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Business / Re: I Want To Buy Telegram Accounts by Hyacenth22: 7:59pm On May 23, 2022
Jay95:

Yeah sure
still buying account ?
Business / Re: Sell Your Fb Account Here by Hyacenth22: 7:56pm On May 23, 2022
PhamBao10:



message me on telegram @Matemorphosis
Your account is locked
Your privacy is set to get msgs only from contacts
Why not msg me on @highergigs on same telegram tnx

Business / Re: Sell Your Fb Account Here by Hyacenth22: 12:40pm On May 22, 2022
PhamBao10:



➜ ➜ ➜ I so sorry If I'm posting Off topic, Please Don't report me! If you have a Old Nairaland Account, I will buy it. old account which about 7 years to 1 year old. I will buy it. Please contact me on telegram:
I wan sell this one how much are you buying?
Education / Re: *** by Hyacenth22: 9:38am On May 22, 2022
pocohantas:
***solved***
Good morning ma pls can you help me with 1k to feed..
I am ashamed of my actions that's why i am using a dead thread..
Kindest regards.
Politics / Re: Umahi: Blame Ohanaeze For Nnamdi Kanu’s Fate by Hyacenth22: 7:45am On May 22, 2022
Maxymilliano:
Apart from obtaining APC 100m Presidential nomination form and visiting Buhari in Aso Rock, David Umahi have not been seen moving round the country for consultations and selling is candidacy to delegates.

Is that how he plans to win the APC primaries ?
someone that tinubu used to purchase form because of delegates.
How did you think he escaped being thrown out of office?
Business / Re: Sokoloan Are Very Nasty Set Of People, The Government Should Take Action (photo) by Hyacenth22: 2:42pm On May 09, 2022
MrKbz:
Dm i know someone working with Bfree


sent
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Real Madrid UCL (1 - 3) On 6th April 2022 by Hyacenth22: 5:31pm On Apr 07, 2022
rimijoshua:
I am looking for the guy that predicted Madrid 3 Chelsea 1
Kindly send me your AZA
Can you help me with something
I am in a very bad state.
Business / Re: Sokoloan Are Very Nasty Set Of People, The Government Should Take Action (photo) by Hyacenth22: 9:41pm On Mar 28, 2022
IgiveLadiesBj:

I don't understand, when they call you, what do you tell them?

+23417004360 - BFREE

Which account did they say you should pay the money to?
The asked me to make payments for an overdue loan with cashpal
I later called thier agent and demanded for the account cashpal sent the loan she said it was quick check and not cashpal, I told her i had paid off quick check my airtime went out..
Since then am yet to hear from them but thier online details still shows am owing cashpal and quick check
Business / Re: Sokoloan Are Very Nasty Set Of People, The Government Should Take Action (photo) by Hyacenth22: 9:51am On Mar 22, 2022
bfree has been calling me concerning a due loan with cashpal..

I have never borrowed money from any loan app except quick check and i am not in anyway owing them..

Please is there anyone with bfree customer agent contact or their emial address

Is there a way i can report them..

They have kept calling but i never took a loan with cashpal, I want them to provide the account this loan was sent to..


Each time i used the option to speak with thier agent the call ends abruptly.
Business / Re: Loan Apps: I Have Used My Hands To Bury Myself by Hyacenth22: 9:50am On Mar 22, 2022
bfree has been calling me concerning a due loan with cashpal..

I have never borrowed money from any loan app except quick check and i am not in anyway owing them..

Please is there anyone with bfree customer agent contact or their emial address

Is there a way i can report them..

They have kept calling but i never took a loan with cashpal, I want them to provide the account this loan was sent to..


Each time i used the option to speak with thier agent the call ends abruptly.

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Business To Business / Loan App by Hyacenth22: 9:48am On Mar 22, 2022
Bfree has been calling me concerning a due loan with cashpal..

I have never borrowed money from any loan app except quick check and i am not in anyway owing them..

Please is there anyone with bfree customer agent contact or their emial address

Is there a way i can report them..

They have kept calling but i never took a loan with cashpal, I want them to provide the account this loan was sent to..


Each time i used the option to speak with thier agent the call ends abruptly.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Worst Companies To Work In Nigeria With Reasons by Hyacenth22: 8:56pm On Nov 30, 2021
Itex integrated services
Pos agent you will see devil..
15k basic salary..
Your on tagert to meet at least 50 customer's daily..
Weekly t.fare of 4k
The failure to meet target means 15k with any thing they feel u archived..
Hot sun go dey kill person and someone sitting at the office will be feeling boss.
Stupid company



Pilgrims security those one pay their guards peanuts, the guards who work under the sun for thier British company, and the ones at the office takes most of the big pay while the guards who keep securing this contracts are left with noting..

The British high commission should look into that..
Family / What Is Your Reason by Hyacenth22: 10:18pm On Nov 18, 2021
What is your reason for fighting to stay alive..

Death eventually knocks, take away lots of pains so why are we striving so hard to stay alive..

Once saw a quote "reason to live, reason to die"

I Know am depressed but this is an honest question..

What is your reason for fighting to stay alive?

Many hope to be better in riches, but it's all the same circle no matter the acrhivements, the enjoyment, the honours, the money, just name it we still leave all this behind..

Give me a your good reason for fighting to be alive..

Seun, lalastica, mynd44 can we get this a wider attention please..
Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 12:05pm On Jun 29, 2019
Eco2580:

Bro,
Has she told u the name of her friend who tip her on how sweet givig head/licking is?

Cos am thinking that her friend must be lesbian or young gigolo.

Dont confront her now until u gather all evidences.

Well if u have her email and it password, we will reveal this mystery to u.
yes i have both mails and password and what mystery is that?
And i know that her friend
Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 11:10am On Jun 29, 2019
Alot of you thinking i dont do it well the truth is i cant, there is no need pretending about that. Giving head is not my kind of thing.
Have confronted her alot of times she even swore to me no man has ever seen her naked since we got married
I have asked her countless times about the lesbian stuff which she denied.
Why is that now a priority to her now, i cant connect with her emotionally anymore because the more i try the more difficult it becomes.
Life is just not fair this betrayal comming from someone i would take a bullet for, it's hurt.
I cant and will not indulge myself on that Mouth Gig stuff because even if i do it does not necesaary mean she will stop cheating if she was cheating neither will it assure me she would not come up with new sexual orientations

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Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 10:24am On Jun 29, 2019
pimper24:
my bro, your is sure a pathetic tale but you have to thread with caution when being advised on this platform. If you are legally married to this woman, this is the wrong lace to table this problem. I have not had a glimpse of a near professional advise so far among the deluge of messages here and there.
However, apart from the std which is a serious red flag and as such, an issue I cannever sweep under the carpet, there are other things you need to know about your woman.
What is her sexual orientation like?
There is a possibility she has not said much about her sexual outing. Your story was almost like mine but I handled it with so much turf and prayers. I'm my case, I engaged mainly on dialogue and threatened to call it quits. Then she opened up; her first man actually 'raped' close to Timi Dakolo's wife's experience. Ever since that experience, she never enjoyed sex. Her initial ecstacy during our early days were actually pretexts. She's come out clean and we v met an expert that recommended a kind of surgery, though abroad. But in the meantime, I am still ok with her, supporting lubrication with lube and making her take a bit of alcohol.
In my case, I have never suspected cheating because I have no iota of indication. After our three kids, the situation got worse a bit and we I know its family pressure.
May be I am the one God wants to address this issue.
The "you are not doing it well " , I equally got it. It was when I flew off handle and hauled some serious threats that she opened up. You cant tell me that cos you knew I was a play boy even before you met me. You can interview my past women.
With the family pressure, I once in a while take her alone on vacation, leaving the kids with grannies. Above all we are planning to relocate to the Americas, there I know the surgery will be more successful.
Now, you didn't tell us how you handed the std issue. If you managed to resolve it anyhow, in a .way that she not culpable, take my above advise. You must resolve that first.
God will help you.
we are still on the STD treatment and am already feeling frustrated because i have invested almost everything to see her happy and to maintain a happy home, there is nothing i cant do to please her but that of MouthAction is a NO
Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 10:13am On Jun 29, 2019
Safitu:
She is complaining because she’s not sexually aroused. Some women need extra care and stimulation to feel sexually aroused. She’s is tired of pretending, because she has finally received an orgasm from outside, which has opened her eyes. This is marriage, so there’s no jumping out. You said you don’t have interest in MouthAction, but clearly that’s what your wife enjoys. The only reason why you don’t like it is because you don’t know how to do it.

Do you know where the clitoris is? What about her nipples ? Do you touch her inner thighs? Do you kiss her neck? Are you gentle with your touch? The fact is that you don’t just shove your dick inside her vagina, or finger her aggressively and think you’ve done a good job. Study your wife’s body. Sex is extremely important.
how can you ask me about knowing the clitoris, even during romance am always the one to stimulate her, while she lie doing nothing, and i dont complain about that, do you think if I was doing stuffs wrongly she would actually accept to date me for years and even end up marrying me?
Well think about what might be the issues with her not me, she is very much sexually aroused almost all the time she asks for sex.
If she has been pretending all this while trust me she will still continue to pretend because she can't seem to leave me despite all this issues

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Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 7:53am On Jun 29, 2019
Deepfeel:

No am not married but I have been close enough to a married lady in the past to know what is happening to your wife, especially if u married her as a virgin or u are the only man she knows sexually, that feeling of there is more to sex than what she's getting from you will always be there till she tries it with another man,
Initially she was always satisfied and reach orgasm with just penetrated sex right? But u see sex is a mind game in her mind she has a new taste for sex which goes beyond just kissing smooching fingering and penetrating
She's out to explore sex with someone else
If u still love your wife will advise u to study and get to know your wife more sexually the act of sex is a progressive one she has moved to another stage you are still on the same initial stage sexual understanding is important between couples
she isnt even good with sex, 15 mins of thrusting and she will complain of pains, she never satisfied me because i mostly pull out erected and wanting more, she herself is sad she does not satisfy me, secondly I do 99% of the work on her to get her in the mood without receiving any, thirdly did not marry her a virgin

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Pls i actually dated this said lady for over 4 years before marriage, sex was never our issues, my stuff is about 8 to 10 inch long more reasons I believed she complains of pains after about 15 mins thrusting.
I have never cheated and i can start that oral thing as it irritates me, i dont demand for it either.
Am just ashamed of how things are going because she isnt opening up no matter how hard i ask her, am i feel stupid if this will lead me for a divorce.
And also no child yet more reasons am worried.
Can STD be gotten from toilet or any other means aside body contact??

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Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 7:49am On Jun 29, 2019
osato45:
if she says nothing is wrong where did the std come from?

on her browser when did she start browsing about lesbianism pussy sucking? afterall you said you both agreed to wave it off at the onset of your marriage.

you have to jot down all your observation and get her response to them one by one, that way you can know the real cause.

I have my suspense bro but what confuses is she is not active on social media, whatsapp and the likes, she is after her looks, she dosent hide her phone, i know her password, she still shows me this care and give me but i beg for her time and attention, she has only a female friend i know off and that's the one who told her how good oral was according to her, can i woman be cheating with out being secretive with her phones, and extra mindful on her looks

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Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 7:11am On Jun 29, 2019
greatcrown:
The case is complicated.
I think you should have sincere discussion with your wife.
Let her know your findings and conclusion and ask her what she really wants, I expect her to be sincere enough to tell you.

I'm not sure you will be comfortable with what she wants but it's in your interest to let her have it.
You deserve to be happy, don't die in silence.
i have done this alot even yesterday she keeps saying nothing is wrong

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Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 7:10am On Jun 29, 2019
Deepfeel:

Oga but you already know her problem she wants head which you are not giving to her, you tried twice and did it wrongly she might be getting the head outside but what will you do if you discover she's cheating divorce her? Sex practices are changing and like it or not every woman wants to reach orgasm which can't be achieved through penetrated sex alone, oga if u love your wife learn this act of giving head and win your wife back the information is all over google don't be a sexual failure
are you married I guess NO
If am sure she cheated why cant i conside divorce.
Its just 2 years old marriage, so if she cheated she will still cheat.
The act hasn't been my stuff and it's not like am complaning about her not giving me head.
Sexual failure well i will choose to ignore that part but before this issues was out she was always satisfied and reached organism always.

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Family / Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 6:02am On Jun 29, 2019
Thanks for all your contributions

The issues is no matter how hard i try giving her head i cant seem to ratify her, her reactions toward my efforts is very discouraging and secondly since am not into it from onset i belive am not good in it.

The STD she tagged was toilet infection but i later found out it wasn't, after having disccuedwith my family doctor who told me STD cant be contacted from the toilet.

I just seem lost in this as all my effort to connect with her emotionally seems dead, secondly i dont wish to have a divorced home but then again i cant continue begging for sex always, i just feel bad doing that must times i just sleep with my urge, it's affecting me and cheating is not my stuff.

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Family / Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Hyacenth22: 2:07am On Jun 29, 2019
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

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