This is obviously the plan of APC to cause problems on the PDP strong holds (south east and south south) so that the elections will be cancelled, till May 29 when they will be in power and carefully rig the elections to their satisfactions, but they have failed, because SE and SS will always be an opposition party to the incoming Govt on May 29.

Don't confront him yet. Allow for a reasonable time and buy a full pack of condom and place at a strategic position in the house where he can find it. If he ask the reason for the purchase tell him point blank he will be taking them in batches whenever he leaves for work since he is reasonable enough to protect the family by buying some as a result of the unused one you found in his car.

This method na"Conscience'' evaluation method.

MARKone:
OP, I have to confess, I have experienced what you've just narrated, maybe even worse, some wives are just naturally stubborn and disrespectful, which might be attributed to their upbringing, bad friends and what have you. You see your marriage is still young, so don't despair, but the sooner you make her realise that you are the man of the house, the better for you. If you do not handle it well, it might lead to another thing, too much thinking, fear of coming home, hate and depression as the case is now. Oga you need to man up, if you want to save your marriage, be aggressive, am not saying you should beat her, if she doesn't talk to you, don't talk to her, if she doesn't serve you food, go to the kitchen and prepare food for yourself, Infact learn to ignore her, enough of the sorry sorry, it makes you look weak in front of her, abi is not you that married her

As you make your bed so you lie my brother. Anybody that tells you that, you can make a stubborn lady less stubborn by showing her more love, is not telling you the truth. Your union is still budding, you deserve a life time of happiness so does your wife, this, you need to make her understand.

You are indeed experienced. You took these words right outta my thought just that I am too lazy to write. Thumbs up

If your IQ is high or moderate and you marry a woman with relatively low IQ it could be a contributory factor... She would always be arguing and feeling insecure always trying to drive home her views thereby frustrating you in the marriage.

If you'd married an immature woman that again will give you high blood pressure before you know it. Your mental capacity will always be at variance with her disposition.

Brother, don't allow that woman send you below. Be a man, be firm and be in control. Otherwise this marriage will come crashing sooner than you thought.

pls op is this job still open, cos am interested.

I can forgive a cheating wife who came begging accompanied by both parent, the person she cheats with, a clergy man as witness and same confession to all our grown kids.

Op, carrying female bag is it in your job description? Write a letter to the director reminding him you have your expectations and was willingly to build a career professionally and ask for reinstatement or better still a good recommendation letter for future reference.

Women love testing their little power on their subordinates. Good a thing you call bluff her insensitivity. Had you done it, she would have continued until you end up even buying sanitary pads for her.

Talk to her father. Most men don't mix work ethics with emotional tantrums

The presidential election that held last week, the people of Rivers state troop out enmass to cast their vote for GEJ. In my unit, the President pulled 357 votes to beat Buhari who got 31 and this pattern was enacted in all the units I visited.

Come April 11, the people of Rivers will punish Amaechi yet again for his betrayal.

Madam relax for Jonathan please. He has bowed for Buhari to
1. Bring back Chibok girls soonest ( You hate the lingering aspect of it).
2. Boost power supply within his first term
3. Stabilize the economy in record time
4. Employment opportunities for our teeming graduates
5. Refining our crude for local consumption

If he fails to achieve all these in his first tenure, thunder wey go destroy all of una political destiny still dey gather electrons for positive/negative discharge up the sky.

tmotmo:

May God promote us like Senator Ngige will be in a couple weeks. It had been foretold.
As far as the Coming Political dispensation is, Ngige is among the first five high ranking APC members.

Am already dreaming a notable and important portfolio for him

Up Ngige
Up APC
Up Nigeria

Sai GMB/PYO

UNFORTUNATELY we the Igbos don't give a damn what the saboteurs becomes in the inglorious coming administration.

We already have IBO men well placed in diverse economy of Nigeria. The security and exchange commission, CBN, Bureau of public enterprise, finance and coordinating minister of the economy etc are handled by Igbo men and women in this administration and Ngige and co have just dashed the Igbo race hope for consolidation of this enviable height.

Posterity will judge their unholy alliance.

Yoruba online Muslims having an premature field day with their northern like minds on social media this day

Jahblessme:
All these send her away send her to her parents gist.
Who the hell do you people think you are sending away? A toddler?
House wey pesin blood,money and sweat help build na im una wan send away.

Or is it when she hears sending away she starts shaking? Who still has that fear? a woman who works and can handle the bills?
I laugh in Jakarta..una never start.
Who's money helped pay the rent...

Na you go pack commot or you wait when rent is up I renew the lease while you can go find somewhere else.
If I contributed to building the house,we sell it off and share the money or you pay me my part.
Una never see before.
Its only an idiot that's moved by useless threats in this day and age

Send her to her parents my pancake yansh.
Rabbish!

Hard working men already built their own houses and furnished same.

Before getting married, a man should have;

A house,
Steady income

You are building a home which you are suppose to be the head and not necessarily waiting for a woman to be your counter funding machine even though their inputs are considered as added incentive and appreciated.

Forget township life, I comes from a locality where heritage and inheritance is held sacrosanct and if you must agree with me let run this analogy together.

If I am from village A in Lagos state and my wife is from village B in the same state. Note that village A cannot inter marry because they are bloodline but can marry from any other village. I then marry from village B. If I had problem with my wife from village B and decide to leave the marriage, are you supposing I leave my ancestral home because she help me erect a house there?

....okay, I will pack my things and leave with my mother until she sabi something

I monitored this election in three polling units in my ward and PDP clearly won with massive gap to the opposition. Even if Angel Gabriel supervise the election in Rivers state, PDP will still win with a wide margin because of the empathy just as northerners are voting their own candidate which is Buhari.

Why is Amaechi and co so paranoid and attempting the impossible?

GenOrumov:


Sorry dude.

Politics in Nigeria as for me as passed the sentimental thoughts you have. What is the use of a southerner or better still my tribesman ruling me and I haven't felt the impact in my life.

What has Jonathan done for those in the creeks since he became president except enriching a handful of them?

Look here... I don't care even if a foreigner rules me, so far I'm convinced that he would make a positive impact in my life than someone I call my own.

Yea. That's why you voted a semiliterate, a certificate less nomad, and an Islamic extremist because you desire change. Probably his antecedent didn't corrupt your infallible notion or wasn't he the one whom his military constituency sacked for being ineptitude and incompetence.

Trust me the next time they will put up a COW for the office of the President and sold the animal idea to the south WEST who will in turn effectively use their media propaganda to brand,package and sell to the gullible. After all to the northerners, they always have the block votes for anything their own even if it is an animal

like seriously, the day my wife whom I am suppose to be her head hit my mother in retaliation or under any guise leaves the marriage temporarily or permanently according to my discretion or her dictates. Goosh! Why has nowadays men sold their dignity and pride to be pussywhipped! Where is the love and respect if she has to fight my own mother? If I cannot lay my hand on her notwithstanding her shortcomings then she have no excuse to confront my mother physically because if she had any ounce of respect, then she waits and report whatever misunderstanding to me to dispense justice which will always be tailored to guarantee her happiness.

For crying out loud, the fact that my wife had a baby for me doesn't give her exclusive ownership of the child. If I brought in 50 % of the biological make up of a kid, that's tend to show that 25% of my biological gene is from my mother and another 25% is from my father. So for every kid I produce, my mother has 25% of her bloodline running in that kid. Doesn't that make her a major stakeholder in the life of my kids as a grandmother? Why will you suppose my mother to be a witch when the kids are equally hers...that's hypocrisy!

The way a mother (wife) protects her child from being harmed from a bloodline descendants is the same way the husband's mother is protecting her son from being harm from a strange woman because it can be seen you are the one corrupting her bloodline (sic). A mother will always place value on her son's children ( grandchildren) than their mothers cos to her, she still sees her bloodline in the children.

If I being the husband and your head cannot hit my mother, why must you hit my mother no matter the provocation. If my mother slaps you, its assume she slapped me also and I will deal with her Bleep up for I might even bar her from coming into my home afterwards but for her to retaliate honestly she leaves alongside my mother until I am able to forgive her.

My wife slaps my mother and a grandmother and expect me to 'side' her....that's unbecoming nonsense

MzJackBaueress:
Keep deceiving yourself. In Anambra alone,the margin of Jonathan's victory is not more than 150,000 from the results so far I read on the newspaper. Compare it to the margin of Buhari's victory in Jigawa only. This is about 5times of it.

Keep dreaming bro,it is free!

We (southerners) are our own worst enemies. The north will control to rule us until we learn that the basis of politics in Nigeria is not rooted on fundamental policies and programme but it tends towards religious inclination and regional protection.

Just imagine Amaechi and ROCHAS Killing themselves to push their slave to master mentality on us while key PDP northern governors are delivering their states to the opposition without any fuss nor confusion.

THE uneducated north is more intelligent than the educated South. They allow the south have all the electronic media, social platforms, and others information dissemination apparatus and when issues of politics surfaces or rather electioneering campaigns, the south debate themselves out chanting programmes, policies and manifesto everyday on social platforms while the northerners vote for anything Alhaji without recourse to program of the certain candidate nor his qualification.

Time shall tell.

Is it true that 190 is doing you strong thing@onila

In less than 6 month he'll be no NEWS so he's exploring these channels for attention.

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This is how enemies react when you're developing a property

You fabricate blocks.....This fooool think say na to mould block

Your building reaches roofing level.....No be to add blocks for ground be am, na roofing be the main thing.

You roof, complete and pack in......That man don do money medicine.

.....Just keep building while they engage their idle mind

When will Europe begin demolition of their archaic structures for modern ones found in Asia and America?

Welcome back barcanista.

Buhari can never be the President of modern Nigeria

GEJ is the last President of United Nigeria

First there's a camera

Then 2 other helping hand

...Then again, that's just a fry.

All this paparazzi na for social media... Mission Accomplished!

KanwuliaJara:
I don't think she used another man to represent the ex.
She chose the most supportive person in her life to go with her.
Did she announce that he was the father of the child?

When it comes to separation. . . .Children are often used as puns.

I'd like to here the other side of the story.
Never believe a one-sided story.
Amen!!!!

Its obvious the man doesnt want to do anything with his ex wife nor initiate any reconciliatory move but really want to be in the life of his daughter. Why will the ex wife deny him the honour of being with his daughter during the event?

Why must she spite him by going with another man in his own daughter best moment?

Op, Call both partner and flog their conscience to reality. Do not mince word when scolding them and dont forget you need not take side.

Frown face and ask them why the want to tear their marriage apart over a simple issue as television.

Tell the woman to retaliate the husband slapping if she really doesn't love or respect him enough so that calmness can be maintained. Remind her that two wrong don't make anything right and mandate the husband to pose for the slap

Blame the man for ever slapping the wife and blame the woman for taking things too far....Ask her if she will also like to have her own children separately?

After you are done treating their fucck ups, advice them to go live as ONE sharing all things in common and not as flatmates with their respective properties.

kmcutez:


Yes I have paid attention to the above bolded as you stated, but talk they say is cheap. It is just like some one telling you how matured they are, only to find out how childish they can be after interacting with them. The events leading to that happy ending was because the wife showed a lot of maturity, and not necessarily because he did. From the telling of his story and his subsequent posts, still showed that he did not see some mistakes he made, so those mistakes should definitely be pointed out to him, which will help him in future conflicts with his wife.

Why are you so slow in reasoning or rather have snail speed in comprehensive. What's you grouse actually?

You claim to be versed in English but simple comprehension and assimilation of a passage is forever becoming complex to you.

The Morale of my story was premised on the OP intention which bothered on the complexity of marriage which can never be overruled no matter how sanctimonious or perfect partners are. Marriage is all about meeting challenges and solving squabbles ( complexities) in a peaceful manner employing maturity.

Let me break down my post to your level for proper processing.

I and wify came back from church service and she wanted to prepare indomie to eat. Remember, all the garnishing I elaborate on that post...those items take time to prepare so definitely she wasn't tired as you subscribed but as always was willingly to provide my dinner. She asked if l did like to join her in the indomie meal which I decline but opted for something of quick fix which was the EBA and oha soup( She is a good woman whose husband wellbeing is sacrosanct)

If you're a good English student, you should notice where she 'asked' if I'd like to join her in the indomie meal...That's explain that the indomie meal was not to be the night meal but something she wanted to eat desperately.

She gave me watery soup? Yes as a man I registered my displeasure because this is not the kind of food I am usually served. I got angry quite well and hit the bed. She was obviously sorry but I rejected her attempt to replace the soup with another cos (1) I do not want food wastage and(2) I don't want to stresses her further.

Following morning I demand breakfast but she ask me to go get it myself( obviously still angry for me not eating last night). Notice this time I was no longer angry cos my anger disappeared the previous night( Mind game) so I was really in the right frame of mine to settle with her. Rather than prepare the breakfast, she requested for TP to go see a friend. Ponder this: Which married woman will go see a friend by 8AM and I obliged her with a Bill without raising objection. I guess she must be surprised thus with this thinking; ''I refuse to prepare breakfast for this man yet he gave me a thousand buck this morning for trivial reason without raising objection'' . Finally her conscience got better of her and she came back for reconciliation.

The theme of the story is: Complexity of marriage and I told the story of a typical marriage life with I as the antagonist and wife as the protagonist. The key of the story is
1. The maturity I exhibit not to exacerbate it.
2. Her sensitivity
3.Selflessness
4. Understanding and Amicable resolution.

Finally, we didn't enter into the marriage as ANGELS but humans full of imperfections and drama.

kmcutez:


Na wa o!! You wife must really be going through hell with this your attitude. From your numerous posts I am beginning to see the type of person you are. No wonder your wife does not admit to any wrongdoing even though she might have been in the wrong. She knows you will crucify her.

Mammy water. The post just hit 100 likes.

Hang!

kmcutez:


Na wa o!! You wife must really be going through hell with this your attitude. From your numerous posts I am beginning to see the type of person you are. No wonder your wife does not admit to any wrongdoing even though she might have been in the wrong. She knows you will crucify her.

mammy water

The post just got it hundred likes now...time to hang yourself

kmcutez:


Do not take those words literally.

May God never allow any decent man near women like you with this mindset.

Gloriagee:
Satanic ke? N it doesn't matter if she protested or not...she may have been exhausted n decided to please u which is wat marriage is about esp when it's a 2 way affair.

What really irked me bout ur post is the mind games u played. She was begging u n u were forming James Bond, u said.

Marriage n relationships in general r like a compilation of memories. Ppl often say she just snapped...trust me, it's always a long time coming.

Best of luck with ur union!

You got it right. I decided to play the mind game cos I was at an advantage.
Most times she does it and I beg her. infact often time, she will be in the wrong but might be too proud to admit and plead for forgiveness, I will be the one to even pamper her or pet her. That's marriage and maturity.

There must always be drama