is a well scripted novel while some other guy wud come lick her off under ur nose like tomtom aiit?

Any suggestions?

ZarZar:


Your sign depends on the date & month you were born. To make it easier, when is your birthday?

Oh.....my bad; poor me.

August 10.

Yinkey6:
Scorpio is the eighth astrological sign in the Zodiac. Just asking Bro.

Oh....my bad. Let me consult google.
Done. Can't be a Scorpio.

ZarZar:


Lol, you had to take it the astrology route. I think I found a kindred spirit. What's your sign?

Sign? You are driving me crazy by your new astrology. Please come down to my level, i am interested in knowing my signs. Thanks.

ZarZar:
Schizoid personality disorder? Personality disorders & relationships don't mix well. Not sure if many people here will understand the mechanics of your disorder. Have you tried forums of people with personality disorders? I can give you a few suggestions.

Tried quite a few, not satisfying. Nonetheless, your suggestions can still come in.

Yinkey6:
Hey ,bro.
Are you a Scriopo?

Sorry bro, don't know what Scriopo is. Want to clarify?

auntysimbiat:
Hmmmmm.....

An extension of words may be helpful. Thanks.

I don't know why, but going by the book, this is not meant to be. But since it has, I guess there is not much I can do about it if not for what seems to be a regressing obstacle.

There is the girl in my faculty, lady perhaps. Petite she is, cute? I will give her a perfect tick. She has this glasses on, I think that's what attracted me to her in this first place, aside the intelligence and gentleness. She is good, pretty good; I mean her English, so I decided to kind of cue her in into my project(editing my novel). So we become close, kind of, in my own definition though: I'm a schizoid; I think that helps in gauging how close is close when I say close.

The thing here now is this: like I said, I am a schizoid. Just these days I am feeling so to say this urge should I say, to keep in touch with her, to say hi, to chat. This longing, should I call it need, I wouldn't say thirst for her presence but the truth is I love seeing her around and this, in particular, is giving me concerns. And this is because, despite all these, I still find it difficult, should I say more impossible to cross that line, the two distinct territory within me.

The weaker part of me want to cross that line, but the stronger guy continually overshadows it. Though I have been able to, over constancy, do some things naturally I wouldn't do as a schizoid yet this, the stronger part, I seem helpless before.

So, nairalanders, I think I will be needing suggestions, tips, on how to get this done: be with someone I, for the first time, take pleasure not just in her presence but her happiness.

Thanks.

Cc: Lalasticlala

L0velyn:
i am An asthmatic patient i rarely hv attacks, just last week i had a serious attack which almost took my life.... i am interested in the cure what's the process?

Buy garlics from market, squash it. Put the squash garlic into a neat bottle, add water to it (I used pure water for mine then). Always shake before use. Take small quantity please, it is very effective. You can check my signature to update me on things through wha''tsap''p.

Profcamsey:

I used honey and squashed garlic. I was diagnosed to have asthma when I was in primary school but had attack once. since then, living life but I do take preventive measures.

You can as well take a tip taste of Mis Paris every day.

VajanahDischaj:
yeah... This is what we want to know and not the lousy write up of the Op. Imagine

There is a cure.

shinarlaura:


Amen.

There have been so much improvement. At first I was always making the attack but since I started avoiding what could caused it, I could spend like 6 months without any problem.

My heart bleeds for you dear. It's not an easy life. I will like to have further discussion with you, you can check my signature for my contact. Will be happy if you can indulge.

justscorchone:


What's the cure.

Squash Garlic with water

Ginaz:
I had asthma some time back when I was in secondary school I think. They took me to the doctor and he said I had asthma, though he didn't give me an inhaler but he told me what to be avoided. I should bath with warm water at all times, keep myself warm at all times, don't cook or fry anything. I had attacks once or twice every month, my mom would run up and down to keep my cold legs warm. My legs would be extremely cold to the touch, I won't breath without panting, my chest felt pressed like I wanna die.

I did all that and it just went away, for the past 5 years I've been OK, no attacks no struggling for breath, I'm fine. I'm still wondering how come cos I heard they have no cure for asthma.

I guessed I was lucky to be healed. It's a miracle

Mine too was gone 5 years ago. It was a chronic asthma. Those days I wish I had died, you could always see in my eyes how much I hated life. Came to a point I took my pen I wrote this song:

"If I can just live a normal life
To smile and walk, and laugh heartily
Without pains as I on my bed lay
Then will I know that life is worth living

For now I see no sense in living
No worth placed on this worthless breathe
Why give life when you cannot sustain it
Only for it to deteriorate."

That was my song before God. Poor me then.

It could be a miracle, and it could be a traditional medicine I took (Squashed Garlic with pure water). Preventive measures? Never took any, I mean, there is no money to afford that, no oil? How will my family survive? Well now I'm glad I am healthy. I thank God for that though I still have issue with God when it comes to my personality (I am a schizoid)

Oops... Can't believe I am saying all these.

edlion57:
Can asthmatic patient be healed permanently....

Yes, they can. I used to have Asthma, but I no longer did. There is a cure for it, and it's less expensive.

Dear, she is not confused. Just uncertain.

oaroloye:
SHALOM!



I marvel at the fools who think that they are great Christians for doing things YAHSHUA never Commanded us to do.



I say that that is a complete LIE.

. MATTHEW 7:12-29.

12. "Therefore all things
whatsoever ye would
that men should do to you,
do ye even so to them:
for this is The Law and The Prophets.
13. "Enter ye in at the Strait Gate:
for Wide is the Gate, and Broad is the Way,
that leadeth to Destruction,
and many there be which go in thereat:
14. "Because Strait is the Gate,
and Narrow is The Way,
which leadeth unto Life,
and few there be that find it.
15. "Beware of False Prophets,
which come to you in sheep's clothing,
but inwardly they are ravening wolves.
16. "Ye shall know them by their Fruits.
Do men gather grapes of thorns,
or figs of thistles?
17. "Even so every good tree
bringeth forth Good Fruit;
but a corrupt tree bringeth forth Evil Fruit.
18. "A Good Tree cannot bring forth Evil Fruit,
neither can a Corrupt Tree bring forth Good Fruit.
19. "Every Tree that bringeth not forth Good Fruit
is hewn down,
and cast into The Fire.
20. "Wherefore by their Fruits ye shall know them.
21. "Not every one
that saith unto me, 'Lord, Lord,'
shall enter into
The Kingdom of Heaven;
but he that doeth The Will of my Father
Which is in Heaven.
22. "Many will say to me in That Day,

'LORD, LORD, HAVE WE NOT
PROPHESIED IN THY NAME?
AND IN THY NAME
HAVE CAST OUT DEVILS?
AND IN THY NAME
DONE MANY WONDERFUL WORKS?'

23. "And then will I profess unto them,

'I NEVER KNEW YOU:
DEPART FROM ME,
YE THAT WORK INIQUITY.'

24. "Therefore whosoever heareth
these Sayings of mine,
and doeth them,
I will liken him unto a Wise Man,
which built his House upon a Rock:
25. "And the rain descended,
and the floods came,
and the winds blew,
and beat upon that House;
and it Fell not:
for it was founded upon a Rock.
26. "And every one
that heareth these Sayings of mine,
and doeth them not,
shall be likened unto a Foolish Man,
which built his house upon the Sand:
27. "And the rain descended,
and the floods came,
and the winds blew,
and beat upon that House;
and it Fell:
and Great was The Fall of it."
28. And it came to pass,
when Jesus had ended these Sayings,
the People were astonished at his Doctrine:
29. For he Taught them
as One having Authority,
and not as the scribes.

DID YOU ABIDE BY THESE TEACHINGS OF YAHSHUA?

Certainly not.

So how much "LOGIC" or "REASON" could you have POSSIBLY had?



This is BULLSHIT.

YOU WERE NEVER IN GOD'S PRESENCE: PERIOD.



You saw yourself as "GIFTED?"

. EXODUS 23:8.

8. "And thou shalt take no Gift:
for the gift blindeth the Wise,
and perverteth
the words of the Righteous."



You have a "WRITING GIFT?"

Not seeing it.

What have you published?

Where are your websites?



How can you GROW, when you attend a Church of DUNCES?



YOU HAVE NO "SPIRITUAL ACTIVITIES" WHATSOEVER: PERIOD.



YOU DO NOT LOVE GOD, NOR DO YOU "UNDERSTAND," "ACCEPT," NOR "BELIEVE" HIS PLAN FOR HUMANITY.

You do NOT know "GOD," nor what His "PLAN FOR HUMANITY" is.

. DEUTERONOMY 6:4-9.

4. Hear, O Israel:
The LORD our God is one LORD:
5. And thou shalt love
The LORD thy God with all thine Heart,
and with all thy Soul,
and with all thy Might.
6. And These Words,
Which I Command thee this Day,
shall be in thine heart:
7. And thou shalt teach them
diligently unto thy Children,
and shalt talk of them
when thou sittest in thine house,
and when thou walkest by the way,
and when thou liest down,
and when thou risest up.
8. And thou shalt bind them
for a sign upon thine hand,
and they shall be as frontlets
between thine eyes.
9. And thou shalt write them
upon the posts of thy house,
and on thy gates.

I WENT OUT OF MY WAY TO EXPLAIN THE OYINBO DECEPTION CONCERNING "THE LOVE OF GOD."

Where were YOU and your "GIFT OF WRITING" then?



WE SHOULD READ YOUR NOVEL?

If you were to be arrested for being a Christian, there would not be sufficient evidence to convict you.



WHERE DID YAHSHUA SAY THAT HE WANTED TO BE SERVED WITH MUSIC?

. JOHN 8:30-32.

30. As he spake these words,
many believed on him.
31. Then said Jesus to those Jews
which believed on him,
"If ye continue in my Word,
then are ye my Disciples indeed;
32. "And ye shall know The Truth,
and The Truth shall make you free."

YAHSHUA IS SERVED BY PEOPLE OBEYING HIS TEACHINGS.

The BEST Bible Religious Singers in the World sent Yahshua to the cross!

The Oyinbos use Music as a MIND-CONTROL DEVICE- interfering with the BRAINWAVES and activating CONDITIONED REFLEXES.

The purpose of MODERN MUSIC is to DECEIVE people.

The law of God is my light. As frail as I am, I keep with all my strength.

Besides, you are not making sense here.

felixomor:

All you Need to do is take the first step. Overcome the inertia.
Join that group and take up a responsibility. You would be surprised and even later come to ask yourself "What Have I been doing"?
This is the solution. Nothing more.
Stay blessed

The interest is not there.

Topestbilly:
When a problem is defined solution is definitely around the corner.

Which begs suggestions.

Karlovich:
well religion is meant for the gullible, ask yourself which side u want to belong to. In Nigeria alone religion has caused so many problems.

I will assume you don't understand English.

I remember so vivid then how ecstatic I was in God's presence. Full of life and joy, in fact led praises in youth gatherings. So it becomes quite unbelievable how vast things have changed over the course of three years, and how well I personally have changed.

The beginning of this I cannot pinpoint. However, the causes I can suggest. Over the years I have become an active thinker with logic dominating most of my reasonings. These registered quite a lot of dissonance between what I used to belief and what reality presents as same it has helped in understanding the universe and God purpose for humanity, and what he is doing to achieve this despite the human race being unappreciative. Also, my not so interested in many things and zero emotional level could have also contributed to the lack of Joy in God's presence, since Joy is a positively heightened emotion. This then stands not the problem but, "My inability to make use of my gift."

As a thinker I do so well in the line of writing, so the gift of writing which is intellectual I exhibit without restraint despite my personality, in fact it favours it. My other gift which propels this piece is the musical skills: I am a songwriter and singer.

Unable, is the verb that relates to this gift. Of course I try my best going to church despite my so restrained spectrum of interest. That wouldn't be a problem, the problem is the joy is not so much there: the need to be part of what they do. I see choristers sing and every time I wish I can be part of that, sing with them to the God of my fathers. The gift is there, I have written hundreds of songs, taught couples in the past, still write, just I can't exhibit the will to sing or teach them any longer. I am approaching zero level of interest in spiritual activities. Conflicting is I still love God having understand his plan for humanity. So the author is not an, and can never be an atheist. This is evident in my coming novel "A Loveline" (I will like you read it).


So, if anyone knows how, and how and well, well and good, efficient practical not spiritually placed steps to exercise this music skills of mine in God's presence as I expressly do here with my writing skills, I will be glad to see it shared.

I don't want it wasted.

-Hurlstarling.

CC: Lalasticlala OAM4J SEUN

I remember so vivid then how ecstatic I was in God's presence. Full of life and joy, in fact led praises in youth gatherings. So it becomes quite unbelievable how vast things have changed over the course of three years, and how well I personally have changed.

The beginning of this I cannot pinpoint. However, the causes I can suggest. Over the years I have become an active thinker with logic dominating most of my reasonings. These registered quite a lot of dissonance in what I used to belief and what reality presents as same it has helped in understanding the universe and God purpose for humanity, and what he is doing to achieve this despite the human race being unappreciative. Also, my not so interested in many things and zero emotional level could have also contributed to the lack of Joy in God's presence, since Joy is positively heightened emotion. This then stands not the problem: "My inability to make use of my gift."

As a thinker I do so well in the line of writing, so the gift of writing which is intellectual I exhibit without restraint despite my personality, in fact it favours it. My other gift which propels this piece is the gift of worship: I am a songwriter and singer.

Unable, is the verb that relates to this gift. Of course I try my best going to church despite my so restrained spectrum of interest. That wouldn't be a problem, the problem is the joy is not so much there: the need to be part of what they do. I see choristers sing and every time I wish I can be part of that, sing with them to the God of my fathers. The gift is there, I have written hundreds of songs, taught couples in the past, still write, just I can't exhibit the will to sing or teach them any longer. I am approaching zero level of interest in spiritual activities. Conflicting is I still love God having understand his plan for humanity. So the author is not an, and can never be an atheist. This is evident in my coming novel "A Loveline" (I will like you read it).


So, if anyone knows how, and how and well, well and good, efficient practical not spiritually placed steps to exercise this music skills of mine in God's presence as I expressly do here with my writing skills, I will be glad to see it shared.

I don't want it wasted.

-Hurlstarling.

Boxer007:



Forget a ugly creature called Oyind17. Imagine your self in a wedding dress showing your back. Boo you will be a lovely bride

Never again quote me in your life. And never again in your life insult a friend. That's a threat.

Oyind17:
I was on a low key

Comes with the territory. Brainless people now dominating nairaland.

Oyind17:
Same to you, how have you been?

I'm good. Been searching allover nairaland for you. Somehow lost your number.

Oyind17:
So nairaland now promotes gay marriage

Sadly yes.

Happy New Year. It's been a while.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

Words failed you. . . But that's not a problem because no homo sapiens is perfect. Kindly replace schizoid with highly sensitive and you are good to go. Those traits you enumerated are of a highly sensitive person. Schizoid remains a disorder. For a example while a schizoid person tend to be apathetic a highly sensitive person is the opposite - empathic.

There is nothing like highly sensitive person , in as much as we have nothing lowly sensitive person. That said, aforementioned are schizoid traits. Not fore going, Schizoid is not a disorder. Eccentricity is not abnormality.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

Words failed you. . . But that's not a problem because no homo sapiens is perfect. Kindly replace schizoid with highly sensitive and you are good to go. Those traits you enumerated are of a highly sensitive person. Schizoid remains a disorder. For a example while a schizoid person tend to be apathetic a highly sensitive person is the opposite - empathic.

There is nothing like highly sensitive person , in as much as we have nothing lowly sensitive. That said, aforementioned are schizoid traits. Not fore going, Schizoid is not a disorder. Eccentricity is not abnormality.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

Words failed you. . . But that's not a problem because no homo sapiens is perfect. Kindly replace schizoid with highly sensitive and you are good to go. Those traits you enumerated are of a highly sensitive person. Schizoid remains a disorder. For a example while a schizoid person tend to be apathetic a highly sensitive person is the opposite - empathic.

There is nothing like highly sensitive person, in as much as we have nothing lowly sensitive. That said, aforementioned are schizoid traits. Not fore going, Schizoid is not a disorder. Eccentricity is not abnormality.

Missonas:

We all have different challenges as humans but it cripples you if u let it. Schizophrenia is one. You probably are familiar with schizophrenics who would rather use their way of life to their disadvantage, I mean those who dont want to go to school or work. They prefer to live in their fantasy. Most of them are very intelligent people. They over used their brain. Mental imbalance has types just like HIV and cancer thats why people confuse and generalise. They are not insane cos they see things differently.

Op pls i sent u a mail

My mail, not working. Check through my sig to contact me on wh*atsapp.

khiaa:


This is crap schizophrenics are so emotionally draining, stressful, depressing and suicidal to the point that if you don't get them out of your life they will make you physically sick. They can be liars, cheats, thieves and shyt starters just like anyone else. The one thing I agree with in the article is that they are loners and that's not by choice but because they are so bat crazy they loose all their friends and most of their family.

PS.....I'm talking about the ones who refuses to take their medication.

You should at this age of yours be able to know that schizophrenics and schizoids are not the same. Howbeit, I feel your pains.