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Ngokafor: ..i really think folks here should take it easy on the 'insecure and inferiority complex' chant.....
....last time i checked,the man is the owner of the child in our society so i guess he has the right to decide the language his child should speak.....
....make people no go scatter person marriage for here with their advice and insinuations..

yellowpawpaw: Madam, to stay in marriage and make marriage a success, one has to employ wisdom. At times small small issues like this compounds to bigger problems that lead to abuse or divorce.
Its not everything we ought to complain about.
If ur hubby said he want his baby to speak his language only, by all means accept and teach him that. That way he will c u as a submissive wife and peace will reign.
Meanwhile, u said he speaks ur own language very well. All good!
Converse with him in ur language sometimes. I tell u baby is learning. Sing in ur language, baby is learning.
U go out with baby, u speak ur language to baby. Infact, where is ur number six?
Children r capable iof learning up to 4 diff languages at a time.
Stop raising issues where there is none.
Meanwhile, u r married to him not the other way round.
Ur reaction is unneccessary.

lynpetra: Exactly!Even two years relationship sef still get k leg wen it comes to money matter.People change abeg.Na that time the guy go fit dey yarn"is it because of 400k?"

Marthakings: i cnt take it anymore. d pressure is too much. m done!

Khalessi: ...why is homebased nigeruians ugly...(please advisee)

booqee: your head dey dere gidigba!

Harbosede02: u funi,wetin be d meaning of Iaz

Harbosede02: hehehe,na ur own full name be dat??

Harbosede02: morning is an english word,bt mawin is jst an abbreviation 2 me.

Abu Mikey:

Calling me an idiot?? Okay, I'm cool with it!!

You still can't spell a simple "that" and "letter" #SMH


Now,I've got one assignment for You!

Read that my apology letter,then go through all Your posts on NL,if You can produce just one post of Yours that is as flawless as my apology letter,then I would deactivate my account

Deal?

Harbosede02: Op,gud mawin aw was ur nyt??op,u r a very cunning person,d guy looks 2 u datz y he tells u stuff abt hez relationship and all u can do is get jealous!!!well i guess u r single,get a lyf,get a gf,go 2 CNN and broadcast ur relationship troubles and make d world JEALOUS!!av a nyc saturday..

ITbomb: What I found out among girls is that they find it very difficult to tell what they feel u would not like , and the only time they will tell you is when they are angry .
Compare with guys , a guy would just say ' Abeg carry ur tori go one side , when u dey fvrk u call me? , bring another topic before I curse ur pr¡ck ' , and they laugh about it and move to any other topic of interest .
U r not a friend if u r not free with each other and at the same time respect each other

booqee: aww......dis is so lovely..m gonna cry. but when will our naija guys get so creatively romantic.

Seun: I'm so sorry about this ma. I promise to not be a pussy anymore.

tobnical: I am still waiting for the time students would go on strike and embark on mass protest against the corrupt practices, bribery, sexual harassment and incompetence of some of these lecturers. It shouldn't be ASUU alone all the time. It's high time student unions made a mega plan for mass protest.

Widall: i disagree wit u. MRI test was done 2 times on dm, 5 of dia key players didnt scale thru, d boys prepared vry well, d played over 20 matches b4 ds tournament kickd off,can u beat dat

lynpetra: *hands him chilled bottle of kunu mixed with liquid milk*

Mr Aboki: Bollocks..

What stops a husband from borrowing money from his wife and divorcing her?!

Mr Aboki: Madam.....


Tell your friend that she should do the right the and end the relationship..

If your Boy|girl friend, spouse, fiance(e), partner or wife has to write a letter, sign an undertaking, bring witnesses or give a collateral to obtain a loan from you, then you have no business being together.

The fundamentals in every relationship includes;

- Trust
- Communication
- Care
- love
- Respect
- sharing
- forgiveness
- e.t.c

Its obvious that these dont exist in this relationship. The fact that she has experienced a disappointment from a previous loan (does not necessarily mean she should hold it against him). Except she wants to have a relationship that is filled with grudge.

The only reason why any person would need some sort of guarantee for a loan is because they dont trust in the ability of that person to keep to his side of the bargain.


Your friend is in a bad relationship... #Period!


There are no guarantees in love, life and relationships.. If not, a guy should not do anything for his girl without demanding some sort of guarantee of repayment. Some men pay the tuition of their partners through school only for the girls to graduate and dump the guys. Same way many women invest their lives in one man only for him to up and act a fool.


This story annoys me to my bones.. If the guy is still dating her, he is the bigger fool. Not because of the money, but simply because he is marrying a cun|t.

It would have been better if she said she didnt have the money rather than ask for a collateral.

lynpetra: Abeg which brand of drink you dey likeI go pay