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Nairaland lacks interactive discussion on challenging issues and I have devoted this precious time to bring something to the table that will spur and ginger good emotional intelligence when dealing with our spouse/partners.

In today's discussion, I am going to look at what generality of failed people in relationship/marriages calls irreconcilable differences. Irreconcilable squabbles arises when both partners can no longer trust themselves to make a marriage work. it is a point where the woman no longer trust the man to be the head of the affair thereby being rebellious to her partner's decision.

When a relationship/marriage packs up without the usual problems like infidelity, childlessness, religious orientation, family interference etc but based on frivolous excuses of incompatibility in marriage, lifestyle, social inequality then know it is what is usually tagged ''irreconcilable differences''. A problem non descriptive and lacking the morality to be deliberated.

Let ask ourselves how come a marriage contracted after dating for several months/years is able to pack up without the nobility to hold on to the sacred vow. Majority of the time the men is to be held for failed marriages in this circumstance. Men have neglected their role as the ''head'' ....

Before a man embark on this journey, his home front is a living hell.


Op, you chased the man away. Stop seeking for pity party.

I keep asking myself why these past leaders were always found together during their military days. Its either they are playing draft, ludo, or any other game together and they all manage to rule Nigeria one at a time.

I am suspecting fraternity amongst them during the old days.

The man is A foot taller than Chinedu Ikedieze

naijaboiy:
Some babes still dey wait make them mention their moniker

badt boiy

Since Amaechi can no longer form a parallel government, the way things are going, he may run away before 29 may next year

feedmemore are you available?

Idowuogbo:
I get your time today. You always do this, you go too damn personal with pips like say na dem swear for you.Grow a pair abeg!

if to say I no come back from shilloh yesterday possessed by the holy spirit, me and you for naked baff for this thread...lol

Idowuogbo:
So blawwdy what if hin mama dey in charge? In your unis days no b arm robbery u dey take maintain that your extra large head wey b like bat wey dem dey take play badminton? You think you can come online Nd oppress your grandchildren? Fooooolish man!!

lol.

Id, easy na. I am not that bad you know

Idowuogbo:
AGBAYAAAAAAA!!! GO FIND YOUR SIZE FOR POLITICS OOO....SHAME ON YOU!!! At 50,your mates are on waka pass mode/ paving way for the young ones,you are here showcasing your stupidity.Grow up lastapostle! GROW UP!! E don do you oo! Let the fresh ones breatheeeeeeeee! AGBAYA!!

You are too vile.

Haba...frustration extraordinare!

You don't want to go this route with me trust me!

Idowuogbo:
Taaaa! GOD FORBID! wey young boys full here I go con carry my grandparents age mate? Tufia! Impossicant!!!

God forbid, God forbid years na agbada... clock'u biology gi na etiki.

ochon:
You are the opposite of Jesus. Don't cite such an example because you hate for the FUN of it.

Your protegé has done nothing but reel out undiluted tripe on this thread. Only Oahray has VALID point for his complaints. Until you show me a RULE stopping OFFLINE couples and MODS from participating in this contest, I won't be replying you henceforth. Cheers.

The last time we "quote'' your mother was still in charge of your affairs dunno if you are self reliant now.

I come online to unwind and as an adult I sees all the imperfections and juvenile delinquent on display and I try to give unbiased perspectives as the spirit directs though I know I am in an unusual terrain that probably will leave a stain on my person.

That said, I am not interested on any competition on naira land and it outcome because I know it is always shrouded with controversy. The only competition I like participating is the wooing contest and I do make sure I pick ladies who wouldn't be biased in their judgement.

Some rules were broken and vast majority of members here are comfortable with it, who am I to challenge that?

A beg like I will always say, your post is half idiiotic, half mooronic.

Idowuogbo:
I full ground like Lastma

Baby, my love proposal I drop on your desk since 2 years ago...please consider na.

Its our turn to rock celebrity status on nairaland.

Ideapro weds idowuogbo

ochon:
Lastapostle, I know you too well. So I won't be bothered by your posts.

The "facts" of your protegé, is UTTER BULLOCKS. Ciao.

Jesus was scorned, mocked and crucified for speaking the truth. It never bothered him he was the only voice in the wilderness.

Show me an upright man and I will show you a man of conscience.

ochon:
9icegee, I read your rants and NONE, I repeat, NONE of them made sense. What are you on about? The only person that had a valid reason(s) to be peeved is Oahray, and rightly so. He felt cheated and I understand his grouse. And with time, the Judges will get it right.

As for you 9icegee, you ain't nothing a rubble rouser suffering from a chronic case of ADDH!! If you have a grouse with Obinoscopy and Xcelsia, lay it bare instead of masking it with your senile charades. What do you mean by the 'ojoro' you were ranting about? Almost everyone knows Obino and Xcelsia are couples OFFLINE and expected their answers to match. There was NO RULE against real couples contesting. They have each other on Whatsapp and whatnots, so their answers are bound to match. That's what the competition is all about. When Xcelsia who resides in USA knew about Obinoscopy's (who reside in Naija) bad network during the course of earlier thread, how did she figure it out? Simply - they chat offline and are dating. There's no rule against it. So stop crying like a child whose lollipop was taken from him. Shugaryme has no profile pic of hers on her profile, yet Oahray drew her. How did he achieve that feat? Is he now into some sort of dark arts/magic? It's simple - he got her pics via mail or Whatsapp or BBM, etc. Stop crying more than the bereaved!!


@Oahray and Shugaryme, I understand your grouses. Please don't be angry. It's the first time, I'm sure next time, the Judges will try make the contest more fair and flawless. You guys rock too.


Congrats to Obinoscopy and Xcelsia, I'm waiting for the wedding bells.

Thank you for thinking out perfectly the private life of two online personality.

The person you quote presented facts.

chibwike:
I see familiar faces here

IDEApro wats up

Afternoon madam idowuogbo

The man that never disappoints...From afar you already knew who you would have voted without even reading their creative entry.

Am good BTW...How u this festive period?

luxanne:
My bad!

And sure, I'l definitely work towards addressing his points and others I've taken note of in future contest

Firstly you weren't taking his points but trying to undermine his positive contributions but now you are confessing taking his point.


So why you all debasing his contributions?

MizMyColi:


Lol
Learning what na.
Na today you sabi say I be Mother of Epistles --- in the order of Apostle Paul.

Anyone that doesn't share an opinion with you is an Enemy.

Biko, how old are you?


This exclesia that requested for your number midway the duration of this context suddenly become ''magic in description''?

You need confidence evaluation

Idowuogbo:
hmmm....@ bolded, the packages go dey view this code na...i pity your game henceforth. Oh wait sef, that one no follow na...you are the God of alt accounts.

*screams*

Sisters in da house!!! Hear the word of the living God ooo!!! This bobo na Lastapostle,SeaGold, Mumupaul etc...Beware ooo°°°°° Na serial heart breaker.


Cc
cdamsel

[size=2pt]
*smiles mischievously*

I don finish this guy [/size]

Calm down. Its harmattan already guess it is winter over there. Here we call it harmattan, ''Uguru'' in IBO dialect and it bring with it great tiding ushering in the Yuletide. In the spirit of that calmness... I wish you a happy celebration in advance.

I have never hidden my personality on here even though I change monikers. I don't interchange monikers(alternate) but use one until I am done with it. I have no 2 monikers running concurrently.

For the records, I wasn't specific on the naira land dating pool, I only generalise reality.

naijaboiy:
I just dey one corner dey view.

I didn't even follow the contest so I can't say anything on it.

I just dey reminisce

Smart boy. Beautiful response. You shrug him off without biting his ego.

I like you as an individual because of your unwaivering stand on issues.

Idowuogbo:
U sef, your own get as it be eeeee....na the same way *I don't like using the word hate oo* you dey hate on dem KillOgua(u go fear surname na) when dem dey declare love wantintin,for once rejoice with peeps na.... so your own go come.

Lol. You don see man with functioning tool wey dey single?

Some of us don run packages here and still running coded-ly.

Matured folks like us wey don date scatter even live with woman no say na children dem dey "sample" love for.

Idowuogbo:
CONGRATULATIONS OOO!! Una love no be here mehn! Person wey no get lover boy don suffer for una hand. I dig you guys sha! The new Killz and Ogugua.

Until I see proper wedding pictures on nairaland, I don't buy all this 15000KM e-love.

FrancisTony:
Here isn't the first place i'm noticing his character.

So, his foolishness isn't a new thing to me. He quoted me on a thread where my opinion didn't concern him and I knew he would exhibit it somewhere else.

I was not dissapointed sha. Well, bye.

When I learnt you were still sitting for JAMB then I know the internet will destroy your future.

On one thread, you are a devote Catholic, on the other you were insulting God and Christians because of feminism.

Read your O-Level comprehensive text books and leave internet for your good.

laykorn:
Who are you
You just violated an NL rule.
When you get yourself banned, youmma be crying, opening threads around. Mtcheeeeew

Ayamlaykorn

Your last 200 posts on nairaland is rubbish including this one.

Idowuogbo:
Nne,i'm sorry I calling you out ooo... but you should have kept your mouth shut! This your azz licking is bad!! Stop it,Now!!! @ bolded,really now? So are you insinuating Oahray's poem lacked sincerity/the wow factor? Come on girl!!! If you wan lick yansh,try hide am small na...No offence#

Ps - You can have their backs but you are going about it the wroooooong way,missy!

Gbam!

More plough to your arable land

MizMyColi:
[size=14pt]I have two Options.

Continue Ignoring........

Or


Make Bare My Mind.

So help me Lord.

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Brb.

Meanwhile......they have won, they have won.
I may not know other judges, but Luxanne, I can vouch for.
She's got integrity.

Minus all the point you want to minus.....
Penalize all you want.
Think whatever you like.
Be Jealous As Your Spirit Leads You.

One can hardly deny the fact that their write up won people over.
Their sincerity and depth will still be felt even if na just 1/2 words they pen down.

Oahray's did good too.
His drawing was what stood him out!
But Y'all may agree or not.
Words and Actions Move people better than all the drawings of life combined.

I remember saying that this competition is meant for real couples.
I had to back down on my stance because of Lux.

The way Scopy Showcased Xcel to Nlers is what garnered them those votes.

People voted based on what they know to be real.
And they did that subconsciously.

^^^ This is just a passing comment.

Having an opinion is in direct contrast to ''jealousy''. I wonder where your juvenile self imported that crap from.

That not withstanding, You are a hypocrite.

In competition, rules are made and competitors are mandated to adhere to it. Failure to implement the stipulated guidelines by competitions the penalty should be outright disqualification or severe cut in overall assessment.

I have really lose confidence in the youth of today and their bandwagon effect mentality. If a competition like this that doesn't attract prize but to reward creativity with our honest approval is laced with deceits, rigmarole, and favoritism I wonder how we can positively impact the society we yearn for.

God forbid I associate with these insincere characters in real life.

luxanne:
And you are who again?

Sometimes its also good to mind your own business you know.

Did I quote you human being?

Tashamania:
[size=15pt].. But ofcourse!
Tell you what, dre11..if you keep been all this nice and sweet, I just might consider you hahah ..



Okay.. our top three for the event!!
.. our second runner up for tonight's event, with a sum of 29points, please give it up for
Contestants A, Nobleval and his beautiful Elantracey!!!
FR (20points) and SR (9points)





.. our first runner up for the event with whooping sum of 48points goes to...
Contestants E Oahray and Shugaryme
FR(30points) and SR(18points)






which leaves us with amazing Contestants A Obinoscopy and Lovely Excelsia with 66points..
FR(35points) and SR(31points) as our NAIRALAND COUPLE OF THE YEAR, 2014!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




*clap**clap**


Congratulations, yall![/size]

The first runner up withdrew from the competition, why are you tabulating scores to embarrass him?

Sometimes it good to respect people's wish.

specialeagle:
Amen!

sorry for your loss. you'll get it back

hugafella:
My 2004 Toyota Corolla was also snatched at gun point along Enugu -PH expressway here in Enugu. this was about 2 weeks ago and still no word. Police is useless because all they ever ask for is money. Even after I gave them information from mobile security software (avg) about change of Sim, they still want more N30k . I have even stopped picking their calls. Bros, its only God for an average Nigerian o. our police is absolutely useless. I understand robbers love Toyota cars. My brother, I pray you find your car.

I went to a police division to make an entry where I was lured and robbed in Port Harcourt on thursday and they ask me to bring 20k for a formal entry so signal can be raised to other divisions in case they are apprehended. If I require detail investigation into the case then I have to up my fee since it is a robbery case...I was dumbfounded!

I threaten and the remind me the choice is mine to avoid spending much defending myself when the information the hoodlums gather from me is use to perpetrate more crime. We finally reach a truce anyway just for record purpose

This lady might be praying for Seun to make move but our sincerely is lily minded to smell opportunity but prefer hiding in Otta sniffing for ladies with carved eyebrows