₦airaland Forum

temigracie: Hian!!!

Stop shebe!!....

Stop jare....I dont like it....

No fear nothing de happen,

MizMyColi: The people you're thinking of aren't besties, they are

They Are e-loves better, because I no go fit explain,

MizMyColi: Wait Lee.

Besties should not be confused with e-loves right?

Okay in that case, my besties are:
Male - Ide_ology
Female - Temi_Gracie....we are friends outside NL

If my baby sees this am finished

and you are completely finished she will pour you hot water

Better mention the right people

neighy: studying Biology

Kikikikiki, haven't you heard I have understanding more than my teachers

Ttalk: Then there is no basis comparing apple to orange, Fashola and Akpabio are not on the same level, [not an insult] Lagos population of 17m while Akwa Ibom with population of 5million are not comparable

I get you, i was making reference not comparing, both states have different needs at the moment

Dcmg: Infrastructural development should always come first

yes You are right, it will open up the state to investment.

But Note what has been the main focus is roads. Building of white elephant projects like building new government house, deputy governor lodge, complex centers conference halls, press centers even the stadium could be used to revive some of the old companies that folded up in the state. Hence providing jobs as well.
Science park was abandoned despite the fact that engineers were sent abroad for training by previous government.

Am not against all the above projects, but my concern is priorities must be set right.

Akpabio is my man, he has passion for development though he's making mistakes too.
That's why I would support Udom to. Take over, I know there are fears he would control the man like saraki is controlling Ahmed of kwara state. But If they join forces they will deliver Ibaka seaport, that project alone will change the state, turn eket district to onne/bonny island.

Ttalk: Bro, you agree that Lagos state is embarking on projects that enhances human development that generates fund to service her debt yet you prefer govt that spends without accountability, hope this your contraction is not borne out of jealousy and hatred?

Hey don't be a straw man, am not contradicting my self,.
Am criticizing positively, I never said mismanagement is good, but you can't say Fashola is pay the debt before he leaves office.

That the commissioner said they may not be able to complete all new projects doesn't mean the state is broke, his reasons are clear they have not been able to raise sufficient revenue.

ferdimako: Dey there dey mumu yourself.

Seriously you have not made any point, try and say something reasonable.

Am aware the state governor spends recklessly, am aware that they embark on big projects as a means of looting, am aware that even the money spent on projects is still less than allocation after wage bill.

Just say something I can reason with.
Then Mention any state that you think is not doing similar things.

Ps: the governor didn't leave the state the same where he met.
2. He has made name for "himself " even across continents.
3. No amount of rants here will change anything or even make APC win in the state

MizMyColi:
How in God's Green Nairaland did I forget I was talking to Ideology.
You're right Sir.
No, Spot On.

, yea, IDEOLOGY ON THE STREET OF GEOLOGY

Haters will talk,
Esp APC.

Yes Funds are mismanaged, but not enough reason to insult anyone.
Even Lagos can't claim not to have mismanaged funds somehow.

Osun state even had to raise funds and borrowed as well to pay salaries.

Who knows what is happening in other states

Visionless folks will say flyovers are built for keke nape, is it a crime to think big.

Am out of here…

MizMyColi: There's actually an NL celebrity.
I voted for her.
I was a newbie at the time. (May 2014)
I'm just admired by few people in the romance section, that's all.

LoL
I could use the motivation y'know

If I may, talking of celebrity is not about, position or title, or beauty, people busy voting for beauty, am rather concerned about character, what a person can offer and impact lives.

How many of those voted as miss/mr Celebrity are adding value to NL, making positive post and influencing lives.

I don't dance at titles

MizMyColi:
IDee o
Good to see you here.

Yes Dear,

have been wondering why this thread, though am not against it.

Your celebrity status on NL is amazing.

Like I once told you, you should think of writing books as well, I would love to be on high table launching your books by 2017/18.

am very serious

Or we could partner.
Lets meet later in the evening, thanks.

You guys should make constructive argument, leave political bias out of this,

The funds are just mismanaged. It doesn't mean the state is broke.

Don't forget 2015 is near, they have to cut costs and prepare for election

safarigirl: Which kain minu dey man their accounting books? Sack whoever is in chanrge of finane first of all, then hire a competent person that can do serious damage control.

Babe, if I may, You are wrong, the state is run in such a way where the governor spends money at will, its not the fault of those in finance, but it's good they discovered early.

For me its better than heaping debts like Lagos state.

the only issue in akwa ibom is that 80% of the projects will not generate sustainable employment. Most projects are infrastructure not human development

That's the main problem, unlike Lagos, the projects they embark is creating permanent jobs and generating funds to the government.

Lagos state will now reinvest the funds or service their debts from the funds generate.

Pls anyone asking for mz's sisters should stay off

MizMyColi:
No biggie Dear
I'm not cross.

Seriously though, I just couldn't ignore certain people's mentions, but then, it's good I'm here.
The laugh's and moments' been so hilarious.

I'm all of that and more.
No need to claim.
Just wait and see.

You know Sinach, right

I know who I am

MizMyColi:
LoL Hun

Shebi it is officially I wrote, If I get mentions from hia, I can unofficially come back and reply na

Huh?
Who be Jona Sister?
Hey!

Lol, jona no get liver that is his only problem,
Mz Sorry dear, if That went out in a bad way, I didn't intend to hurt you.

But Jona is rich o, you can claim that aspect na, kikikikiikii

MizMyColi:
Oh well, I'm officially unfollowing the thread. Good morning all

If you wrote the above and still view, comment on this thread you are [size=19pt]wrong [/size]

You no get liver infact you be Jonathan Sister

MizMyColi:
You inspire

Me keee!!

I no go accept this accusation

MizMyColi:
Here are some tips for established relationships/marriages.
Please use your discretion where necessary.

I can't post the source here for fear of being banned

Your erratic work schedules and rising stress levels have taken a toll on your relationship. You haven’t been able to give enough time to each other and as a result your relationship has hit rock bottom. However, there’s still a chance to revive the charm and save your relationship. Here are a few things you must do.

1. Communicate
Talk to each other as much as possible, it is the most sensible things to do in such situations. This will help sort out a lot of issues that you have had in the past and will clear several misunderstandings as well. When you talk, you let out a lot of frustration and ill-feeling that you have stored within. You have avoided this kind of communication since you didn’t want things to take a bad turn, however at this point, talking out your differences is one of the best ways to make your relationship work

2. Give time
Try to concentrate more on your relationship, invest time in nurturing it. Try to shift focus from your professional life to your personal, come back early from work so that you spend quality time with your partner, avoid social gatherings where you need to go without your partner, etc. In fact, plan things around your partner, so that you can spend more and more time with each other. Time has the power to mend cracks, but you must invest enough time for the same

3. Start dating
Couples only date until the time they are chasing each other or just before being together. Once, they know that they are secure within themselves, they stop doing anything to make their relationship interesting. Start dating again to revive the charm, plan luncheons and dinner dates at new places around the city, go on surprise long drives once in a while while enjoying the weather, gift each other small things, etc. Try to get monotony out of your relationship and make it more exciting.

4. Listen
If you think talking out is very important to mend your ties, then listening is equally important. Before putting across your point to your partner, make sure you carefully listen to everything that your partner says. Do no jump on conclusions without giving him/her a chance to explain. Patiently listening to your partner might answer many questions that haunt your relationship from time to time.

5. Get more intimate
In most couples, being less intimate is one of the most important reasons that leads to a fallout. It is our busy schedules that usually make us feel so exhausted that we do not have enough time and emotion to spare, let alone being intimate.

If you’re already having s*x, try different positions and ask each other about the experience, and this is one way you can bring back the charm in your relationship.

MizMyColi:
Sure thing!
imo, it takes commitment.
After all the romantic hullabaloo
What most of us are yet to realize is that Loving at that point in time becomes a decision.
Most times, it is the guy who falters.
Woman are very intuitive and can smell a pending breakup or change in their man's character from afar.
What I advise young people is this:
Never rush a relationship journey.
Give it time.
Let it bud.
Guys,
Don't pretend to be what you're not.
Don't call her for one hour when in reality you know you're not that kind of person.
Don't love bomb a lady only to withdraw psychologically and emotionally from her after you feel she has given body, spirit and soul to you.
In other words, do not raise her hopes, until you are very sure that the connection you share is beyond feelings.
Ladies, you have to realize that in the beginning, the guy will always think he loves you, you have to be disciplined enough not to let those advances of his get to your head, thereby leading you to make hasty decisions, which in most cases, you might regret.
For those who have already made the mistakes listed above, there is still hope.
You need to take some time to cool off.
You need to go back to the start line.
Just give each other a long space.
Within that time, you'll reach a decision, whether or not to love this person.
That's when love becomes a will, a decision.
If you decide in the positive, love ferociously, love compromisingly, love sacrificially.
If it's negative,
Move On - For Good.

From my dear friend mizmycoli,
She has said it all

[size=15pt]Love is choice, risk, sacrifice [/size]

Mz you read too much, I'll have to seize your phone or ask network providers to disconnect you from internet.

Am trying the best i can not to believe this tale,
Seriously …

If This is true … hmmmm

MizMyColi:
At state level, Yes.

Talk of Fash, Roch and Adam

National level?

Uhn Uhn

I see…
Rochas has turned his district (your area) to small city now they arr clamouring for new state of their own.

Adams is a good fellow but Have not done something significant in his second tenure.

Fashola is ok, but I see him joining PDP someday

MizMyColi:

Fashola/Tam

Have been seeing your post

You are APC supporter

Its unbelievable to see folks believe this story,

Superstores are best to search for such, you sure will find it

Mz, i can't find "like " tab on my NL, is it every where, but I see threads where folks are liking comments,

What's happening,

MizMyColi: LoL.
I wish they could.

I no follow o o

We are yet to finish dealing with vampires, aliens etc

MizMyColi: I posted on this topic before the cyber attack.
It resonated alot back then and digging it up from the archives now, it still does.

So I thought to share here too.
It might resonate with someone

You can add a different one too.
Learning never stops.



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Pls don't wake up mummies

Op please change the topic to God referencing

The Hebrew rendering of the word "fear" doesn't mean to be afraid, rather it implies 'reference "

God is not a beast one should be afraid of.
God is our father and friend.
He wants us to gist like pals,
See Genesis, God usually comes down in evening time to flex with Adam, -what a life.
But Things changed because of disobedience.

But it's even better now because of Grace.

@mizmycoli, I understand you perfectly, but You are going too far.
God is God, all by himself, and no one questions his decisions.

Today many say God is unjust for destroying Sodom whereas in today's world a 100 times worst things have been done compared to what was done in those days.

God is our father, as a father, he disciplines us if we do wrong, but Since Jesus Came the only open extreme act of God was on Ananais and wife, after that Incidence fear grip the church.
I can relate to that, they lied against the Holy Ghost.

Even Jesus Said anyone that blasphemy against the Holy spirit won't see God.

""The porter has every right to destroy what he moulded, and no one will question him""

God is love…

The letters kills but The spirit gives life,

IF THERE ARE ANY OTHER THINGs WE ARE YET TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT GOD, pls FORGET IT WHEN WE MEET HIM OR JESUS SOMEDAY, WE WILL ASK, PLS ss s s

Pls can the topic be changed from God fearing to, God referencing?

Na only me waka come, no 12th

Let's not make this post look so personal.

My Dear Mizmycoli, was airing her views and understands better the dimension she was addressing the issue from which makes her opinion right in that direction.

We can turn it to positive and objective discussion.

Some ladies are single for other reasons like :

1. Immediate environment
2. Nature of job.
3 cities where one lives eg Lagos
4. Parental influences, eg I know a lady who had 3 suitors the mum rejected either for tribal reasons or financial status., this is 5years counting since she moved to Lagos, no suitor has showed up again, just last year, her younger sister got married.

Its not always about character or atitude or past lifestyle

Lets find solutions ;
1. E-dating not a bad idea, at least from records, serious ones are
Am expecting more NLDERS wedding from 2016