₦airaland Forum

Adeoye11:
Can you marry igbo and hope you get money o, cus this lady get moni.
But you know women's adage nah?

So if you want her dm me

That’s the irony with women, wealthy women rarely marry poor men, yet rich men have no problem marrying women with nothing 😂

Firebox123:
You're pained

Pained? The irony. Just reading through your post already makes it obvious who’s truly hurt here. You didn’t even need to say much, your words screamed it louder than anything else could. Next time, try to mask the bitterness better.

Dtruthspeaker:
He said prosperity and not divorce.

Lol, people always thinks I don’t like her, but the way she comprehends things always dey come from the back door like she dey read chapter 10 before chapter 1. If someone says 'good morning', she go hear 'leave me alone' 😂

So just because you turned 26, you decided to start writing epistles?
Wait till you clock 50—na novel you go publish!

Trueigbo:
You just nailed it. I remember washing the walls of my room because I was expecting a lady. The washing gave the wall another look as I washed off the paints.

😂, that’s some serious dedication! You were definitely on a mission.

richmond500:
It's just so funny that most of the 90's 80's and 70's people know this doxeology line.

Honestly, those were the days when true love really existed—when you had to long for it, nurture it, and put in the work before you could truly earn it. Love back then was patient, intentional, and deep. It wasn’t rushed or transactional. People valued connection over convenience. But now, things have changed. Love seems more like a trend, something people stumble into and walk out of just as easily. The essence—the fight, the patience, the beauty of growing together—is slowly fading.

Holluwhakemmy:
i do pray for long life Thanks for wishing me well

😂
Epic reply

Holluwhakemmy:
There are many fish in the ocean but you are the only one i what.
You are the only sugar in my tea.
If my letter meet you well doxeology etc

Omorr, 😂
Without telling us, we already know you're 90's 😆

Amna1:
No worries bro but abeg sorry na 300 i go run you if i get

For the culture bro 💪

okoIYAyin:
Hello everyone! I’m looking to connect with genuine, outgoing people here in Ibadan, those who enjoy meaningful conversations, good energy, and authentic connection. Life feels better when shared with the right people, and I’m hoping to find a few who feel the same.

I’m into tech, pretty easygoing, and I value honesty, depth, and a good sense of humor. I enjoy great conversations, discovering new spots around town, and just having someone to vibe with, no pressure, no pretenses.

I’m 28, open to friendships with both men and women, as long as you’re real, kind, and intentional. If this resonates with you, please feel free to reach out. My email is phobby97@gmail.com

Let’s connect and see where it goes.

With a moniker like yours, how do you expect genuinely innocent people to feel comfortable connecting with you for friendship? It’s one thing to make a connection, but it’s another to turn around and make people uncomfortable with inappropriate behavior. That’s exactly why people say a good name is better than silver or gold. Your username alone is enough to raise eyebrows and discourage sincere interactions.

Honestly, if you’re serious about building meaningful friendships or connections, you might want to consider changing that name or creating a fresh account altogether. Presentation matters, and first impressions go a long way. No offense—just speaking from a place of concern and reality.

Godschild007:
I apologize Sir. I'm not the OP I was just desperate because of hunger. I apologize once again.

It's okay
I'm also not the OP

Godschild007:
bro pls run me 1k make i take buy garri pls.

07 25 00 93 40

Access bank

God bless

Are you the OP?
Why are you dropping your account without permission from the OP or the person that you quoted ?

Bukky001:
Even if person wan send you the 1k now, to which account?

Make I drop mine?

Amna1:
Please nairalanders i take God beg you help me with 1,000 I wan use am buy food mek I chow I swear i haven't eaten since yesterday.

Please i know you have no reason to help me being a total stranger but, right now my body is shivering that's why i decided to seek random help online even the data I'm using is free from STARK VPN as i have no one to turn to in this trying time. I'm a student but a graduate I'm waiting for nelfund to credit me for this month so i can return home but unfortunately i have no means of surviving right now.
I know a lot of greedy people turn up to ask for help under false pretense hence discourage people from helping those genuinely in need of help.

It really is not easy and there's no lie or truth in this world that i can sell to you to make you help me but i just want you to know that this is the life I'm currently living and if by chance you have had a similar experience then you know I'm not lying. I promise on my late mother's grave i am saying the truth and all i need is just 1k after which I'm taking down the post.

If by chance someone later blesses you with that 1kay, abeg run me 500 make I take reason small front. You know say anything we dey do, na for the culture—no wahala, no pressure. We move as one, bro.

ufotunang:
.na pomo Nigeria dey chop nowadays

They have turned the pomo to gold self

Holluwhakemmy:
it is well mine was 3wks ago

Omorr, people get money sha 😂

Holluwhakemmy:
You are not lying

Okay make I even add Easter time too
My last meat was on Easter day
Water don pass garri for this country

Maitunbi:
Is it irú?

Yeah, plenty iru

Holluwhakemmy:
lol. You're too funny

Abi na,
Na only Christmas and new year people dey eat meat now

guobe:
You nailed it but there are still friends that do come through for you when you are at your lowest point though rare.

They're rare 😔

guobe:
Remember when both of you were kids in nursery and primary school swinging jangolova together.
Remember when you were both catching atete(grasshopper)in your primary school grass.
Both of you even went to the same university and were very close.
Life has begone and things are relatively good for you and he is struggling.
My brother if you have a spare you can stretch your olive hand of fellowship to him as he is your brother from another mother.
Yes everyone has expenses to take care of but you are an asset to humanity and can always make a difference in the life of people.
What else can a brother say goes a saying.

Gone are the days when your friends saw you as a brother, when friendship meant loyalty, support, and showing up in times of need. Back then, a call for help was never ignored, and bonds ran deeper than just laughter and good times.

Nowadays, it seems many friendships have become a stage for comparison, more about showcasing achievements and flaunting wealth on social media than genuinely caring for one another. The warmth of true friendship is slowly being replaced by silent competitions and superficial connections.

FaceTanke:
Walahi na Davido spoil that song

How he spoil am??

I discovered this hard truth during my time in the higher institution. Whenever I had foodstuff and money, both friends and foes would suddenly come around, seeking help and companionship. But the moment I hit rock bottom and needed support, no one showed up — not even those I had once helped. That experience changed me deeply. It made me withdraw into myself and adopt a more introverted lifestyle.

I’ve since learned to rely less on people and more on my own strength and resilience. One thing life has taught me is this: always have it at the back of your mind that you don’t truly have anyone but God. People are seasonal, but God remains constant.