TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 5:20pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
JeromeBlack: Fake babe. You were watching Nollywood when you should have been watching game of thrones Lmao I probably was  |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 2:20pm On Jan 07, 2019*. Modified: 4:24pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
JeromeBlack: 2019 is going to be a great year for movies and TV
Infinity war part 2 (avengers endgame) Glass Captain marvel Shazam Game of thrones new season Billions season 4 Future man season 2 Us Dark phoenix Stranger things season 3 Men in Black
This is going to be a good year.
Cc alexistaiwo, mekaprime, AHCB, Beorn, Olu4life, ikon360, ibkayee, bountyhunter, viking007 Never got into GOT when it was pappin’ out in the streets. I want to but I’ve been too lazy to start from the beginning |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 12:28am On Jan 07, 2019 |
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TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 12:15am On Jan 07, 2019 |
Charmin1: Please where did you download from? Didn't download, streamed it on Netflix |
Romance › Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ibkayee(f): 11:48pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Skengman: The likes of ‘Ibkayee’ will make u think eloquence had died, but here it is right before me. Nicely said, don. Lol chill I was just trying to wind you guys up Everyone wants a spouse whose faithfulness they can vouch for in public but that’s a terrible way to go about it and shows he had little respect for her in the first place. The fact that they’re no longer together now is a win-win for both of them tbh lmao I also maintain that just as many guys if not more would've done the same for less and would be giving us proverbs to justify it to add insult to injury lol abeg save us the tears |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 11:09pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Kakamorufu: Which hot movie can i download tonite people? xvid... |
Romance › Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ibkayee(f): 11:08pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Skengman: Duck off! u grotty snowflake Lol your 'jabs' sound like someone who has urbandictionary bookmarked on their browser Sha still be quiet though yeah |
Romance › Re: Women To Get Divorce Notice Via Text Message In Saudi Arabia (photo) by ibkayee(f): 11:03pm On Jan 06, 2019*. Modified: 12:04am On Jan 07, 2019 |
Another milestone of advancement from Saudi [/sarcasm] |
Romance › Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ibkayee(f): 10:37pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ibkayee(f): 10:34pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Skengman: [s]Is that now the subject of discussion. Duck off! Your semantic digression is not appreciated.[/s] Shh |
Romance › Re: I Lost 8k Just Because My Ex Whom I Trusted Couldn't Keep Her Damn Legs Closed. by ibkayee(f): 10:26pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
*Shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Coming from guys who think cheating is their birthright and who probably would've lost this same bet, you got what you were looking for, sorry not sorry lmao |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 10:20pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
The Arbitration - 5.6
Intellectual, court themed, dialogue driven drama. Adequate acting, interesting enough plot. A bit dragged out at some points but overall not a bad watch. One of those Nollywood films I’d actually recommend to a non Nigerian |
Romance › Re: Physically Challenged Lady Marries Lover In Imo (photos) by ibkayee(f): 9:22pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
pocohantas: Amen!!!!
E bami ke halleluyah meje fun olorun!!! Lmao |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 8:45pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
sod09: to expose him I agree |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 8:43pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
sod09: they left it too late The documentary? |
Romance › Re: Lady And Her Uncle Lodged In The Same Hotel. Sparks Debate by ibkayee(f): 6:36pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
'Uncle' |
Romance › Re: Heartbroken Nigerian Soldier Laments As His Girlfriend Secretly Marries by ibkayee(f): 6:24pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Unfortunate he had to find out that way, but I mean, 2 years?? |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 6:20pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
sod09: did you hear his recent scandal involving aleeyah. I don't know why I want to believe it's true The marriage to her when she was 15? It's true, he had someone forge documents to lie about her age so he could marry her. His former personal assistant 'Demetrius Smith' admitted to it in the documentary I just watched |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 5:51pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
krattoss: bla bla bla bla.
What happens to "innocent until proven guilty "?. Why haven't Kelly been indicted and jailed if they have all the evidence as they claimed. Am expecting Kelly to sue the hell outa lifetime for all these blackmails and propaganda documentary.
Go and listen to his "admit it"19 minutes song. Hear his own side of the story before u conclude ur assertion.
Aaliyah is long dead, they didn't ignite this issue when she was alive and when the ovation was louder. Probly we could have heard from the horses mouth. Even the girls mom has come out to debunk these fallacy. I think those responsible for this blackmails are the "me too" crew who wants to have a share of the young man's sweat out of the blue. Even if all those allegations happened, it was of mutual consent between the two parties. Am boldly with Kelly on this cos he has paid his dues. He has served us great masterpiece in the music and rnb industry and it's time for we fans of his to stand by him in this trying times. #free R. Kelly# The justice system isn’t perfect, you can be guilty and still get off. He went free because she and her family denied it was her and wouldn’t cooperate There’s video proof of him having sex with her (14 at the time) and also urinating on her and it is clear as day that both she and R Kelly are the ones in the video. Her own aunt who introduced her to him recognised that it was her He also married a 15 year old Aaliyah at the age of 27 who he met when she was 12 (there’s a marriage license corroborating this) Let's just ignore all other accusations against him asides the ones above because at least we have tangible evidence to back these two up and it isn't just hearsay, if this isn't enough to convince you of his paedophilic, predatory nature I don't know what to tell you ‘eVen If aLl tHoSe aLlEgAtIoNs haPpEnEd, iT WaS oF MuTuAl CoNSeNt bEtWeEn ThE tWO pArTiEs’ So you think it’s normal for a 14 year old to be giving consent to sex with a 35 year old man? Lmao God bless |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 4:20pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Surviving R Kelly, just finished the 6 part series
My thoughts:
R Kelly is a sick man
I don’t consider ALL the women coming forward to be ‘victims’
I can only muster sympathy for the younger, impressionable girls he took advantage of tbh
His reputation precedes him, so it’s hard to feel sorry for some of the women who were still willing to get with him despite his history, especially the ‘mature’ ones at 30+ years of age
Some of them allowed themselves to be subjected to the alleged acts for money, fame etc
Some of those young girls’ parents and family members failed them and are complicit in introducing them to him
The people around him i.e. employees, friends etc who turned a blind eye are complicit in their silence
If the victims were white he’d probably be locked up
The black community’s continual support and protection of R. Kelly doesn’t shock me |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 4:17pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
Beorn: Relocate to Nigeria.  |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 3:30pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 3:29pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
ToyinDipo: Very true, if you saw me flaring when I heard of what happened to Dbanj, the death pained me to the point that I was telling people not to have empathy for the parents, rather they should be sued for ever allowing it to happen, albeit there were lot of people in the gathering Yeah none of us know the full story but in some places they probably would've been investigated for negligence, his death was so painful |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 1:03am On Jan 06, 2019 |
ToyinDipo: Eeeh, that was very sad I don't know why, I feel child death more than teenage or adult death Same, probably because there's more of an innocence about them than an adult |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 12:55am On Jan 06, 2019 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 12:42am On Jan 06, 2019 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 11:51pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
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Fashion › Re: "Why I Feel Sympathy For Ladies Who Bleach" by ibkayee(f): 9:57pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
MariaLavina: The emboldened is the point. Plus people should get their priorities right. Although I can't think for all but I believe beauty shouldn't be cause to live. it shouldn't be something to compete, change who you are or die for. Firstly, the most beautiful can never be found Secondly beauty varies, it is in the eye of the beholder. lastly, no one can live the world, just cut a piece and live it to it's fullest. Once there is one person that values you and you mean the world to, then all other attention should be extra. And luckily for us, there is always someone for everybody. My own view of life though.
Lol Maybe I will make a good mother, lemme go and give birth already.  Lol I actually admire it, it's a very healthy and self assuring way to view things, if only most people could see things this way Lool don't go and be having babies before your time please  |
Fashion › Re: "Why I Feel Sympathy For Ladies Who Bleach" by ibkayee(f): 9:05pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
MariaLavina: I understand your point. I was brutal,always hitting the nail on it's head Don't mind me, but you must agree it's the truth. To every problem there is a root / cause knowing the root/ cause is the first step in solving a problem. I believe since getting attention/approval from people is the main reason why people bleach, then it right to say lack of self esteem/value/ love is the reason for bleaching. I stand to be corrected though.
Yes, we are all wired differently hence different reactions to unpalatable situations, I should have considered that and probably not stated the cause only but also solutions which may include working on one's mind and esteem. We are all here to learn.  . I will put this in mind next time.
None taken either.  I understand where you're coming from, not everytime wallow in self pity and live by other people's validation, especially to the point where you aren't 'living' and potentially putting yourself at some kind of risk e.g medical issues Getting approval from people and a lack of self esteem are definitely chief reasons, point is that sometimes you can't help it, e.g. in a society where most people are conditioned to view a certain standard of beauty as the 'ideal', when you don't meet those standards I can't blame you for feeling a sense of inadequacy, it's important not to let it rule over your life sha but I get why they'd be affected Lool your brutality reminds me of my mum hahaha  |
Fashion › Re: "Why I Feel Sympathy For Ladies Who Bleach" by ibkayee(f): 8:29pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Carlyscales: Does it in anyway make sense, that a lady bleaches her skin so she can be asked out, or to increase her no of hits Same way it doesn't make sense for guys to be doing stupid things to get money to impress girls  I'm not saying it's right or wrong but humans like to be reassured and tend to look for approval from other humans, even if it's just a little, particularly the ones we want to attract, that's the world we live in. I'm not saying we're doing it for other people only either, some are also doing it for themselves but there's a degree of approval that most are also looking for. NIGERIANS of all people should know this |
Fashion › Re: "Why I Feel Sympathy For Ladies Who Bleach" by ibkayee(f): 8:23pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
MariaLavina: Lol, I see some feeble minds here indirectly and opposing and shading my view, ladies i don't bite. If you think otherwise, quote directly and let's converse. I don't bite 
So yes self esteem isn't easy to build, it's complex and can only be achieved by experience, I get that but the question is when do you want to start? When will you ever be ready for it? Is it something you can just decided on and build when feel you are ready? No Darling, it's a gradual process and it can start away, anytime and anyhow. Maybe with your skin colour.
For how long will you take the easiest routes? So because your light skin friends gets more attention than you do, does that mean you have to bleach your skin off? Have you tried evaluating the bases , benefits and Havocs that comes with this attention? Is it really worth it? Do you also want to be a shiit flies perch on? These should be sane questions that should come into your mind and not what bleaching cream should I use.
Yes self esteem is complex but do you have to be taught self love too? If you don't love who you are how do you expect people to love you? For how long will you walk in someone else shadow? Do you have to be taught how to accept your being?. Lol.
You ladies humor me! Wuraola01 believe me, over self esteem self dey over worry me. No be for mouth , still working on bringing it down self. So don't type trash next time.
ibkayee I expected much more from you.  Lool I'm not shading your post personally even though I definitely disagree with it, there are plenty of Nigerians who share your same sentiment and I would've said the same thing with or without your post I get that this is your way of encouraging people but each person's journey with their self esteem will be different, it's an individual battle and there are so many different factors that influence a person's self value, it's an oversimplification to 'blanketly' tell people that they're the problem. Telling people to just 'deal with it' is insensitive and dismissive in my opinion No insult intended dear |
Crime › Re: White Man Arrested After Attacking Black Female Worker Over A Straw by ibkayee(f): 7:56pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
I was so glad when she snatched him up after he grabbed her. I hope she sues McDonalds |