₦airaland Forum

jmoore:
Why must you marry a second wife? If she marries a second husband and brings him home, will you be happy?


The only man that is allowed to marry more than one wife is a man with more than one dick. If you have one dick, better stick to only one wife.

shut up! Why you no tell Jacob and Abraham for Bible say them no get 2 or 3 pricks ! Solomon get thousands abi?

Oxenomy:
This is not secret na.. I have a friend in the military, a major posted to Niger Delta area since 2012.. This guy is very rich to the extent that he is just building houses here and there.. One day when he came back home, I asked him how he makes his money because I know that military profession is not that lucrative in terms of their salaries and other allowances, he told me that he can't just go to Niger Delta and die for nothing. He said that all the military officers in Niger Delta can do anything to make sure they are retained there. And for you to be posted there, you must be highly connected in the military. I asked him to tell me exactly how they make money there.. He was just being diplomatic . He told me that whatever is happening in Niger Delta in terms or oil bunkering, everybody has a stake in it.. From the military, politicians, government officials to the common thug in the creek so, it's natural that you utilize your stake while carrying out your job diligently. He said that everybody there is doing it, from the commander JTF to the soldier sent to the creeks..

I believe you so much because high level corruption is happening as far as crude oil theft is concerned!

Abeymills:
So it was gudluck dat sponsor mend 2 blow up innocent Nigerians in eagle square some slowpoke ewedu brain zombies here just saying nonsence it's only inrelevant n useless govt dat will work wit criminals like okah brothers yeye govt

you are an EWU! The same Jonathan claimed it wasn't mend when they claimed responsibility for the bombing! Jonathan said he knew the culprits! Later during the campaign, the drunk changed his narrative that okah was the one that he actually wanted to assassinate him!

Kenai:
When we kept drumming it to the heads of these dunces that Buhari's appointments have NOTHING to do with merit and qualifications but are based on 3 factors - Tribalism, Nepotism and Cronyism - they went haywire with the usual empty, hackneyed recitation, "I don't care where Baba picks his people from, as long as they PERFORM".
Well, there you have it.
Playtime is finally over, and the grim, depressing reality that these "technocrats" were actually UNQUALIFIED to handle these posts has finally come home.

See, you can never win with nepotism or cronyism. The fates will not allow you. One way or another, your intellectual emptiness will be laid bare for all to see.

When you replace a Barth Nnaji with a Fashola, an Adesina with an Audu Ogbeh, an Okonjo-Iweala with an Adeosun, an Emeka Mba with an 83-year old Durojaiye and a Mobolaji Johnson with a glove-wearing clown; then trust me you have already staged your own epic failure.

This man was running a team of economic illiterates and high-powered dimwits all along, but you piled excuse after excuse to defend the blunders.

Now they're out of ideas and are finally looking for 'experts'...
Wait... You mean these clowns were mere 'office holders' all this while?

Tell me something!

Best wishes.

why are you so insincere? You haven't told us what these people you just mentioned contributed when crude oil sold high! If they had performed so well as you would want us to believe, why are we starting everything afresh? Where is the infrastructure they used their competence to build? Who can't manage it when crude oil price was above budget benchmark? What extra ingenuity did they bring in apart from theft?

There's something wrong with this Op!!!

If women are that bad then leave them alone na!!!

ConqueredWest:
When smart people warned the AFONJAs to consult their God before voting, did they.?

You don't ignore God's wisdom and expect him to jump in to help you when you find yourself in trouble.

Whenever spiritual warnings are given, take it serious because God might hands off when his warning comes to past

your empty skull will never link the present situation to what ur thiefing Jonathan caused for 6 yrs in office! Your biased skull can't recall!

And Op who told you they are marrying good girls? They are marrying those they think are good! There are no good girls anymore!!! If not how many real virgin can you find at age 23 to 25 yrs? Almost none! And let nobody come here and start saying they didn't disvirgin themselves! The truth is that they've made sex so cheap and valueless

ugosonics:
It is trying to say, whatsoever that will prevent u from entering the kingdom of God , Avoid it. It doesn't really mean you should pluck off your eyes. There are many temptations , Always pray that the grace of God is there to help you in all situations

clap for urself! Keep determining what's literal and what's implied! Confused people!

Qmerit:
Hehehe who would eat this kind of red yam from his oga and say his master is not like "Jesus". Okupe once said so!
President Jonathan is like Jesus Christ.--- Okupe

and then the bastard flat heads were just laughing! They didn't shout blasphemy!!! Because Jesus said he's going to come like a thief! They thought it was in the form of jonathief!!!

OZAOEKPE:
i can never blast BBC, i will bless them if they continue......








i lay a curse on buhari today

afterall you are full of curse that's why you have so much excess to dish out!

And what has she to offer? Stinking ass! May God save the he-goats among men! Men don suffer! Every ashawo thinks she's worth any man because we no longer insist on virginity! Shior!??

It even baffles me to see that those who are the beneficiaries of one Nigeria are the ones clamouring for its destruction! They are allowed to do business and own properties in every part of this country when they don't allow others do same in their states! Yet they still cause trouble! Do you guys think the south East will be enough for you guys when the chips are down? They introduce robbery, prostitution, selling of fake drugs and spare parts everywhere yet they are tolerated! Do these people have sense at all?

saintdennis:
Nope it's not the wife's fault @ all...didn't u use your glasses to read my post? She's probably there cooking for a man whose heart is already turning black thanks to hate.

I blame the nairalander and other social media ethnic bigots who keep posting hateful and vile words against the yorubas and hausas.

I blame the pro-biafrans who instead of campaigning like the Scots, the basques, the catalans, the tibetans, the corsicans, the western saharans etc are choosing to demonise the yorubas, hausas and even igbos who do not support their secessionist ideals.

For over a year all we have seen is a steady increase in attacks on yorubas and hausas online... how long do u think b4 a yoruba guy will strike his neighbour over a small disagreement? The seed of hate is germinating.

I fear for when it's time for harvest.

igboooos are going to harvest it very soon! They never learn! If they feel that strong they should go all alone instead of dragging the Niger deltans along! Niger deltans are not igboooos! Not Biafrans!

They should have said a Biafran! They easily answer Nigerian when they don shit for church! If na good thing now they raise Biafran flag! Ah! Ah!! These people will never repent! They cause trouble at home, then abroad they tarnish the hard-earned name of good Nigerians!!!

Always HARD working with HARD substances! Flat heads I hail o!

Why are girls such hypocrites? When you spend time and fortune polishing urself, making urself look flawless and stainless what do you expect! On top of that you girls go ahead posting seductive pictures online! My question for you girls is ' what do you seek?' and now some hypocrites among men are also condemning the man! Are you condemning him for being HOT or for asking?

loomer:
This man is a fool.

So one zone must rule for 8years

OBJ ruled for 8 yrs but you didn't complain

Yes just like Obasanjo ruled for 8 years! What's strange in that?

EgunMogaji:
Here you go Chief.

Gay Imams:

http://islamandhomosexuality.com/5-imams-openly-gay/

"When I was growing up queer and Muslim in Somalia, struggling to understand how my sexuality harmonized with my faith, I never knew there would be a day in my lifetime when there would be gay imams who were open about their sexuality and led their communities with honesty and dignity. That day is here. More and more there are openly gay imams popping up. Some you might know from the media, others might be new to you, but they do exist.
Some of these men have fully operational mosques, others are meeting a few days a week or even once a week, and some may not even call themselves “imam,” but what they all have in common is that they are spiritually leading LGBT Muslims into accepting themselves with the understanding that Islam is really free from homophobia.

1. UNITED STATES: Daayiee Abdullah
The concept of a gay imam is so foreign to the American mainstream psyche that Daayiee Abdullah has so far been featured all over the media in places like The Washington Post, The New York Times, and Al-Jazeera, among others. “Sometimes necessity is the mother of invention. And because of the necessity in our community, that’s why I came into this particular role,” he told Al-Jazeera, talking about how he was thrown into being an imam when all the local imams refused to give a gay Muslim the last rites, forcing the scholar to step in. “Being an openly gay imam and having been identified as such, I do get a lot of feedback and also kickback, but that’s OK. I think that when people are unfamiliar with things, they tend to have an emotional knee-jerk reaction to it.”

2. SOUTH AFRICA: Muhsin Hendricks
In the late 1990s, Muhsin Hendricks came out to his community and started Al Fitrah (The Natural), an organization he believed would help LGBT Muslims understand their natural sexuality is okay with Allah. Today, over 15 years later, his community has grown hugely. The Inner Circle, which is another organization he started, has organized many international conferences, published material, and allows him to participate in the overall discussion on Islam and homosexuality around the world. “We can never change the Koran, but we can change our interpretation of it,” he told Qantara, the German portal that works in the intercultural dialogue between Islam and Germany. “Today, we live in a different world than over a thousand years ago. We have to look at the Koran again and see how Islam can become a mercy for a part of the community that is suffering at the moment.”

3. FRANCE: Ludovic-Mohamed Zahed
When he was a teenager in Algeria, Ludovic-Mohamed Zahed became so depressed about the reconciliation between his sexuality and faith that he left Islam. Years later, armed with more information, he returned to the faith. This time around, he decided to make a change. “Today in France, gay teenagers are almost 15 times more likely than those who are straight to kill themselves because of their sexual orientation,” he wrote in The Guardian, explaining why he started a gay-friendly mosque in Paris. “Left deeply bruised by this fact, I decided to create an association in support of gay French Muslims, which launched in 2010. This eventually led me to plan an inclusive mosque in Paris – the first of its kind. It is a project born after a long personal journey.”

4. CANADA: El-Farouk Khaki
In 1993, El-Farouk Khaki started what ended up being the first support group for LGBT Muslims in Canada. Salaam Canada is now one of the major organizations in the Muslim community who are giving people alternative information to the traditional, and generally homophobic, perspective. The El-Tawhid Juma Circle, which is a gender-equal and LGBTQ affirming space for Friday prayers, was created in 2009, and Khaki has been one of the imams at their local mosque in Toronto. “It’s always a challenge for a gay person to come to terms with any faith,” he told The Star. “Why would God create gay men to be second-class citizens? Why did he create them only to have them condemned?”

5. GERMANY: Rahal Eks
Rahal Eks is the author of several memoirs, including the upcoming “On the Path of the Friend,” in which he details his encounter with Sufism and how it changed his life. Since the mid 1990s, he has been leading Sufi evenings on Thursdays in Morocco, Spain, and Germany. Like his teachers, who are from three different schools of Sufism, he never saw a conflict between sexuality and Islam. “I was very lucky by having encountered some Sufi teachers, whose ideas about Islam and homosexuality were rather progressive and accepting, who explained things to me in a different light than the average fossilized Mullah,” he told me in my book Queer Jihad. “Combined with my happy years living in the Arab World, and having enjoyed wonderful relationships, I managed to achieve a harmonic integrity of all my aspects where spirituality and sensuality form a holistic totality, not being fragmented or at war. Plus, I also love and accept myself, which is really a vital point and a must. So I think the main credit for achieving this must go to the Sufi Tradition, as it really is the main helper and positive impact.”

Note: There are several others in Muslim-majority countries, but they have been excluded from this list to make sure their safety is not compromised. If you are aware of them, please do not mention them in the comments section. Thank you."

Gay Hindus:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/yagnaram-ramanuja-dasan/love-has-given-unto-love_b_7695122.html

"Last month, I officiated at the marriage of two wonderful women. This was the first wedding I ever conducted, and it seemed fitting to me that it should be a same-sex marriage. The venue was a historic outdoor market in Philadelphia. Tourists would occasionally wander through as the mandap was being set up, consistently asking:

“What kind of event is this?” (“A wedding.”)

“Is this a WEDDING?!?!” (“...Yes.”)

“What’s that incense you’re burning? It’s so lovely!” (“It’s nag champa.”)

The kalashas were set up and dressed with silk, the area around the havan kund with was decorated with mango leaves and fresh flowers. To my right, several friends of the brides were chatting while making a backdrop from beautiful red saris and marigolds. The traditional sounds of nadaswaram were playing softly (as softly as nadaswaram can be, anyway) in the background. The brides processed in and sat down. The rites went smoothly.

Many of the guests remarked to me later that this wedding was so beautiful. I personally think most weddings are beautiful, but many of these individuals had never attended a Hindu wedding before, so I understood that they were specifically commenting on the beauty of this context. Hindu weddings certainly are stunning affairs, with lots of bright colors, fresh flowers, the sounds of the ritual fire burning and the scent of incense. For me, as a queer person, the beauty of vivah samskara (marriage rites) is in the meaning and the context. People like me are still denied the right to marry in many places around the world, and so to not only witness, but also officiate, this marriage was especially joyful. What I performed for this couple, and what I will describe briefly below, is a form of marriage called gandharva vivah, a form of marriage that in antiquity was practiced by third-gender or queer individuals*. Gandharva vivah is especially beautiful, I believe, not just because of its usage by third gender people, but also because many of the prayers transcend the patriarchal structures of traditional marriage. These rites may change slightly across different traditions, but the core portions remain the same.

Preliminary rites are first performed like the cleansing of the space to make it pure and suitable for worship and prayers for the removal of obstacles. After the sankalpam, or dedication, is chanted, the familial lineages of both partners will be chanted aloud for all to hear, which is a way to honor each set of ancestors. The parents of either individual will come and pour water over a coconut held by the couple, symbolizing their blessings over this marriage. Then the spouses-to-be will perform what is my favorite part of the wedding rites, hṛdaya sparśa. The couple faces each other. They touch each others heart, and recite a mantra:

Who has given this heart and to whom?

Love has given unto love.

Love is the giver, love is the receiver.

Love has entered the ocean of love.

I receive you through love.

Oh love, this heart is yours."

Glad to have added to your education this afternoon.

all these countries you have just mentioned are mostly Christian /jewish countries! Don't you think these religions that have always fought Islam have started planting their gay apostles to pose as imams? They will try as hard as they can but they can never put out the light of Allah!!!!!

The Iboooos abi na igboooos are the problem we have in this country! They support anything corrupt as long as it favours them! No wonder they are so into armed robbery, kidnapping, forgery, fraud, ritual, drug pushing counterfeiting, arms dealing to mention but a few!!!!

prettythicksme:
Lies!!d pics aint the same person.How person face go rough like dis self?wetin she dey look?

am also with you on this! How did they cover the pimples in the nose and forehead?

Vickyydera:
He can't resist me.

yes I can understand! You are truly beautiful! Wow!!!

If you women want to be equal to men, behave as equal as men! Don't go about nude and expect unconditional respect! Respect urself first! Also expunge from ur DNA the nagging ability

Zico5:
From what I deducted from this piece, fayose hands are tied. What is the allocation of Ekiti that the repayment of such huge loan will be tied to federation allocation. I know some will not read to the end before jumping to conclusion. As Apc supporter, I want to say that fayose is not to blame for Ekiti calamity again. He may be stubborn but he deserves leniency.

no my brother you didn't read it well rather! It's says the repayment was tied to some specific receipts from the FG not allocations!!!!

Nixiepie:
That sodomy hell of a country,I'm not surprised

na Christian country o! Na so una take spoil the world?

Chai! South south Christians and killings are like twins! Ogboni4christ noni! Them don use am do offering!

The guy fall my hand with the third pix! What happens to a little act of decency!

tigerclaws:
the same regional collabo presidiot bullharry criticized Jonathan for that's the same regional collaboration he's having meeting with
useless bastard gworo chewing bastard burukutu sipping gorilla
hopeless vagabond Useless old hag kunu sipping monkey
Thunder scatter Buhari Insha'Allah amin

chei only you talk these things! Why are you really so pained?

Booyakasha:
Yes, most of us will do this if we start seeing and experiencing positive "change" but doing this now will make you look like a rețard, you might be stoned to coma if people see you with that tattoo..

baby you too much! Almost busted my stomach laughing

Nixiepie:
Thank you op.....

baby you too fine jare!

Nikapetrelli:
FINALLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYY

pls marry me!