Family › Re: My Girl Friend Having Issues Having My Siblings Living With Us If We Get Married by hyeeshat(f): 12:26pm On May 17, 2016 |
cococandy: It is not wise to have relatives live with you permanently after marriage. No matter the love, they will have some days of disagreement and those days they may not handle it as they will treat their own blood siblings.
You're not even accommodating one person but three. Haba you think am. If three of her siblings come to stay with you guys permanently will you like it? Don't think the marriage is all about you.
If you can get them accommodation elsewhere, then better do it. Or if you can wait like she said until they move out (which you don't know when it will be), then wait. But if not, let her go if she wants to go.
Once you guys get married, she becomes your number one family. And when you guys start your own family with your kids, trust me it will be a crowd. Nobody wants that.
And you're right to want to take care of your siblings since you're their oldest one. Tough to be you but you have to decide.
P.S it will be hard for you to find a lady who is willing to start her new marriage with that kind of crowd.
Go with what you think is the priority for you now. i love your response....its easier said dan done...I love my privacy..I can't allow 3 of my husbands siblings to live with me..I can still allow maybe 1..starting a new marriage with that kind of a crowd?? u won't even be comfortable and teenagers of nowadays can be tasking....I can still make do with dem spending d holidays thou..but three of them staying I can't accept dat..especially with d way d economy is. |
Romance › Re: 8 Most Handsome Guys On Nairaland romance section (with Pictures) by hyeeshat(f): 1:10am On May 07, 2016 |
omg m literarily drooling!!!!!! |
Jokes Etc › Re: When Ilorin Alfa's Visit Lagos For The First Time by hyeeshat(f): 12:44am On Apr 25, 2016 |
smh |
Health › Re: Drug Or Injections: Which Do You Prefer? by hyeeshat(f): 12:34am On Apr 25, 2016 |
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Health › Re: Drug Or Injections: Which Do You Prefer? by hyeeshat(f): 9:10pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
I'll prefer drugs anytime I hate injections ..I hate needles generally..it gives me creeps |
Health › Re: Drug Or Injections: Which Do You Prefer? by hyeeshat(f): 9:10pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
I'll prefer drugs anytime I hate injections ..I hate needles generally |
Food › Re: Can You Eat Any Of These Cakes Without Vomiting (viewers Discretion) by hyeeshat(f): 5:59pm On Apr 21, 2016 |
godfirstawe: What is the motive behind making toilet and disgusting cakes? I thought so too..God!!!!! it's fucking disgusting |
Romance › Re: Fat Women Are The Worst Kind Of Women To Date Let Alone Marry by hyeeshat(f): 11:39am On Apr 15, 2016 |
FreeBSD: Nobody has any choice. Everybody like good tin. Why can't you make the choice for fat women? Why go with slim ladies with small bwess? Because na dem make sense pass.
Fat ladies are trash that is so mean..it might be hereditary..... and its very bad to make fun of pple especially wen it comes to bodily features....am not fat neither thin buh I admire plus size Ladies... |
Romance › Re: Fat Women Are The Worst Kind Of Women To Date Let Alone Marry by hyeeshat(f): 11:38am On Apr 15, 2016 |
FreeBSD: Nobody has any choice. Everybody like good tin. Why can't you make the choice for fat women? Why go with slim ladies with small bwess? Because na dem make sense pass.
Fat ladies are trash that is so mean..it might be hereditary..... and its very bad to make fun of pole especially wen it comes to bodily features....am not fat neither thing buh I admire plus size Laddies |
Romance › Re: Fat Women Are The Worst Kind Of Women To Date Let Alone Marry by hyeeshat(f): 11:37am On Apr 15, 2016 |
FreeBSD: Nobody has any choice. Everybody like good tin. Why can't you make the choice for fat women? Why go with slim ladies with small bwess? Because na dem make sense pass.
Fat ladies are trash that is so mean.. |
Politics › Re: See Wat Angry Tenants Did 2 Landlord In Lagos 4 Making Life Difficult 4 Them(pix by hyeeshat(f): 5:32pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
ozoebuka1: lol.... make dem leave printing for u oh buh at least d landlord will be ashamed seeing d poster..so definitely he will return d money.. |
Romance › Re: Guys Pls Don’t Be Deceived! See What Bae Do To Get Big Ba-ck Side by hyeeshat(f): 5:27pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
lol not all girls oh |
Celebrities › Re: Four Nigerian Singers Who Can't Sing by hyeeshat(f): 11:13pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
the list wouldn't be complete without kcee..dat guys songs are wack |
Family › Re: Is It Right For Married People To Go Clubbing ??? by hyeeshat(f): 11:00pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
of cos y not I can so go to the club wif my husband wen am married... |
Celebrities › Re: Adaeze Yobo Fires Back At Fans Who Say She's Lying About Her Age by hyeeshat(f): 10:55pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
lol |