Food › Re: Has Your Partner Influenced Your Choice Of Food? by Ibkay32(m): 9:20pm On Jul 07, 2025 |
wunmi590:

Yes, she has greatly, there are some food I don't eat, she has been able to influence me to eat them, but she has refused to eat my own food, which is egg and sardine, she said the smell of the sardine always makes her vomit...
So most times I only eat it when she's not at home or if I've to, she wont enter into the kitchen for that day, until the smell and all the plates I used is thoroughly washed 😆 🤣 😂 I used to think it was only me the smell of sardine that made me want to vomit — until I came across this comment 😂. Now I’m seeing my long distance family 😩. |
TV/Movies › Re: Only People Born In 80's Will Understand by Ibkay32(m): 5:34pm On Jul 05, 2025 |
Amotolongbo: Days of Yemi my lover and koto orun and ti oluwa ni ile You dig it right 👍 😂 Llllllllllllllllllkkkkkkkjjjj |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Keep Rejecting Me? I Really Need Honest Advice by Ibkay32(m): 2:48pm On Jul 03, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: My Recent Encounter With A Lady I Was Introduced To For A Serious Relationship by Ibkay32(m): 6:27pm On Jun 29, 2025 |
When they want to ask for urgent 2k, It's either my data will soon finish or I don't have data 😂 |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Genuine: Looking For Hook-up In UK by Ibkay32(m): 6:20pm On Jun 29, 2025 |
TiwalolaOye291: Hi, I am a Yoruba woman looking for a Yoruba man to Hookup with in the UK. I am genuine and its been hard to find someone to have a good time with in this country.
I am 21, dark and looking for someone around Nottingham area. Please drop a link or number of your whatsapp or any whatsapp or facebook group I can join for such. Thank you. Why not get husband there or in Nigeria and move him in |
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland by Ibkay32(m): 11:52am On Jun 26, 2025 |
Well, well, look who’s back, the legendary old lady of Galilee gracing us once more again with her dramatic attention for love, after expertly wasting three solid decades of her lifetime, ignoring it like it was a bad investment 😂 |
Romance › Re: Can My 3million Do This Please? by Ibkay32(m): 6:14am On Jun 23, 2025 |
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Health › Re: Please Who Have Experience This Before by Ibkay32(m): 9:06pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
liver123: Yesterday during secs with my wife, I noticed blood drops on the bed thinking it was from my woman side. I later went to urinate in the bathroom and my urine was full of blood, I was shocked cos I have not experienced this before. I just got married not even up to a month yet. What could be the cause please. I have been taking ampiculux since yesterday, the blood still comes out each time I urinate but not that much as the first time I noticed it. Instead of coming online to seek random opinions about your health, why not walk into the nearest hospital and get a proper check-up? I really don’t understand why people in this country take their health issues lightly. You’re using Ampiclox for something it clearly wasn’t meant for—it's like using a stomach ache drug to treat a headache. Health is not something to gamble with. Self-medication can be dangerous and might even worsen your condition. It's better to get a professional diagnosis than to rely on guesswork and assumptions. Your body deserves proper care, not experiments. |
Romance › Re: Please I Need Urgent Help, Sleeplessness Has Damage My Life by Ibkay32(m): 11:15pm On Jun 16, 2025 |
FreeSpirited: Maybe u are a lazy fellow during the day who doesn't engage in strenuous or tiring job. .. Try go and do bricklayer work from 7 till 6pm carrying block cement and concrete and let's see if u won't sleep at night. .. If u are jobless then, u don't even deserve to sleep.. Cos of psychological effects of unemployment.. . So go and do bricklayer job first before we can conclude ur case to be ur village people It seems you used pant to cover your eyes and skipped the part where he clearly said he's working on shift. He said after work, he used to sleeps for 2 to 3 hours, but it's on his off days that sleep disappears completely. So your bricklayer comparison no even hold water, the issue no be about joblessness. This thing fit be psychological or even medical. Not everything na laziness. Sometimes, body just dey misbehave and need proper attention. Try understand the full gist before you jump to attack. |
Romance › Re: Please I Need Urgent Help, Sleeplessness Has Damage My Life by Ibkay32(m): 8:05pm On Jun 16, 2025 |
LUAN1: i am introverted person, my work is basically shift, if i am on shift, when i come back home, i will be able to sleep 2-3hrs that night, but when i am off shift, i will not even sleep at night at all. Make exercise a part of your daily routine. Start with 50 pushups each day not necessarily all at once. Break them into sets that suit your strength level. You can also add sit-ups, squats, or a short morning jog. Consistency is key even if it’s just a few minutes a day, it will improve your energy. Ensure you sweat out and feel the burn. Over time, This will help you maintain a healthy sleep pattern. It has really worked for me too. |
Romance › Re: Please I Need Urgent Help, Sleeplessness Has Damage My Life by Ibkay32(m): 4:13pm On Jun 16, 2025 |
LUAN1: Please, I need a permanent solution for my sleeplessness. I hardly sleep more than 3 hours a night, and on some nights, I don’t sleep at all. It all started when I was young. Back then, I could sleep, but I would have to lie in bed for about two hours before falling asleep.
Now, I can go an entire night without sleeping, and it's really affecting me. I no longer have early morning erections, I’m becoming very lean, my eyes are always red, and I constantly feel a burning sensation in my chest—almost like I'm having heart problems.
I don't even know how to fully describe how I feel, but I’m deeply depressed. Please, I need help. What kind of job do you do? Are you an introvert? Do you stay indoors all day? Questions like these can keep someone up at night. Try to keep yourself occupied with meaningful work that makes you feel good during the day. You might also consider hitting the gym or making morning exercise a part of your daily routine, it can really help. |
Romance › Re: Marriage And Separation by Ibkay32(m): 9:05pm On Jun 14, 2025 |
Chinny024: Abi na juju them use tie u like this?... Hmmmm You too dey see wetin I dey see so? 😂 I don’t even understand why he’s seeking advice, because from all the comments he’s been dropping, it’s obvious say he don already make up his mind. E be like say he just dey look for who go validate wetin he don already decide. At this point, advice no even get weight again — he go still do wetin dey his mind. |
Romance › Re: Marriage And Separation by Ibkay32(m): 10:05pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Double0h7: Let me call Nlfpmod for you because this is grown folks conversation, and I'm not qualified to chime in. HOWEVER! If someone is already married you can not marry them. That's common sense. It's an illegal marriage and it won't be blessed by God. You dig it right 👍 I know some antichrist are coming to antagonize this |
Romance › Re: "Why Men Should Insist On Marrying Virgins" by Ibkay32(m): 10:01pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Holluwhakemmy: haa don't say that you don't know her well now Well, I've spoken my mind — for those who have ears to hear and eyes to read. I know she's at a critical and desperate stage in her life where she's eager to settle down, and that's why she's seeking all this attention. |
Romance › Re: Marriage And Separation by Ibkay32(m): 9:46pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
eniorisha: I need help urgently.
I am met a lady, who's in her late 30s , early this year. She told me she was engaged but d engagement broke up.
She & her mum had been disturbing me to come introduce myself. This I was dragging feet to do. Couple of weeks back, My girl reluctantly broke d news dt she actually did marriage: church and court wedding; but was frustrated out of the marriage by her father in law & her husband. According to her, d marriage lasted only 3yrs, with no child, as they hardly had sex throughout their stay together.
She said he has remarried already but without proper divorce. I insist proper divorce must take place b4 I go ahead with her, as Bible and law stipulate. But she & her mum see nothing wrong in re- marrying without court dissolution of her subsisting marriage.
Her mum sounds good & though every woman with their own weaknesses and headache, she's not bad, either, for a wife, especially with little patience for her. But I'm still holding out dt her subsisting marriage must be properly dissolved but she said either of them cannot afford divorce fees & d stress.
Pls, Can I go ahead and marry her like dt? I'm in my early 40s; very minimal relationship experience, no child, & never married before. I see manipulation here, your girl and her mum are trying to manipulate you emotionally. There’s likely more to this story than they’re letting on. The fact that she was reluctant at first to tell you about her marriage, church and court wedding—shows that something is being hidden. That’s a red flag. Marriage, both legally and spiritually, is a serious matter. If she is still legally married (even if separated), then by law and biblical standards, she's still bound to another man. Telling you that the divorce is too stressful or costly is not a valid excuse. If they truly value the future with you, they would be willing to do the right thing no matter how difficult it seems. It’s also worth asking: Why did her marriage fall apart so badly? Why is the father-in-law the one who “frustrated” her out of the marriage? These are not small matters, and rushing into something without proper clarity could be dangerous for you emotionally, spiritually, and even legally. |
Romance › Re: Four Reasons Why You Should Give Ur Woman Money by Ibkay32(m): 6:11pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Samantha125: If there was no one to cook for you and you didn't have money to buy takeaways, were you going to starve yourself because you don't enjoy your own food?
And if you're busy during the day, you can still clean your house in the evening or early in the morning... There are many career women who still make time to do all those things, why can't you? You're just lazy and entitled. I would love to hear from you your educational background ☺️ |
Romance › Re: Four Reasons Why You Should Give Ur Woman Money by Ibkay32(m): 6:08pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
richmond500: Please pay attention and understand what u read. There is no part of my comment where I said I can neither cook nor clean.
Also telling me what turns u off in a man is never the purpose of this thread, u can discuss that with ur friends which I am not. Lastly, when I said it's depressing not having a job, I don't say it's depressing for me, I said it's depressing for the lady and her man should assist het, I shouldn't be explaining this to u but "oh well".
Now when it comes to cooking, I don't actually enjoy eating food that I cooked, so I just let someone else do it, it doesn't mean I can't cook
Also when it comes to cleaning, I am a financial data analyst and my job is time consuming so once a while I pay for total clean up of my house, that doesn't mean I don't do light clean up like sweeping, dusting and mopping.
So no need for all these ur talk. I always wonder if Samantha always read to understand whenever she reads 😂 |
Romance › Re: Is This Normal Friendship? by Ibkay32(m): 6:06pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
It’s natural for a husband to feel uneasy when his wife is emotionally close to another man, especially with frequent calls, pet names, and personal conversations. While it may start innocently, women’s hearts can be emotionally sensitive and easily influenced by attention or kind words. That’s why married couples should set clear boundaries, communicate openly, and protect their relationship from anything that could weaken trust. |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meetup And Mingle by Ibkay32(m): 5:21pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
cuteeme: Wow, why am i just seeing this? It's been 3 years since this post. I am open for a friendship. I also need friends who we can share meaningful relationships with. If interested chat 09038126606. Where do you reside cuteeme? I'm a male looking for meaningful connections too If distance doesn't matter, I hope we can connect |
Romance › Re: "Why Men Should Insist On Marrying Virgins" by Ibkay32(m): 5:08pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Holluwhakemmy: I'm for real and 100% sure of what I am saying. I can attest to her but not for Ruthie, one that has gone wild, looking for an innocent guy to settle down with |
Romance › Re: "Why Men Should Insist On Marrying Virgins" by Ibkay32(m): 4:58pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Exgee: Yet u can't reply me. Sometimes it's unfair Stay there make the old new paper dey deceive you She's an old cargo that's gone wild, desperately searching for a cool place to finally settle down but the problem is, no port wants to take in what time and tide have already worn out. 😂 |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: An Advice Needed Please by Ibkay32(m): 4:27pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
I don't know why some ladies choose to date irresponsible guys and ignore the reserved and responsible ones. I won’t even blame the OP like that — this particular girl must have seen better, serious-minded guys asking her out, but she chose not to hear them out because she was seeing urgent 2k from the then OP. Now see where that urgent 2k don lead am. Sometimes, na our choices dey bring us pain. |
Romance › Re: What Can I Do If This Happens? by Ibkay32(m): 1:46pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Preciousgirl: What can I do if I am on a flight and all of a sudden all pilots and flight crew jump out of the aeroplane.
What can I do
Thank t The rate you ask mumu ques here sometimes, they need to wipe you oraimo cord for neck so that your brain can reset 😁 |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Drop Your Number And Location, You Might Get A Date by Ibkay32(m): 3:32pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: He Brought A Deity To Church To Submit To Apostle Joshua Selman by Ibkay32(m): 11:58am On Jun 01, 2025 |
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Agriculture › Re: Cashew Shells Needed by Ibkay32(m): 9:07am On Jun 01, 2025 |
banky200: WE ARE CURRENTLY IN NEED OF CASHEW SHELL IN LARGE QUANTITIES WITHIN NIGERIA ONLY. WE ARE WILLING TO SIGN A LEGAL SUPPLY CONTRACT WITH Suppliers 08062773986 Is there any difference between nut and shell? If there's no difference, you have to go to ogbomoso in Oyo State |
Romance › Re: I Want To Marry A Second Wife by Ibkay32(m): 4:32am On Jun 01, 2025 |
tit: Are you rich? Can you take me to Dubai? Do you need sidechick? Second wife he said not side chick aunty Ade 😞 |
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Romance › Re: Does This Matter? by Ibkay32(m): 5:19pm On May 31, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: Does This Matter? by Ibkay32(m): 3:30pm On May 31, 2025 |
NEWBIN: Must a man be worried if his wife enjoys speaking on phone with another man?
Like say an hour and they discuss anything.
Is a woman a suspect if she enjoys calls with a man when she is married? A man doesn't need to worry just because his wife talks to another man on the phone, especially if it's casual or work-related. However, if the calls are frequent, emotionally deep, secretive, or seem to take priority over her relationship with her husband, it could be a concern. A woman isn't automatically a suspect for enjoying another man's company, but boundaries and intentions matter. The key is open, honest communication to ensure trust and emotional connection remain strong in the marriage. |