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2sExy1: check your email.

Thanks dear, have received it, will act on it according. God bless

2sExy1: Bro, I will fix that stuff up. sorry I am delayingl.

Ok o, am still waiting o o

DAvIt0: I think I love that this thread is back ON!!!!!!

I hope insecure CIA official won't shutdown the thread once more.

Be careful else insecure CIA official will accuse you of cheating on him.

…Sekems out …

HFOG: :-) I think I've told you that you're worded ba? Wondering where me got the notion that you do not take Father seriously. Me eyes are closing and head aching:-(

Sorry dear, why not take a break, rest, tomorrow is another day

HFOG: Oh, nice. Did you make it to church today?

Make it ke, am supposed to be about my father's business

HFOG: True. All the same...
Where are you serving?

EEx corper, served in kwara state

HFOG: No worries 'sir'. (abeg lemme be myself joor) Maybe it's one of your principles abi?

not really , call people sir Too, but this is an informal setting, so i didn't deem it necessary

HFOG: Ain't you rather harsh? Me is used to the sir thing. I'm very comfortable with it. I wanna request that as I try to consciously reduce it you also bear with my calling you 'sir' once in a while. Pls.

Ok o o, i didn't mean it in a bad way, my apologies

HFOG: Okay oh. So if Ideology is your brother and you are my nephew...what does that make him to me?
Btw, have you met each other outside this thread?

Pls can u stop calling me sir Am not comfortable with it,

We are yet to meet, i saw were you asked him where he is from and he responded, that is how I got to know he is from akwa ibom

HFOG: Okay sir. What did you study and from which school?

I studied geosciences, geophysics major, FUTO

Finally,
you can't serve 2 masters, you will love one more than the other.

A double minded man is unstable in his ways

you can't climb a ladder going up, holding things with both hands, you must drop one and hold the ladder with one hand, else you will loss both if you are not careful.

HFOG: Glad to know you do. It's very vital you know. So when's our second meeting? E bi like say u like protocols too much. Me have a lotta questions for you. Lemme know when you're free. Hoping that the questions wouldn't have evaporated by that time.

On the former, it wasn't attack per se, was joking.

Am free from now till 9pm So Send in your questions, I'll try to answer as much as I can

Am simple and straightforward, though am principled, it doesn't mean that I like protocols

It's obvious many don't still understand what love is.

Love is choice, you choose to and choose not to.

Though you are yet to meet her, does it mean you guys are not planning to meet at all.

Its true love grows, and it grows on communication, which begats understanding, understanding begats trust and trust love.

So If am communicating with a person over a period, i can develop feelings for the person, then we get to understand ourselves more, trust sets in, love blossoms.

Its choice, maturity, commitment, dedication.

I understand many folks have been hurt in the past, but As long as you keep bringing in your past into your future, hmmm anything you see take.

Howbeit, be careful, check yourself, is there something you are not getting right.
What are your core values?

what you attract is a product of what is in your mind.
Eg some ladies may say, I want my man, tall, fair, from wealthy background etc.
Hence she ignores anyone not in this category, funny enough probably most of the dudes in this set may not suit them, after the wedding he reduces all the romantic drama he used to act heart break sets in.

We are living in an era where most ladies thinks when a man spends money on her, he's caring.
Its true you can't love without giving but Note you can give without loving.

Moreso the man is giving you chicken change from his balance
love is sacrificial giving not giving out of abundance

marieolae: His mother. She created him with her husband. If not for his mother, this so called woman will be husbandless.

Better say the truth now. Tomorrow de o o …

From the arguments above, the lady won,
I Also remember where It is written a man and woman shall leave their parents.

Seriously let the man and his woman enjoy themselves. Their parents have had their fair share

You guys should better be serious so We know the ones taken and the singles left

On the former, I no forget you, we are getting to know, the other day Was our first meeting.

I believe God and his words

HFOG: Me wey remember you after 24hrs and you were no remember me at all at all who beta pass? No bi u suppose dey talk dis one. Went thru your posts and appreciated the thoughts you penned down. Saw some references to God and the Bible. Are you a Bible believing Christian?

Can you imagine someone is attacking me and someone liked the post,
Seun pls try and add the possibility of knowing who likes comments just like we know who shares our post

Specialist900: na my brother even call my name sef.

How you dey bro?

Am good, and you? happy Sunday

HFOG: Your good with words. Congrats to her! The Lord bless and keep her home.

Good with words, i never knew that …
I'll take that as compliment

HFOG: Hope say no be the answer to this question make you no show face for this thread? Anyhow me is just a mention away whenever you wanna talk. Ok?

Seriously, have been seeing you around but Never really had direct chat with you still yesterday.

Howbeit, talking about your marital status, i respect ladies a lot esp. Married ones, they show greater level of maturity, understanding et al.

Moreso, Knowing that will help me know my boundaries, as pe the way I relate with you. (Communication)


The reason I didn't show up is because I unfollow threads as soon as am through with what took me there, except am mentioned

HFOG: Tks. Me had a peaceful night. How was yours? Tks for spending sometime with me yesterday sir. Many thanks. I sure hope you keep in touch. Blessings

you know am wondering how come you had to wait till after 24 hours to remember me,

Besides it seems you read some my post(s) again, did you miss moi?

kikikikioiki…

Howbeit, my night was ok, many thanks for asking.

HFOG: Serious about what? You didn't want me pairing you but what are you doing to him now? He isn't want you think sir. You can ask LordReed my big brother.

Babe, kikikikikiki, read between lines, you know specialist900, you should be asking who specialist 007 is?

valdes00: Am very sure d OP's BF wnt b proud of her if he gets to read all wat she wrote........ Dat is if it does nt lead to RED card....

She was busy comparing him with another man, that is very terrible

My bestie, na madame now

Its very obvious ladies that see their man as their ATM, are broke, they are just looking for someone to transfer their burden to

3sha4lyf: i dont think you're a female, or better still, like i said, dont bash except you've sucessfully been in and/or you are still in a relationship with a broke dude, and then you come and give the girls some tips on how it worked for you... until then, lets just enjoy the thread... He who feels it knows it.

Its your life my dear.
You can call your man broke, even with your empty account. Because He's your atm machine

3sha4lyf: I can sense some emotions in your post well, every man has something to remember a girl he@s been with for, regardless of how small the value may be...even an ever demanding girl adds value to her man...she either makes him work harder to meet demands OR she makes him smart enough to end her patronage and avoid future "customers" with high demands he cant supply...he he he he he he

I see, you are one of those that believe it ladies world.
You think your demanding for gold necklace every 30days makes a man works harder.

You are just digging holes in his pocket.
He can't make much serious investment s just to satisfy you demands

If you have nothing positive to offer other than sex, then you are a liability

3sha4lyf: I think we misunderstood poster but then Guess what?! All these Mrs Okonjo, Mrs Omotola and Miss Genevieve and co, they'll NEVER DATE BROKE GUYS...Show me one SUCCESSFUL woman dat is dating/dated a broke guy into marriage and I'll show you several successful women who lived with well-to-do guys all thru their lives, one way or the other... that is not to say they depended on them... its just to add that a broke guy demotivates a hardworking girl...PERIOD!... BtW, this is my opinion, I very much respect your view and opinion albeit.

When you accepted him, didn't you know he was not financial stable.
Or you noticed that after you accepted him.

Pls note, op was busy comparing her guy with her friends men.
What kind of thing is that.

I wonder how someone's financial statements will make me less motivated.

Bitter lemon