₦airaland Forum

Youngtekkey:
Bad guy, see that's the thing oooo Bro, I have come to discover in recent times too that ladies hate Mr nice guys

Actually they don't hate them but disapprove of them nice guys initially. They dump the nice guys and follow the unpredictable ones but when they are used and dumped they go back to the nice guys begging.

KanwuliaJara:
I was just joking!
Na wetin I wan take 4 men do?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew!

Look!
Everything and ANYTHING can be bastardized. . . .but WE MUST NEVER LOSE FOCUS OF WHAT IS RIGHT!
Yes! Just as with concepts such as religion and 'AFRICAN CULTURAL BUSH-WACKOS' . . . .you will always have 'extremists' who would use these labels to justify their various levels of PSYCHOSES!

Christians. . . Muslims. . .NAME IT!
There are true feminists. . . MANY!!!
You need to support those!
Simple!!!!

Am I not an example of a good NL feminist?

I can NEVER SUBMIT TO ANY MAN in my life o. . . .THE REASON I WILL FOREVER REJECT ALL RELIGIONS IN MY LIFE AND DEATH!!!!! I FIND THEM ALL SEXIST!!!! A HIGH RISK OF BEING BRAIN-WASHED! I can NEVER risk losing my self-esteem! NEVER!!!!
I DON'T TRUST AFRICAN MEN with ANY aspect of my being.
From social. . .political. . . reproductive. . . emotional. . . financial. . . NAME IT!
I always look out for myself.
THE AFRICAN CULTURE IS A PARIAH CULTURE. . . essentially PREDATORY . . . . AT BEST!
MBAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!

Who is this okechukwu of a man that made you realise you were suppose to be created a man?

Any day my girlfriend join nairaland, I give her the marching order

The man is partially blind even with his concave goggle and is even assisted by a guide. How will this one sign trade treaties and bilateral relation documents with developed countries?

1. Woo a lady

2. Take her out on a date

3. Make yourself unavailable for as long as you want.
I. she calls and you promise to see her, don't go and give convincing reason
b. Give her surprise presents and don't yield to any of her request.
c.women are inquisitive in nature, don't be predictable.

4. bleep her after months of meeting her not within weeks.

5. continue the game of being unpredictable and she will naturally want to discover the real you. The more she try,the good she is obsessed and you see her displaying that weakness to be with you.

...a year later she will beg you to define the relationship because you are unpredictable.

Then tell her ''with the right attitude I will want to spend the rest of my life with you in the near future'' and you are guaranteed a steady bleep.

If every woman have this mentality of yours, the world will be ended in the next century.

I read this story sometime past and it still resurfaced? either my head is playing tricks on me or I have reincarnated.

Idowuogbo:
I'll think abourrit and get back to you

Who wan see granny?

Nice proof for obtained résumé.

For Buhari, we only get to see him shooting Igbos in owerri, awka or nnewi in military khaki.

00kris88:
oh u nice guy. I was waiting 4 u to come spit venom at me.

Why will I? My people use to say... Oyibo biara bia ( English tongue came to us)

There is a topic on front page, 7 people you find on Religion section. Please read the 6th people entry on op and tell me your observation.

Merry Xmas in advance.

You mean the Igbo race made a Yoruba man wore the Igbo traditional attire in his native land of Lagos just to be accepted?

There is definitely something about Igbo owning Lagos

00kris88:
de dia de blow grammar o. Welldone

Exude...*Typist devil*

Thanks for proof reading.

MizMyColi:
Omenka, would you do me the honors?

I sent you a body message for your response now. Guess you are still embittered owing to my incessant attacks

I like you as a person( nothing more oo) and your flawless writing skills because of the intelligence you exude. It not in my DNA to hate but I may harbour a dislike for as long as I want to be mischievous.

That thread you created: ''Jesus may never save the world '' got me so angry because my bible teaches me that he will come again to create a new heaven on earth(paradise). To save his people. Why was I so annoyed? Because someone I held in high betrayed it even though its was your personal opinion and believe.

Away from that I will subsequently engage you in intelligent discourse coz I don't ass lick so do not see it henceforth as hate filled/ opposition because I have let go my negative reservation of you.

Guess we are good.

sukkot:
would you consider america a sane clime ?

Yes because they make use of credit cards and other monetary instruments. A person should not be found with 5k cash spending money. It preserve the note against wear and tear and above all it value.

Do you know he can carelessly spend a chunk of that money within an hour but may not do so if he hadn't much. Money gives value if you save.

Thank me later.

sukkot:
what do you mean by sane clime ?

All the answers you need is in the oxford learner's pocket dictionary. Save yourself this embarrassment and get one.

Harbosede02:

I have seen this one. she is on the plus side, dark and a practicing moslem

The confident ones already had their pictures on their profile before or now.

Dead on arrival.

ireneony:
e be like say na the akpako wey knack yesterday night de make u de misbehave this Saturday morning

Here in New Zealand, we are saying good night to our neighbours

slimfit1:
He try no be small but I think we have people that can do better.

If he tried, then he can do better. Stop fantasizing with your head.

In sane clime this guy will be arrested for keeping 60K bill with him.

That's hoarding and abuse of monetary value.

yuncka:
This looks more like a genuine reason we should kick out GEJ.

U talk of an economy where our naira is totally heading to useless in foreign exchange.
Before his assumed office, our petrol was purchase at N55, now say for Urself how much U buy it. Even after the subsidy removal, he promised to reverse it....till now we r paying over than before.

U talk of security because U r typing from a fortress, what of the common man? Have Ur president been able to silence bokoharam?

So much strike action, organisations that don't go on strike before have now started strike actions.

We need change in Nigeria, unless U wana stay another 4yrs in ddarkness and steady sky rocketting of corruption and looting.

As for me, I will vote anyother party for change to occur. And if Buhari is the candidate of the onlyy party that can challenge PDP, then I will vote for him.

Economic policies are usually long term tailored to cushion the effect of undue inflation.

The present administration under the supervision of Okonjo Iwella of the economic team has implemented economic policies that will guarantee a strong economy and drive towards development.

Nigeria is an consumption economy and therefore economists devote strategies on injection rather than leakages. Since Nigeria runs a mono economy coupled with its leakage functions, its economy is always determined by the price of oil and a slope away from equilibrium will bring a downward turn in economic activities and fiscal policies. For the first time in decades, this is the first time a budget is made outside of oil benchmark.

Another problem with our economy is the depletion of foreign reserve to make the naira strong. Foreign reserve earnings as balance of payment are not always repatriated to be injected in the economy rather they are stashed away in foreign banks and that's why we buy the dollar at a premium to lend to businesses who never inject the proceeds. NOI is doing some macroeconomic analysis to cushion that leakages.

Tell me, in all of this measures what would have Buhari done differently?

theM16:
Jonathan knows so much about economy yet he has to ask one minister or the other anytim e is asked ?s. E is never sure...Op its too early to b silly. Get smtin to do

If you actually read the op, then this post of yours is useless.

ogb5:
As for me I do not need a Buhari to distort the economic policies of the government. We are currently making economic progress, will not trade that for anything. Those routing for Buhari are simply thinking Boko Haram will lay down their arms with Buhari in power since he is one of their own, they forget that will be submitting to blackmail and more blackmailers will come along with their own scheme.

Honestly I don't know what Buhari will do differently. He is unintelligent to lead technocrats and economists as the head implementing their decisions.

We are yet again in the days of electioneering campaigns into elective offices and while some office holders want to consolidate others are seeking out fresh mandate to lead. Among the politicians seeking to consolidate is our able and dynamic president Goodkuck Ebele Jonathan against a perpetual contender, Mahmoud Buhari.

The question we need to ask ourselves is that is there really a vacancy at the central seat of power and my answer to that rhetorical question is No.

Why?

Because there is a 'person' already on the throne that need to consolidate on his achievements.

The office of the President is a decorated office any person who can read and write with the right mental capacity will handle. Even an intelligent youngster will do the tricks since it involves taking decision on the collective advice of professionals. Executive office is a mere ceremonial symbol.

That's said. President Good luck Jonathan have the best economic team any president can assemble in the world. Men and women tasted in macroeconomics and its dynamics. People versed in fiscal policies and leakages and I ask... where will Buhari import his own economic team to rival these hands or has he become an economic expert overnight?

In terms of security, GEJ has followed the constitutional provisions to elevate military personnel and empowered them to discharge their duties. He do held meetings to fine tune their strategies and approach... What is Buhari going to do differently? Go to War leading the troop?

This administration has done more on infrastructure development than previous administration having coupled and galvanized the best technocrats, professionals to handle this end. Can Buhari engage technocrats in an intelligent discussions marshalling out the best way forward or he would be saddled with their professional advices?

Honestly except we want a change of person at the office, Buhari will not do anything different. He is economically bankrupt and lacks the intelligence to effect a change. Aso rock is still occupied by a well educated and intelligent fellow and we don't need Buhari to distort our economic transition.

obongproff:
Wow! Can marriage be dis cheap?

When a girl says YES...marriage has been contracted. Every other thing is ceremony

Infant Christian

The real essence of Christianity is to build the spiritual immunity to fight nature(flesh desires).

But you still dey learn work. What if you die on top the call girl, what will be your faith?

When you are truly a new creature...behold old things have passed away!

MEN SHOULD BE UNPREDICTABLE...

Like I earlier mention, women are gifted in studying their husbands( characteristics) devoting considerable time in evaluation while the men are fascinated by the euphoria of being men and the satisfaction of settling down as a family ''man''. Before going into marriage, a man need to put a lot of considerations in perspective so as to avoid the matrimonial rebellion that comes afterwards.

Men are often than not buoyed with choices when they tend to settle down with a woman so they'd often time settle for the beautiful ones, career minded ones, classy ones or whatever drive their fantasies thereby neglecting the paramount parameter that should have bridle their interest...the need to consciously evaluate the emotional intelligence of the woman!

OK...that been said, no matter the level of a woman education or her managerical skill, a woman is never cut out for a leadership position maybe not in the home front and that's the simple reason she needs love, protection and supplication from her man. She is utterly aware of these needs from her man and many more but one thing unaware to a man is that this same woman will use emotional manipulation to harass you and even take a swipe at the leadership position because you'd become predictable and indeed vulnerable. Women loves marriage games and use it to their undue advantages.

Let continue... don't be fooled with Love. Women loves children and to produce them that's the reason she is with you. She accepted you because you are the favorite amongst her suitors and the confident one too. You are not the best in the world in terms of wealth, body build, endowment, or handsome. If she had her way, you won't come into consideration so the real essence of getting married to you is getting your seed to fertilise her eggs.

Men are blessed with wisdom in handling issues elusive to women and that's why the popular notion: They reason and behave like kids'' no matter how old they are. A woman is wired to comprehend things illogically and symmetrical to men and one of the downside to this is that they are generally emotional indisposed beings.

To curtain this inadequacy, men are generally required to exhibit a lot of tolerance and exact more wisdom in handling their women. A leader should have the mental capacity to lead.

....I will go deeply into this heading and proffer solution next.

thorpido:
Op.are u dealing with men or women?
Glad to know the irreconcilable differences can be worked out.

Will be sharing tips on how men can truly be in charge of their marriages to avoid the undesirable.

carefreewannabe:
Behave yourself!

This course carry serious credit unit. Be serious otherwise you'd cry later for a resit which may never be carried over.

cococandy:
Ok

Candy, calm down. By the time I thoroughly did justice to this topic...you will be awed!

Marriage is a psychology warfare not the construe ''bliss'' we inhibit and process mentally. What majority of men have not grasp is that reality but inadvertently built fantasy lacking emotional intelligence in their marriages. In the earlier state of a union, while the man is struggling trying to put food on the table and impress his young wife, the woman is busy studying him. Sometime married women psychoanalyse and mentally evaluate their husbands for a longer period building a strong defense to attack his failings in the marriage afterward.

One can date a woman for 30 years but may not survive a year marriage if consummated with the same woman...why? woman unleash their true self if the environment or circumstance permit it. They need some sort of security to unravel their characteristics and marriage make them consolidate on it.

In this discourse, I am going to elucidate on two cardinal ''points'' which is the basis for the irreconcilable differences brandied by our respective divorced persons and how to curb the menace and instil a strong matrimonial union in marriages. This write up is a conscious effort to redirect our men on steps to take to effectively control their marriages and steer it away from matrimonial turbulence.