Romance › Re: I Quit Being A Nice Guy by ibkayee(f): 6:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
I feel your pain, most people who stop being 'nice' do so as a coping mechanism to protect themselves from being vulnerable. I don't blame you, hope you find a more decent human being to share yourself with |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 5:45pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Prestonn: Ok princess
Miss your post  Thanks dear, I haven't cooked in a while and I'm sure the lovely people here aren't interested in seeing my cold ham sandwiches hehehe  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 5:33pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Prestonn: Where have you been  I've been around o my dear, admiring all the lovely food on this thread  |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 5:26pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 5:25pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 5:25pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: Hmmm. ok
But Miss poco just gave him a very poor review. Nigerian men with even poorer reviews get married everyday lol |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:43pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
pocohantas: That one is now an unrepentant brolosho. That ashewo thread did him no good at alll  He just needs a good wife to knock him back to his senses  |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:38pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: I have Another 15 coming on the way
Be specific don't be afraid.
And you might also choose ladies, if you want  CaptainMitch lol |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: I knew you are going to say that, but I also married with 50 kids
So pick another person Just 50? You’re slacking Urm I want anyone who wants to get married in 2020 to get married in 2020 |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:31pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: oh
"Well thank you" as the people in your country will usually say.
So whose marriage do you want to see in 2020.  Iamgrey5  |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:26pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: Lol.
I don't get it  I find you funny basically |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:23pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5:
So you only miss me when you sight me.
You want to use queens English for me abi
Anyway, I am happy that you missed me somehow sha.
I hope the people in your country are prepared for the blond man policies tho. Lool this is why I miss you |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:18pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: 7 what, I don't believe you can have up to 7.
People in your country don't fancy having many kids
I am good though and you. Lol  Not bad not bad, I think I’ve kind of missed you now that you’re here actually  |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:10pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: I believe you even once said you have kids, but I maybe wrong.
I just decided to mention your name when I saw you viewing  Yeah 7 beautiful children  Long time, hope you're well? |
Romance › Re: Mention Dat Nairaland Girl U Want To Get Married In 2020 by ibkayee(f): 2:05pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Iamgrey5: Ibkayee  Lol I'm married already |
Music/Radio › Re: Timaya & Falz - Win (Video) by ibkayee(f): 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
truthsayer009: It doesn't at all. Looks like Clown in BatMan movie. LOOL Only Nigerian artist I can think of that can get away with Trap is Phyno and that's only if it's in Igbo |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 12:34pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
IceColdVeins: This right here is exactly the point. Life is unfair you know? You earn my RESPECT!! Yup |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 12:26pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: i think the op is the one who defended his mum the most during the time when his parents had issues, ever heard of the saying "dem nor dey talk put for husband and wife matter"? This is what played out. He was the most vocal of them all and now that his parents have settled he is going to be affected more in fixing his relationship with his dad. Hence the apology and gift. Imagine everyone except you is now cool with the person all of you used to beef, now i understand why the op needed to apologize ,he needed to fix the relationship with his dad at any cost lest he becomes the black sheep of the family. Yeah I think he's doing it to get along, which is the safest and most 'peaceful' approach, it just sucks that it won't address let alone fix the deep underlying issues. That's life I guess so I don't blame him |
Romance › Re: Who'd You Call?? by ibkayee(f): 12:22pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
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Music/Radio › Re: Timaya & Falz - Win (Video) by ibkayee(f): 12:20pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by ibkayee(f): 12:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
PrincipesaPCY: #FCF
He has refused to do something else for the past how long. He's stunning. I BELIEVE HIS ACTING DIE!!!!!! I want him to do a romance drama sooooooooo bad!!!!!
My FCF today is PARK HAE JIN!!!!! NN He was so annoying in My love from a star lol |
Music/Radio › Re: Timaya & Falz - Win (Video) by ibkayee(f): 12:15pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Lol aww look at Timaya prancing around like Drake |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: wait, him and your mum have reconciled? Now this is more interesting
Cc ibkayee Thanks, this was just pointed out to me earlier, but until we know the details it still isn't saying that much |
Romance › Re: Who'd You Call?? by ibkayee(f): 12:00pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
My brother, that one never picks his damn phone |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:48am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Prestonn: Nothing you can do to satisfy people.
When I tried to make a difference by posting mostly vegetables same people said "Brother are you a Goat, while eating Grass".
Tried posting fruits and low carbohydrates, same set of people came and said "Brother stop punishing yourself, eat strong food"
You see this set of people, nothing you do to satisfy them, they always like complaining without contributing something meaningful.
Click few pages back, you gonna see Strawberry, Beans and plantain, fish and tomatoes Sauce etc.
He might have a point, but upload pictures to back your claim about balance diet and also use the pics to educate us.
Don't mind some of them, once they see lagos airport for the first time, they come here and start talking about balance diet without uploading any photo and how big they are.
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Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:41am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Omakraid: With the lots of comment up there ehn, if I hadn't gone through the pages viewing interesting comments I would have jumped on as well. To imagine the people vexing are vexing on something like this?.? He’s answered some questions but we still don’t have the full story in my opinion, all the best to him though, he’s the most familiar with his family dynamic so I guess he’s just doing what he needs to do for his own personal reasons |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:34am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Omakraid: ibkayee this was what I saw ooo and why I said what I said. Ok I see, thanks for clearing the part about the parents up |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:26am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Omakraid: Yes, tho he stated that due to what he perceived his mum is going through... Also they could be under the same roof and the father would decide to overlook him cos of his strong will against him(dad). The parents are fine but the impression I his head stuck on for quite a while and would definitely make it difficult to relate even if under same roof. It would also make him feel he needs dad less... I pray God helps him to settle all It’s normal for a child to want to protect their parent, in fact I’d say it’s instinctive. I didn’t see anything in the OP indicating that the parents are fine o, I also saw that the mother singlehandedly supported him financially despite his father’s alleged wealth |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:16am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: i hate half stories. There is more he is not saying making readers form their opinion.
But i am very interested in why he felt the need to apologize if he already labelled his dad a dead beat.  To keep such hostility and go without talking for 6 years, only to suddenly be convinced of a reconciliation by that small, two sentence quote on Nairaland is kind of weird lol. I am also interested in the full story |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:07am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: that is the part i am yet to get,like how do you apologize for being abandoned ,lol .
IceColdVeins can you tell us why you are apologizing? Maybe if we know the reason you are sorry for hurting your dad we too can learn Exactly, yeah maybe there are points we’re missing |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:07am On Dec 13, 2019 |
Omakraid: Seems like both parents are cool together while he is the one at loggerheads heads with the dad cos of things he has heard from the mum.. The post is a lil bit misleading Not entirely clear on whether he just heard it from his mum or witnessed it himself, that one aside, he also mentioned experiencing negligence |
Family › Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by ibkayee(f): 11:05am On Dec 13, 2019 |
pocohantas: It is okay that he apologised, but his father's response shows no remorse on his own part. Looks like the response of a man who feels he can do no wrong. Na him sabi sha... Nah I wouldn’t have, I’m gathering that he apologised to his dad who he was constantly at loggerheads with because he maltreated his mother, who caused him to suffer due to negligence, in fact he claims there’s even plenty more to write down about his experiences with his father. And his reason for apologising was because someone on Nairaland convinced him that despite all this, a son’s bond with his father is special, or something. The father’s response made it even worse, it’s like the equivalence of someone replying ‘ok’ to a long, heartfelt message (all lowercases included) Maybe there are important points we’re missing sha, to each their own |