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kmcutez:
Sigh. Did you read my "poor defense strategy"?

Of course. This time the blame shifted from me to the post. Rubbish the post and heap on it your frustration is the new strategy.

You need help

kmcutez:
I'm sure they were all from guys, but wrong conclusion aside, my opinion still stands though, that you treated your wife like a second class citizen.

You must be evil and satanic.

How did you come to the conclusion that my wife MUST be tired to fix dinner for her hubby when BOTH of us came back from church service?

Did I mention in my post she protested?



Again I read where you said you will tear open your husband's skull and pour in the soup or whatever he requested from you any day you're tired and he made such request.

Are you really gonna do that...are you that EVIL minded?

kmcutez:
Not a poor defense strategy. Your sentences were too verbose and poorly constructed which lead to some confusion.

Maybe the sentence below might have been a bit better.

On Tuesday after we both came back from church, my wife decided to prepare indomie noodles for dinner, but I told her I would rather eat eba and soup.

Or better still, to cut out much of the verbosity it should have gone like this:

Earlier this week my wife decided to prepare indomie noodles for dinner, but I told her I would rather eat eba and soup.

That post got over 90 likes and over 10 shares from Nigerians when the thread made front page Mrs English.

Something definitely is wrong with your comprehension

kmcutez:
I went back and reread his story. I think I must have jumped the gun a little bit. The way he constructed his initial statement led to a little bit of confusion, and I see I was not the only one that misunderstood his statement.

"I and wify came back from a church programme 8pm on Tuesday. She asked If I will join her in the indomie noodle she was preparing for dinner and I said No that I desired swallow."

This statement above was a little bit confusing.

Join her in what?? In preparing the dinner of indomie noodle or eating the dinner of indomie noodle. The emphasis on the capitalization of No also caused a little bit of confusion. Was he refusing his wife in preparing the dinner or refusing to eat the dinner of indomie noodle? Also confusing was his emphasis on the time they came back from the church service, leading one to believe that it was an unusual late time for the wife to be preparing dinner, hence leading to the conclusion of her tiredness and the request for help in preparing dinner.

I now see that his capitalization of the No meant he was vehemently opposed to eating the indomie noodle for dinner. His statement was just poorly constructed leading one to form the wrong conclusion. I was operating on little sleep/ no sleep, so I apologize for coming to the wrong conclusion which is, he wife was tired, and asked for help in preparing the dinner, but he said no and demanded for a more elaborate dinner.

Your poor defense strategy really tells who you are. An unhappy, I'll mannered and short tempered sapien.

kmcutez:
No mind am. The tired wife manage prepare meal for am, he still dey vex say the meal is not up to his standard. He does not know the way to the kitchen. If I be the wife, I for just open that him coconut head, pour the soup inside. Lol

Next morning I will certify u single. and go look for a woman that will cook good meal for me.

I don't know why you are so worked up on this issue. As a matter of fact I cook and we do cook together most times but this night and every other day it is her responsibility to serve my meals except on health ground, absence or unavoidable circumstances

I shared my experience to express the complexity of marriages and not for public evaluation

kmcutez:
Did you read the story?? Let me paraphrase it for you.

Wife: Dear, I am tired. I will rather prepare a simple meal of Indomie Noodles. Can you help me with dinner?
Husband: No, just go and prepare my dinner. Oh, and by the way, I want you to prepare me a more elaborate meal of eba and soup instead. I do not care if you are tired.
Wife manages to prepare his meal despite her tiredness and husband gets angry because it is not up to his standard.

Anyway a lot of women called wives in Nigeria are just glorified maids and prostitutes in their homes, so not surprised at the husband's selfishness. Once she becomes old and tired from the husband's selfishness, the husband will exchange her for a fresher and younger version.

Imagine, she is not even financially independent, and she has such a selfish husband. I pity her.

Fortunately I married an educated beautiful homely lady. Bible is her compass and she is nothing near a feminist.

She married me to put the feminine touch to improve my life and that's includes raising children and preparing delicious meal for the family.

Marriage is not all about se.x . It comes with responsibility and mostly division of labour.

I have lay several ladies, eaten in the best restaurants but I chose her to provide all these so that I can be focused and committed.... If she cannot provide the basics, I needn't marry her but to continue in my way of providing for myself. I can even get a baby mama but I desire more. I can't marry a woman polishing her nails and on telemundo while I do the dish or cook.

I can do those on my discretion or she hires a cook/maid. I've no qualms with the arrangement

Marriage can be very sweet and interesting if you'd use your wisdom and can be very frustrating if you're insensitive and immature

Let me share...

I and wify(sic) came back from a church programme 8pm on Tuesday. She asked If I will join her in the indomie noodle she was preparing for dinner and I said No that I desired swallow. Something to fill the stomach properly cos there is this delicious oha soup she prepared the previous day. Honestly, I wish and scheme to finish all the liver,towel and other orishirishi used to prepare it. They were so fresh...

Few minutes later, my EBA and oha soup were served and my expectations grew into anger...this woman don serve me water soup... I look across to her doing justice to her well prepared garnished indomie...(oh men, that indomie tight...green pea, carrot, egg, lettuce) and shouted in frustration: ''Why is this soup watery, am I a prisoner?

Being angry that she is having a better dinner, I raised my displeasure to the power of X5. She explained that the soup I have is the amount she could scoop from the blocked quantity and that she complimented it with water. See me see more anger...I abandoned the food and hit the bed in annoyance. This time it was a mind game. The more she beg to prepare another one the more I cunningly form ''James bond'' and slept off afterwards without eating.

Next morning, after preparing to go out I ask for fried plantain and pap, she said whatever I need I should go get it myself (hangover from lastnight) and I replied; ''since you have decided to starve me, don't shout harder to me any other night again cos I don't wanna faint'' and smiled. I guess she stole a smile, went into the room, got dressed and came out requesting I assist her with money to go see a friend. Women! I quickly dip hand into pocket and handed her a thousand naira bill and she left with just saying thank you.


I was at a lost whether to get angry again or smile off our foolishness when she came right back in with bunch of plantain then I knew my breakfast is guaranteed.
Afterwards she ask me to apologize for rejecting her food the previous night which I did and she became happy.

Umunwayi....God perfect gift.

livingstone2013:
I am a graduate who have been searching for a job for close to 2 years, yet no job. so I have decided to use my brain to think and create a job for myself. I need atleast 50k to start the business which I do not have.
I have a LG led 32 inch plasma television which my friend bought for me @51k two months ago before he travelled out of the country. I intend to sell it at 40k to any buyer and my only phone at 10k. those are the only valuable I have in the world as at now apart from my degree certificate. so that I can raise the 50k to start something. cause I am tired of job hunting.
Do you think its a bad idea and a curse to sell one's property to raise capital to start a business?
please advise me.

Its not a bad idea to sell your property for a profitable venture since you can always upgrade but it is entirely bad if you wanna use it for gambling or to impress your girlfriend

we need to see more executive bungalow designs sir...

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Op, congrats. Which of you is a Muslim?

Did anyone watch Buhari interview session with CNN Amanpour?

The clown looked like a tele-guided robot.

Anything could go south. It ain't easy organising a wedding on a tight budget. it could be exasperating, frustrating.

olufunmibi:
That is why Sango will kill people like you so that you never grow to become another Hitler in our country

You need to fu<k your mother to learn a lesson

Since the illiterate Fulani man envisage military take over should there be further postponement of the elections, the security agencies should as a matter of urgency deploy surveillance drones and snippers on them ( Tinubu & Co) to forestall them sponsoring Armed groups.

APC will forever be late in Jesus Name.


Jonathan took all the blessing... sorry Osinbanjo.

Even neighboring Ghana know say the man no get certificate

INEC should mandate Buhari to provide a 8 years life expectancy medical certificate from a reputable hospital before he's allowed to contest.

barcanista:
Blame game don't sell! Jonathan is the President

Yea. There's tsunami ongoing and that has necessitated the opposition by the northern

Its Jonathan who is sponsoring Boko Haram

When Jonathan seeks for foreign intervention, it was his wife, PEJ who was
busy sponsoring anti-government propaganda.

It was Jonathan that allege genocide and threaten action when the military went hard on Boko Haram.

Its Jonathan fault that Muslim military commanders are opening up armories for Boko Haram to arm themselves.

Its Jonathan fault that northern Elders forum will never come together to condemn boko haram but will be quick to counter any action that doesn't support federal character system implemented by their military brothers.

Its was Jonathan that gave 85% of the Niger Delta oil wealth to Northerners making them decide the economy of Nigeria.

It was Jonathan that gave them import licences of refined products and also allow them forcing the government to subsidized.

It was Jonathan that sold all the waterways jetties in Niger delta to northerners.


Every Northerner knows GEJ has tried but they are desperate to push him out. It's a grand scheme, a conspiracy and a demonic agenda by the northern cabals. They like GEJ progress but detest his face.


@barca, Please do help and vote your brother out.

Following with knee interest

When that Jega wanted to create 30,000 polling units for the north alone, I knew the Hausa man was up to something mischievous.

Like Sanusi, like Jega.

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Pick your Bible and read. There's a Verse that spelt out the consequence of formication and its desire.

Join a prayer group in your church or go for evangelism... I promise this satanic thinking will STOP.

190:
Person wen never even marry na she una dey ask marital questions

190, are you truly married to Onila?

Is this Europe model?

Okafor law on speed dial

Keneking:
I am sure they would be more useful to the country if they embrace Change.

CHANGE....a movement of intention/actions into a level of uncertainty.



The question is: Are we ready to play 'baba ijebu' with the destiny of the country as propound by APCs or we consolidate and rebrand as intended by PDPs?

Babangida Aliyu of Niger state and Sale Lamido of Jigawa State still remains a mole in PDP despite their public displays to the obvious.

EfemenaXY:
All it takes to crush a man's pride is to let him know that his wifey / girlfriend's cheated on him with another man. It doesn't matter whether the man in question she cheated with is above or below his status. FACT.

If a woman cheats on her partner, he should ask himself where he went wrong as women hardly ever do so on a whim. It's either he's rubbish in bed or can't connect with her emotionally or both. Heaven's help her if the latter is the case... a rubbish lover who lacks the ability to reach her emotionally.

Money isn't the be-all-and-end-all.

Love making is essentially for procreation. Men should only meet their wives during their fertility days and no more. Humans are not he-goats,insatiable animals that mate without seasons

This craze to cheat by our women is what is destroying humanity by spreading viruses that has defied medical solution.

carefreewannabe:
Our? Are we yours? I don't think so.

A man who cheats improves on his escapades by cheating with someone better in status, social standing, prettier, richer, sophisticated, sexier than his partner but a woman cheats with a Gardener, gateman, drivers, subordinates, and other lowlifes that ensures her pride is crushed....... ( For their mind they're smart...I say smart in stupidity).