Politics › Re: I Am Still In The Race: Wase Visits Buhari, Vows Not To Step Down For Abbas by id4sho(m): 9:58pm On May 19, 2023 |
Round 1 , fight  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Apapa And His Security Detail In Court by id4sho(m): 5:30pm On May 19, 2023 |
Old man and his sponsors disgracing themselves. Typical stomach infrastructure |
Politics › Re: Breaking: Labour Party Authentic Chairman, Already Seated In The Court. by id4sho(m): 10:46am On May 19, 2023 |
OBIdients are waiting for you outside |
Crime › Re: Police React To Kehinde Adesoga Adekusibe's Anti Igbo Tweet by id4sho(m): 10:32am On May 19, 2023 |
Matters arising, in my life time  |
Politics › Re: Gbajabiamila: I Regret Supporting Tambuwal For Speaker In 2011 by id4sho(m): 9:15am On May 19, 2023 |
Matters arising  |
Family › Re: Is Flogging A Part Of Good Parenting ? by id4sho(m): 10:52pm On May 16, 2023 |
Jakumo: That picture of a man beating an underage girl on her ass just makes my blood boil. I would love to face that man in hand-to-hand combat to see how well such a sick sexual pervert can handle himself against a real man versed in martial arts Rest |
Crime › Re: A Revealing Discussion I Had With A Yahoo Boy by id4sho(m): 10:50pm On May 16, 2023 |
MallamChukwudi: A few weeks ago, I spoke to a Yahoo boy that lives here in Berlin. He was eating at the same Nigerian restaurant I went to eat at, one sunny Sunday.
He thought I was a G boy, so was asking me about some stuff I didn't know about, if I knew someone that deal with bank accounts, or if they could use mine to forward hundreds of thousands of euros.
I told him no, that I am employed, and jokingly complained about how the tax man is billing me yearly for income tax, that I didn't pay enough the previous year.
Then we got talking and he went on to narrate how he envied ordinary folks that go to work daily, the simple calmness in their soul, and how they could access things that he cannot even access even if he has more money than them. I asked for more explanation, and he continued.
He said we do not have the fear of the future, that his affluent reality can come to a stop any day the law ever catches up with him. That when he hears a knock on his door, he fears so deeply to open even if it's the postman.
He will only open the door when he is sure he is expecting someone and the person is around. How he tries not to involve the authority for anything even if it's perfectly legal, due to fear of igniting any event that will shine a torchlight on his affairs that may lead to an arrest.
That ordinary working folk can simply get a mortgage and buy a house, but he can't since that would lead to questioning his source of income. The guilt he felt because of the people he has harmed by stealing from them, and when bad things happen to him, he wonders if it's karma.
He has three daughters and has always wished for a son, but wondered if God gave him only daughters to punish him for his philandering. His three daughters are from two different women.
For him, the most important thing he complained about was peace. He misses having peace, and that peace is priceless. That sometimes, he doesn't sleep long due to unnecessary fear.
His wife also knows the job he does, which hints at her moral failure, and he fears that she will use it against him if there is any conflict between them. His source of income is like a dagger under his belly.
I was not shocked hearing all these, since I understand very well the cause-and-effect nature of things. But it was refreshing hearing all these from him, as it made me appreciate my own struggles. I pitied him, and ask him why don't just stop it.
He responded that he can't. It's the only job he knows, and he has gone so far that he can't be earning wages that won't sustain his lifestyle. Then I asked how he got a residence since he doesn't work and didn't study. Then he said that was another mistake he regretted.
He came on a visitor visa, was desperate to stay permanently, and impregnated any available woman, to legalize himself.
I was then wondering why he was telling me all these things, which I consider a personal secret. And he said I give the vibe of someone that can empathize, and also, talking about it eases the pain a bit, especially to strangers he won't see again.
He then got a call and left. Probably someone will meet him outside. We shook hands and told me bye. After I finished eating and was about to pay, the waiter informed me that he has paid for my meal. I was thankful but had an unpleasant feeling that he paid for my food with some kind of blood money.
Such an encounter opened my eyes to a reality I have known to exist, but not met anyone in it. It reminds me of the quote that there is no peace for the wicked, no honor amongst thieves, and that what you sow, you shall reap. Some Yahoo disclose what they do if their spirit is free with you. I've met them severally, I don't condemn them. I just listen and get paid for my service. I met a dude fluent in American accent speaking with a American lady. Those guys are skilled, cunny with a tight game |
Celebrities › Re: Saint Obi's Marriage Took Him Away From His Friends And Acting - Zik Zulu by id4sho(m): 12:48pm On May 16, 2023 |
ambu2: No. Zik Zulu is not trying to "subtly suggested that St Obi abandoned his friends because he felt he had hit the jack pot by getting married to a supposedly rich woman'. Rather he is trying to say that his wife manipulated him away from his acting career and consequently his friends who would be his support system. That's always the strategy they employ. And being an introvert, didn't also help the situation. Your mind dey there, this is the tactics bad women employ. They isolate you from your friends, family and hobbies . Then decent on you finally. Dude was an introvert |
Celebrities › Re: Seun Kuti Paraded With Other Suspected Criminals by id4sho(m): 12:38pm On May 16, 2023 |
Balablu bhlu bhlu bulaba  |
Education › Re: First Online University Debuts In Nigeria As FG Issues 37 New Licences by id4sho(m): 12:33pm On May 16, 2023 |
Government will start shutting down private versity, soonest  Approval choke |
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Celebrities › Re: Saint Obi's Marriage Took Him Away From His Friends And Acting - Zik Zulu by id4sho(m): 12:23pm On May 16, 2023 |
The haggard old witch will be there crying '' I lost my ex-husband ''. Dude lost it all, left his skill for managing her business (most probably). Issues started, she seized everything. He has lost touch of skills, nothing to fall back on. Transport not for the faint hearted, health challenge set in and finally death |
Celebrities › Re: Saint Obi's Marriage Took Him Away From His Friends And Acting - Zik Zulu by id4sho(m): 12:19pm On May 16, 2023 |
pocohantas: Marriage should be enjoyed, not endured. Worse case you tolerate and make compromises.
Nigerians are on another thread crying about high divorce rates amongst Nigerians in the UK whereas many of them wouldn't marry someone like their fathers and mothers for even 2 years. But you somehow expect this shaku shaku generation that loves suicide to ENDURE?
The problem is not America or UK. The problem is the foundation of Nigerian marriages and our vengeful attitude as a people. You are the one divorcing the man, not the kids. Please, allow children access to the other parent.
All this talk of staying for "the kids" is unnecessary. He is dead now. The kids are alive. They will probably live longer than he did.
So, was it worth it? May his soul rest in peace Gbammm |
Politics › Re: FG Spends N13tn On Subsidy, Sets Removal Guidelines by id4sho(m): 11:59am On May 16, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Saint Obi's Marriage Took Him Away From His Friends And Acting - Zik Zulu by id4sho(m): 11:58am On May 16, 2023 |
End time women |
Travel › Re: Container Crushes A Toyota Camry In Lagos (Photo) by id4sho(m): 9:13am On May 16, 2023 |
Tijani009: Why dont we use rail system its faster cheaper and safer insted og this trucks on our roads My thoughts too |
Health › Re: Man Electrocuted While Reconnecting Electricity In Abia (Video) by id4sho(m): 8:27am On May 16, 2023 |
iPod ® |
Politics › Re: The Mystery Of The Altered Results In Nigeria's Disputed 2023 Election - BBC by id4sho(m): 7:36am On May 16, 2023 |
Hmmmm, 9jaria jagajaga |
Travel › Re: Container Crushes A Toyota Camry In Lagos (Photo) by id4sho(m): 9:13pm On May 15, 2023 |
LeoDeKing: Necessity is the mother of invention.
Incidents like this are the reasons for some enactments. I'm expecting legislation in respect of precautionary measures against similar incidents.
Why are these containers merely mounted without actually fastening them on the trucks?
The report says "zero survivors".
RIP to the departed. Full truck fell |
Travel › Re: Container Crushes A Toyota Camry In Lagos (Photo) by id4sho(m): 9:12pm On May 15, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Ngozi Okonjo-iweala Congratulates Hilda Baci by id4sho(m): 7:20pm On May 15, 2023 |
Hilda is a dirty girl, so she didn't change pant for 90hrs, 4 days ooo . Ayamaaaa  |
Politics › Re: US Imposes Visa Restrictions On Nigerians Who Disrupted 2023 Election by id4sho(m): 3:08pm On May 15, 2023 |
Balablu bhlu bhlu bulaba  |
Politics › Re: May Nigeria Never Witness Another Buhari’s Govt — Primate Ayodele by id4sho(m): 3:06pm On May 15, 2023 |
 Balablu bhlu bhlu bulaba |
Travel › Re: Every Nigeria City Should Learn Something From The Collapse Of Warri. by id4sho(m): 3:03pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ireportlive: There you go 📌Mobil Residential House, 1 Lekki - Epe Expy, Victoria Island 106104, Lagos |
Car Talk › Re: Why Girls Like Cars So Much? by id4sho(m): 2:49pm On May 15, 2023 |
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Food › Re: Hilda Baci Crying As She Breaks Guinness World Record (Video) by id4sho(m): 2:43pm On May 15, 2023 |
Vagina people and drama  Meanwhile, the Guinness World Record is yet to confirm Hilda’s latest feat as it said it will have to review the evidence first.  For now back to tinubu vs obi vs atiku vs me I won the election |
Food › Re: Guinness World Records' Reaction To Hilda Baci’s Cook-a-Thon by id4sho(m): 2:06pm On May 15, 2023 |
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Food › Re: Hilda Baci Was Dancing And Cooking (Video) by id4sho(m): 2:03pm On May 15, 2023 |
Nigerians love partying, everything na party. Hype man for background |
Politics › Re: 200 Csos Endorse Gov Lalong For SGF by id4sho(m): 12:41pm On May 15, 2023 |
Jokers, tinubu won't try that. |
Food › Re: Vesti, Zaron Reward Hilda Baci: Trip To Maldives, Supply Of Skincare Products by id4sho(m): 9:59am On May 15, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Seun Kuti Appoints Femi Falana As His Lawyer by id4sho(m): 9:06am On May 15, 2023 |
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Food › Re: Stunning Photos Of Hilda Baci by id4sho(m): 7:52am On May 15, 2023 |
Another business loading  Na their way |