₦airaland Forum

Acidosis:
What are you smoking ?

Acidosis:
Endurance is a virtue. It's not necessarily bad.

I mean, we all endure some difficult situations in one area or the other.

Some endure a difficult boss, toxic work environment, difficult customers, etc. You have the option of leaving, don't you?

Women endure abuses in marriage for the same reasons Nigerians endure the Nigerian government. Buhari is bad, Atiku is corrupt, bla bla bla, but here we are, many have the option of leaving but hey, more than 150 million people are still here and none can revolt. Hypocrisy, isn't?

As far as I'm concerned, I wouldn't want to get involve with someone without that virtue. It doesn't mean an abusive or toxic relationship is right.

emusmithyy:
Lazy lolz.

Every girl/lady claims the title, "lazy" and it seems like a mystery or perhaps an excuse.

Which is it to you?

emusmithyy:
I follow you...so I've seen your posts on threads with impatient Nairalanders.

You don't seem to use curse words and you are smart.

*I shouldn't be saying this*

emusmithyy:
But you write well and you're patient.

Like a great online personality, seen some of your replies. Amazing. That's what attracted me anyway

Which eventually led me to know which particular career

emusmithyy:
Alright. Thought it was related to online writing and all, saw the way you write, its cool. I thought you do it professionally. Like a blogger or something. I have a thing for writing and anyone who takes their time to write succinctly, NOT USING ABBREVIATIONS.

Dobson43:
This is infact the most reasonable piece done by a lady since the start of this year. Baby, I for just go pay your bride price with #13m if I no get someone. You are doing well.


But make you nor get character like your dp

pocohantas:
I can imagine...

emusmithyy:
The one I asked about...

*It's nothing special, literally just doing my job from home because of the pandemic*

YOU looked like a student so that got me wondering

emusmithyy:
You don't want to talk about it...here?

emusmithyy:
You awake?

emusmithyy:
Goodnight!

doitforyou:
The bolded is very common but people rarely talk about it. The most dangerous time for an abused victim is when they leave. When the abuser knows he’s about to lose control, the violence escalates.

Sometimes it’s the threat to take the children away from her if she leaves.

Victims should also not be dismissed as being weak, poor, stupid or suffering from low self-esteem. The abuser doesn’t start out as being abusive, abuse is a process, he love bombs, isolates and primes his victim for the eventual abuse.

Kaien, abuse victims don’t leave until when they’re ready to, it takes time to undo all the emotional and psychological damage, the only thing you can do is let her know you will be there for her when she’s ready. If/when you move, you can leave your number with her, letting her know she will have support when she’s ready.

emusmithyy:
Do you want to talk about it, the working from home part?

Who knows, we might have the same interest?

XRJP:
Nice...

Can I send a PM?

I would really appreciate some guidance...

Thanks

2O17:
open source

Pavore9:
Sponsoring a girlfriend's university education is gambling. A man has no obligation to do that, don't she have relative or does the man not have female relatives that needs empowerment either through education or business?

jacquincy:
Will rather dig the ground and put the money there. Man made man wicked

oyewale0001:
Na them. Quick to recognize sexy.


It is well.

Iceyjayz:
You are obviously not his type, swerve!

ericsmith:
[s] since when did " facts & truth " need to have "meaning" you're just been emotional, it might as well sound awful to say women were predisposed to handle pain buh it doesnt discredit the fact that women were cursed with pain, try genesis.
I am surprise you did not notice the big picture "cheating" is a sub here, lets talk about who we are;
men & women feel the same pain from betrayal, infidelity or cheating buh we don't hurt d same way neither do we handle or heal the same way. I am not saying these to justify or promote cheating .. truth is just what it is
You are deliberately forgetting something, men cheat with women, which means for every one count for a man there is a corresponding count for a woman ... if men & women are to submit there whatsapp msgs lots of main boyfriends wil jus commit suicide an average naija gurl has main boyfriend, assistant bf, flings bf,unrelated uncles, sugar dad, even lecturer/boss @ the office join nairaland bf is null & void [/s]

‘a man needs protection from emotional strikes just as much as a woman need more protection from physical strikes’

emusmithyy:
Hmm, what are you occupied with?

emusmithyy:
Huh huh, you had to bring it down to my level. Trademark of an excellent teacher.

BTW, hope the lockdown ain't so boring there? Like, you can go out sometimes and all?

chic2pimp:
I am Nicking this.

emusmithyy:
Let me act like I understand the "clocks move an hour backwards in October however, until March"

Speaking of London & Manchester, are you a football person?

emusmithyy:
Used to hear that but felt some part of the UK has different timezones and all...places like Manchester and London...

emusmithyy:
What time is it over there?

Gaggi:
No need for the back and forth. If your husband does have a love child in future, come and share with us how you handled it.