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I thought this thread is for home made meals not food from cafes

OlamiB: I encourage him a lot especially when we are together, I also help him financially. I have denied myself somethings I need cos I believe he needs the money more than me at that particular moment

Babe We need to talk outside NL, you need to push him extra.
You guys need to talk about alot

I may not have heard of mrs Adenuga, and mrs Dangote, but Have heard of mrs Ngozi Iwela, prof. Dora Akunyili(of blessed memory), mrs madubeke, dr (mrs) Ekwezili
Mrs Omotola, ms Genevieve, Nigeria needs more wake up and get a life

3sha4lyf: WRONG....he's ur boyfriend so he owes you a lot more than an ordinary male friend, as long as you guys remain together, however long you remain together for. Same way when you're in a relationship, he doesn't just expect you to hang out with every Tom Dick n Harry. You both owe eachother, and if he has to cater to your needs, emotional, physical or financial, then he sure owes you that.
Tx

Am not saying he can't cater for your needs, but He doesn't owe you, your needs, go get a life for yourself.
Don't mount unnecessary pressure on the young man.
Have seen guys do all the above for ladies, they still get dumped for someone richer than they are.

Howbeit, i always ask, what are you adding to his life, what can you say you motivated him to achieve.

if you are no more, what will he remember you for, a cute lady, a sex partner or woman of my dreams and mother of my children, better still my best friend.

OlamiB: To be rich is for your own sake! Won't Ɣ☺u be happy if Ɣ☺u r comfortable like wizkid, davido and all? Have most of all you want at ur command? Its not about your gf now, its about Ɣ☺u. What diff will it make if my bf is rich, it it will only make me happy cos m not in the relationship for money. Rich guys have asked me out but my answer remains NO because ur money is useless to me as far as am concerned. How many times do Ɣ☺u hear of mrs Dangote? Mrs Adenuga,....Ɣ☺u cn clearly see its all about ur comfort

Are you saying he doesn't desire to be financially stable.
My question is simple, what are you doing to help him successful, in what way are you motivating.

If you have not done anything then, you are a liability too with no insurance cover.

Issoriat, but Shine your eyes, use your brain …

Ladies calling a guy broke, as. Long as he is not your husband, he owes you nothing than love, its not about money

If I may ask what have you added to his life.
How have you motivated him to be successful?

From all indications you are selfish

farano: We've been friends for over 3 years now that I personally decided to take it to another level. So on that faithful day, when we were together, i unfolded my feelings for him, he did too staring deeply into my eyes and romantically holding my hands.
My heart was beating faster and slower at the same time that I was forced to pop out that mighty four letter word. With my angelic voice, I told him 'I love you dear' But surprisingly, his response was 'i should allow it to grow naturally'. I smiled but within me I was very angry All those feelings disappeared instantly.

See your last line, " all those feelings disappeared instantly "

love has never been feelings and will never be

Thats enough to show it was not love.
You just wanted to have him to yourself, based on some perceived beliefs

1. The young man is sincere, if you meet someone who wants to take advantage of you, you can easily do that, he will use you and dump you, then you will complain "all guys are the same "

2. The young man is wise, he knows what he wants, you might think 3years was ok, hmmm, it doesn't always work.

3. Some men have been through a lot with women, so They are not just ready for another emotional trauma.

4. Give him time and space

5. Your love for him looks self-centered to me.
If not you won't see anything wrong in his reply

Finally, are you guys dating or just casual friends, if there was no agreement, pls don't think what he is not thinking.

Ps: See how life is, I can bet you, there is someone dying for you somewhere but You have ignored him.

Someone mentioned sperm you said he was derailing, have heard that mentioned many times, who knows it works

Howbeit,
1. Wash your face regularly, esp in morning and evening.
2. Use face peel off if you can afford it
3. Toothpaste works as well, rub and leave it for about 30mins, then wash it off.
4. Use pear, banana peel, cucumber as well.

Note; don't numerous creams, stick to one that works best.

I don show, though I can cook, I'll advise all young men to assist their wives, spices up the home no dull moment.

Far be it that you are watching football or reading newspapers always when she is preparing meals.

You may not know how to do the magic, but You can slice onions, blend tomatoes, wash the dishes. Yes You can!!!

I understand that important programmes may be going on, on the networks, get a tv for your kitchen too. Stay with her even if she is yet to assign you any function.

Na you go get the kudos at the end no be me, just try and see how your family will grow in love and unity.

Best regards,
Ideology

Relinquishing old times
My bestie.…
Have not seen her for about two years not

crackhaus: Exactly @emboldened, your head dey dia..

Am when am proposing to my sweetie, i may not kneel (that is relative) neither will I do any public stunts.
Its gonna be just us expect otherwise but Certainly not in public

@ crackhaus, mzcoli follows you meaning, I can conclude you are one of the real men left in the world
@Dre11, you too, she once said you are the first guy that caught her attention on NL.
And have seen some babes shouting your name, here and there …

Crackhaus, you are right.
She doesn't need to kneel or do any public stunts, and if I had her in mind, yes will be the answer and get a ring for her.

If am not ready, we can talk about it and plan how we can get things going and faster.

dre11:
Entirely true @emboldened.....
The quicker they realised the better

But, I can't still phantom what goes in the mind of this women that they still think the way they are......



Because it doesn't work for A doesn't mean it won't work for u.....
To me true happiness, friendship, understanding and compatibility is the ultimate goal in a relationship .......

And if u find this in a guy and he hasn't said the proposal..... Why no iniciate it and let forget all this its a woman's world and man to propose

apart from societal influence, pride is what is destroying many folks,

I once asked a lady why some ladies don't say hi to guys on social platforms like whatsapp when she sees the guy is online, they wait until the guy initiates the conversation, yet the complain that the guy is ignoring them.

Her reply was shocking.
PRIDE

I know the number of ladies that seek my attention for sometime now, but For me, I don't survive in a friendship that is one-sided.
If it's not mutual, I'll pull out, not to talk of relationships.

Besides the truth still remains most ladies don't know what they really want, else they will stick to it no matter the circumstances

dre11: Guy man I liked this ur post
Have always says it that there is nothing wrong on the lady proposing if she knows the kind of guy she is dating

We guys are so different from each other

Am a free and simple dude, all these protocols won't take us anyway, it will only keep increasing the number of folks getting married to people they don't really love or wrong people entirely

If a lady proposes to me… the only thing that will give her the morale to do such is that she knows am gonna say " yes "

Definitely am gonna say, yes!!

There are many reasons that make a guy delay proposing to a lady, so i don't see anything wrong with a lady proposing.

I know some folks will start quoting bible, but My understanding of the scriptures is different.

Some things you don't share in public else you will be misquoted.

The letters kills, but the spirit gives life

HFOG: Abi? Then we could call it a day. Was really nice speaking with you. Tks for your time. Stay beautiful

You too, sweet dreams

Specialist900: so you don turn him spokes person

I care, thats all

HFOG: Why you too de find trouble?

Na play I de joke o, but You suppose de sleep o o, unto say you need to comfort him

HFOG: Okay. Thought it sounded like a mockery name for my Jesus. Just wanted to confirm

Ok, is that your baby and dad on your dp

Specialist900: yes, she is

I guess that is y you de find her Facebook details

But Seriously are you married

HFOG: Help me tell him jo with all these his unnecessary accusations

Na jokes I de play o, nothing serious o

HFOG: Is it a crime sir? What does Chizos mean?

Exclamation!!!

HFOG: You're not serious and you know that. How's MzMyColi

She is my friend too on NL, you go de comb my profile madame

What if specialist 007 is serious

HFOG: Yes sir. Two years and counting

Chizos, no if am specialist007, no hope for me?

HFOG: My husband and child

Are you married yet?

HFOG: Philosophy of life - Follow peace with all men and holiness without which no man will see the Lord.
My principles - Truth and Transparency
Motivation - My lord and baby, The Bible, people in need and of course The Holy Spirit

Pls explain my lord and baby

HFOG: If you say so

So Back to my questions

HFOG: If I answer candidly you met feel I'm too spiritual or I'm trying to shove my relationship with God down your throat. Who's houseofglam?

Chizos wetin u go do for my profile, she's my very good friend.

But Answer my question first, man is a spirit.
There is nothing spiritual about that

HFOG: So you don't have any other questions for me?

What is your philosophy of life, your principles, what motivates you

HFOG: Hmm. Listening to you

Have said everything na