Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 4:10am On May 24, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 12:15am On May 24, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Lol.. My foodie friend You thought I won't be able to preserve it till whenever you come down here?  I doubt it's yours lol but it looks delicious  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 12:05am On May 24, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:55pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: I know you could, likely the reason it took you more time to respond.. 
Okay, I have Amala, gbegiri and ewedu for you.. I ll preserve it till you come down here Lol smh this guy |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:47pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: How does gbègìrì look like? I could literally just google it even if I haven’t had it [which I have), gbegiri looks like gbegiri lol |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:38pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Shey you will eat Amala and Gbègìrì with ewédú?  I eat it |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:30pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:18pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Ibikunle? Are you serious? Or you intentionally wanna dribble me tonight? Lol I don’t understand why this news is prompting this reaction o |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:08pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: When was that?  Lol don’t worry about that, but I’ve been plenty of times |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:06pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Oh.. Okay. Have you been here before? Lol yes |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 11:00pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Things are getting better... Things will get better by this December You guys did detty December over there too? I meant in Nigeria |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:56pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Ibikunle fúnraè... Lol Don't worry I will invite you here by December  And I was supposed to do Detty December but that’s unlikely, hopefully when things gets better  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:45pm On May 23, 2020*. Modified: 11:07pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Where in Ogbomosho? I want to check something  Don't open google oh. If you do I ll catch you from here Lol somewhere there sha, I don’t know where exactly |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:34pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Flight activities still on suspension  Lol I’m in Ogbomosho, no flight needed  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:32pm On May 23, 2020 |
payperpost:
Peppered Shrimps in Onion Source Craving |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:32pm On May 23, 2020 |
Akposy: Pass me the chickens o. I've been craving chicken since.
Pocohantas....your pepper soup is calling my name. I want the turkey and pepper juice 
payerpost. Why was the peppered shrimp pics over cropped? Na me and you today..I'm in da mood  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:24pm On May 23, 2020 |
andrewtosin: Preserving it? Till when?  Lol you can come and get it if you want |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 10:15pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ibkayee(f): 10:15pm On May 23, 2020 |
sweetmelanin: Not necessarily.
It's very much possible that a woman can just decide to be lazy after marriage especially when the husband is a high earner...
.. we don't even know if she has a maid sef so let's not make excuses for laziness please. This is also a possibility, I didn't mention it in my first post but I don't rule it out I'm not making excuses sha, sometimes there's more to a story. It could definitely just be her being lazy, but it could also be something else |
Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ibkayee(f): 10:03pm On May 23, 2020 |
bujebudanu1: Family of 2. So probably there's no or little chores to do She's just being lazy. Follow all latest gists and already searching for another honeymoon in this pandemic Ok, I missed the part about it just being the 2 of them, that's what I get for skimming. Don't think the possibility of depression and housework needs to be struck out though lol. Maybe she's trying to transition into a housewife, or maybe it is actually some of those things that I mentioned (minus childcare) |
Family › Re: Her Lack Of Ambition Is Killing My Happiness. by ibkayee(f): 9:26pm On May 23, 2020 |
She was more active before marriage, as according to you she was working and saving to start her own business. That doesn’t sound like someone who downright lacks ambition to me.
What exactly happened once she got married that is slowing down her drive? Is it depression? Housework? Child care? (For example, was she juggling all of this with work on her own?) The switch just seems a bit out of the ordinary |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 8:41pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 8:09pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 8:04pm On May 23, 2020 |
iamoyindamola: Which one is chicken  Lool I don’t know why I burst out laughing when I saw this The first one, coconut breaded* chicken sha |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 8:01pm On May 23, 2020 |
Chicken and sweet potato
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 4:54pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 4:42pm On May 23, 2020 |
cococandy: Lunch is a serve-yourself affair. Mama is tired. Going for a nap.
Petyprincess you’re invited. Whew! |
Family › Re: Sleeping In Same Room With Your Wife Or Having Your Room by ibkayee(f): 4:05pm On May 23, 2020 |
This is one of those things that people may say you can't really know what you'd do until you're married and living or cohabiting with someone.
I still feel I'd prefer my own room for my belongings and sleeping, the belongings part is easy but the sleeping part probably isn't always the most practical. (Yes preference is different to what may actually happen)
It's one of those 'seemingly' trivial things which are actually quite serious...to me. Or is it not trivial? I don't know |
Romance › Re: Any Woman That Calls You A NICE GUY Is Calling You A FOOL by ibkayee(f): 3:43pm On May 23, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Moving Back To Nigeria After The Lockdown by ibkayee(f): 3:17pm On May 23, 2020 |
Hey sassysure, if you respond to my post, don't quote it directly, I think the antibot thinks it's spam so you may end up getting banned |
Travel › Re: Moving Back To Nigeria After The Lockdown by ibkayee(f): 3:11pm On May 23, 2020 |
sassysure: It's not everywhere u experience slow internet.
Also depending on where u live and work, you can enjoy nigeria but u must be rolling in cash.
With your money, everybody will be at your bevk and call but is that really the ideal way to live?
I enjoyed 22hrs minimum electricity everyday when I was in Nigeria. My gen was lying dormant. My area was heavily guarded by men on mofti and very quiet.
I just miss the busybody and amebò. Even when u are not part of those doing that, when u are away from.them, u will def miss that. Sorry, I missed this yesterday  I genuinely enjoy my time whenever I'm in Nigeria as I am lucky enough to have the means to exist comfortably there. However, no matter how much I manage to seclude myself away from the 'outside', I cannot be entirely far removed from all the country's problems. Electricity was just one of many examples of the general below standards of living in the 21st century. I keep being told that if you have money, there are 'alternatives', my issue is that I don't want to live in a country where basic human rights (like electricity) aren't already readily available for the common man and can only be obtained and enjoyed at a reasonable standard when you have money. That mindset just isn't normal to me |
Travel › Re: Moving Back To Nigeria After The Lockdown by ibkayee(f): 2:55pm On May 23, 2020 |
JewelStone: Lol. Not everyone leaves Nigeria because they're struggling so speak only for yourself.
I had a fairly good job in Nigeria that was paying around 200k per month. It wasn't a lot of money but the best part of my job was the tips I was getting. I barely touched my salary cos I lived off my tips and my high-risk investment which had 20% monthly return. Before relocating from Nigeria, I had been to Istanbul, Paris, Barcelona, Palma de Mallorca, Dusseldorf, London, Dubai, NYC, Vegas and LA on holidays. I also visited to Cotonou shortly before I left Nigeria because I wanted to experience life in another African country.
Yeah my first few months here were tough. But as someone with a high drive to succeed, I quickly learnt the ropes and how to package myself and get a good job. God also blessed me with a man who has the same drive as me, we're doing alright and we're currently building our multi-million dollar home in Sydney. And I've been here less than 4 years.
I choose to live in Australia because the leaders here are sane and they have respect for their citizens. The Govt is giving out $1,500 per fortnight to eligible people who lost their jobs due to Covid-19...and so many other stimulus packages to individuals and businesses to help sustain them through the crisis. I didn't lose my job so didn't get the Covid-19 money, and we generally don't get any welfare payments from the Govt because our household income is way above the threshold.
I've been to Nigeria several times and I spent over a month there last year. I still have lots of friends who are doing well in Nigeria even in the midst of the craziness going on; some in govt and some into contracts. I would probably be ok if I returned to Nigeria today, but I value my life and my sanity.
No matter how rich you're in Nigeria, you'll always be surrounded by abject poverty and all the third-world country problems. Thank you  |