Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by id4sho(m): 11:26am On Jan 02, 2019 |
royalamour: Met in 2014 November. Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.
She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.
She would apologize at any slight opportunity.
It was all rosy.
The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.
They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".
We got married almost a year later.
The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.
She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.
That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.
I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.
I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.
She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.
2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.
I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.
She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.
I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf. I let it slide.
Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.
Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.
She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.
Time past and my life became almost miserable.
I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.
Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.
It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.
My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys. I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.
This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office. I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.
I can't take it anymore.
I don't wanna die before my time.
I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.
What's the express way to divorce without complications?
NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP. That was how my Father died bcoz he was enduring nonsense from my step-mom. Inform your MALE brothers,cousins,friends,uncles and pals. Don't be religious about it, Kick her out in presence of tough men. Allow her go with the baby boy if she wants, don't dull. Get all your estate documents, valuables, vehicle papers and most importantly avoid her afterwards. Don't allow any negotiations or reconciliation. Brother, if you don't act. You will soon be dead |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Arms Smuggler Caught By Security Operatives At A Ferry Port. Photos by id4sho(m): 9:54am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Na dem teach us |
Pets › Re: Kano State Dog Walk(first Time Ever) by id4sho(m): 9:51am On Jan 02, 2019 |
Haram |
Travel › Re: Christian Pilgrimage: Israel Denies 25 Nigerians Visas by id4sho(m): 7:32am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Childofaking: Check their names well probably Christians with muslim names or islamic sounding names. so am gonna find it difficult going for pilgrimage |
Travel › Re: Christian Pilgrimage: Israel Denies 25 Nigerians Visas by id4sho(m): 7:30am On Dec 31, 2018 |
Daniel058: Dem no too trust Hausa people because most of them are terrorists.. Let's say the trust nah..
JESUS CHRIST IS LORD Be guided
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Romance › Re: Man To Marry Elder Sister Of His Girlfriend Of 5 Years Who Turned Down Proposal by id4sho(m): 10:35pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
meobizy: The man has sense. This is the surest way to ensure he impregnates the original female. Women have fish brains, treat their close friend/relative(s) nice and they’ll come back crawling like dogs in heat. Twale baba, tiri gbosa. Bar man give him a chilled bottle of Origin. Guy Man wey sabi, All said. |
Health › Re: Fire At Enugwu-Ukwu General Hospital Mortuary. 50 Corpses Burnt To Ashes(Graphic by id4sho(m): 12:29am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Double Wahala for dead body |
Celebrities › Re: Imade Adeleke Kisses Her Step Mother, Amanda Mandy by id4sho(m): 4:32pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
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Crime › Re: N4 Million Lottery Winner Arrested For Robbery In Bayelsa 3 Weeks After Winning by id4sho(m): 8:10am On Dec 29, 2018 |
na dem |
Investment › Re: What's Your Biggest Investment In 2018 And How Much Did You Make? by id4sho(m): 8:06am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Scammers upandan, no trading of goods and services products. my heart bleeds for my fellow Nigerian youths .write a business /feasible plan and epp your life with something sustainable. mtchewww, most useless thread of 2018 |
Politics › Re: Update: Dangote Not A Member Of APC Campaign Council - Presidency by id4sho(m): 6:56am On Dec 29, 2018 |
PMB will soon deny Aisha Buhari as his wife. The lifeless one and his dead party. |
Politics › Re: Afenifere Kicks As Kano Govt Destroys Beer, Insists On Restructuring by id4sho(m): 12:35pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Dear Nigerian Ladies, If Your Boyfriend Does These, Dump Him - Busty Slay Queen by id4sho(m): 12:34pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
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Career › Re: 167 Policemen Deployed To Northeast Didn’t Abscond – Police by id4sho(m): 11:39am On Dec 27, 2018 |
Esseite: It used to be just the Army at the warfront... Now police has joined... 2000 as alleged Vigilante has joined... How long would it take for you and i to be forced?
Yet they tell you Bokoharam has been degraded and technically defeated..
Use your head.. the NPF has always been in the warfront, it might interest you to know that alot of Men on military khaki are from the MOPOL & CTU units of the NPF. CJTF plays a huge role too, Nigerian Defense is very weak. They are all under Military commanders |
Crime › Re: Aisha Omolola, ABU Student Commits Suicide, Drops Note (Photos) by id4sho(m): 9:40am On Dec 27, 2018 |
dejavuh0007: what's really saddening is that a 300l undergrad student can't write comprehensively and coherently. ODE, academic excellence is highly overrated amongst undergraduates. if you are a graduate, you know how far, country get as e b. RIP girl |
Crime › Re: Aisha Omolola, ABU Student Commits Suicide, Drops Note (Photos) by id4sho(m): 9:25am On Dec 27, 2018 |
hadjboy: Same here bro, coz I knew how it feels to lack parental care even with their wealth... victim to the system like a rain drop in the ocean. depression is fucking real!! i had to start telling stories just to rake in Cash which gave me Joy .She lost it, the struggle continues |
Politics › Re: Olusegun Obasanjo Visits James Popoola, His English Teacher (Photo) by id4sho(m): 9:01am On Dec 27, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: SSS Hands Over Aisha Buhari’s Orderly To Police For Allleged Fraud by id4sho(m): 8:55am On Dec 27, 2018 |
Nawa O, I thought he had been released after his family outcry . |
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we going international, we are exporting our madness and PMB lifelessness. |
Health › Re: Heroes In Birth: Inspiring Tales Of HIV Negative Bauchi Kids Born By Women by id4sho(m): 8:09am On Dec 23, 2018 |
AIDs is real, I seen rich parents life cut short cuz of this virus in most cases living kids orphan. The decisions and choices we make today will determine whether our kids eat tomorrow or be homeless and living in the streets.
my 2cents |
Politics › Re: Obituary: Burial Poster Of Sunday Ajayi, FRSC Commander Who Died In Accident by id4sho(m): 9:06pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
 Death but why? Driving alone down Memory Lane.  |
Celebrities › Re: Kwam1’s Son, 8 Others Arrested Over $2m Fraud In The U.S by id4sho(m): 2:16pm On Dec 22, 2018 |
na dem |
Health › Re: How Long Can One Get HIV Accurate Result? Help A Sister by id4sho(m): 1:54am On Dec 22, 2018 |
Mrsdimca: i ran the Elisa test yesterday as well, it was negative Madame, you are fine. kin gane ko |
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Politics › Re: Plateau 2019: Useni, Mantu, Sango, Others Vow To Unseat Gov. Lalong by id4sho(m): 8:47pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Fierce11: We the Jos occupants have vowed to unseat that ignorant and irresponsible burukutu drinking Lalong.. He must never be granted a second tenure.. Bastard! No infrastructure, constant hold up at British-America, No good roads, coca cola has left, Terminus is always dirty, Park and pay are extorting without mercy (N100 just say I pack to withdraw at Zenith.. Another N100 just to repark behind zenith bank), Saturday sanitations are no longer observed, no new project, no completion of old project.. I swear, Jang really tried.. The bastard Lalong must be dismissed together with his master,, They must go back to Sudan through Daura. *spits Haba bros, A ticket is valid for a day. you can park as much as you want, just show your first ticket. Awon learner |
Politics › Re: Mark Okoye And Wife, Phillipa Mark-Okoye Vacation Pictures by id4sho(m): 4:51pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
nwakibie3: so you believe buhari is 76 yrs old
that man is over 80 yrs if u dont knw Bros Bros, u dey vex oooo |
Romance › Re: Pre-Wedding Photos Of Excited Lawyer And Her Engineer Fiance by id4sho(m): 12:02pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
akereconfi: Her name is Covenant, she's the engineer while his name is Jim, he is the lawyer Indian hemp is not good for your health |
Politics › Re: Alex Badeh’s Driver Is Alive, Investigations Underway by id4sho(m): 7:56am On Dec 21, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: Afenifere Throws Weight Behind Buhari/osinbajo, say Atiku's Backers are usurpers by id4sho(m): 7:56am On Dec 21, 2018 |
na dem, Awon Betrayers cuz of plate of soup and pomo. |
Education › Re: A'eesha Humayrah Abaji, ABU Best Graduating Medical Student by id4sho(m): 9:52am On Dec 20, 2018 |
 Hausa leading since time immemorial, e pain them. |