tiffanyfan: Am a 200l student, I met this guy here on NL, though when we started I didn't tell him am 18, I told him am 24, I cooked up different lies for him, so that he won't see me as a teenager, but with time, I felt deeply in love with him and I think he felt the same way, though we have never slept together.
I decided to confess all my lies to him....which I did on Saturday, though he was angry initially but he later calm down and said I should come to his place today so that we can talk about the issue....av never been to his place b4, we only meet at public places. The problem now is he is threatening to call it quit if I did come to his house today, though I really love him but am not ready to go his house now. PLEASE NO INSULT
Queenlovely: I must confess I dont know the section to post this. But I have a serious question I must ask. Is it necessary to have a house in the village when you spend most of your life outside the village? My uncles hardly visit their mansions in the village. Other people are just occupying the property. They only come back once in a blue moon. They can just breeze in and breeze out tomorrow. My question now is, is it not better to have that mansion in the city, than rent an apartment in the city. You are a tenant in the city in one poor make-shift house, but own a duplex in the village that is empty. Is it even economically wise? It baffles logic and common sense. Dont give me that shity excuse about Home town and burial.
There is no place like home. Once a stranger , always a stranger.
They will burn ur voters card in a strange land, but it won't be burnt in your village.
Aufbauh: As if the international community cares about biafra. Let Nnamdi Cownu keep sacrificing them for an attention of the international community...
YourTerror: I know this will come as a suprise but I will not support the breakup of Nigeria again. After taking my time to go through stories on both sides, I have come to the conclusion that;
(1)IPOB looked for trouble and should bear the responsibility alone. You can't fight a federal might and win.
(2)We Igbos brought trouble on ourselves. We first of all declared war on Buhari. Prior before election, we filled the cyber space with hatred and malice against him even Even though He should have forgiven us as a father knowing fully well that we are his children and he is a president of all.
(3)Further championing the Biafran cause will alienate us further from the Nigerian bread and make the needed developments not come to our side.
(4) We Igbos are very arrogant and have refused to learn to stop chest beating. We see every tribe as not suffering and we ourselves as the only people that suffered to make it. This is a pure lie.
(5) The Yorubas have every right to protect the Nigerian state. If they still want to stay in Nigeria, it is their right. I will forever stop calling them Afonja. Same goes for the good people of Calabar, Bayelsa, Rivers and Idoma who have made it clear that they will never be part of Biafra. I will now respect their opinion
(6) I have come to realise that even if Nigeria restructures today or separates, Igbos may bear the brunt more ooo. I have to be objective. Forget chest beating and making noise like wounded goats. We no get anything ho haa for our land. The Benue we insult for refusing Biafra has food oo. North has food oo and are preparing for post oil period. Our South East states have little or nothing to sustain us in the eventuality of a Biafra. Forget the oil in Bayelsa and Akwa Ibom. Those people are not our "brothers" as we usually tag them. Even the first secessionist state in Nigeria was crushed by an Igbo man... Aguiyi Ironsi They themselves have almost been rendered impotent by the Nigerian state of which the big 3 tribes are the champions in marginalization.
(7) Nobody is marginalising Igbos. We are marginalizing ourselves because we have refused to play smart politics. The Yorubas are better here. I must commend them for that. They are usually smart and play to the wind of what is in place. Those people saw on time that Jonathan is failed project and ran to align with North. The gamble favoured them. Mind you that prior before now, Buhari ha approached us with Chuba Okadigbo and that Nnewi man. We totally rejected him and labelled him a terrorist. He became a president and and appointed people the constitution mandated him to appoint. It is not a must we will be in his kitchen cabinet. Mind you that we labelled him a terrorist. If I were him, I wont appoint Igbo man oo. Period. Because we pose a threath to him. If you want, call me Afonja. Abum ezigbote nwafor Igbo. Anaghim atu ujo.
( Boy forget propaganda and fake news. Nobody offered Nnamdi Kanu any oil well and Vice President. That Young man na pure renegade, wounded lion and a failure that bought into the so called marginalization of the Igbos. Because some Igbos felt sidelined by Buhari, they now fell back on Nnamdi to get a pound of flesh. They don't necessarily want to pull out of Nigeria. If you doubt me, why are some of us giving subtle support for Atiku who is a well known...... let me leave it there.
(9) We Igbos atimes tend to be greedy oo. We have been licking this oil oo. The oil is not our own oo as we usually chest beat. Everybody has been licking it. Our politicians are now planning to lick this oil alone and sideline other tribes. Biafra can never work oo. If you doubt me, tell me why a state as small as Bayelsa with all its big federal allocation and 13% derivation still owing its workers? My eyes have opened that this is class warfare oo. Even if we get Biafra today, the same set of criminal elements will still not be satisfied even if you give them all.the oil wells!
(10) The so called SEDC failed at the house because of the arrogance of our representatives and senators. I may be wrong but don't be surprised that our politicians from the East failed to lobby others before submitting the application due to their chest beating and arrogance. We need to learn to work with other regions to achieve good things for our peopl back home. We see Yorubas as Afonjas and See Hausas as Animals. But I have come to discover that some Igbos are the ones becoming Animals oo.
(11) Even though am not an IPOB member but I have been an ardent sympathiser and supporter, I have gone come to discover that these people are Barbarians oo. Believe me when I tell you this. I have gone close to them to discover that these people are just waiting for rhe right time to become terrorists. They are metamorphosing. Believe me. And they will be more terrible than Boko Haram.
Ndigbo gekwanum nti. IPOB abughi ndi unu ga enye ochichi. They have already written down names of those they will kill when Biafra comes. Most times, you see them discuss about how they will revoke all lands and which buildings to pull down in order to build their Utopian Biafra. These young men are heartless oo.
(12) Most of the people you see screaming IPOB and Biafra online are jobless Igbo youths in Germany, Malaysia, Cambodia, London and CHINA. They are screaming war and battle from their room but they have nothig oo. IPOB is being funded by drug and illegal money. They also get legal money through brainwashing children of the poor and down trodden especially those from Ebonyi and Enugu. Believe me on this.
(13) I knew Nnamdi Kanu was mad the day he said he will go to Abuja and come back with Buharis head. That was when I started suspecting his sanity. You can't make such volatile comments against a presidency and expect to go scot free. He even went as far as floating a BSS.
(14) I swear down. Buhari is very tolerant and tried ooo. Forget all these brainwashing by Radio Biafra that Hausa hates us. Its a pure lie. Abum Ezigbote onye Igbo si Anambra. If I were the president and my powers wittled as Nnamdi tried to do Buhari, by now, I would have crushed the person oo.
(15) Forget these hoodlums like Fani Kayode, Fayose, Reno Omokri and other iddots that are playing Ludo with our emotions. These people don't love us. They are our real enemies. They only need us to distract Buhari government and when they achieve their aim, they will abandon us! Look at that foooolish Fayose that can't manage Ekiti wants to become president! Can you imagine? Fani Kayode the hoodlum is only looking for how PDP will come back so that he will continue looting. Same goes for reno omockri the criminal whose principal supervised the greatest lootocracy of modern times!
I will continue later....
Apologies to Omenka, TonyeBarcanista, Madridguy, Sarrki and a host of others. Most of them are true patriots. Am discovering this late.
NB Before you tag me Afonja, I was a former hardcore Biafran Supporter, A lover Of Igbo and an IPOB sympathiser.
Abughi kwam onye Hausa ma obu Yoruba. Abum Onye Igbo. I have only decided to live above hate and start loving other Nigerians.
I didn't do this for likes or favour. I am doing this because I love my Igbo brother. Nnamdi Kanu wife and son don run go London. Mazi Kanu has disappeared. Our brainwashed brothers are still shouting Biafra or death and being used to test run the new weapons the Nigerian army bought. Mind you that the Nigerian army has Igbo people among them.
I am now Python Dancing. Ndi Igbo unu etufukwele ndu unu maka Nnamiidiot Kanu. We have been sharing oil money but our politicians have been stealing our own and not working. Hold your politicians responsible. Case closed!
Mynd44: Hence why people they are so afraid of is telling them "yo guys, this market is dry; open up, lets buy good and do business, we are not interested in fights or riots"
sarrki: For the Records: Read Samples of Nnamdi Kanu's IPOB BIAFRA #FreeSpeech that his closet enablers failed to see.
What then is #HateSpeech?
"...When we speak, the Zoo trembles, that is what happens when a cattle rearing terrorist and paedophile is your ruler."
"If you find anybody in your village asking after Radio Biafra kill the baboon Awusa Fulani or Yoruba bastard. Let them keep searching as we keep tweeting for #Biafra."
"Buhari is a shameless Paedophile and rapist."
"Buhari is a Terrorist he should be killed."
"Nigeria is a zoo and everybody living in that Godforsaken zoo deserves to die."
"Kumuyi should be stoned and dealt with thoroughly if he comes to Aba for his planned crusade."
"The imbecilic Goodluck Jonathan is a disgrace to humanity and deserves to be skinned alive for handing over to an Hausa goat."
"By the time we finish dealing with the animals in the zoo, there'll be none left to tell the story."
"We are assembling weapons and we need some more money to thoroughly equip our military to enable us unleash mayhem on Nigeria."
"Niger Deltans are cowards; we know what to do to them. Akwa Ibom, Bayelsa, Delta, Rivers, Edo and Cross Rivers State are our territory and anybody who tries to oppose us will be crushed."
"Buhari married his wife after raping her several times, the records are there."
"No Ibo man should attend any Church where the pastor is a Yoruba man, they are criminals and fools."
"Nigeria should prepare for war, we are coming to annihilate you, my secret service are already studying the zoo and strategising."
"Its either Biafra or death..."
-- Ogundamisi Kayode
your president called them 5% is that a hate speech, yes or No , useless daft
yemiprof: A UK-based civil society organisation, Citizens United for Peace and Stability, CUPS, said on Friday it is gathering facts about the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Nnamdi Kanu, in a bid to ask the UK Government to revoke his British citizenship.
Kanu is a dual citizen of the United Kingdom and Nigeria.
According to the Convener of CUPS, Dr. Idris Ahmed, the move seeking the revocation of Kanu’s British citizenship was connected to alleged acts of “terrorism perpetrated by IPOB, including the recent attacks on Northerners living in the Southeast.”
“Beyond any doubt, IPOB is a terrorist organisation. I have watched so many video clips on Facebook in which Nnamdi Kanu talked about mobilising weapons and financial resources to wage war against the Nigerian State, Ahmed said in a Facebook post.
“The CUPS organisation has started compiling evidence to pass to the British Government to strip Nnamdi Kanu of his UK citizenship.
“Under a new law, over 100 UK citizens who went overseas to commit acts of terrorism or fight for ISIS have been stripped of their citizenship by the Home Secretary (Minister of Internal Affairs).
“Nnamdi Kanu perfectly falls into this category,” he said.
tooth4tooth: Do you really care about their politicians who tried to exploit their ignorance for their personal gains? Even Fayose and FFK were conferred with knighthood in their inglorious empire. Funny enough they were so daft to understand that reasonable people dont subscribe to their creepy ideologies.All they do isthrow tantrums at people who told them the truth, bully their elders and traditional rulers to standstill. I just veiw them as bunch who are motivated solely by their pride and blinded to see their doom in the horizone.
the struggle for freedom has never been free or cheap, people must pay the price, it has always been.
we know u bros, u eat from both ends, APC is paying you at the same time PDP, while u sneak into other groups like APDA to get information, hoping you will be made a minister or allowed to run for a post one day.
Operation Python dance was actually aimed at finding something on iPod, in the end army found out that they have messed up and need to just come up with anything
skedman: hello,go and check your dictionary. It is not necessary when you hold a gun before you are declared a terrorists but when you have the intention of causing what will lead to total murder of a larger group i.e war or you are about committing an arm or mass destruction to the people at large . Unfortunately he has ran away .
hehehheheh dictionary definition of terror group and international treaties varies. If KANU has a good lawyer FG will lose at ICC.
Operation Python dance was actually aimed at finding something on iPod, in the end army found out that they have messed up and need to just come up with anything
ItsMeAboki: Kanu foolishly shot himself in the foot when he declared the formation of his BSS; according 1949 Geneva Conventions, anyone or group who maintains a uniform wearing militant group can be classified as ENEMY COMBATANT - accordingly the Nigerian army can therefore engage him/IPOB as such.
and didn't spoke about arms.
That is why Fulani's have been declared internationally as terrorist sect while in Nigeria, FG has not taken any action but even sets them free when arrested.
Shame! Go and read law well, if KANU has a good lawyer , FG will lose at ICC.
dominique: I'm not disputing that there is tension in parts of Abia state, however that recording with non-stop shootings doesn't sound realistic to me.
despite several reports even from a more reputable source.
You want the guy, to stand in front of an army man and catch the scene. Maybe catch bullet too.
Even some CNN reporters get shot even with bullet proofs at war front madam.
Are the pics below fake too, at least those that catch bullets
9jayes: During the military regime its always fight between Yorubas and Hausas,Yoruba faced Government then with their (govt) weapons now they are reaping there bravery, where were Igbos during those period? they can only come out when in democracy of which they didn't fight for.
shallow brain, see your level of reasoning.
Well since you claim they did not fight for it, now that they want to go, let them go...
kennybabs1980: I started pastoring a small parish of a big Pentecostal church in Akure in 2012. We used to meet in a small location in a housing estate until 2015 when we relocated to our permanent site, a location that's about 10km farther than our former site.
Most of the worshippers in the former location refused to relocate when we moved because of the distance and associated stress. That means we have to start the parish all over again. So we have been having very low attendance which has been improving since about 4 months now.
The new site is a new community occupied mainly by people who have just moved to their personal houses. More than 60% of the plots remained undeveloped for now.
One major issue here is the rate at which most people that attend the parish sees the church as a place where their needs must be met. They keep coming up with one demand or the other every week. Their demands include food, money and now that school is about to resume, school fees and books. Parents will teach their little children to go and tell stories of how they can't resume at school since they don't have school fees and books, elderly people even come around to ask for money and food, this situation is becoming very disturbing and worrisome.
How can people see a very small church of less than 40 (90% children) in attendance as a source of supply of all their needs? Our parent church don't get involved in funding the small parish, we are the one who returns our tithes and offerings to the national headquarters every month. Offering in the church is small, adults come around to put N10 or N20 in offering bag and later send their children to go and ask for N10k assistance, I got pissed off this evening when a small girl who attends a public secondary school came around to ask for school fees of N10k and books of N10k for herself and same for her 2 siblings making a total of N30k. We bought exercise books and gave 4 to each pupil just last Sunday with pencils and biros and between then and now, they have bombarded the church with demands of well over N100k. Where do they really want the church to meet their demands? The church is operating under a temporary shed we put up in 2015, we've not been able to continue with serious building project due to paucity of funds. We (I, my wife, my assistant and his wife) have been trying in the areas of giving out food items, money, drugs, clothes etc to these people yet its one demand or the other on a daily basis. I see these attitude as unwholesome, disturbing and unfair.
I need serious suggestions on how to really handle this situation as it is already dampening my morale. Matured and spiritual suggestions welcomed, thanks.
It is well, your members are not rooted in God's word and if this continues most of them will turn lazy.
It happened in the early church, when churches used to share food, some will stop working and Wait for free food.
You need to spend more time with the Holy spirit, he will guide and counsel you, but for me your people are not matured in Christ, they are still babes feeding on milk, feed them with bones of God's word.
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Boy forget propaganda and fake news. Nobody offered Nnamdi Kanu any oil well and Vice President. That Young man na pure renegade, wounded lion and a failure that bought into the so called marginalization of the Igbos. Because some Igbos felt sidelined by Buhari, they now fell back on Nnamdi to get a pound of flesh. They don't necessarily want to pull out of Nigeria. If you doubt me, why are some of us giving subtle support for Atiku who is a well known...... let me leave it there.
Funny enough they were so daft to understand that reasonable people dont subscribe to their creepy ideologies.All they do isthrow tantrums at people who told them the truth, bully their elders and traditional rulers to standstill. I just veiw them as bunch who are motivated solely by their pride and blinded to see their doom in the horizone.