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id4sho:Regardless of gender, let’s agree this is happening in Nigeria, only that one gender may be experiencing it more than the other. |
advanceDNA:If you look at what I've been posting here very well, you'll see I haven't been biased based on gender. I'm not trying to be hilarious or being monitored by anyone; I post what I genuinely think. Relationships are complex, and I agree with you that they are not black and white. People often date to understand each other better, and it's normal for the journey to evolve over time. Both men and women need to be realistic and mindful of their expectations and actions in relationships. |
dhiqson:Which one are you? 🤥 |
advanceDNA:I understand your frustration, but it’s important to recognize that acknowledging women's challenges in relationships or interactions with men doesn't mean all men are at fault. It's about highlighting where things can be improved for mutual respect and understanding. It's not about ass-licking or trying to be righteous; it's about standing up for what's fair and creating a balance where both men and women are treated with respect. |
I always say, "A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage." He should actually be thankful they haven’t tied the knot yet, rather than stressing over it now. In every relationship or marriage that isn't working, the red flags were there from the beginning, but sometimes we ignore them, thinking things will change. The truth is, a relationship or marriage should bring peace, not distress. It's important to recognize when things aren’t right early on and make decisions that protect your mental and emotional well-being. Sometimes, ending things before it gets more complicated is the best choice for both parties involved. Here I dropped my pen 🖊️ |
Baronthecelebri:Yimu 😂 When you’re still indulging in the other side of the package, it's easy to overlook. Sometimes, it's not about being forced, but about the temporary pleasure that blinds you to the bigger picture. |
JOACHINpedro:Yeah I read it too, let to think of the ones we don't hear or see, those situations definitely seem wild, And sometimes people are just being true to themselves. A broken relationship might hurt, but it's often better than staying in something that isn’t right for either person. At the end of the day, both parties need to be aligned on values and intentions, or it's just setting up for more problems down the line. |
AllBlack:You’re right, but what you said doesn't really match the topic. It’s not about who’s allowed to define a "real man", we all have opinions, regardless of gender. Just because a woman has breasts and a "toto" doesn’t mean she can’t spot a real man! We’re all talking about mutual respect and honesty here, not running a profit-making scheme. Let’s not act like only men can know what makes a man real, everybody’s got their version! |
QuinQ:A woman wasting time isn’t doing herself any favors, especially with her biological clock ticking, while the guy might just be enjoying the moment without real intention. She has more to lose if she’s not careful. |
QuinQ:So what’s stopping you from being with him, fear, timing, or something else? If he makes you come alive like that, isn’t it worth exploring, even if just to see where it leads? |
OlaOfLagos:True, nobody holy pass, but let’s be real, the rate at which men waste women’s time is on another level. A lot of men will lead women on, make promises they have no intention of keeping, and keep the relationship going with no real plans. Some will date for years with no commitment, knowing they’re not ready but won’t let the woman go either. Yes, women waste time too, but if we’re comparing stats, men often take the crown in time-wasting Olympics. |
ChangedMan1999:Some women do take advantage in relationships even men too, but that doesn't define all women. People should be judged individually, some are users, but many are genuine and sincere. It's more about character than gender. |
Helpout12345:Not all women stay in relationships because they've calculated the man is their best option—many stay for love, hope, or emotional reasons. Likewise, not all women leave quickly; some hold on despite challenges. Relationships are built on mutual respect, not force or manipulation, and decisions to stay or leave are more emotional than logical. |
Firebox123:😂 😂 |
KobomatPhones:All what I can see there is EX, EX 😂 EX Boku for the matter wey dey ground 😂 Please summarize for me |
I read your post over and over again, but I can’t seem to find anything meaningful or clear to take away from it. Is there anyone here who understands what you wrote and can summarize it for those of us who don’t? |
Sambkay32: |
Dear men, It is both a waste of time and deeply unfair to be in a relationship with someone you have no intention of marrying. If you don’t already see her as a potential wife, please don’t lead her on. Stop dating her and allow those who are genuinely serious about building a future to have the chance. Relationships aren’t just for fun or convenience , they’re a journey toward commitment and partnership. Don’t hold someone’s heart hostage while you “figure things out.” Be honest, be intentional, and don’t play with emotions you don’t plan to honor. A real man respects time, values feelings, and leads with clarity. If it’s not heading anywhere meaningful, let her go. She deserves better, and deep down, so do you. |
AutomatedMoney:Recently, I've been taking inspiration from things I see online or around me to write posts on Nairaland. Honestly, being online with my phone 24/7 has become something I really enjoy doing. |
Funny how life works, right? Riches often attract the spotlight—and with that spotlight come the baddies who love the glitz and instant luxury. But when you're broke or still building, the ones who stick around tend to see you, not your wallet. They ride through the grind, not just the glory. One values the now, the other invests in the Future. |
AutomatedMoney:You're absolutely right, and I've actually loved the idea of doing this for a while now. The thought of monetizing my habits and sharing valuable content on YouTube and Facebook really excites me. The only challenge is that I don’t know the right steps to take to start properly. I would really appreciate it if you could put me through, brother. Your guidance would mean a lot. |
Davash222:You might be right in one way or other, but It’s not about how much you eat, it’s about how you manage your energy. You could have a plate of amala, and still find yourself exhausted by the time you hit the third pothole in Lagos. What do you think those carbs are doing to you? Making you slow and sluggish! |
VinnyBaba:Lol, it’s only in Nigeria you’ll hear that men who eat cornflakes, Golden Morn, or Coco Pops are weaklings. Meanwhile, in other countries, a man eats cereal, drinks almond milk, meditates, and still closes million-dollar deals before 10am. But here? Once a man isn’t sweating over hot yam, hot Eba and pepper sauce at 6am, he’s suddenly “not man enough.” Like calm down bro. |
Gabrielshow24:Lmao! At this point, all we can do is eat our cornflakes in peace and pray the cassava spirit doesn’t reach Aso Rock. 😂 |
You won't find men who start their day eating cornflakes beat their wives, there’s a calmness in that crunchy sweetness. But cassava "Eba"? Hmm. That thing holds generational anger. One swallow and the demons start whispering. raise your voice. Next thing you know, he’s arguing with the ceiling fan and blaming the remote for being lost. To the single ladies Choose your breakfast wisely. Ask him his favorite breakfast before you catch feelings. Because one gives peace… 😧 |
Shalommy:You fit whine, but na me go show you how tight thing fit, Just gimme the plug first, I go prove say the rubber na factory-fitted |
Shalommy:Whine keh? I dey serious oh! The rubber still tight, seal never break, premium package still intact. No time to waste, just connect me sharp-sharp!" |
Kindly link me up with any of your single female friends who are open to quick connections. ![]()
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Congratulations, my brother! Some of us are fully ready, mentally, emotionally, spiritually… it’s just our financial life that didn’t get the memo. 😂 |
3nity7:She’s completely innocent… except that her understanding is on sabbatical leave. 😁 |
OkayDaddy:😂 Omorr! So hilarious 😂 |
SultanOfPuna:I believe social media is largely responsible for this. The reality is, not everyone possesses the ability to comprehend or critically understand information, even when it's communicated in their own native language. There’s something we call information processing capacity, the mental ability to interpret, analyze, and draw meaning from content. Sadly, not everyone is equipped with the same level of this capacity. Social media, with its fast-paced and often sensationalized content, overwhelms many users, making it even harder for them to distinguish facts from misinformation. As a result, we see people misinterpreting messages, spreading false narratives, or reacting emotionally to things they don’t fully grasp. It’s not always a matter of intelligence, but often a lack of digital literacy, emotional maturity, or the patience to reflect before responding. |
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