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Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 4:07pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
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Family / Myth Of Male-Female Friendship by IAmOged(f): 9:00pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Hello NAIRALANDERS, I hope everyone is having a great day today. Today I will write about an issue that keeps coming up on this section as well as many others, an issue that causes many issues in life - male-female friendships. ... [b]I firmly believe that it's unnatural for men and women to be "JUST FRIENDS", overcoming this nature is nearly impossible. I think that much heartache can be spared by understanding these truths. ... FRIENDSHIP is a form of intimacy. SEXUAL BONDING is a very different form of intimacy, the polar opposite to friendship. Sexual intimacy is the union of opposites. Men and women are worlds apart. Men and women - generally speaking - think, speak and behave completely differently. ... What may be interesting or exciting to one gender is weird or boring to the other gender. Naturally, we need a way to bring these opposites together for the continuation of our species. When an eligible man and woman come into the presence of one another, they instinctively act differently. Even if they're just two people sitting next to each other on a chair,cab,train etc, two people who don't say a word to one another, their body language will change in the presence of a suitor from the opposite sex. This is even more true if they do interact. An inter-gender interaction will be very different from a same gender interaction even when no sexual innuendo is present. When a man and a woman go out on a date: they'll each dress up, scent up and be on their best behaviors. In order to bring these two opposites together, each one must display the very best version of themselves. ...[/b] Friendship on the other hand(OTOH), is the exact opposite. A group of guy friends hanging out may use slangs,make jest of each othet, dirty jokes, burp, fart, punch each other for the heck of it and get into wrestling matches. ... A group of girl friends may squish 15 girls on a couch meant for 3, squeal and screech, talk for hours on end, bawl their eyes out over I'm not sure what, break into giggling fits and plenty of gossip. In friendship, you're safe to display your very worst. .... Both of these forms of intimacy are very necessary. Men don't talk nearly as much as we women do. Even when we talk, it's different, especially when it comes to emotions. Women like to talk things out, men like to fix things. Women like to feel the feelings, men like to resolve them. We each view the other as weird. ... With friends we're free to display the worst version of ourselves, but with our sexual partners it is likely to kill attraction. .... A guy who displays his insecurities or a girl who bawls her eyes out will have a harder time being attractive to their mates. (Of course there are many examples). When you're married, you get the whole package. The morning breath, the mood swings, the insecurities etc. However, we all know that minimising exposure to this side of ourselves is always a good idea. Sure, we need not feel self conscious about our morning breath, but we also need to brush our teeth at the earliest possible time to minimise our spouses exposure to our morning breath. In sexual intimacy we need to display as much of our best selves and as little of our worst selves as possible. ... [b]A beta man is unattractive to a woman. To her, the guy is almost like a woman himself with all his feminine behavior.... Therefore, in her mind, he can be "JUST FRIENDZONED" like all of her other friends from whom she'll seek emotional validation and other girly friend stuff. However, to the guy, he feels that he has a greater chance of getting into Our PANTS or into a relationship with us if he'll be our friend first. He assumes that if he's there for her during all her emotional mood swings, seeing her during her absolute worst and being there for her through these times that she'll find him attractive. .... Soon enough with let down-when he realizes that this will never happen..... We all know that this guy is unattractive. We ladies call him a beta orbitor. What isn't talked about enough is the dynamic behind this. She thinks he's just a friend because he's acting feminine like her girl friends while he thinks he's building sexual attraction by being soft and feminine because that's what he finds attractive! ... It's a recipe for disaster and plenty of heartaches. The flip-side of this dynamic is that MALE-FEMALE friendship is nearly impossible. men have to realize that we can't be just friends while women think that "JUST FRIENDS" is possible. ....[/b] Before conclusion, I need to clarify a point. The difference between friends and friendly. Everything I said in this post is about being friends. It goes without saying that men and women can and should be friendly to one another and to treat each other with respect and dignity. Being friendly isn't the same as being friends. I'm sure most of you know this differentiation, but I'm putting it out there because there's always someone who would pick on something like this. ... Congratulations to my state Governor-Elect ROTIMI AKEREDOLU (SAN) Though no be U i voted nonetheless the majority has spoken. shall make sure you fulfill your promise of a FG approved LGA for my area here. ... Cheers! .. Cc:RDF |
Romance / Myth Of Male-Female Friendship by IAmOged(f): 8:17pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Hello NAIRALANDERS, I hope everyone is having a great day today. Today I will write about an issue that keeps coming up on this section as well as many others, an issue that causes many issues in life - male-female friendships. ... [b]I firmly believe that it's unnatural for men and women to be "JUST FRIENDS", overcoming this nature is nearly impossible. I think that much heartache can be spared by understanding these truths. ... FRIENDSHIP is a form of intimacy. SEXUAL BONDING is a very different form of intimacy, the polar opposite to friendship. Sexual intimacy is the union of opposites. Men and women are worlds apart. Men and women - generally speaking - think, speak and behave completely differently. ... What may be interesting or exciting to one gender is weird or boring to the other gender. Naturally, we need a way to bring these opposites together for the continuation of our species. When an eligible man and woman come into the presence of one another, they instinctively act differently. Even if they're just two people sitting next to each other on a chair,cab,train etc, two people who don't say a word to one another, their body language will change in the presence of a suitor from the opposite sex. This is even more true if they do interact. An inter-gender interaction will be very different from a same gender interaction even when no sexual innuendo is present. When a man and a woman go out on a date: they'll each dress up, scent up and be on their best behaviors. In order to bring these two opposites together, each one must display the very best version of themselves. ...[/b] Friendship on the other hand(OTOH), is the exact opposite. A group of guy friends hanging out may use slangs,make jest of each othet, dirty jokes, burp, fart, punch each other for the heck of it and get into wrestling matches. ... A group of girl friends may squish 15 girls on a couch meant for 3, squeal and screech, talk for hours on end, bawl their eyes out over I'm not sure what, break into giggling fits and plenty of gossip. In friendship, you're safe to display your very worst. .... Both of these forms of intimacy are very necessary. Men don't talk nearly as much as we women do. Even when we talk, it's different, especially when it comes to emotions. Women like to talk things out, men like to fix things. Women like to feel the feelings, men like to resolve them. We each view the other as weird. ... With friends we're free to display the worst version of ourselves, but with our sexual partners it is likely to kill attraction. .... A guy who displays his insecurities or a girl who bawls her eyes out will have a harder time being attractive to their mates. (Of course there are many examples). When you're married, you get the whole package. The morning breath, the mood swings, the insecurities etc. However, we all know that minimising exposure to this side of ourselves is always a good idea. Sure, we need not feel self conscious about our morning breath, but we also need to brush our teeth at the earliest possible time to minimise our spouses exposure to our morning breath. In sexual intimacy we need to display as much of our best selves and as little of our worst selves as possible. ... [b]A beta man is unattractive to a woman. To her, the guy is almost like a woman himself with all his feminine behavior.... Therefore, in her mind, he can be "JUST FRIENDZONED" like all of her other friends from whom she'll seek emotional validation and other girly friend stuff. However, to the guy, he feels that he has a greater chance of getting into Our PANTS or into a relationship with us if he'll be our friend first. He assumes that if he's there for her during all her emotional mood swings, seeing her during her absolute worst and being there for her through these times that she'll find him attractive. .... Soon enough with let down-when he realizes that this will never happen..... We all know that this guy is unattractive. We ladies call him a beta orbitor. What isn't talked about enough is the dynamic behind this. She thinks he's just a friend because he's acting feminine like her girl friends while he thinks he's building sexual attraction by being soft and feminine because that's what he finds attractive! ... It's a recipe for disaster and plenty of heartaches. The flip-side of this dynamic is that MALE-FEMALE friendship is nearly impossible. men have to realize that we can't be just friends while women think that "JUST FRIENDS" is possible. ....[/b] Before conclusion, I need to clarify a point. The difference between friends and friendly. Everything I said in this post is about being friends. It goes without saying that men and women can and should be friendly to one another and to treat each other with respect and dignity. Being friendly isn't the same as being friends. I'm sure most of you know this differentiation, but I'm putting it out there because there's always someone who would pick on something like this. ... Congratulations to my state Governor-Elect ROTIMI AKEREDOLU (SAN) Though no be U i voted nonetheless the majority has spoken. shall make sure you fulfill your promise of a FG approved LGA for my area here. ... Cheers! .. Cc:RDF 1 Like |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 6:08pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
whats wronging with salzburg?.... |
Family / Re: You Are Superior To Her by IAmOged(f): 5:26pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
purple3091: wu be gay? so u dont know what it means for a lady to be bi...huh? .. no wonder you dey argue off topic. |
Family / Re: You Are Superior To Her by IAmOged(f): 4:29pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
purple3091: you are not making sense atall.. whats being discussed here?what are you saying? we aint talking racial here? we taking natural order of men hierarchical supremacy to the women....patriarchy being d centre of the world order.. ... am not surprised cos majority of those whose sensibilities cant grasp this truism retort to topic/point/ arguments twisting in other to satisfy their own emotional views...this is the truth..its truism regarless of ur objective opinions cc:joseph232 2 Likes |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 6:58am On Nov 27, 2016 |
Olutola88: I zoom your capability sir. be strong and post "to be greenified games today" |
Politics / Re: Ondo Update: SSG Loses Polling Unit As Akeredolu Wins Unit by IAmOged(f): 9:39pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
where do you people get this nonsense and stvpid numbers you called result? |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 5:39pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
leceister and newcastle doing rubbish ooo |
Politics / Re: Ondo Election: Police Deploy 22 Armoured Vehicles, 20 Gunboats, 2 Helicopters by IAmOged(f): 2:49pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 10:19am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Piiko:sent you a mail |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 10:08am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Piiko: all in |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 11:31pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
Guseh:thanks for d dat game |
Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 9:57pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
wissed: 2 Likes
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Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 9:41pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
PunterTim: who tell you? |
Family / Re: You Are Superior To Her by IAmOged(f): 8:23pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
TV01: That research is flawed.... its should have been renamed effects of poor upbringing of male children into sissy and messed up immature wierdos dis morderntimes....main theme of this our arguments.... ... A male child of 25 or less, brought up in the right path of masculinity would boxed down any matured woman of any maturity age .... ... ... Prehistoric times, even in the Bible times shows young men lording and displaying more maturity over aged mature women . ... ... I wouldnt be surprised if this so called research was taken in d lands of moderntimes distortionists.... ... we know where these societies are heading to...failed relationship,failed marriage everywhere...they are all fvcked up in their own binding... its a stupid research.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / After Iroko Who Be Next? by IAmOged(f): 7:09pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
My people in ondo state,
after iroko who be next? |
Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 6:43pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
PunterTim: okay oo...some conservative women still dey sha... best of luck |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 4:25pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
Guseh:any odd for me today sir? |
Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 4:21pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
PunterTim: Goodluck on this journey sir.... though if you don pah pah pah bisi, pah pah pah pah sharon, pah pah pah poh, shukurat, shag somany ladies-then expect your future wife to have been pah pah pah pah poh poh uncountable times-its called karma 1 Like |
Technology Market / Re: new 2TB & 4TB external hdd fully LOADED™ with exciting contents **DAILY UPDATE** by IAmOged(f): 1:04pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
SmellingAnus:am F wildflame is my referral. |
Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 12:21pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Do you believe this saying “Your past comes to hunt/hurt your future? |
Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 12:18pm On Nov 25, 2016 |
SmellingAnus: peeps here are matured enough to tolerate diz "crazy fantasy"... ... donot hesistate to share pls |
Romance / Re: What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 11:36am On Nov 25, 2016 |
SmellingAnus: pls kindly state this other opinion....we might have things in common sir |
Family / Re: You Are Superior To Her by IAmOged(f): 11:33am On Nov 25, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:
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Romance / What Extreme Opinions Do You Have That Many Don't? by IAmOged(f): 10:56am On Nov 25, 2016 |
I'm interested to hear what opinions and points of view people here hold that are not popular. I'm curious to see how much more we all have in common (or don't) other than feminism,, plus what kind of background makes up a feminist woman. ... One of my "extreme" beliefs is that when women have children they should not work anymore. Raising children is the most important job and they should devote themselves to that, not a career. ... Please everyone, be respectful of the forthcoming opinions, they are only opinions of people on the Internet. Let's not be rude, we are all entitled to our thoughts. If you can't be mature, please don't participate. |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 9:34am On Nov 25, 2016 |
MyLady11: wahalai...dis guy no well 1 Like
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Politics / APC-The Bullying Party by IAmOged(f): 9:48pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
I've been trying to figure out what common trait binds BUHARI/APC/AKETI supporters together. As far as I can tell, the most unifying characteristic is a willingness to bully in all its forms. If you have a OKE OR JEGEDE sign in your lawn, they will steal it. If you have a OKE/JEGEDE bumper sticker, they will deface your car. If you speak of JEGEDE/OKE at work you could get fired. On social media, almost every message I get from aBUHARI/APC/AKETI supporter is a bullying type of message. They insult. They try to shame. They label. And obviously they threaten my livelihood. We know from Local intel in ondo state thatAPC/BUHARI/AKETI supporters tried to incite violence at OKE/JEGEDE rallies. The media downplays it. We also know APC/BUHARI/AKETI's side hired paid trolls to bully online. Them psycopath demonic and retrogressive EVIL CHANGE crusaders. ... Team APC/BUHARI/AKETI has succeeded in perpetuating one of the greatest evils I have seen in my lifetime. His side has branded PDP/AD/OKE/JEGEDE supporters (50%+ of voters) as Corrupt, Thief and a few other fighting words even after d emergence of aketi candidature was through corrupt and autocratic means. Their argument is built on confirmation bias(if u are in APC, you are Saint but any other party is corrupt whereas majority of those who depleted Nigeria economy to “failed land of hermit”are now in mass major power player in This Demonic APC)and persuasion. ... But facts don’t matter because facts never matter in politics. What matters is that APC/BUHARI/AKETI framing of PDP/AD/OKE/JEGEDE provides moral cover for any bullying behavior online or in person. No one can be a bad person for opposing Corruption, right? ... Some OKE/JEGEDE supporters online have suggested that people who intend to vote for should wear their OKE/JEGEDE hats on election day. That is a dangerous idea, and I strongly discourage it. There would be riots in the streets because we already know the bullies would attack. But on election day, inviting those attacks is an extra-dangerous idea. Violence is bad on any day, but on election day, PDP/AD are far more likely to unholster in an effort to protect their voting rights resultant of APC rigged Edo State Election.Things will get wet fast. ... Yes, I realize PDP/AD/JEGEDE/OKE supporters say bad things about AKETI supporters too. I don’t defend the bad apples on either side. I’ll just point out that PDP/AD/JEGEDE/OKE’s message is about uniting all Nigerians/Yoruba/Ondo state under one flag. The Clinton message is that some Nigerians are good people and the other 40-50% are some form of deplorables, deserving of shame, vandalism, punishing taxation, and violence all in the name of fighting corruption which is nothing but a witchhunt. BUHARI/APC/AKETI has literally turned Nigerians on each other. It is hard for me to imagine a worse thing for a president/Party/Governorship Candidate of a nation to do. I’ll say that again. As far as I can tell, the worst thing a president/Party/govervorship candidate(Aketi) can do is turn Nigerians against each other. BUHARI/APC/AKETI is doing that, intentionally. ... ON ONDO STATE ELECTION: .... AKETI is not an option.Only saboteurs would vote for a Whitebearded puppet that want to be forced on us by them Fulani/Hausa Cabal of APC... Never Again... Ondo State Love is between JEGEDE and Oke As I often tell my friends, I don’t know who has the best policies between this two true yoruba sons of Ondo State . .. I don’t know the best way to fight terrorism and I don’t know how to fix job creation,our famous abiye healthcare or trade deals. I don’t know which tax policies are best to lift Ondo state economy. I don’t know the best way to handle any of that stuff. (And neither do you.) But I do have a bad reaction to bullies. And I’ve reached my limit. I hope you have too. ... Therefore… I endorse and put before you two legitimate Ondo State sons EYITAYO JEGEDE and OLUSOLA OKE for Governor of Ondo States because I oppose bullying in all its forms. I don't defend JEGEDE/OKE personal life. Neither JEGEDE/OKE/AKETI are role models for our children. Let's call that a tie, at worst. The bullies are welcome to drown in their own bile while those of us who want a better Ondo state do what we’ve been doing for decades: .. Work to make it better while others complain about how we’re doing it. Today I put eithers JEGEDE/OKE odds of winning in a landslide back to 79% . If na Jegede enter(no qualm-we both akure's children) if na Oke(no qualm-Buhari must know Yorubas are united) “something changed.” Cc:GT
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Family / Re: You Are Superior To Her by IAmOged(f): 7:56pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
missjo:Darkrebel101 is gone.. ... shame to mindfulnes,informedola, masikay,sissioge,cocacandy and several other gullible married and unmarried women who lick ur psychopath ass .... they laugh...they blush...the loyal hole covered by d pants has been compromised and penetrated.... ... shame on our moderntimes women who now raised men weak and sissy.. ... ... sleep on darkrebel101 5 Likes
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Family / Re: You Are Superior To Her by IAmOged(f): 7:38pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
Business / Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by IAmOged(f): 6:19pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
funnynation: pls gimme d game wey u wan play? |
Family / Re: How Women Form Opinion! by IAmOged(f): 6:11pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
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