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Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CsRockefeller(m): 5:14am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Amhappy: My dear don't mind all these sadist, hate has filled their hearts. The Bible itself encourages loyalty in d book of Proverbs, it described it as a very rare thing. The corporate world also encourages loyalty, these guys are deluded, unhappy and are kill joy. I also pray not to meet anyone like them. Like the witch told john snow in GoT, "they know nothing" 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Jman06(m): 5:16am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Loyalty deserves some reward ! 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by SomehowBROWN(m): 5:19am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads:Lol if u value the effort your woman put a relationship and u can afford to lavish her with gifts abeg do so. It's not about owing her, it's a personal satisfaction knowing u can make a woman even more special now after she suffered with or for u in the past 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by zinaunreal(m): 5:19am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Colourich: So youre doing men a favor by sticking with them. Smh. How about we are doing your broke asss a favor also, all these lazy women wey no wan work 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Frankaka8(m): 5:20am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads:what if the lsdy connected the guy to breakeven? My view is, if she had a hand to his rising up ,then no probs, otherwise OYO for her |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CsRockefeller(m): 5:20am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Amhappy: Don't feel bad my dear, there are still good guys out there. I've always maintained and still maintain that 80% of people on this forum are psychos. Where they get their philosophy about life still baffles me. I repeat they are psychos who are filled with hate, even d devil acknowledged that Job was faithful and loyal, these guys are worse than d devil. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 5:21am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads: You must be a very callous and wicked person in real life if I must tell.. It's your type that are prevalent in politics now a days and refuse to help the common man. Remember you will have a daughter who will also date a broke guy. Are those guys using your money to appreciate those gals? Did anyone come to you to get him a job so he can reward his gal friend back then in the university? Why is this your business? The last time I check,its not only done in Nigeria here but also it is a general phenomenon worldwide. I guess,you just want opinions here in other to send to your employers on the web...you get paid for doing this task how much? Because am very sure you are on one of those freelancing sites who gave you this task to perform and get paid,otherwise,ordinarily, you wouldn't have asked this type of a question. I gave my gal a laptop recently for Her final year project...I was in 300l when she gained admission... We were together till I graduated and still together after graduation. Now,I send her money,buy her cloths,subscribe her monthly data and make her happy,so what's your problem there sir? 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by ideology(m): 5:28am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads: We have heard you. Early this year, one company I consult for almost folded up because their clients owed lots of money on projects they had completed The MD sent me a letter that he can't pay me any longer and terminated the contract I had with them. I replied the letter, that I understood the challenges that they are facing. However, I will not stop consulting for them whether am paid or not. I continued for 4 months no pay. Early this week, he sent me a message, that he wants to reward me for loyalty and renew my contract. The reward alone is more than the 4months no pay. Yes, the lady is expected to stick in good and bad times. But when things gets better, appreciate her for her loyalty. It speaks more of the kind of person you are. People can promise you that they will stay but when things gets tough they leave. Reward the ones that kept the code. It is also a lesson to others 7 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by XhosaNostra(f): 5:47am On Jul 14, 2018 |
LarryBeryl: As it should. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Teespice(f): 5:54am On Jul 14, 2018 |
thank God Nl is way different from reality. this thread won't stop the next man from doing the opposite of what the OP is saying. granted, you don't enter relationships with unrealistic expectations of getting rewards when your man becomes rich, but will you crucify a man who out of the goodness of his heart decides to appreciate his other half for sticking through thick and thin with him when the going was tough and with no hidden intentions. you people should stop with the unnecessary bashing. it is sounding like a broken record already. pick a struggle and tell us what you want. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by faridpac2: 5:57am On Jul 14, 2018 |
zicoraads:No is not wrong reward her is what you suppose to do |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by DKM123: 6:10am On Jul 14, 2018 |
delishpot: Hahahahhahahaha! My ribs o! Awon, I dont care if he is jobless and poor, I can't leave him for the Chevron guy cos that will break his heart. Una see una life?! When he hammers this is the humility you will get on this thread. Look out for YOURSELF woman! This are Nigerian men we are talking about o... 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by ShakurM(m): 6:36am On Jul 14, 2018 |
bukatyne:Thats another point of discussion. I'm providing for my wife, we are for each other, don't question that for one sec. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by chieyine(m): 6:39am On Jul 14, 2018 |
safarigirl:I think I have to follow U. So much sauce and sense 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Gbengazzee(m): 6:41am On Jul 14, 2018 |
If at a time past, a man had no money and now that he has it, should the man continue to live like one who has no money? Buying of car and as well gifting same are evidences that the man is now in money. So, it is not too much to buy a car for the woman who was with the man when things were rough after all he can afford it. 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by godofuck231: 6:47am On Jul 14, 2018 |
negatives will always attract negatives, mine is still with me, planning on giving her a ring and the sec, when am back, despite her father's wealth she's still humble and loyal, no man or woman should see oneself as superior in a relationship or marriage, it's the Genesis of self ruin 2 Likes |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Longman6(m): 6:50am On Jul 14, 2018 |
safarigirl: I like this girl, 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 6:55am On Jul 14, 2018 |
ibkayee:A Nairaland woman that has a brain working at great capacity. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by HoodBillionaire: 6:58am On Jul 14, 2018 |
my bich i only give her 2k 3k 5k at times 1k but i fuc d hell out of her. i dnt regret anything cos dah money na money for fuel,beer,tshirt. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 7:14am On Jul 14, 2018 |
mgtow: PRAYERS |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by CAPSLOCKED: 7:19am On Jul 14, 2018 |
CHoccolaTE: SO YOU'LL BE SUBMISSIVE IF I START TO PAY FOR YOUR STUFF, AND I'LL BECOME HEAD AND LEADER IF I'M HANDLING THE RESPONSIBILITIES. SEE REASONING. NO WONDER THERE ARE VERY FEW OF YOU IN POLITICS. HARDLY ANYTHING INNOVATIVE COMING FROM YOUR WAY. VERY FEW DISCOVERIES AND INVENTIONS FROM YOUR SIDE BECAUSE YOU'RE MENTALY WEAK. 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by naijacentric(m): 7:19am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Babyforever:mumu |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by omoranmilowo: 7:20am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Two things happened here. Either the lady help you then when things were tough or the guy still eyeing the lady. |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by naijacentric(m): 7:22am On Jul 14, 2018 |
emelda86:mumu |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Michael3484: 7:25am On Jul 14, 2018 |
All what you people are saying is Rubbish... I want you to do something go and meet ahewo they will tell you I don't joke with my money.. You now see a girl that bear with you when you were struggling and after making it you didn't reward her...That's very Bad of you....Definitely you won't reward your parent... 1 Like |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by perfectface: 7:26am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Hanseel1:the man's responsibility is to provide. And u know that if she had not dated u no sane woman would have considering u had nothing to offer. Here is someone who loved you through all the hurdles and never for once stopped. She probably turned down offers that will elevate her status all because of you. Who no like soft landing?? Whether u lament from now till dawn it's biblical, a man is the head and thus provides period! Why is showing appreciation to such a rare gem bothering you? Why didn't you try out other ladies and see them mess you up. Now things are better and you are so worried about doing stuffs for her. May women never meet your kind. Keep ur money, tie it round your waist, the likes of you will still use it for a useless adventure on some gold digging young slut. I don't even get this!!!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by emu22(m): 7:30am On Jul 14, 2018 |
mrphysics: Lolz, so being in a relationship is now something girls do for a living, very funny! |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 7:30am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Op,u better take ur time....i dnt want to write my personal story here.....if nt u wud heard an earful There is notin rong in appreciating a woman who had stayed with u,it is not easy,it is not easy,it is not easy oooooo..... |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by delishpot: 7:35am On Jul 14, 2018 |
DKM123: This is how they destroy things o. Today they yari and do as they like. After a few years women sef go strong heart too and do as they like thus cementing the saying of......You do anyhow, you see anyhow. But in reality this post is made by chewing gum boys for fellow Chewing gum boys. They are at the age/stage when their penis speaks more than their brains. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by perfectface: 7:36am On Jul 14, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:can you give birth? Mr. Intelligent. Why is owning up to responsibility so frightening that u resort to insults. The Bible that said you should till the ground is it obsolete? Real men don't keep their necks stuck in a woman's purse monitoring how much she makes, lazy men do. You provide and she manages what you have given her for the home. U want to keep your balls and ego yet are running away from your role as the head and provider. Mr discovery, were is your patent? What are u know for? |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 7:39am On Jul 14, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:You are one of the few people with sense. Clearly, OP doesn't know what loyalty is. This thread is so stupid. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 14, 2018 |
OfficialDad:it is because of comments like this women dont support broke ass niggas in the first place. |
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