truth is no one can tell your heart what or what not to take.
I appreciate all advice and comments but cant forget the words of MrBrownJay, ayettymama and sauron. your words really touched a chord
@MrBrownJay, if ever there is a wedding or baby christening/dedication i would send you an invite and would be honored to have you as a guest cos in your words i saw trough the hearts of 'men'

woke him up(cos he was asleep in 'my' house) to talk about our future and d 1st question he asked me was is there someone who's asking you to marry him? my reply was no(cos that's the truth) and his next comments were
''let me see the man who will take what i have taken from you''
''you think i am a fool''
''you don't want me to prosper''(cos there's some chick who he says is giving him contacts and i have been giving him grief about)
then he stormed off to his car and to spend the night
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maybe i should just become a lesbian and forget about my uncommunicative boyfriend

guys i have been with this guy for 8yrs now but there is still no talk of marriage from him, whenever i bring it up he says there's still time, we are still young(am 27,he's 32), and that if i have found someone who wants to marry me i should go but that the guy will have to settle him.


we've had issues in the past that made us separate for a few months but we managed it and we always manage to weather our storms


truth is he is a nice person,very decent and more understanding than the average Nigerian man in the sense that he accepts me the way i am, flaws, excesses and shortcomings inclusive and best of all he doesn't cheat but should i let his better qualities affect my better judgment when eventually he might leave me hanging?


what do i do?


i want us to have a final talk about our future together(if we have one), is this wise?

av done all u guys advised but the problem is still there, what do i do?

zugo u well so?

the problem is still persisting even after i downloaded and installed adobe flash player. i will follow jayprof's link and get back 2 u guys. thank u guys.

@ collins i tink u r rite cos a pop up always says i should install additional plug in's
@ deji i use mozilla firefox, kaspersky anti virus and cant watch you tube videos either, cant play any internet videos
should i install d plug in's?

my laptop cant play facebook videos, is it sumtin am not doing rite or do i need any program/software

i work in finbank and can say authoritatively that we r not recruiting for now. corpers that were retained r still waiting to be called so until then just keep ur fingers crossed

ibejiibeji:

com'on u guys, whoever said enlish was our mother tongue?_{but d guy no try sha}

abeg i meant ENGLISH

com'on u guys, whoever said enlish was our mother tongue?_{but d guy no try sha}

we eventually : worked it out after much much. i didnt giv d money though.
we r very happy 2geda now and often tease each oda abt d funny money demand episode

@spikedcylinder, i worked 2 c myself through school holding at least 2 part-time jobs at once, lucky me i got a good paying job a few months after service so if truth were 2 b told [without dissing my boyfriend] i never needed his money and i hardly collected a dime from him except when absolutely necessary. he helps me out when am broke and vice-versa.

thank u guys so much, ur advice is opening my eyes. i am even suprised and very impressed that even d guys r against this.

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d only reason i was in my colleagues car was cos it rained and he gave me a ride home, am doing nothing with him. haven't seen my boyfriend in 7 days, av bin miserable,av calld him so many times and sent him lots of msgs but he's totally indifferent. i guess the writing is on the wall.

what do i do?

d only reason i was in my colleagues car was cos it rained and he gave me a ride home, am doing nothing with him. haven't seen my boyfriend in 7 days, av bin miserable,av calld him so many times and sent him lots of msgs but he's totally indifferent. i guess the writing is on the wall.

any dec 18th in here? dats my date

my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny what do i do