₦airaland Forum

flinton:
Seems u are from Bayelsa

Khd95:
if i understand perfectly well,ex president is frm dat state

so we can still hold him accountable for not providing light for his pple

flinton:
the change aint funny

iamNotAlone:
I don't know if I am alone in this. I just don't get why I get tired of people easily. Both male and female friends, once I get close to you... I don't want you no more.

Yes, I am an introvert but I don't think that maybe the reason.
I make friends easily, get excited and the initial gra gra but the irony is that I lose friends as quickly as I make them.
I just made friends with some girl like some weeks back, She is really a nice person and dis stupid feeling of disgust is about showing up. I want to keep her as my bestie since I have none. Pls what should I do?

My question : how do I stay interested in people for a long time?

cychez:
. what do you actually mean by your statement

ajebuter:
Not GEJ and PDP anymore?

Now the turn of MTN in the blame game?

Awada government

tblaq:
In 2014 I meet a lady in school and we both fell in love,unfortunately she has a cousins in the same school and the cousins never like me because I don't have what it takes to meet her demand,she is one of the type that love flexing around in the campus living a fake life. My woman is so beautiful that she sees her as a means to get closer to some guys from a rich family so that she can live the life of big girls as it called on campus

She try all her possible best to come in-between us,fortunately for her she succeeded after telling my woman's parents that am a bad boy,a cultist and all manners of lies that make us fall apart,the good news for me now is that,she and my elder brother are into a serious Relationship and am ready to fulfil the word that says what goes around comes around. Am fully ready to avenge the evil she did back then in school.....indeed karma is Real

abbey621:
Abeg leave story! No guy can be this dumb, I repeat no guy can be this dumb! Now that I got that off my chest, it is clear that the problem is with you and not the girl. Based on what you wrote, you have an infatuation that has led to a pseudo feeling of love but my guy this is not love, it's torture! Now listen, your situation is like a engineer with all the knowledge in the world but cannot communicate it to the world, the result is ofutufete Listen young man, if a lady puts her hands on you then she no longer has the right to be called a lady and must be treated as any other human being. Next time she hits you, slap her back! Be a f*cking man and let her know softness is not stupidity, you said you've threatened to call of the wedding but she wasn't moved, this is a sign that the two of you shouldn't even be thinking of marriage at this time. The greatest advice I can give you is to call off the wedding and go back to the drawing board, if you truly love her you want to build a healthy relationship and not rush things, you want to build a strong foundation that can stand for years to come. It seems like you are ready for marriage but she's not, you want to help her get to where you are, this can only be accomplished if you acknowledge her weakness and invest time to build them into strengths. Last but not least, some people cannot be changed no matter how hard you try, have a contingency plan as I can assure you she has hers, keep in mind ratio of girls to guys in Nigeria is over 1.7 to 1 which means unless every guy decides to date multiple girls there will always be fish in the sea!

Sttropez2:
Before you criticise an eight month APC
Government in Nigeria what about how deadly PDP
ruined Nigeria. PDP met the Dollar at N20 when they came in
1999 but left it at N220 in 2015 when they were
leaving. PDP met the Dollar at N20 when they came 1999 but left it at N220 in 2015 when they were leaving. PDP met petrol pump price at N11 when they
came in 1999 but left it at N87 when they were
leaving 2015.PDP met a bag of cement at less than N400
but left it at N2000 while they were leaving in
2015.PDP met a tin of milk at N15 in 1999 but left
it at N120 when they left in 2015.PDP met only OPC in 1999 but left us with
Niger Delta militancy, MASSOB, IPOB, BAKASSI,
and Boko Haram as at when they left in 2015.but they left us
with ballot box snatching, rice sharing for
campaigns, do-or-die politics, political
assassinations, etc.

joseph1832:
Well what more can one say...