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Their is no country law that protects baby mama all u deserve Na child support for the kid, which every reasonable father will provide for his kid simple

Exjoker:
Almost all the weapons used by SA military are locally made (aircrafts, helicopters, missiles, tanks, armored vehicles, guns etc). They have one of the best and developed military industry Africa. They even made the first and only nuclear bomb in Africa which they later dismantle after signing the nuclear bomb control pack.

Does that now mean they can supply Russia weapon, Russia ooo

Jojopikin85:
I thought they said Russia will finish Ukraine under 1 week but guess what the war don dey go more than 7 months if am not mistaken . Lol

Dude if Russia actually want to finish Ukraine, it won’t be up to a week, even with all this that is happening Russia doesn’t even feel like they are at war, there economy is going well and people are living there day to day life as normal whereas u can’t say the same for Ukraine

Dude just end the relationship, se Na like this u wan dey live for the rest of your life, I pity u cause it will only get worse once u marry cause then ur gf will start giving u tough time and attitude anytime u denied her parent request.... I pity u

USA and using media to lie whenever things ain’t going there way, how many weapon SA get for them to be giving a whole Russia weapon, every weapon on the planet 60% of it was created by Russians that’s what they are good at, and Putin also Na one person wey fit use any amount to fuel weapon making, so cause USA wasn’t able to brain SA the way they did Ukraine, they had to bring out there weapon which is the media to lie and spin truth as always... Thought u guys said Ukraine was winning some days ago, so what happen again, Na social media winning lol

CuriousStudent:
cry lol? He is the one about to lose the marriage not me.

If you read my post to mrbrownjay1, you will have seen where I was pleading and praying she accepts the child. I am not as vile and petty as you naija men are. Children are very dear to me.

The point of my message to you is to stop your double standards as regards to step children. You can't be telling women to drop their kids of previous unions elsewhere and also forcing them to love a man kids with all their heart. She may accept out of the fear of losing her marriage but you will watch your child been unloved, isolated and not receiving maternal love. Don't complain or cry when your wife doesn't visit your kid in school during visiting days, or doesn't sleep in the hospital watching over your child if they fall ill. The money you drop can never buy love and nuture of your wife.

Yes we will continue to call broke men irresponsible the same way you slut sham only women

So typical, have u seen a woman that hold her own bag and can take care of her kids from previous marriage been told to let her kids go, No ... u know why cause the husband knows he won’t have to carry the bills of the kids in questions cause the woman is capable enough to do so, so instead of crying if u or anyone u know find themselves in that situation, instead of crying they should be finding ways to be okay enough to take care of the child in question without the help of the new husband then it won’t be a problem no more but instead for them to do that they would rather claim victim lol

CuriousStudent:
Typical black men mentally. Accuse women of not loving children that aren't theirs yet are not any different.

As far as I am concerned you are in no moral right to accuse a woman of not loving / treating a step child different from her own children.



Just drop 'money' which you believe is the 'pass' for making your wife care for children that aren't hers, and come and narrate the outcome of it to us on this forum.

Cry all you want them no put gun for her head make she stay the marriage now, if she ain’t happy then she can go ahead and file a divorce last time I checked, both man and woman have the right to file a divorce, and about the money p why don’t u drop that money for once too, typical Nigeria woman mentality of calling a man irresponsible all cause he no get money

CuriousStudent:
Just look at how you are shamelessly defending him?

That is why I don't Pity men crying from paternity fraud. Or you believe you all are immune from the consequences of reckless sex? Lol

If it were a woman that hid a love child from a man or even came clean with it,would your analysis be the same?

If the finances of the said child doesn’t concern the man in anyway, then it would be the same, cause in this case, from everything finances it will be the man that would still take care of it, but in the case of a woman, u will expect that since u come clean now, the husband will have to assume another extra bill of the child then the analysis can’t be the same simple

All this is nonsense in as much as the guy no force the person wife, instead of this nonsense the husband of the guy only have one move a reasonable person suppose take, go home pack her bags and throw it out simple then she go hear from ur lawyer the next day

Okeowo big name, his kids are also very low key, guess they took that from there dad, the only time dey are loud is there end of the year party, Na people of timber and caliber they always come there plus plenty stars, there house was the one use in Living in bondage, house wey get church inside Omo the money long

RealSolution001:
That is the question my bro. How am I sure the one I love loves me as much?

U see that girl u love doesn’t love u as much, I have been with a girl that was more busy than her, she always find time to see me, any free 30 or 1hr she get she don dey find me come, to the extent that Na my side she dey come chop her lunch break just so she can be around me, if the girl was really feeling u, Na she go create time for u no matter her busy schedule might not be much but she will always turn up every chance she get without u having to force or convince her to come

Was telling a friend about this kind of stuff, genesis of this problem is the fact that when 2 unhealthy people come together, their kids will have one medical condition or the other, if u are a healthy person and ur spouse be person wey dey always sick or have one medical condition or the other is better to call it off to avoid transferring sickness to your offering cause the illness might b stronger than what ur partner has or even come in another different dimension

MrBrownJay1:
you said ONLY one thing that made some sense here...aka the dude is a simp...apart from that, all the rest is nonsense.
- so you mean to say that the dude did no wrong by bringing that child over before explaining the situation to his wife?
- so you mean to say that the dude did no wrong by letting this issue slack for so many years?
- so you mean to say that the dude did no wrong by hiding such a secret for so many years from his wife?

That’s why I said and I repeat again that the dude should have told the wife immediately she wants to come back that he don impregnate someone and if she wan stay make she stay and if she doesn’t make she dey go, u didn’t read that part

MrBrownJay1:
this is the reason why so many children are abused....how can you bring a child of 11yrs old to your wife of 13 yrs, and tell her that the little bastard is now gonna live with you?! what type of madness is this? doesnt he have a mother? why not continue to hide the child? what about FIRST addressing the fact that you fathered a child with some strangers, while being married ?!

Do u listen to the video or u just decided to comment, the guy did no wrong, they been together for 13yrs and married for 10+ b4 they got married, the wife broke up with him and during those months of break up the guy don get another person pregnant, then the wife came back that she doesn’t want them to breakup again that they should continue, the only mistake the guy did was not telling her immediately she came back cause the idiot was a simp and didn’t want the girl to go the 2nd time if he told her, person wey leave u go follow another man, and d guy didn’t treat her as good as the husband then she came back to him and the fool also took her back and kept his son a secret, the son should be ashamed of his simp of a father

Ademola go dey Shock dem like high Tension

Nigeria girl definition of small boys is person wey no get money, that’s says a lot about u people only a fool will travel out and still come back to marry a 9ja girl

Unna sure se Na legal things person go dey do for this job

He should accept the job and see how the first month goes, there might be some hidden money benefits in the job apart from his actual salary, and if he does for the first month and see it doesn’t pay then he can quit, he might even see another job opportunity from that job

Lol, in as much as u deserve justice but he raped u on 2 different occasions in his house and it’s not like u living there, so after the first one u still wake up, brush, go bath, dress, carry car go meet am again for him house again are u mad, does that make sense unless he use juju call u the second time that the only explanation I can accept anything is is bullshit

The only mistake the guy did was keeping it a secret after they got back together apart from that he didn’t make no mistake, u guys took a break from each other for 2months and dude find someone else to impregnate during that time, so for whatever reasons U guys decided to come back then get married, he should have told her immediately the wife wants them to get back together again... That’s one of the characters of a simp a girl broke up with u, now came back months later that u guys should continue and u did then get married again wtf, person wey leave u go test someone else she only came back cause the person didn’t treat her as she expect but ur mumu was so happy that she came back that u had to keep ur son hidden all cause u don’t want her to go again ... God forbid

As a guy if u don know se a girl u like love money and u later made that money just use that money chop am once or twice then move on, don’t stay there, u knew in the first place she only gave u attention cause of what u have, so no dey try change am u go suffer am if things later go rough small for future

Drug barons people how e be now, abi e get another court wey unna wan go again lol, no more osun money going to Lagos

Won’t be surprised if Na she kill there father hoping to inherit the properties only to find out that the man has given it to his kids and not her then she just decided to off the children too

brain54:
It wasn’t the bidding process that was made public bro…


It was a sealed deal. A done deal.

And even if the bidding process was made public why are you so sure it was Tony?

It’s difficult to keep such deals under wraps.

But this was a sealed deal!

And the way I see it if anyone is spoiling anyone’s name then it is otedollar.

He is a he one who attacked Tony’s personality here isn’t he?

Go twitter and search the full official document of the company with tony signature, of how much he had to pay to ote in other for him to have the shares back, he say it’s difficult to keep the deals on rap, do u even read what I asked u to search, cause if u do u won’t say that, when otedola own was happening to him it wasn’t difficult to keep it on rap but as soon as payback comes it now difficult to keep it under raps, he didn’t attack his personality, go Twitter now all the company ote said he stole the idea from him are now tony own, then make tony come out say, he didn’t steal the idea from him then unna go see prove of who first bid for this companies

brain54:
I no digress…

You made an analogy of a person shooking someone with knife 5 times and then the other person retaliating just once…remember?

Anyway they is absolutely no way big deals like this will go down without public notice. Absolutely no way… making it public has nothing to do with spoiling anybody’s name.

Otedollar should simply not have made that comment in public!

Yes I made the analogy tony shook am knife 5 times and ote no talk he then shook am once he go leak bidding and trading info to the public, why he leak am in the first place and before u answer and say he didn’t, go google and search acquisitions and bidding documents, they are never made public knowledge unless the ceo give the approval simple then come give me a reply

IMole for the next 8yrs no shaking, oyetola never again

steeltrust:
that means you don’t know what business is all about
If you don’t know you don’t learn that in school but you learn from the street

Otes didn’t make his mover clever enough and tony took advantage of it

Have you ever wondered why dangote or mtn are top of their industries till date?

It because they move quickly before anyone else

Lol, people wey dey do bad always say this nonsense to prove they are not guilty, why do you think shares comes into play in the first place, ote only told tony as a friend and if he did want have a taste of it he should have offer to partner up with ote that’s what a reasonable person will do that’s what makes up of shares in all this global industry partnerships, he dey make moves faster abi, why he never see anything acquire again since ote don cut am off, u can’t start stealing ideas from ur friends and start calling ursef smarter, if u are really smart the idea will have come from u in the first place that’s what smartness is u creating the idea not u stealing it

brain54:
I wasn’t referring to the bidding process…

I was talking about your claim of Tony making accusations of otedollar choking him!

It was made public for a sole purpose to spoil his name and push a narrative and he correct it simple, chocking him as how u done dey go from the matter ooo

brain54:
Tony hasn’t made any official statement…

The only thing I heard him say is otedollar is his friend and he is one of the only 2 people he follows on twitter.

Where has he complained?

U will say he didn’t make a official statement, bidding acquisition and profit makings of business that huge are not make public unless the chairman make it public, so since the trading was made public to us that means tony did give his workers the go ahead or he did so himself anonymously, cause he is the chairman, for ote to talk u will know he already know what tony did, person wey no talk when he looses all his assets and investments... people like him are the people billionaires fear most, make u loose everything, go start again then come back bigger that shit rarely happens in real life

brain54:
No one owes any one any explanation…


Just do what you have to do. Move on.

And don’t be emotional about decisions taken.

Vengeful people like this can even take business decisions that would hurt themselves in future!

Then tony shouldn’t have made the information public, he should have moved on like ote did simple, is like u shook me knife 5 different times I no talk and I only shook u once and u started shouting that I want to kill u does that make sense

brain54:
According to your narrative…

The move was meant to put Tony in a “sinking spot” initially. So why come out to explain yourself when you already actually achieved your aim?

Even when you did not need to explain your motive because you owe no one any explanation in the first place?

He is just being emotional and talkative.

Simple!

Guy he needs to cause he thought tony will take it as a man as he also did when tony did his own to him but no Tony started playing the victim card by letting the public know and the public start to attack him of been a tribalistic and all sorts, named that he has built for years been dragged, they dragging his daughters and even his son cause tony was playing a victim card, whereas the person playing the victim card is the evil one all along

Lol, Na Charles force am to go do organ harvesting, if he actually wants to make use of his contact is by going through the right way of organ donors and spending the legal fee of close to 1m dollars but no with all the money he has stolen he still didn’t want to spend he wanted to still use corruption to cure his daughter and guess the corruption didn’t come through like always this time, so make he suffer the consequences