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 Family › Re: Friendship: What Is It To You? by IB7(f): 11:40pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
Am still looking for the right folks to start a good friendship with. Regards, I.B. |
| Forum Games › Re: Top 5 Nairalanders I Want to Meet by IB7(f): 11:34pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
Oops my bad...... misread. regards, I.B. |
| Forum Games › Re: Top 5 Nairalanders I Want to Meet by IB7(f): 11:29pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
freestyling huh? seems to me like you are on my tail why tailgating? I.B. |
| Forum Games › Re: Top 5 Nairalanders I Want to Meet by IB7(f): 11:21pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
Unfortunately, I don't wanna meet none. At least not the so called active ones with due respect y'all. Regards, I.B. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Hot-angel, Nike4luv, Wesleyana, Etc: Are They Jobless? by IB7(f): 11:10pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
I think they might be jobless. But first, you must asked how old are they? Then maybe you analyse it from that perspective. If they are young, lets say under 21 or b/t 21 & 22, then you ask, are they in school, if yes then are they jobless? ....it's all about analysis. I used to be addictive to any chatroom during my freshman years in University, it's just 6 years ago and I was 18 and jobless with scholarship. I used to say all kinds of stuff and post all kinds of rubbish {like nigerians would call it} on forums and chatrooms. I am not so addictive and I think before I post any comments. With regards, I.B. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Share your Problems With Me And I'll Try 2 Solve 'em. by IB7(f): 11:00pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
This topic is so funny. And the posts are hilarious. I just can't stop laughing. The girl is serious and y'all are just messing with her. Treize, I got one for you. I just broke up with my boyfriend little over 4 months. I am very depressd, sad, heartbroken and upset. I love to travel. I think travelling will help to heal my broken heart. What places do you recommend ? What fun places do you think would elevate me, myself and I? Please exclude U.K., New York, Atlanta, Houston, Missouri, or Las Vegas. I have been to those places more than a trillion times. I am looking for exotic places. I am in Texas and I wanna get away from the paparazzis. Nope am not a celebrity. I.B. |
| Crime › Re: Why Do Many Nigerian Guys In America Try So Hard To Be Gangsters? by IB7(f): 10:21pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
Bcuz they are retards and all wannabes. One would think with the rich culture of nigeria which is embedded in 'em would make 'em think twice. They wannabe hip hoppish...... I.B. |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls In The U.S. Are Lonely by IB7(f): 10:10pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
[b]Kokscity, thx for that input. I am not aware of hispanic men abusing/beating their women. I am aware of some domestic violents. I guessed I was trying to say hispanics, asians all stick to their own. A nigerian man on the other hand doesn't. At least statistics can prove that. Am not sure what the #s are but I know more africans or nigerian men chases more non afrians/nigerian females when compared to hispanics or asians men. And I meant hispanics from different hispanic countries. Even the mexican stick to his women after running across the border. I would think that a nigerian man who is very cultured would stick to his own but NOPE! In fact its' the other way round. With the abundance of diversity of women in america, asians and hispanics stick to their own women. They are as cultured as nigerians too. They give their ladies respect and dignity by sticking to 'em. You want a nigerian women in america to sharpen their dating/sexual/relationship skills? You must be kidding..... so the goat meat pepper soup isn't enough for you? Even with delicious rice and stew, a nigerian female if given the love knows how to take care of her nigerian man. The least those americans or black american females can cook for y'all is sandwich bologna. All am saying is we (nigerians) with rich cultures can learn from the asians. And it has nothing to do w/older generations or younger generations. Many young asians born in america also stick to theirs. Its' just sad that there are too many stereotypes about nigerian females in abroad. Best regards, I.B.[/b] |
| Business › Re: Plastic Making In Nigeria? by IB7(f): 9:27pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
[b]Omon and your point is? With regards, I must say thatz the problem with Nigeria. She has no confidence in herself literally speaking. And it shows on her people living away from the motherland. Dan_ali, I think it's a brilliant idea. Not only will it boost the economy in a small percentage it will also encourage other nigerians to become entreprenuers. In contrast, do you know how many small moms and pops biz in america? All in similar bizes. I am in the supply-chain management industry~Transporation, my company is a global firm and we service to many small bizes domestically all in the same industries. And the owners varies from Hispanic, Indian, Middleastian, Jewish, Italian etc. The percentage is very high and you wonder why America is so great...... different factors and your idea is one of 'em~it's good for the economy! I say go for it even if many dozens of indian companies are already in nigeria doing the same thing. It won't hurt but motivate if you are really serious about it. Best regards, I.B.[/b] 6 Likes |
| Family › Re: Rich Marrying Rich, Poor Marrying Poor: Way Forward? by IB7(f): 9:12pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
Rich marrying rich, poor marrying poor.... leave it or take it. It does exists and it does happen. I am a living display of it. Regards, I.B. |
| Forum Games › Re: I Love Nairaland Because: by IB7(f): 8:45pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
I guess you can say I.B. has no life. Except when she's in the office. I.B. |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls In The U.S. Are Lonely by IB7(f): 8:28pm On Jan 24, 2006 |
My views are not assumptions. All am saying is: nigerian girls are not lonely they might seem lonely to nigerian guys because nigerian guys put nigerian girls downhill {compared to other non-nigerians} in the western world; by running around with mostly black americans persae ~ in american; and the nigerian girls get turn off by that which forces them to keep their distances from nigerian guys. Stir it, smash it, do whatever you want with it, it's the fact. I believe nigerians girls won't seem lonely to nigerian guys if they {nigerian guys} can start treating their ladies like ladies no matter wherever they might be in the world. At least, I can say the hispanics and asians do regards theirs with respect and dignity. Which most nigerian guys don't do and that in my opinion constructs nigerian females to follow their lead..... Fact is fact, you can't run away from it. Regards, I.B. |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls In The U.S. Are Lonely by IB7(f): 11:34pm On Jan 22, 2006 |
Sure.... Kokscity Regards, I.B. |
| Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Said "I Love You" To A Girl On Phone by IB7(f): 4:02am On Jan 22, 2006 |
He is so cheating on you...... I.B. |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls In The U.S. Are Lonely by IB7(f): 3:51am On Jan 22, 2006 |
AguNwoke,  nope not IBB/I.B.B. its' IB or I.B. whichever I think IBB/I.B.B. is from the north but IB or I.B. is from the south ~ the garden city. I guessed I was being too personal upstairsRegards, I.B. |
| Culture › Re: What Does 'Iyawo' Mean? by IB7(op): 3:27am On Jan 22, 2006 |
Alright men, Seun please do not insult my intelligence. I replied to an authors' question. Before I posted the topic, I THOUGHT it meant a BAD WORD. But now, I know what it means! Regards, I.B. |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls In The U.S. Are Lonely by IB7(f): 3:17am On Jan 22, 2006 |
[b]O.k. guys I had to stop reading the posts on this topic after I read a posters' note which says " ...the fact is that Nigeria guys here have soo many options to choose from... " not only did this statement irritated me, another posters' note says "..... you to have a nigerian lady you have to beg and beg,but the other ladies,eay does it come 2 u.So why waste time brothers go on and get the real women out there.... " I was really trying to ignore all these absurd non factual inresponsible comments by wonderful people on this forum. But my guts won't let me ignore it. There are many other opinions on this topics which suggests that nigerian females are lonely because they won't date a nigerian guy in America. I have to say sorry and incorrect. First of all, many opinions given on this topics by most guys are VERY incorrect and all false. I will take the stand and speak for myself only but I am sure it applies to SOME nigerian females and they can testify to it. And I am not talking about those NIGERIAN females who are american want to bes. I am talking about the true nigerian females. Here we go... it is very wrong to say some nigerian females are rejecting nigerian men in American. Again, I say it is wrong because I am speaking for myself. Lets' clear the table about nigerian guys 'running' away from nigerian females because of either attitude or varieties. I don't believe in my heart that nigerian females are rejecting nigerian men and this is very personal to me. The problem of loneliness of these nigerian females lies solely on our men. If I wasn't educated, civilized and professional I would have bitched caused a lot of guys on this forum. But I won't do that because I respect you all, and the least I can do is give my opinions. You may disagree with my opinion but I don't give a f*ck. Like I mention above, the problem of nigerian ladies loneliness is not them but the Nigerian guys who come to America or other western world and discover that there are "varieties" as a wonderful intelligient poster said. It really baffles me to read about that. Varieties? And yet you stereotype all Nigerian females. I guess the author is right, yes it is varieties and why asked the question of nigerian female being lonely in America? For me, this topic needs a verbal physical debates amongst all nigerians. Nigerian females maybe lonely because nigerian guys have choices or variesties. As one author puts it "..... the reason is clear. The African man is in Demand in Yankee. The African American sisters want him.... " I.B. believes it's the other way around, non-nigerian females are in high demand by nigerian men in America. And these non nigerian females are the ugly fat ghetto non educated females nigerian men run after because they {nigerian men} feels inferior in America; maybe because of their accents. They {nigerian men} wants to match up with the American way! An author puts it rigthtly when he says "..... But when other chicks elswere see Nigeria guys, they are always intrigued, and we definately enjoy the attention they give us . but i don't mind dating a Nigeria girl, if only they could take their head off their a** ....." Sorry bro, I think you are the one with your head in your ass. Of course, nigerian men wants the ATTENTION because they feel inferior! But why feel inferior, huh? Why do you feel that dating non-nigerian females makes you somebody? Why do you grave the attention? A nigerian females doesn't or won't give you the attention? I am speaking for myself, I cleaned, work, cared, in the hospital all night when he's sick, cooked rice & stew, egusi soup, ogbono soup, pepper soup w/goat meat, you name it; never talked back unless infidelity arises. So dating a nigerian females does make you more inferior? And for an author to regard non nigerians as real women is a DISGRACE. I believe that this wonderful authors are embarrased to be with a nigerian female in America. They date american females because they want to be seen as fitted in. They {nigerian guys} date american females {keep in mind, the females are non educated, left overs from american men, useless, sometimes ghetto with no manners but speaks english yeah I got news for you too, I speak perfect english and yes you can mistaken me for an AKATA but sorrow am full blood port harcourtian} because they want to feel like they are somebody which in my opinion they are. But I guess, they feel like they are being put down by americans and the american society so they chase americans or non nigerians in america. However, I guess everyone has preferences...... Regards, I.B.[/b] |
| Romance › Re: Ladies Advice This Guy: To Hold or Not to Hold? by IB7(f): 4:39pm On Jan 21, 2006 |
Shadiat, thanks a bunch.... its really hard moving on but I know I can do. I.B. |
| Culture › Re: What Does 'Iyawo' Mean? by IB7(op): 4:19pm On Jan 21, 2006 |
[b]I couldn't decide whether it was a bad or good context. But if you must know..... The other person was just laying on the couch after some meal (egusi soup and pounded yam ~ I had cooked it prior to that day). We were just talking not fighting or arguing..... I got up - as in moving toward the kitchen - then I heard it. This was the second time I heard it and both times the person was implying it to me. The first time, the person was on the fone, referring to me as "iyawo." I never asked because there were other people around and we were having suya cook out. The context on the second time really bugged me because it was said out of the blue without any rudeness or likeliness but just said. So I asked "what does that mean?" The person said "lady." I asked why do you say that? The person just shrugged their shoulder and said, "no reason" and continued with the prior conversation. Please understand that this person is not from yoruba but a nigerian because I do understand now that its a yoruba word, right? I asked a friend of mine who isn't yoruba they said, it means "wife" another person who also isn't yoruba said, some folks referred to it as going to get ladies, I take it as being a prostitute or LovePeddler which am neither. I was confused because the person who said it thinks am too perfect or at least I try to be proper and perfect. So I guessed if it means lady like my friend said, then it means "miss proper." I couldn't take it off my mind. I asked my friend to spell it for me so I could post it on this forum and asked y'alls opinions. Regards, I.B.[/b] |
| Culture › Re: What Does 'Iyawo' Mean? by IB7(op): 2:20am On Jan 14, 2006 |
Hi, aamad12. How are you? I have included your id in my MSN Messenger. Talk to you later, I.B. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Is it wrong for a couple to live together before marriage? by IB7(f): 3:58am On Jan 12, 2006 |
I guess I have to be specific. I won't do it again if and only if infidelity is an issue on his part. Did I answer your question? Regards, I.B. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Is it wrong for a couple to live together before marriage? by IB7(f): 4:15am On Jan 11, 2006 |
I don't know if it's wrong or right. All I know is, it's not a crime. I lived with my guy for 6 year until September 2005 and we weren't never married. I was 18 and he was 23. We just wanted to be together. I was a freshman in college and he was a senior. He was spending too much on fone bills and I just wanted him close. He decided we both moved to the same state and live together. I am an adventuresome person so I did. Mom almost had heart-attack. My "nigerian" friends thought I've gone mad, they quit talking to me. My "american" friends didn't give a sh*t. I on the other hand "just" want to be close to him. Call it wrong, call it sin. I think it's o.k. As long as we ain't getting each other! I guess you could say ~ it's the american lifestlye. It's I.B. lifestyle. Turn back time, will I do it again? Oh sure yeah, I will. Will I do it now? Oh no I won't. Regards, I.B. |
| Culture › Re: What Does 'Iyawo' Mean? by IB7(op): 2:30am On Jan 11, 2006 |
o.k. guys, thx a bunch for explaining. The reason I asked is because someone said it. I thought it was a bad word because, it was said out of the blue. I thought I was being insulted. Once again thx. I.B. |
| Culture › Re: What Does 'Iyawo' Mean? by IB7(op): 5:37am On Jan 10, 2006 |
olariddan, can you elaborate more ? Regards, I.B. |
| Forum Games › Re: Confessions by IB7(f): 10:32pm On Jan 08, 2006 |
Thx a bunch girl for understanding my point of view@ hotangel IB |
| Forum Games › Re: Confessions by IB7(f): 4:39pm On Jan 08, 2006 |
[b]I confess breakups~separations sucks! I confess I initiated the breakup ~ separation! I confess it's hard to get over it and move on with my life. I confess I regret spending 6 years of my life with him. I confess I don't have any friends so I spent more time on the net surfing. I confess you gotta be careful what you wished for. I confess I took a mini vacation to london alone after my break up. I confess I cried from dfw airport to heathrow airport. I confess I took another mini vacation to new york. I confess I cried from dfw airport to jfk airport I confess I took those mini vacations to get away after breaking up with him~since we are brad pitt and jennifer aniston I confess the above statement about brad & jennifer is just a metaphor, get it? I confess I'm surprised our seperation wasn't on E! news, CNN or Entertainment tonight. I confess I live alone now which I have always wanted. I confess it's sucks and it's boring! leaving alone. I confess I hate divorce, breakups, separations and split ups. I confess I hate infidelity. I confess I know am going through a phase ~ break up phase! I confess I need break up therapy. I confess thatz a lot of confessions I just confessed. I confess the above statements are all so true. Regards, I.B.[/b] |
