₦airaland Forum

Misterone:
it's like you are not married. Report to parents gini? What do you tell the mother or father? Your daughter refuse to give me sex! Forget that thing. OP do as you were told. Be a man. Women only succumb to emotional pressure. Wake your wife up around 12 midnight and tell her you have something important to discuss with her. Tell her you are getting a second wife then move out of the room to another room lock the doors and sleep well. I bet you, she will not sleep till daybreak. In the morning, don't eat her food. tell her you will be traveling for three day. Spend a week. Switch off your phone or bar her line. When you come back pretend as if nothing happened. Start doing whisper calls at home. Tell her you would like her to visit her parents and that she should not go with the kids if you have any. You know what, dem no born am well if she no beg you. She go open that hole like river Niger.

zicoraads:
Bago has never lost any election since he contested for the House of Reps about 12 years ago. He knows politics well.

Lolo has failed Niger. He failed Niger so much so that he even failed in his bid to anoint a successor, Malagi.

As for Bago, I like him. He has done fairly well for the people of Chanchaga, in which Minna is a part of. But, one thing I don't like is how he plays his politics. The thuggery we witness sometimes in Minna town is often attributed to him.

It would be a close battle between him and Kantigi of the PDP. From what I've gathered, Kantigi has a lot of following out of Minna. Their choices of Deputy Governor might also do their cause more good or damage it.

elmagnifico411:
Madam carried face last nite before I woke up this morning, I see message,"let's go and see s counsellor, will u pay"? I kuku said yes [center][/center]

JovialJune:
I wonder where all of you meet these type of spouses,

I will always encourage sexual compatibility before marriage because that is majorly the reason why marriages fail these days, it is also the reason why cheating is abundant too,

For me and hubby, we dey doe ourselves non stop, if one of us is in the mood and the other isn't, we satisfy ourselves orally, we understand each other and value our marriage so much we don't want any breakdown whatsoever,

I have no advice for you Op, seeing as the foundation was faulty all in the name of claiming "holier than thou", las las no one is perfect,

It is well with you.

Dreadlock69:
First semester nigga spent roughly 20k on girls

And roughly 45k on treating what I don't know about


Anyway I thank God for my life , my parents life , my two aunt's life also if not for them I fit dun die.

P.s don't stress yourself with them girls it I'll save you

Medianna:
And common sense did not tell you that something is wrong somewhere
I mean we all know how this gimme gimme works between male and female of there is no blood bond

Godoverevery:
So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, so choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#

muykem:
How can you say, you don't know that PDP ticket is for highest bidder. Have you seen Atiku disturbing himself round the conutry like last election, he knows that it's not necessarily, 10,000 dollars each will do the magic.

englishmart:
Peter Obi saw the clear handwriting on the wall. If an ordinary house of reps aspirant could dole out #4-5m to each delegate in order to win a primary election in Kaduna, that means Atiku will be more than willing to burst out 10-20m per delegate, this is what Peter Obi the frugal can't match.
People who complain of bad governance are the poor with no access to public funds. 99% of us clamouring for good governance will effortlessly receive bribes to vote people we despise. Nigeria needs grassroot reorientation. Opportunity comes but ones. Even Reno Omokri that we taught was reasonable has proven beyond doubts that he nugget sense, why? The sycophant needs money

emmyluizzz:
he will lose the main election

quote me

Ilekokonit:
Please explain why you said Yes, that it is safe and wise to return permanently to Nigeria in spite of the violence and death we read about DAILY [/b] ?

I personally still DAILY nurse the ambition of returning PERMANENTLY to Nigeria after Decades abroad and my last relocation stint in 2006 lasted for 2 years as I only made 60 Naira profit from the restaurant I came to set up and run in Naija due to my 9 staff all being thieves (including my brothers fiancee - now Ex wife who was the manager). And this stealing happened right under my nose and the most hardworking staff was the biggest thief helping himself daily to 7,000 from the daily takings.

But IN spite of this I still feel homesick REGULARLY and I hope to return home to Nigeria one day SOON but is this hunger and longing to relocate to Nigeria safe and wise or is it a DANGEROUS PIPE DREAM

TheWolfen:
The truth is that Christians can't find grounds in the new Bible testament to support such move.
Look at the life of the apostles and other Christ like followers in the book of Act of how they were prosecuted, jailed and killed. Their only hope was God and he save them.
The reason why Christians are not violent because Jesus never taught them so.

izzou: